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So… spanking, guys, do you find it hot or not?
I always say everything in life is relative, so for sure, some of you – our dear Adam4Adam blog readers – would say that yes, you love being spanked during sex while some of you would say no, you aren’t into it.
Other readers, on the other hand, would probably think it is hot, but only in theory. Only as a fantasy and not in reality (they say it’s mainly because spanking hurts our hands and butts). Quite a few would probably even say that no, spanking isn’t hot but there are Adam4Adam members who also said they’d be open to trying it.
Personally, I am not into it though I can’t say I’ve ever really tried. Spanking gay porn videos don’t do anything to me either, but that’s just me, of course.
Anyway, we’ve taken a look at what some gay men online have to say about spanking. One of them shared, “Playful spanks, yes. A little pain is a nice spicy addition to sex. But hard “punishment spanking” is a good way to end the encounter.”
Meanwhile, another said, “I’m honestly not that interested in spanking or even bondage if there isn’t actual fucking involved.” He added, “It’s irritated and bored me since I did those soft-core bondage videos that drove me batshit wondering when we got to the sexy parts, but it was always just about discomfort and torture. I hated it so much it fucked up a lot of BDSM forever for me.” Read the entire thread here.
All that being said, Adam4Adam members out there who haven’t tried spanking yet, do you think you would be open to trying spanking? Do you find it hot? Why or why not? Share with us your thoughts and your spanking stories in the comments section below.
Having been a recipient of a Catholic School Education…
I was a daily recipient of The Catholic School Ruler, Yardstick and Pointer…
firmly planted upon my arse, thighs, calves, and hands… .
I would prefer the Paddle with a smile!
No I’m not interested in being spanked because it reminds me of when I was a child and my father used to use a belt on us and if we cried he beat us harder than made us sit down so no I’m not interested in being spanked at all
“One Good Beating Deserves Another”?
The first time (and there only a couple) my Dad took a hairbrush to my butt, I was only angry at the absurdity of it all; my “infraction” did not merit “this” and my subsequent behavior was unaffected. It was the beginning for my ultimately losing total respect for him as my “Dad”, a job he was not suited for.
So being spanked during sex? NO!
What’s your dad’s number…?
I for one love some spanking during sex/play. It for me adds to my submissive/pleasing attitude. I am not opposed to a good punishment spanking but not one that leaves me bruised for days
As you have come to understand…
“From Pain Comes Pleasure”!
yes I love getting spanked it’s so hot an sexy
Love love love it. The harder the better.
If I was I. Catholic school that they would get whipped back
I don’t mind a little “good boy” kind of smack on my ass while I’m getting fucked from behind; that’s hot to me–an actual spanking spanking though, is a no-go…
I had sex with my best friend at the time a few years ago,& we both enjoyed it,myself especially as it was physically intense during,& afterward mentally since it went so NOT how my girlfriend expected & she was pissed as hell for a good 2-3 days,probably the longest span of time where she was not winning the psychological warfare that our relationship was.I can’t recall what particular demand she made which I refused or maybe it was a perceived slight I had committed ,made entirely in her twisted manipulative mind.The 3 of us had been drinking,as we often did,&… Read more »
Love taps on the bootie is fine as long as no pain is involved. When it comes to sex, I don’t want any pain whatsoever. Some guys get too aggressive giving oral, nipple play, anal. I stop them immediately and instruct them to ease up if I feel any pain. So light tapping/spanking is hot as long as it feels good.
I enjoy being spanked when receiving anal. Makes me hornier and the tops I enjoy have a stronger orgasm when inflicting a little pain to my cheeks.
No Not on this Ass
My ass loves cocks but no slapping it
If your ass loves cock…
Why would your ass not love a Slap or a whack?
I’m good with a couple/few slaps from a bud during sex. Let’s me know he’s having a good time. Butt or face cheeks is fine. On the back is ok too.
And I enjoy reciprocating.
Hard spanking? Absolutely not. No. Never.
A lil slap on the ass to a great bottom as I’m balls deep is usually appreciated.
It’s all individual, it’s not yes or no. I don’t like being hit by anyone.
I agree. To each his own. When I watch porn; its a huge turn-off for me to watch a guy smack another guy ass so hard, that his ass cheeks turns red and look bruised. That’s not sex to me!!!