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Hey, guys! Recently, we talked about what your type is. Some of you said they are looking for someone who is “honest, compassionate, and confident;” while others answered “masculine, confident, sexy type of guy.” Meanwhile, one guy said that he is looking for someone who is “older (aged 55 to 75), funny, somewhat in shape (a little belly is OK, I guess?), and hairy;” while another replied, tall, dark, and hung.”
Now that you have revealed your type, could you kindly say a few words about yourself? Tell us who you are, describe yourself a bit. More importantly, what are you looking for on Adam4Adam?
Some of us on here are looking for sex or hookup while others are looking to date or for a long-term relationship that hopefully would result into marriage. What about you though?
Anyway, we thought that since the blog readers is a smaller group, it would be nice to learn who is who, what our age is, what we do, who our type is, and what we are looking for here on A4A. On that note, if you could also share with us what your username is on the comments section, so that our other blog readers could find you on the A4A app, then that would be great as well!
Adam4Adam, after all, is here to help its users build relationships and what better way to start than to introduce ourselves and interact with each other here on A4A blog.
Having said all that, who are you? What words would you use to describe yourself? What are your preferences and how do you enjoy spending your free time? What are you looking for here on Adam4Adam and many other details about yourself that you wish to share with us. Post them on the comments section below and please don’t forget to visit onelink.to/adam4adam using your phone and download Adam4Adam app.
Happy connecting!
Dates. But many people are in open relationships and it is hard to meet single men
What are you looking for???!!! … on a site called “adam4adam”?…. really? Easy question to elicit insults. C’mon guys! Don’t be stoopid. Just fill out the damn profile!!! No location… no pic… 20 questions forever…………… Why not simply use the tools in front of you??????????? Do you suppose guys might actually read them if there was something to read?
Say it louder for the people in the back because they just ain’t getting it!
PREACH, tell the truth!!!!
Judging by many of the responses I get from most guys I definitely can say most don’t read profiles before they reach out.
Thug, on the profile problem, I agree, as I see too many that just have an age. But another issue is a profile where the filler cannot read instructions. The profile is about you, right now. “Who” means the profile filler. If it’s one person, put man, trans (although mtf/ftm would be better), if it’s a couple, say so. I got cussed once for asking a “man” why there were two in the picture, and he said I was stupid not to know they were a couple. Why did he not say that in the profile? Age is 99 more… Read more »
Can we call this, yet ‘another’ dysfunction within our society.
Nothing anymore. This site was happening when I was in college. But now, just 8 to 9 years later, it’s totally dead. There are bots and totally fake profiles on here. You guys didn’t keep up with the times and Grindr pretty much killed this site.
Never been on Grinder – but it’s obvious about the bots/fakes on here.
Jonathon: I read you have to show a face pic to have a profile on Grinder. I realized I was bisexual in my mid twenties. That was over 30 years ago and I still am in the closet. My sexuality and sex life is no one’s business but with who I share it with so showing my face is out of the question. I have been on and off A4A for the past 10 years. Met one bi guy I was hoping for and he was a great guy and a great top. We played semi regularly for 3 years… Read more »
When I go to a bar, I’m looking for the perfect margarita. And when I surf Adam, I’m looking to connect to find the provider of the perfect blowjob.
Yes, giving or receiving the perfect oral pleasure…
Looking for a guy, we can flip fuck like beasts, then have an amazing life long relationship. Twins would be nice
Twins? Now theres a notch not yet registered! Like Doublemint gum..twice the c×m twice the f×n.
FBs with like minded men.
What I am looking on A4A is men who take the site for what is but at the same time be polite and courteous and understanding.
I know it is a website for hook ups but others are on here to bypass the bars the rejections and the ugly remarks.
Some are kind and others are rude and others don’t give a f***k or bs all the time .
We are all human and really want a man who is human and kind and truly respect man to man.
Married, Bi and Trans ….
looking for exhibitionistic sex and someone to make videos with for online posting 🙂
Hey first time contributor how yall doin gents?Well first Im gonna say that I’m goin on faith here that the readers of d is blog may b someone a lil more intellectually evolved than those who can only read pics &give my user name, unlike many I see in comments I just read.It’s Protein starved. And as far as what I’m lkn 4 my profile spells it out pretty clearly.But 4 the sake of this convo in a nutshell Im MOSTLY lkn 4 sex RN. Definitely dont want to have to don my Sherlock Holmes tweed coat & ask multiple… Read more »
I have always used this site for hookups. So usually I m looking for a bottom to breed or a big dick to suck. Hopefully, finding another regular fuckbuddy in the process.
