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Adam4Adam readers, how many of you here are you attracted to cops? Do you find yourself fantasizing about having sex with them? If so, you are certainly not the only one. In fact, according to a study, people fantasize about specific uniforms most frequently: 14% of his respondents fantasized about having sex with police officers, 18% with those on military uniforms, and 9% with firefighters.
But why are gay men attracted to men in uniform? Maybe it’s the uniform itself, the air of authority they exude. Maybe it’s the threat of punishment or discipline?
The same article suggests that men in uniform often figure in people’s fantasies because “they’re often about establishing a power dynamic that people find to be arousing.”
Anyway, one of our readers called AA said way back:
I work as a police officer in Pittsburgh. [I] get hit on sometimes by both sexes. While I think I’m good looking, have an average body: I think the uniform attracts a lot of people.
I’ve never had a complaint though regarding sex and have people asking again.
Am always told it’s good and thick
In addition, another A4A reader named Nick revealed, “FIREMEN, I had a 6-year ‘relationship’ with a fireman. He was closeted, bi, married, loved to get fucked as often as he could. He did bring a highway patrolman for a threesome once. Nice guy, had fun, met multiple times, but NEVER in uniform.”
Meanwhile, a reader called Pete, observed, “LOL…funny how you only see fantasies about sex with cops, sex with army men, sex with athletes. You never see any posts about fantasies about hair dressers, sanitation workers or shoe salesmen. Just makes me laugh that’s all.”
Indeed, why is that? I think the explanation is quite simple and it’s that nobody would get aroused about the thought or even talk on, say, trash and about selling shoes, or you know, cutting hair. It simply doesn’t cause arousal. I mean, have you ever heard of people say, “Oh, you’re getting me hot and bothered with all your talks regarding your shoe selling techniques!”
Having said all that, are cops or men in uniform part of your sexual fantasies? Is getting “punished” by a cop one of the things that get you hot? Share with us your thoughts and your experiences with cops like the ones shared in this post in the comments section below!
Absolutely not! No fantasies with a Police Officer! Not with a Doctor! Not with a Priest! Not with a Pastor! Not with a Teacher or Professor! Not with anyone that we put our health and lives in the hands of! You’ll need these people at some point in your life! Many of us need to find their balls and stop having fantasies! Get out there and make relationships short and long-term with real men! You’ll be delighted with what their occupations are. A younger than me prison guard that I get to meet with comes to mind.
Unclutch those pearls, Mary.
It really is the “Uniform” and what the uniform represents. Generally, who wore whatever uniform, was straight, masculine and tough…characteristics not usually associate with Gay Males. My Dad was a cop and his friends would visit our house for a few beers and talk about the world – at large. Not many of them were attractive, replete with the guts or typical “White-Boy-Ass” which really means “No Ass.” However, wearing their uniforms did hide a multitude of sins and they looked a bit better wearing them. On occasions…some of the youngest guys…particularly, the Rookies looked quite good in uniforms. However,… Read more »
A Cop is only noted as a Cop if he wears his uniform.
Once he undresses, he would be indistinguishable from a civilian; hence, the reality of wearing a uniform and not wearing a uniform.
So the uniform is only potent when worn or displayed; once removed or hidden, it is invisible and serves no identifiable purpose.
I had an affair with 2 marines for over 8 years, both of them Bi and married to women. Only once was one of them in Uniform. I had a three way with them together once and it was so HOT. Both great guys.
Agreed. All Cats Are Beautiful
How hilarious. This disgusting comment STAYS, but mine gets deleted?
For me, it all started with Keanu Reeves in Speed. The uniform fit him so well.I have also been with a paramedic/fireman. All though he was not in uniform i have seen him in uniform and let me tell you in or out of the uniform he was hot.Now some officers do wear their uniforms well and it does make some hot and some not so much, I think it is all about the attitude.I never really asked about the profession of a guy i was hooking up with,adds to the mystery when you meet
I worked in a police department as a civilian employee….. shortly after working there I was sucking dick at an adult bookstore….a married sergeant from work showed up and saw me….after that I sucked him off all the time…..
When i was in my mid 20s, I used to work the graveyard shift at a restaurant in the Dallas gayborhood and there would be a police officer on shift patrolling the establishment. He was so fine. He was handsome, very tall, muscular, hairy and looked like he was hung. I always fantasized about getting with him but he was married. Didn’t know if he was bi or not, but damn I couldn’t get enough of him. I think some of the patrons couldn’t either.
