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Have you ever tried intercrural sex, guys? If so, how did you find it? Is it something that you would care to try again?
If it’s the first time you’ve heard of it, intercrural sex is defined by medical dictionary as:
A type of intercourse generally regarded as non-penetrative sex, in which a male partner places his penis between a male or female partner’s thighs, and thrusts to create friction and achieve orgasm. Because there is no anal or vaginal penetration; intercrural sex is regarded as a safe sexual practice.
We’re bringing this up because a gay man lamented/wondered online why intercrural sex is not popular when it should be. He shared how he and his ex-boyfriend used to do this a lot though they also have anal sex every once in a while.
Further, he revealed why people should try it. “I loved feeling his cock between my legs. Plus, no condom [is] needed, no douching, no pain. Just easy. And I got to feel his warm cum on me.” He added, “I’d love to have a guy fuck me between the legs again, but if I have to explain to him what it is, chances are he won’t be down. For one thing, it’s super rare in western porn nowadays. [Does] Anyone else feel the same?”
One of the respondents of the thread replied that it’s probably not that uncommon as he had done this with a hook up although he admitted that he had “never heard the actual term for it before. Read the thread in full here and here.
Personally, I think that it all comes down to preferences, that other people just prefer hand jobs, blow jobs, or frottage instead.
Anyway, history shows us that intercrural sex was “a common practice in ancient Greek society prior to the early centuries AD.” Read more here.
Having said all that, do you love intercrural sex, guys? Why or why not? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
“Intercrural sex” = “The Princeton Rub”!
“Incidental Vocabulary”
I heard the same thing. Is there any evidence of it being in common use at Princeton? It probably goes back to the 1920s or earlier. My college professor told me that when he was in college, men were given a double bed to share.
My grandmother told me she shared a double bed with her college roommate at Duke University in the 1920s so I guess this was pretty common in those days for college men as well. She and her roommate became lifelong friends. Homosexulity has never been a big deal among the upper class in America. This is because until fairly recently most people of that socioeconomic class attended single sex boarding schools and universities. Most colleges and universities in the US were single sex until the late 1960s so sex partners of the opposite sex were not available to students on… Read more »
Intercrural (“Between the Legs/Thighs”) sex is another excellent tool in your sexual Tool Box! It gives partners yet another chance for pleasure. As with anything new, the two of you need to experiment with where (usually the thighs) the penis should be placed as well as how tightly the “bottom” holds his legs together. Sometimes lube can be added, as well. Face to Face or Face to Back are both options. For those who insist “it’s anal or nothing”, it may come up short. For those looking for options, it’s another one. For me, it’s been great. Either all the… Read more »
HUNTER:
No need for the intellectualism!
Teenage boys and girls engage in this as a way of approximating intercourse without actual penetration.
It is as old as Methuselah!
A girl could get pregnant if the cum got too close to her vag.
That would be highly unlikely if the girl was in the supine position as the
sperm would have to enter her vagina and swim upwards.
True. Used to do it in grade school, since coming home with multidirectional skid marks would have caused Mom to know something was up. Or Out
Yes, “Skid Marks” are definite proof that something has gone up the “Chocolate Highway”!
I’ve used my feet and had my partner fuck between them. Love the feeling of his ejaculation
I’ve done the same while partners suck me on my back. Glad to give them an opportunity to pleasure their cocks and balls as they work. Call also gently run the side of a foot up and down their crack and hole, too. It’s great we have so many options for what feels good! And great we can extend sex fun time beyond just hole pounding! As an aside, A4A what is up with the parade of new members “from Sedgwick, KS” (population 1,603?) that are hitting me up? And what’s up with guys now hitting me up first time… Read more »
Sedgwick KS must be the default location the system qssigns is someone doesn’t enter one , it’s quite popular with scammers who will then tell you they live around the corner from you and lets “text” since their fictional wive use their computer. I just automatically block anyone from Sedgwick..
OMG boring AF.
Boring, Yes?
But, cleaner, with less preparation & fuss!
Plus, you needn’t wash the linens after!
No linen mess? If you two position yourselves right for the Top, oh yeh. There’ll be a mess! 🙂
You might hear a slight crunch – initially – but thereafter, the spermatozoa is usually a benign color?
You wouldn’t need to wash the linens if you would wash your skankhole first. Learn how to use towels like a civilized person.
We are aware of towels as a preventive method!
However, a plethora of towels require using the washing machine’s cycle on “Heavy Duty.”
Clean lines; dirty towels! No free rides…something get soiled!
When I started playing with my best friend as a teen, we did this all the time. I could not take his big cock in my ass, and we discovered this. I loved laying face up with him on top in a missionary position. We lubed up my taint and thighs and he “fucked” me. Loved the sensation of the cock rubbing on my taint and balls and then the sensation of hot cum shooting from his pulsing cock.
At the age of 64 I have a partner willing to try this position.
There are 25 years between my other half and myself, we have been together for five years, and I had and have always been a top. and I also have experience with several hundred guys in my time, I could have been attached several times, but I am NOT a daddy whereas it seems that most of the men wanted, I have finally found the one I want my remaining days to be with, I want to leave him happy and secure for the rest of his life, our sex life sucks! he tops and I top, a big problem,… Read more »
I Agree with Eric…Boring AF! lol
I get it if you’re a couple of kids, but GROWNASS men!?
There’s nothing more “grown-up” about insertion. Please!
It’s very common in straight porn, I watch it all the time. The clit is kinda made to rub that spot beneath your penis head, so with women it’s arguably more stimulating but I’m gonna have to try it some more with dudes.