Dates, relationships, bf’s, fb’s…..aren’t we all?
Dates, one that’s actually going somewhere, resulting in a mutual love-relationship or type of companionship a meaningful union. I’m just ‘never’ really, been into “tricking” or “hooking-up” just for the sake of doing-so everyday or when my dick is hard, it’s pointless-going nowhere. It’s about everything kind of toxicity that you run into, not to mention the many infection one can avoid . . . but my head-space has always been about building something more lasting; not forever, as that is very rare.
a stop to the spam and scams, people it you up say they are from the states ,only to find out they are from Russia ,Africa, etc,, met my partner on this site years ago ,before the spam took over, we are looking for a living in 3rd. every reply is from guys from far away, never the age requested, and all want a hand out. very few real folks left .miss the old adam4adam when you actual felt safe to connect and contact others
You got that right
It’s so simple. This is adam4adam. I’m looking for sex. I am a bottom, so I am looking for tops to fuck me. I make it very clear in my profile.
Most of the guys on here don’t spend the time reading profiles. They only have one thing in mind that is driving them and it is SEX. Which makes it extremely rare ( or impossible) to find a genuine connection that does not necessarily involve sex.
WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR ON ADAM4ADAM?
A bi or straight man for a fuck buddy, or a gay man for dating. I consider this site only one option in terms of finding this. I agree with other comments that the site could be updated with newer features (like additional filter options). I remember advice from a job retraining program that online searching is not the same as getting out there and pressing the flesh (literally).
This site is so full of bullshit and lies, who knows what’s real and what’s fake at this point? And Grindr’s on the downhill slide too; it’s beginning to reek just as badly as A4A is. Used to be the guys were decent, and would at least reply if you said something to them. Now, most of them are entitled little cunt millenials seeming to think their shit don’t stink and that they’re better than everyone else, so perish the thought they waste their time of scum and reply with at least a HI. Hell fucking no. That’s entirely too… Read more »
I’m looking for someone to have sex with on the regular. One guy who knows how to treat an ass like mines. I enjoy sex with the right person.
Need someone to handle this pretty round brown booty. FACT!
I’m here for black men I want to be on my knees sucking BBC.
Nothing, between to ads, fakes, flakes, gameplayers, there is nothing here.
Flakes and weirdos on here are like the purity of Ivory Soap — 99.97%. But, the .03 of 1% makes it all worthwhile.
I know most people look down on what I want, but I’m a blk dl bottom guy in relationship with a female and looking for another blk dl top who is also in a relationship to hook up with and be friends with, this type of arrangement works best for me lol we all like what we like
I’ve been using my “real name” before anyone, mostly. It’s a thing with me to set long-range goals rather than the immediate gratifications; guess I grew-up/learned fast in that respect. I’m not a serial-dater; in terms of “tricking” as the term was back in the day or “hooking-up” as it is now. The thing is, is that when I first came-out (80′) at 19-20yrs., I noticed/experienced the typical “sex you down then not speak to you” that was happening. I got crabs one time, then gonorrhea. Well, that’s enough for me, “learn from your lessons,” the gay-lifestyle is all too… Read more »
I am looking for hookups!! I have had some success using this site. I am retired and am pretty open on activities! I like giving and receiving oral as the primary activity! Open on age, color, etc!! Mej507
Nothing .. .too sleazy.. too dirty…Nuff said !
After reading all of the responses, I decided to speak up and say that a4a has met all my expectations and for free. Not too many things in life are free nowadays. I look for friends on a4a and found some amazing friends. I’m talking +15 year friendships. I been to birthday parties, vacations, cruises, etc with friends that I met on here. I been to hot sex parties as well as Thanksgiving dinners originated by friends on a4a. So be open-minded, patient, fair and look at how many times a4a have updated their FREE site to make it better… Read more »
Right now I’m mostly looking for casual dating. Eventually, I think I would like to settle down and find that ONE man. But right now, just casual dating and fun. I’m a total bottom and I’ll be honest, right now I’m a total slut. I’m not ready to settle down right now. I’m enjoying being a slut. So, for the next year, I’m making it a goal to see how many different men I can have sex with. I’ve been having sex with men for 23 years, and so far, I’ve had sex with about 80 men. I’m getting ready… Read more »
The one guy who isn’t just using Adam4Adam to hook up.