Are you addicted to blowjobs? Moreover, which do you like more: receiving or giving? And are you top, vers, or bottom? I’m asking because I’ve noticed that many bottoms don’t like to get sucked or the idea of getting serviced. Why is that? Is it because they tend to be more submissive and getting a blowjob is more of a domination thing? Like this one guy, for example, he said:
I find blow jobs as exciting as getting my finger sucked on, it’s boring, I go soft, they get mad, I’m single again. Why I bought a chastity device, it’s easier to explain that than trying to explain I don’t like to get head! But play with my ass, that’s full body euphoria!
Meanwhile, another guy said:
I love getting my dick sucked… everyone likes what they like and has their own personal tastes. That said, I don’t understand how people can compare being rimmed with getting sucked… I like being rimmed, it feels nice but it’s never going to make you cum like a good BJ will…
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I’m certainly addicted to giving them. One of my favorite things to do. If I had a choice over giving one or getting one I would take giving one every time.
wow, wish you could give me a bj…
I agree, while I like receiving head as much as the next fella, I love, giving, it more! In fact, when my boyfriend plans on giving, me, head well, he at first, stands in front of, my, blowjob chair (what can I say, we’re creatures of habit?) and lets me put, his, dick in my mouth so, I can get a hard-on!
Your blowjob … chair? Also, WAYS too many commas, dude. WAY too many.
he’s just not into periods, don’t judge 😛
“lets me put, [sic] his, [sic] dick in my mouth so, [sic] I can get…
me too , Im addicted to giving one while I get myself off
I absolutely agree!!!
I am addicted to giving hot deep throat bjs. Nothing better than a well hung man holding the back of my head and sliding his cock down my throat.
Kneeling in front of him as he pulls your head into his groin and stuffs his cock in your mouth is so erotic! My lament is that I never sucked cock until my late thirties! Now it is my Fav!
Maybe I just haven’t had a really good BJ, but I’ve never been able to cum from oral alone. I love giving head and jerking off while sucking a guy or doing 69, but I usually will warn my partner that I’m probably not going to cum from oral.
that’s me totally. I jerk off a lot so I don’t need to cum if I’m with a guy. Really get off on all the sounds and grunts, etc and then having that load dumped in my mouth…mmmm
I give the same warning that I will not likely cum from oral sex. Maybe twice in the last 10 years.
It comes down to what “stiff-the-dick”?
Some are orally inclined; some are anally inclined and some are in-between.
Some males simply cannot ejaculate through oral stimulation; some males can only ejaculate through anal penetration and some males can ejaculate through both.
Some males, including straight males, do not consider Oral sex as real sex; they consider it foreplay; others, consider Penetrative as real sex.
The fixation for either Oral or anal may depend on social, emotional, psychological or environmental factors?
Also, as we age, we need more direct stimulation…so a Hand job might suffice or a good, deep penetration?
I LOVE giving head ….Its my favorite thing. I also enjoy if another guy wants to go down on me and I get great pleasure from it. But, if he doesnt want to reciprocate I’m fine with it because I LOVE giving head to cum-pletion and giving the guy I’m with complete and total sexual satisfaction.
Corey, I’m cumpletely with you ! I love the feel of a hard guy about to explode in my mouth, it has made me cum more than once just sucking a cock.
I totally understand,, I myself cum while eating dick without touching myself,,one guy told me he has never seen a guy cum while sucking him without touching my dick,,lol he also told me that I should get rid of my ole lady and get me a man cause I enjoy sucking dick a little to much,,,
“Including straight males”..i.e. former Pres. Clinton. Ha!
Blowjobs are one of the many glorious tools in the Sex Play Toolbox! But they’re not always the right tool for every guy or any guy every day. Fortunately, there are a plethora of men and a plethora of sex play options! Great sex is just a matter of mapping out the job at hand well before jumping on the workbench. No whining if the job ends a failure due to a lack of planning!