This is purely a the display of masculinity and, to let it slide that there regular guys outside of it. Something I seek from everyone on Adam 4 Adam. Not to be accousted, nor put in jail. It is solely the strength and power they can exude. I thank them for their service.
Why would someone accoust you? Maybe you need to adjust your sound quality.
I had sex with a cop. It was by accident when I was traveling and during a snow storm the roads closed. I had the last room and was ask to share a room. Simple came out of the bathroom with HRC shirt. He knew of the organization. He was a bear muscle man . Fuck me with his big cock in my mouth and ass. Had massive loads of cum. He did it all night while waiting for the roads to clear. It was not the cop but the man. Ohh baby it was great. Not the cop but… Read more »
Nothing feels as good as a good fuck….
Never had the fantasy but it my younger years I was out for a walk on Saturday morning and a cop in an unmarked police car stopped ahead of me and called me over to his car. When I got to the car he had his dick out and asked if I can do anything with it. I gave him my address and he followed me home. I sucked that dick. Swallowed every drop of that nut. He had a nice 8 inches. A couple years later I would see him again when he came to my job. Turns out… Read more »
For me, its all about power, authority, control, and the element of danger. I’ve written over a dozen erotic short stories, most of them involving sadistic cops.
Honestly, when I lived in NY, I met an Italian who was a cop, we played rough, he was like half my height, as well built as he was, he had no idea about me, lmao. He wanted to be roughed-up so I did just that. . . he, was actually helpless, lol. Outmatched as he was, we both decided this is not what either of us want. Yeah, gave him a night-stick up-side the head, cops, whatever. We decided we’d both just get high, get each other off. I honestly have always just had too much aggression towards cops,… Read more »
Back in the Craigslist days, this average guy replied to my ad that he was local to me and ready to fuck me. He showed up at my place in full police uniform with his piece and a hard cock. He pulled down his pants, forced me to suck him and turned me around fucked me quick and bred me. I couldn’t believe it, I thought I was in a porno movie. Turns out he is my town’s police chief so for the next 4 years we became fuck buddies, even had sex quite a few times in the precinct,… Read more »
I wish you could introduce me to him.
Ok here we go , I did have 1 cop encounter about 25 years ago I was living in phoenix and 1 evening I went to a grocery store and there was a cop moonlighting as security in his full uniform He was Stunningly handsome 6’1″ 23-24 years old curly light brown hair Chrystal blue eyes tanned and you could tell he was very worked out… and I said hi on the way in and he said hi back and smiled … something about that smile and gleam in his Chrystal blue eyes gave me an instant hard on I… Read more »
I’ve blown and been blown by two different cops. In each case, they were married to women. Looked, talked, walked like cops. One of them gave the hottest head I’ve ever received. Neither of them were in uniform, but the vibe was certainly there. In one case, it has been ongoing. So fucking hot!
First time I ever got pulled over I was terrified. I was shaking until he walked up and I realized he was a guy who had sucked me off pretty regularly. He instantly recognized me and got super shy and embarrassed. He stuttered a quick warning and let me go. He was in the closet and wanted nothing to do with giving me a ticket – I was going 85 in a 55, Next time I went over I asked him to wear his uniform and he did. It isn’t a fantasy normally but he really enjoyed being dominated when… Read more »
Men in uniform asr Hot. The short version is, I was cruising a beach park about 2 AM.. I was driving out of the parking lot and a cop pulls into the lot puts on his lights and stops me.and pulls up beside me and rolled down his window So I rolled down mine. He asked where I was staying (tourist town) and why I was out so late. He asked me if anything was happening on at the the beach? I say no and he said maybe we can make something hsppen. I just say Oh. He turned off… Read more »
The last thing on my mind when I see a cop is I want to have sex. I’m thinking on not trying to get killed by a police officer not having sex. My brother’s and sister’s have been attacked by police officer and if it wasn’t on video it still would be happening even more. I don’t what dumb ass came up with questions but she should should be slapped. This the most disgusting things I ever read.
Have you read about how in Haiti 200 years ago they murdered all the white people?
I want to say how stupid is this Question? I’m a Blackman and every time I see a police officer the last thing on my mind is trying to sleep with him. My guess the person who asking this haven’t turned on a TV? I guess that who ever asked this didn’t see a life chocked out on tv? I like to go one better a black young man being Chased by a Former police officer and his son and friend kill a unarmed Blackman!!! No I don’t WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH A POLICE OFFICER!!!
