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How has your sex life been since the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic, guys? Has it been affected by the pandemic?
For many, the answer is yes, COVID-19 has brought our dating and sex lives to a standstill. Many people have not had sex for over a year now due to lockdowns, we observed social distancing, and we even stopped receiving guests in our homes because of the ongoing pandemic.
According to a study, the pandemic, plus the subsequent lockdown, has impacted our sexual fantasies and solitary sexual behavior. The study found that there is an increase in sexual fantasizing, solitary masturbation, use of sex toys, as well as an increase in porn consumptions during lockdowns mainly due to “boredom, increased free time, and replacing partnered sex.” Read the study in full here.
How true is this study for you, guys? Did you find yourself fantasizing more these days? Would you say that your sexual fantasies have changed because of the emergence of the pandemic? If so, what is your current sexual bucket list and what in particular, do you wish to tick off once the pandemic is over? Do you have one?
Here are some of the most common sexual fantasies that—according to Adam4Adam users prior to the pandemic—they would definitely love to try but for some reason or other, they’ve never got to doing it:
- Buy and use sex toys
- Try gang bang
- Outdoor sex
- Gang bang in a sling
- Double penetration
- Fisting
- Prostate play
- Glory hole
- Being tied up and used
- Threesome
Since the pandemic, some people have become inventive and have turned to virtual intimacies, have gotten to having cybersex, to name a few, instead of simply fantasizing.
What about you, guys? Share with us your sex bucket list in the comments section below as well as your experiences and stories!
I want hot mfm and mmm 3ways.
Great topic because I often tell guys what mine is: I’ve done 3somes and groups before but never was in between a top and a bottom. I want a bottom laying down, me laying on top of him and fucking him, then a top on top of me and fucking me. Perhaps add a 4th guy to fuck my mouth and there I’ll have it – all my senses being incredibly stimulated.
Thats my fantasy 2 !
I’ve already done the gang bang in a sling (at a bath house). My next fantasy is bukkake!
An oreo or being the salt in the sling at a pepper party as the favor. Hence, my zebra2@ yahoo name.
My fantasy for a long time has been a gangbang with many well endowed tops taking their turns on me (possibly even dp) both holes all raw no pulling out. I’ve had 3ways before but what I really need is that marathon hot raw action with as many men as possible. Hopefully someday…..
At this point, since it’s been a long time since my last monogamous relationship; this would be more of a revisit, to actually “make love,” This time though, by the ocean under a full moon.
I like this…
Participate in BDSM and obey a master. Experience a dungeon, attend kink play party and participate as a sub, become a sex slave, Receive bareback, recieve bareback from multiple tops take multiple loads in a row, Experience multipartner okay, Participate in MMF, Be Cuckold’d, Experience forced sissy play. Practice crossdressing and become passable enough to take on a girl’s night out on the town. Meet flirt, dance and take men home with the other girls. Temporarily experience being transgendered. Recieve 10″ or greater balls deep for over an hour. Perform in a porno. Spending time bound for all day. Have… Read more »
I have experienced a threesome multiple times with a couple and took their loads back to back. I have also been with a very sensual and well-endowed black man. However, I would love to get in a sling and take on a room full of guys and take all of their loads until I’m dripping cum. The more guys to use me, the better. And bonus points for being a room full of well-endowed sensual black men… that would be so hot! I would love to experience DP at least once too.
An unabashed gay sex cruise somewhere, preferably a clothing optional one. Maybe tourist destinations, or not. I want to get on the plane home totally worn out.
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Men and sex options are both like buffets. We all know what we’re attracted to and not so much attracted to. Different guys can perform certain sex acts with very different satisfaction results. A guy I’m not so attracted to could do something to me I wasn’t seeking and send me to the moon. A guy I’m super attracted to could do one of my favorite sex acts and leave me flat out unsatisfied. Is there an ultimate guy or ultimate sex act for me? That one that will be the pinnacle of my men and sexual experiences? No. And… Read more »
My bucket list thing is to go to a nudist campsite where everyone is completely nude all the time. Fishing, swimming, toasting marshmallows, volleyball, horse shoes, dancing, everything in the nude. Be nice if everyone was single, no couples and an equal combination of top, bottoms and versa guys. I love seeing guys walking around with raging hard-ons.
My first time swallowing a man’s cum was through a glory hole. On the other hand the best blowjob I’ve ever received was through the same glory hole but on a different day. My fantasy is to be part of an orgy where everyone can have sex with everybody else.
Why does every picture of two guys on this website have to be a disgusting, interracial black on white scene? Is it “Racist” to show two white guys kissing nowadays????