You know something, “it’s far riskier” to get a std or sti, or even hiv at this point than to worry about covid of whatever strain. I was just talking to someone the other evening who said of one of friends that contracted syphilis from a bj. Get your covid shots, I’ve probably had a few strains by now (very lite symptoms) keeping me out of the hosp., ’cause I’ve gotten vaxxed and boosted, just sayin’. Now, as far as being “penetrated?” As long as there’s no cut on your fingers, I’m not really sure if you can be “infected”… Read more »
I prefer to top. As far as blow jobs, I’m not going to tell anyone not to suck my dick. Mutual blow jobs, nipple play, kissing, rimming is basically foreplay leading to me topping some tight wet azz. I’m into long, sweaty, deep fuck sessions when I top. So no, I’m not addicted to blow jobs at all; but if that’s what it takes to get to the main course, then I’m in.
You sound like the perfect sex partner! Love to get your loads in mouth and ass! I need to be fucked silly
I personally enjoy a Good blowjob. It IS (for me) a bit “tricky”, being a bottom and all but,as long as my “Top” isn’t obsessed with MY dick as much as I should be with HIS it’s all good. With that being said, I absolutely love GIVING blowjobs. Nothing like servicing a very nice hunk of muscle until we’re ready to do “other things”. Mm mm mm
Love my 9 inch thick cock sucked, if he is good I blow a big load
I love giving head to Big Dicked Black men. If you don’t blow your load I haven’t done my job. When I am giving head, 100% of mt attention is servicing the Dick, and making it cum. I never touch myself while I am sucking. All of my energy and Focus is serving the man who has allowed to suck him. I have no desire to have my little dick that isn’t half as big as yours to be sucked.
LOVE giving blowjobs! Worshipping a cock with my mouth puts me in a state of ecstasy. My desire to receive a blowjob is MUCH less. I enjoy receiving more when I get in the mindset that cumming would please him.
I’m a Bottom, and I absolutely LOVE giving blowjobs, but I’m not crazy about a guy who claims to be a Top wanting to suck me. My mindset is about pleasing my Top by sucking and receiving anal. If a guy wants to go down on me, I really need to be into him and allow the heat of passion to take charge. Otherwise, let me do the sucking and the Top should do what Tops do.
Your not a girl. Your a gay man. It’s not that he claims to be a top. He is a top who like sex with other men. Not a girl who doesn’t have a penis.
These bottoms who don’t like bjs need to get into there heads. You are not women. You are not girls. To a top who also likes sucking dick it’s like being with a man !!!!!! If not then what’s the point. Being a gay man I love topping but if I can’t enjoy the most basic gay thing sucking a man’s penis then what’s the point. ????
Why is it wrong for someone to not like oral?
I didnt say it was wrong , thats how you took it ,, i said you guys are not girls who dont hve penises ,, your ass is a hole ,,gay men who like 2 top like having sex with men who happen to have penises, not girls who dont have penises ,, if that was the rule all you bottoms would be Fuckless ,,, in the end gay male sex involves 2 men who both have penises !!!!! in the end ,,it all about choice ,,choose on ..
FYI, total top here.
I agree completely. A purpose of gay sexuality is multi-modal sexuality. It is not the re-creation of “boys fuck and chicks suck and get fucked” rules of straight sexuality. Let’s add to that the mythology of monogamy (as to sexuality not necessarily an emotional commitment). I’m so tired of queens and butch bitches internalizing the mores of straights. This is a form of self-hatred by imitation to gain acceptance. Get over them! Some Family members, religions, and straights are never going to accept us. Oh well. Why?? They’re different from us. In some areas we overlap as humans. Sexuality is… Read more »
OH MY WORD !!!!!!!! that hits the nail on the head ,,,True wisdom Bro
It is plenty tops out there that not into sucking ,,as I stated in my comment,,some tops just like a good BJ that only a boi can give and some tight boi pussy,,, they don’t want to get fucked or even see anutha man’s dick,,,they want what they wife won’t give them,, those are the tops that I prefer,,,, I’m a bi closet bottom,,,when I want my dick sucked I get it from a woman,,but when I’m with a guy I’m 100% bottom,,,, I know I’m not a girl but when I’m with a top I want to be free… Read more »
Why is sucking dick the most basic “gay” thing? I am a bisexual, truly a pansexual and I love sucking dick.
THERE’S NO JOB, LIKE A BLOW JOB, ALL I HAVE TO SAY.
A sex toy advertisement pretending to be a blog post? Not cool.
Exactly!!
Happens quite often of late
I enjoy giving rather than getting and I am a bottom, not sure but it used to make me crazy but I guess I prefer being submissive.