Bigdaddye you are so right. It is a white privilege question at the best and a racist question at the worst. . Thank you for calling us out. Police violence against black and other marginalized groups is real. and often underreported or dismissed. You are owed at least an apology. I love being with ablack men. Yes I love the dick, but I love the Black man too. I try not to fetishize but I fail sometime. I also try to stand up for People of Color and and I do speak out, but probably not as often as I… Read more »
Yeah, ALL OF US SHOULD DO BETTER !. Not just white men.
Do you acknowledge at all, the amount of justice involved Black Men? I’m way more afraid of Black men than cops. Do you look at the actual murder statistics and break down of who is actually doing the murders in most American cities? I have had sex with hundreds of Black men and had a few close calls. I found it’s best to meet up in Bath Houses where I’m always in demand to plow Black guys. Also, do you know how many Black guys start up with racist verbal play? How do I respond when they start with “fuck… Read more »
Why do you bring in apples when we are talking about oranges There is a difference be cops killing black people and violence in the cities. You need to learn about why there is violence and the systematic racism in this country. Learn about you white privilege too.
I totally agree sir, 100% maybe because I am a black male living in a crazy rigid society
One would have to like cops and I don’t. I moved to California a few years ago and I couldn’t figure out why I was always being approached by cops. At first I thought it was a racial thing until one night I was stopped while walking. This cop tried starting a conversation but aside from the fact I don’t like cops I was very tired having just got off work. After a few words he drove away. A few nights later a different cop stopped me while walking and asked to see my I.D. I thought this was out… Read more »
The Police Chief in my town used to be a regular hookup for me. I found him much more attractive when he came over in Uniform, especially when we did it in his office with other cops just right outside. I miss him
Lordy, no. Most cops are very overweight, which is a deal breaker. Then all that equipment hanging off their body makes them look ridiculous.
When I was in high school, I was in a subway station men’s room that was notorious for cruising. In walks a super handsome Black cop. “Are you looking for something?” he asks me in a forceful voice. “No…” was all I could say. Rubbing his crotch, he said, “maybe I have what you’re looking for.” He told me to meet him in a maintenance room next to the men’s room – it was locked but he had a key. Fearing being arrested, I told him I would. He left the toilet and I tried to bolt out of there… Read more »
This happened many years ago but sometimes think of it as just happening like it was yesterday. I was chatting on a phone line talking to a few guys and one in particular…I happened to be off work in the middle of the week and was horny. He suggested we meet and said he would come to my place as i found out later he was married. There is a knock at the door and I open it to see standing before me a state trooper in full uniform. Thinking I had done something wrong i was a little scared… Read more »
My encounters with cops, firefighters and other uniform personnel was not based on the uniform so much as it was the thrill. I met these individuals without their uniforms on so when I did see them in uniform it made no difference to me. The meetings we had after discovering their career was the sexual high.
Never have been with a cop but always wanted to, and still to . A hot cop in uniform sporting some bulge, hell yes. And I want to undress him, slowly before getting him off. NJ here so any hot cops looking? Lol
I have had great sex with a few law enforcement officers. All hookups were all safe play events some were with others like in a three way. So one HIghway patrolman , one city officer one county sheriff. I think two are still active.
Where did my story go … I submitted a true and graphic but accurate incident that happened with a cop. We are all adults here I didn’t see anything that prohibited descriptive, sexually explicit language…it took a couple of hours to type that all out ..WTF?I would appreciate it if you would re-post it
I had a few dates with a stunningly beautiful gay cop in San Francisco. I met him at the gym and had no Idea he was a cop. When I found out, I wanted to try some cop fetish stuff, but he was not interested. So we just had regular vanilla sex which was fine with me. Oh, I fucked with another gay cop in San Diego. But the marines I fucked in San Diego were much hotter. Even the sailors and Mexicans I fucked were much hotter.
I was in the Navy for 8 years and I just always thought the way the uniforms looked on all those different types of men was sexy. I had sex with men from all different branches of the military, all races, all ages, and all ranks from unlisted to officer. I also had sex with police officers and firefighters, and doctors. Sometimes in their uniforms but most of the time not. Uniforms of all types are one of my biggest fetishes. I will continue to be turned on by uniformed men until the day I die.