One there is nothing disgusting about Black and White men kissing. And the picture is hardly Black on White. It is a Black man and a White man kissing., And Black is first because that is how we say things, B&W photo, B&W TV. B&W cow. It sounds like you are the racist one. look around the world is becoming more interracial.
A couple of thoughts…I’m not sure both guys are American black or American white. Besides, does it really matter? Those are marketing stills. If you need white on white marketing tools to engage then, well, there are a ton of demographers out there who satisfy that need. Is it racist, as you state, to see two white guy kissing these days? Of course not, and if you troll through any gayish site, you’ll see that image the majority of the time. Give A4A credit for attempting to be inclusive. As an aside: A (Latino) friend remarked that seeing two white… Read more »
I hope you lectured your racist Latino friend the same way as u did here. Racism comes in all colors.
How I struggle as a victim of the centuries of Latino racism against white people. Latin American countries keep interfering in our elections, sending in their armies to protect Latino business interests or to let their businesses exploit our natural resources, and kill tens of thousands of our children with unilateral illegal economic sanction. If you are white, it isn’t safe to interact with the police. If you have a first or last name that is popular in Europe, Australia, or Canada good luck getting a job. And then turn on the TV–and if there are any white chaarcters, it… Read more »
You have a right to your own opinion but why does it have to be disgusting? That word “disgusting” is a red flag that you’re a racist!!!
Are you F**KING serious????
You know something, I ‘think’ I feel sorry for you, can I being black, kiss you, lmao?!!!!!! I’m just laughing at you, dude.
Black guys and white guys together is hot!
White guys with racial fetishes is so not hot.
Taking 3 or 4 loads on the face, and being able to leave it on my face for an hour or 2.
Seems my number one fantasy is the same as several other guys. I have done three ways and four ways as a bottom, and I played at parties and in bath houses, but if I could have any fantasy at all… Without any worry, I would want to be the center of a huge gangbang at a gay bathhouse,with me in a sling taking every guy possible raw. We have one here in Troy New York and I played there often, including in the sling, but the idea of just a huge massive gangbang with me at the center of… Read more »
Looking at the list they all sound good! Except the toys! I like the real thing up in me! But my personal bucket list is a gang bang with a room full of hung tops tagteaming me one or two at a time. Not sure i could handle double penetration, but with a lot of lube and my ass already full of cum I would love to gIve it a try!
Actually, my sex life hasn’t slowed down. I’ve been having sex with men for 23 years now. I’ve had sex with about 80 men during that time. But about 25 of those men have been during the last year and a half. So, actually, I’ve turned into slut. Anyway, on bucket list is this: I have a birthday this coming weekend. One thing on my list is a goal of adding as many men to my list of men I’ve had sex with as I can by the next birthday, and my goal is at least 50 new men. Another… Read more »
very hot post man
Would love to have my ass and mouth filled with cock at the same time.
I want to suck more black cock!! They feel so good and silky in my mouth!! I have sucked a few and each one has been awesome!! They also are generally a little bigger than other cocks!! I love to swallow their hot cum!!
Very hot!!! My take on “blacks are a little bigger ” is pretty accurate overall. My experience with black and whites guys find white guys especially the head, a little thicker and black guys a little longer. Had GREAT experiences with both races. Haven’t tried any other race.
And it’s there race that made the experiences great? What if you had bad experiences with guys of a particular race? Would you stop hooking up with guys from that race in the future? I’m white, and this is bordering on creepy racial fetishism.
Justin, If you only try vanilla you will never know what chocolate, caramel or curry tastes like.
The racial makeup of my sexual partners has reflected the racial make up of where I have lived, LA, Santa Cruz, and NYC. And I haven’t found that people have a distinct taste or flavor corresponding to their race. In my experience, people’s particular background and experiences–like how conservative or religious was the community they grew up in, are they out to their family or at work, have they been in an abusive relationship, have they only lived in an urban or rural community, or are they intellectually curious and open-minded, whether they accept themselves or hate themselves–are things that… Read more »
Marcus, When I travel I like to experience the local the local scene. That means leaving the resort. That means trying the local cuisine as well as the local men. I have been with Mexican, Guatemalan,Costa Rican, Columbian, Puerto Rican, Hawaiian, Filipino, Micronesian, Indonesian, Australian, Chamoru, Thai men, Pacific Islanders, Hong Kongese, Taiwanese, Singaporean, Japanese, Indian, African, Jamaican, Virgin Islanders, Dominican, African-Americans, Native American, Canadians, While African and Afro-Americans , Jamaican and VI Dick,have been consistently bigger in the 7-8-9 Inch size and a few bigger, I sucked some really small black dick, like smaller than mine little4inch dick. And… Read more »
I am white, and have dated black men and have a had a serious relationship with a black man. I can’t say I experienced a distinct “chocolate taste” unique to sexual relations with them. What is it about a person’s “blackness” that you find erotic? What does a black man born in the Jamaica have in common with a black man from suburban Virginia, a black man from Atlanta, and a man on holiday from South Africa, or a man born in Belize that can be described as “chocolate”?