I agree, there is something exciting about a man taking charge and exploiting my body and I love the feeling of him exploding and getting great pleasure from my man pussy.
Same here,,it’s a major turn on being with a dominant top,,,me being on the DL I’m a very masculine man in every way,,but I’m a bottom and I become very weak and submissive when with a dominant top,,,this one guy told me a bitch should be in panties,,,,and he pulled a pair of his wife panties out of his pocket and threw them to me,,, although I had never thought I’d ever go that far,, without thinking about it I put them on,,, and it was like I felt so sexy and got really hard,,,I mean harder than I had… Read more »
Nope. Wouldn’t bother me to never give/recieve ever again
The idea of giving head and swallowing that load making a man moan and shake with pleasure is the most satisfying thing in the world. When a guy is so turned on by getting head and they hold your head or shoulders and kiss you while you’re going down on them gets me so worked up that I orgasm without even touching myself! Id rather give head than anything!
I love getting blow jobs, nothing like feeling a warm, wet mouth Definitely my thing. I love them so much that when the well ran dry with connecting with women on CL back in the day(2011) I gave into getting head from men and don’t regret it at all. Men are so much more passionate about sucking cock and it’s always NSA. I have had my share of blow and go’s to long term guys that just wanted to suck never disappointed.
I’m a DL bottom although I love a BJ from a woman but when with a guy I enjoy sucking and pleasing him,,,I love making a real man feel like a man,, that’s why I prefer 100% dominant top guys,,they usually and most of he time not into sucking dick,,
I’m a DL bottom,, although I enjoy a BJ from a woman but when I’m with a guy I would like to be the one giving the BJ,,, I prefer 100% top guys ,,they usually don’t like to look at anutha man’s dick so the sure not going to suck it,,,,I enjoy making a real man feel like a man should by being a submissive bottom and suck his dick until he’s satisfied
hey there … I luv sucking my playmates dick and having him suck my dick too. I luv cumming in my playmates mouth and him cumming in mind too … I’m vers but, i think more btm … but, I still luv and receiving a BLOW JOB … any takers … lol
“Playmate”? What the fuck are you two doing, building sandcastles with buckets and shovels?
I am very atypical. I’m bi versatile that prefers the bottom. I personally didn’t like giving BJ’s but never mined get a BJ. I have since grown to like giving a BJ, depending on the situation and the other person. I can say without a doubt that a man gives the best BJ’s. At first a BJ never did anything for me because no one had done a good job. Then it happened and all of the sudden I loved getting a BJ. I also love going to a gloryhole and letting someone go to town on my cock. I… Read more »
I am a total bottom and have always loved getting sucked. I am also Love sucking, which I do more these days. Due to medical issues, I have erection problems.
I love giving blowjobs because I love making love to a cock. Don’t get me wrong — I enjoy getting them, too — but I get 1 great BJ for every 10 that are horrible. A great one will worship my dick and tease the cum out of it. And believe me, there is a lot of reward for a great one!
Amen!!
I enjoy receiving a blow job that starts slow and gentle, with a partner who edges me. I love sucking back. What I really love is to start with a soft cock so that I can take it fully in my mouth, roll it around with my tongue, and feel it grow. Then once it’s time I’ll suck until the cum starts to rise up his cock, take it in my hand and watch it shoot on my lips and mouth, smelling the aroma, feel the heat of the cream, and taste the swet and salty cum. This got me… Read more »
In my experience blowjobs are the ultimate and 100% satisfaction when having sex. I could give or receive and enjoy both equally. I have received a continuous blowjob that lasted almost 6 hours and have given a blowjob that lasted close to 5 hours continuous. The slower at another guy sucks on me the better and I found in giving a blowjob the slower the better for the other guy. I have a special way that enhances the feelng of a blowjob when I’m giving one. I get a “OMG that is awesome” reaction. Oral play in many changing positions… Read more »
Do reveal your special ways!. I’m always looking to enhance my skills
5-6 hour blowjob… Stephen…you need to go stand in the corner for being a ridiculous liar…LMAO
I love a good blow job had a few in my life. The ones that made your toes curl and you hold on. I love giving blow jobs to feel his cock get hard and hearing him moan then a creamy hot load in your mouth. Cum should not be wasted
I love getting and making my partner happy. Blow jobs are great. I am a bottom too. I love a nice hard cock in side me. I love my man putting his hand in my panties
Addicted? I don’t think that is the right term. I love to suck a nice cock. On 2nd thought, hmmm. I am addicted to cock. Love to look at them, touch them, kiss them, and certainly suck them and make them cum.
