What do you think of frottage, guys? Do you find it hot or not?
Frottage is the French word for rubbing, by the way. It is defined as: “The act of consensual rubbing between two or more people, either clothed or unclothed, to attain sexual gratification.” Frottage—also referred to as dry humping, dry sex, smashing, pants burning—is a type of non-penetrative sexual activity or outercourse.
According to the gay men of Reddit, frottage is “super-hot and an insanely underrated form of sex.” They also think that “every porn video should include frotting as part of the foreplay.”
And he’s not the only one who thinks so. One of the gay men on the thread shared, and we quote:
I honestly don’t know why it isn’t more mainstream? Like I’ll be honest I never even knew it was an actual thing with like an actual term and shit. The idea has always been there but I’ve never considered it anything other than like idk (I don’t know), advanced masturbation.
Meanwhile, another man shared what he thought about frottage based on his personal experience. He said, “I remember going overseas for 3 weeks, when I came back, my boyfriend and I made out like we never did before. We grinded against each other and I came in my pants. The only time that ever happened since 13 years ago.”
Further, one reader thought that frotting “was how two guys had sex.” He shared:
I love penetration. But reading this thread brings back memories of the sex I used to have with my next-door neighbor while I was in high school. I thought this was how two guys had sex. The idea that a penis could fit into a butthole never even occurred to me. Lol.
What about you, guys? Have you ever tried frotting? Why or why not? For A4A blog readers who have already tried it, how did you find it? Did you enjoy it more than anal sex? Share with us your thoughts and stories on frottage below!