Yes. Black cock is hot!
I would love to have dp with 2 hard cocks, and cum as they work my ass without me touching my self.. want to loaded with cum
I have been thinking about what would it be like to have my wrist and ankles tied or strapped to a bed or sling with my legs pulled back far enough that my ass would be slightly lifted up and off the bed or sling and my head hanging and have someone give my mouth and throat a much needed work out to the point where I see and feel his *ock sliding completely in and out of my mouth
As a top, I don’t have unfulfilled fantasies. The ones listed in the article? Been there, done those at some point in my life. Now, I like to keep it simple: a friendly, sane, non-drug addicted bottom with a round butt and great legs (think bulging calves and thickish thighs) who can take dick. (And no, I do NOT want a bodybuilder. Talk boring sex…been there, done that, won’t do that, again.:-))
I’ve been working on a list of fantasies for my bucket list after being diagnosed with progressive neuromuscular disease. Unsurprisingly, most are some of the common fantasies listed. *Gang-banged (I have trouble finding one top so to be able to service more than two at one time is a dream in itself). *Double penetration – #2 on my list and something I’ve wanted to try for a long time. Any pointers on how to make this happen? *Fisting – I admit, I’m fascinated by fisting. And given the right guy (with small hand), I’d definitely like to try it. *Gloryhole – my outlet… Read more »
I would love to find a particular guy I had a thing with when I was in college. He was straight and married and was an incredible lover. We were with each for several years. Just one more time with him would be great. He is the best sex I’ve ever had, but it was passionate and meaningful at the time. I actually know now to get in touch with him, but just haven’t worked up the nerve.
That is a great fantasy and I have had somewhat similar ones. If there is no chance of your “outing” him, I’d say make the contact!
I’ve done a lot of 3ways, some groups, public sex at adult theatres, naked pool parties, groups at leather places, but not leather clubs or bathhouses. so those are on my list.
I got the shot’s so i could travel international again.. You know it took a pandemic to teach people how to be clean, and social distance..
Sex for my self and my partner, we have taken our play time with other’s out doors..so much better. We put our Sling on a Tree limb, Had several padded platforms built, and bought 2 padded fuck benches for out door play..
Keanu Reeves. I would die a happy man
Mine is to be forced to dress up as a sissy slut and serve a group of guys while they use me for their pleasure.
I’ve done the SoCal orgies, threeways too numerous to remember, handcuffed to a rafter while sounded, lost my cherry in a boy, girl, boy (wouldn’t mind doing that again), sex in public, sex at nude beach, blown while driving, done every bathhouse west of the Mississippi and then some, spent rwo weeks naked at a Key West resort, sex with male strippers, sex with guys that have done porn (5 and counting, lol), redheads (5 and counting), women (2 and that was enough) sex with a couple dozen guys watching, blown by some blond hiding under a pool table while… Read more »
I am very shy and have had no experiences,I have been straight all my life but last year or so I have feelings for men I watch gay porn now and it really turns me on so I must be pregay or just bisexual.Its just that men are easier for me to be around and talk to.I just do not know to start something like this if I would just freeze up with a guy and turn and run so its very scary for me but i would love to have a hot juicy cock in my mouth and to… Read more »
My bucket list, Being THE BOTTOM for an International group of Alpha Men of Color Tops American and African Black, Latino, Asian, South Asian, Middle Eastern/Arab, Native American and Pacific Islanders Tag -Teaming and Split Roasting me. and me swallowing every load. Each Man Using Both ends at least once. Not Done until everyone Cums.
Would going to a barn and having a boar bred me be too deep in the bucket?
never have done a 3 way always wanted to but never have Any takers?
A hot muscular uncut Latino bottom with a killer bubble would be a dream experience for me!
To be gang banged by a large group of BBC, BWC, DP’d and filled with cum. Asked to push out the cum in a martini glass, have a guy sitting in a chair with a big hard cock, sitting on it and drinking all the cum down.
Bucket list in order of priority:
Gangbang in a sling with 8-10 guys who can really flood my guts
Bukkake
Getting fisted
Double penetration
Piss enema – yeah, I know that’s really kinky, but it’s something I wonder about
Double penetration
I definitely would love to have my ass filled with two cock’s at the same time
Definitely, bottoming for at least 2 men at the same time. I love the idea of a bunch of older men taking turns using my holes.
I have done most of them. The sling was hot. Three ways ohh my my holes was filled good, A double fucked tried it but did nit work but cum was all over me. I was a honand loved it.
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