Bring glory holes back so don’t have to deal with the asshole behind the cock hahahaha
Hell no. I want to see who owns the dick I am sucking. I want his hands on my head.
That is because without his hands on your head you wouldn’t be giving good head …Glory holes are more intimate with his DICK, it puts you 1/1 with his dick and no other distractions… you can take him as close to the edge as you want then ease off (let him recover) and take him higher and higher again and when you ARE READY BRING HIM OVER THE EDGE FOR AN INTENSE MIND BLOWING, CHEST HEAVING, FIST CLENCHING, LEG SHAKING, CUSSING LIKE -A-SAILOR, CUM SPRAYING Body spasming orgasm
Me too! balls are so addictive too! love to kiss and lick them in between sucking and worshiping a sexy cock head!
TOTALLY addicted – to getting them. Used to be more interested in topping, then realized that getting my dick worshipped doesn’t take any prep (beyond a quick shower if necessary). I could easy live off really good head for the rest of my life. And for whatever reason, I have almost zero desire to suck dick, and never have.
Best of both worlds is swapping and using each other, playfully of course. Just like flipping. But I will go with either giving or receiving. Won’t turn down either with the right guy!
I think it’s a generational thing. In the 80s and 90s blow jobs were more common because of HIV/AIDS. And also a form of fore-play which I have noticed a lot of younger guys know nothing about. A blowjob was considered “safer sex” and actual fucking saved for relationships etc. I love giving “head” (Blowhobs) and enjoy receiving as well. Sorry if this offends anyone but I have seen this younger generation as much more selfish in bed. It used to be that one would enguage in foreplay, (kissing, oral, rimming) and then lead to more. Now “btms” just lay… Read more »
As a Dom Top I love it when my FB drops by and opens my jeans and just starts to worship my cock and balls, that usually leads to other fun for the both of us.
I love dominant tops,,,, I’m bi, I love a submissive woman,, it’s a turn on for me when a woman let me have my way with here,,,,I really enjoy fucking a woman in the ass and I love a long wet BJ from a woman,, I could lay there for hours receiving oral or fucking her in her ass,,,so I know it turns a top on when the bottom is submissive,,, when with a guy I’ma 100% bottom I love to please a top ,, rather it’s sucking his dick while he watches the game or suck his dick for… Read more »
Yes, I am a cocksucker and love it, had a oral encounter at 17 and enjoyed it. After my divorce started meeting men online for oral. I have a few regulars that stop by for blowjobs. They message me, stop by I suck them and they leave. Last year on my birthday I sucked 3 different men and enjoyed. I love when men grab my head and fuck my mouth, I love to swallow and cant get enough.
On A4A my Screen name is oral-X-spurt Sucking Dick is MY FAVORITE.. I would rather Suck Dick than breathe …if I had a choice. Sucking Dick “IS ART” it is SACRED .. IT IS NOT ABOUT YOU when you are ORALLY Pleasuring a COCK…It is about “THE COCK ” Most people are REALLY MISSING OUT because they view Sucking Dick as the” Opening Act” for FUCKING I LOVE GLORYHOLES, Not for the ANONINMITY but for the INTAMACY because you are 1 on 1 with this man’s most PRIZED POSESSION (and in the GRAND SCHEME of things out of 7 billion… Read more »
if only I could find someone that would suck cock like I do……
Well yeah … I am incredibly talented and have been told on several occasions that I should write a book, teach a class or at least make a “How to” video ….(NOT A PORN…. More like an “Adult TED TALK”). My first Husband of 5 years (1993) No Anal was involved He was a Terrible Top and he wouldn’t let me fuck him but he had a GREAT DICK and HE CAME LIKE A RUNAWAY FIRE HOSE. He loved having his dick sucked and Sucking DICK was ALWAYS MY FAVORITE(and still is) It was the height of the AIDS Epidemic…… Read more »
You got it buddy! You know what sucking a cock is really about!