I have done it many times but I didn’t know there was a name for it
I have tried it between the butt cheeks but for some reason my penis found the hole and went in
The penis knows what the penis needs
I would really enjoy this cause it can be spontaneous whereas the bottom has to douche for penetration otherwise no spontaneity! JMO
I’m an adult. I’m not 12. I have full on throw down sexy time. If some nut job tried that shit with me he would be shown the door.
To me as a versa-top dude, who love to safely ease my stiff hard cock in a tite moist hole, intercrural sex would be like a teaser. That close to that sweet, hole and can’t open it up. I love to fuck. Just being real. I like long, long, lots of foreplay fuck-sessions. I love kissing, cuddling, nipple play; all that. In a nutshell, I want the real deal.
I’ve done it it’s just not for me. I’m way too much of a bottom and for me sex without a guy penetrating me just feels utterly incomplete.
During my college days I had a roommate that did that to me just about every night…….. He used Vaseline and he would go between my thighs and I could not stop moaning and begging for it. We did it just about every single night! Sometimes he would use his sperm as lube.
Recently, I decided to search for friends from high school and college I’d not spoken to for years. We’d just drifted apart. Some Google searches, brief chats with their family members or finding where they work have gotten great results. Be VERY soft and totally transparent on the way in and clear you just want to reconnect. Always be willing to have them contact you NOT that you’re wanting their information is huge.
Never knew it had a name…. like most did it as a teen, college, but I find it useful for the ‘curious’ that are not ready for anal sex. Often they make several discoveries: that they enjoy the intimate touch of another man, they enjoy the feeling of a penis pressing into their leg, hip, back, between the cheeks, and because of the “newness” they often cum shortly after I do, which they also enjoy – at least so far 😉 While I seldom hear it said, there is a hug, the lingering cuddle or snuggle, often a kisses which… Read more »
So that’s what it’s called! “The Princeton Rub; “Intercrural sex” I met- (tricked) as it was once called; with someone once when I first came out, he got-off between my cheeks and I lay down on him, facing him while we kissed, I humped his stomach actually.
It’s pretty smart actually, considering.
Tried it. Not a fan. It’s just not the same.
Finally! I have loved this all my life, and it’s very hard to get guys to try it, but they like it. I always masturbated this way.
sounds interesting and fun, honey
Mary J Blige once said “big thighs save lives” in this case, yeah, lmao! Personally, it’s about an “open mind” then subsequently, the ‘quality’ of the connection-conversation as everything starts in the mind, sexually speaking. But I digress, I’m a cautious soul, period. These things make it easy, for just the physical contact, period; kissing, touching each other anywhere and everywhere; the intimate acts, just revving each other-up in great anticipation of cuming. Otherwise, it seems with many, it’s just this mad rush to get-off, only. I’ve had PLENTY of ass- (with condoms) so good to not have to bother… Read more »
Interfemoral is also another word for this. And,yeah, I’d try it, especially since getting fucked is usually too painful for me.
Yep tons of fun. Can be done frontal and is great!
Yes, it’s how my boyfriend fucks me. With his belly rubbing on my cock I have huge orgasm.
Tried a version of it on my own haha. Hands-free jerking between thighs, feels good. Also reminds me of titty fuck with women. I’m always into variety so why not include “intercrural sex” into the repertoire of cock care? 😉
this might be ok for the top man, I doubt it, but more so I dont think a bottom will enjoy it at all, what would be the point for the bottom guy, there is no sexual feeling
Love it! Used to have it back in my teens with a friend who I had a sexual relationship with. Have turned several guys onto it and they all enjoyed it too.
I never knew that technical term for it though.
I just called it fucking between the legs.
I’m confused….How do you get the cum inside an ass then?
I have done it a few times in my younger days. I must say it was the most erotic and mind blowing sensation I ever felt. I am a bottom and back then a very very Power Bottom that kept my guy satisfied. One day when we met up from a long day of work, we showered then he laid on top of me because I love to have him facing me when we are intimate. He was so tired and we wanted each other badly but could not get the strength to do anything so he laid on top… Read more »
I have done this but just called it dry humping. I did it most in my pre-puberty and post puberty time period. One time when I went to the beach with a friend when we were in our late teens. We did this and as he was on my back, while I was on my stomach on the bed, and he was humping away… as he pull back a bit too much his dick kind of just followed a path to my asshole and he almost penetrated my ass. He apologized and I told him it was okay. We just… Read more »
seriously, I find this very sexy…first, the feel of a hard penis between my legs or in the crack of my ass is huge turn on, as is hold each others erections pressed against each other while stroking…but doing this face to face give you a wonderful opportunity to engage in passionate kissing at the same time…if you love the feel of an erection against your body this is a good practice.
I had only seen it done in a porn video, but a guy I’ve been seeing was laying on top of me and started thrusting his big (9.5″) cock between my thighs. I crossed my legs as I had seen in the video to give him a tighter “grip”. It was so hot — feeling his big dick and my own getting some friction from his stomach, as well as getting in some kisses. We didn’t cum that way, but I’m pretty sure I would have if we had kept going.
Sometimes it feels as good as actual penetration if not better. My ex wasn’t very sexual and he was pretty much a bottom and not versatile like he claimed to be. He’s one of those non-messy sex people so there was a lot of dry humping and it hurt some times. We used lube when he bottom and that was it. We didn’t use it for jacking each other off, because it was too messy for him. Since he was a great love maker (he made love like a top if that makes any sense), and I was instantly turned… Read more »