I love giving tight suction balls deep gumjobs and feel the dude nut all the way down my throat
I love sucking and deep throating dick…I started sucking when I was 8 yrs old….I knew it was my purpose in life and I’ve been a true cocksucker since….…I’m a bottom guy and I too don’t want or like reciprocation….
8 years old??? Are you serious?? That’s 3rd grade. I’m really surprised to hear that.
You can tell he’s full of shit because he’s bragging about it. If you’re having sex at 8 years old, the only person you’re telling 20 years later is your psychiatrist. Not your friends. And not a “room” full of internet strangers.
I can’t get enough of cock. I love the taste and feel of it hot and throbbing in my mouth and on my tongue. I love slowly and sensually coaxing a man’s load spurting on my tongue and I love getting my mouth fucked until he explodes down my throat.every man I see I wonder what his cock looks like, tastes like, and if he’d be willing to let me give him the sloppiest blowjob he’s ever had.
So yea I guess I’m addicted to sucking vock
I love both giving and getting blow jobs. That said, there is nothing having a hot, hard cock explode in your mouth.
I love giving more than getting but I’ll never turn down a guy who wants to suck mine. My only problem is that once I cum I’m not likely to enjoy anal. Gotta be really horny to give up my very small, very tight ass
sounds like me! i love sucking cock love mine sucked too though! i get so horny start out only want head and giving butt i get slutty and want fucked if i cum first i seem to be able to not need fucked.
Blowjobs are fine, but they’re only foreplay
To you … Spoken like a true selfish TOP There is a LOT of PREP that goes into bottoming … and unless you are uncut nearly NO PREP for a blow job ….why does a Blow job HAVE TO be ONLY Foreplay ??? why not have the best of both worlds Let him BLOW you until you shoot your warm salty -sweetload in his sucking mouth and milking throat in the afternoon Then fuck his brains out all night…
I’m a total top and I LOVE sucking cock. It’s just about my favorite thing to do. And I think reciprocity matters, at least to me. I want to get as well as I give. I can’t understand why anybody wouldn’t love a cock in their mouth – especially an uncut one. And why is it called a blow job? It’s not a job…it’s more of a vocation to me. And a true blowjob does not involve hands in any way, do you hear me? It’s about pleasing a man with your mouth, not jerking him off. I find younger… Read more »
I disagree about the hands I believe you use all the tools in your toolbox and sucking and jacking the shaft simultaneously Is an amazing sensation and mix it up with Deep throating and while sucking and jacking throw in some hand twisting on the upstroke cover your teeth with your lips and lightly squeeze his cock gently with your covered teeth as you back his dick out of your mouth then plunge him deep onto your throat squeezing his cock deep with your throat muscles then as you Draw him out of your sucking mouth wrap a spit slickened… Read more »
Love having my cock and balls pleasured. Long slow sessions, Edging. Never rush jobs! And if my boy is into rimming all the better.
I prefer receiving a good blowjob. If I could find someone for fun or even a LTR, that prefers giving it would be great
MrMike got any pics ? hit me up on Adam4adam….oral-X-Spurt
Nope, I’m addicted to plowing ass. Sliding balls deep into that fuck tube feels better to me than 99% of blow jobs I’ve ever gotten. And I’ve gotten thousands of blow jobs. Guys are mesmerized by my dick and they can’t wait to get it in their mouths. But I can’t wait to get it in their assholes. I’ve had a few really good blow jobs, but very few. Oh and the fact is, no asshole has teeth and some have that exquisite second inner ring (one incredible guy I plowed had 3 rings!). Sucks the cum right out of… Read more »
When I was around 21, a friend I worked with who was 18 kind of became a trainer for what he liked in a blow job. Verbally giving instructions in his auto shop was really fun, and because we’d geek out all night doing body work, sanding, taping and spraying, we had play time throughout the nights. If a hard on didn’t happen with Jeff, it was no worry because he’d say, softly but anxiously. “Go all the way down on it and stay there using tongue action alone.” Within minutes, things improved and we found the motion that worked… Read more »
I love to give head. I love sucking BBC. I love working for a load and receiving it.
A friend of mine claims the fact that gay men argue over who gets to GIVE the head is the main reason some homophobic mean hate gays. The posts here seem to prove that point.