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Do you hate anal sex, guys? Why or why not?
Not everyone loves anal sex, just like the original poster (OP) of this thread who said that it doesn’t matter whether he is the one who tops or bottoms, he “absolutely hate anal sex.” He, however, wants to change that because he doesn’t always want to tell his boyfriend that he doesn’t want to have sex as he thinks that’s really unfair.
One of the users named juddkrasher said, “Being gay ≠ having anal. It’s an option. I prefer other ways to…bond. You aren’t alone.” On the other hand, user jklake advised, “look into intercrural sex. It was all the rage with the Romans and maybe it will be for you.” While a reader named CondorLane suggested, “Also jack-off lotion. You can get so good at handjobs that they’re as good as fucking.”
Meanwhile, user UpbeatBad reminded readers: “FYI, there are a lot of gay males who are not into anal sex.” Another user named CIearMind pointed out, “There’s not only top, bottom, and vers. Those of us who aren’t into anal are the sides. :)”
But what is a side?
According to Wikipedia, “the term side has been proposed by Huffington Post contributor Joe Kort for gay men who are not interested in anal sex.” Though not into penetrative sex, a side will engage in other forms of same-sex sexual activity such as mutual masturbation, intercrural sex, frottage, to name a few.
Some of the readers on the aforementioned thread above who are also sides said that they have had “hot sex” even though they don’t have anal sex. User DuncxnDonuts shared, “Don’t know if this has been said already, but you don’t need to have anal sex in order to have a good sex life! Some of the best sex I’ve ever had simply came from handjobs.” He, however, added, “I do agree with everyone that says this is something you should communicate about. Good luck OP!”
Going back to our question at hand, guys, are you into anal sex? Why or why not? What is your advice to guys who are not into it? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
I gave this article a 5 rating. It is by far, the easiest way to become HIV+. Men aren’t thinking about safety in the throws of sex or in the heat of moment, for these reasons, caution has gone right out of the window with too many guys. Additionally, too many guys are “irreverent” in general, of/or including themselves; most importantly and needless to say, anyone they encounter. I keep saying, I get being very young, inexperienced, hot-blooded, horny, testosterone-driven lust… like a horse let/busting-out of the staple, lol, yeah, I remember what that was like. I tried a few… Read more »
As I’m very close in age to you, I admire your message here. In reference to my own message directly below (at least on my computer), I made no mention about safety and condoms because in my book condoms are a-given. I last fucked bareback in 1983 when news about this new horror AIDS spread like wildfires.
While I agree that sex is far more than just anal sex, there is also a between-the-lines agenda in many men’s negative response to anal sex. Sure, there could be a medical issue such that it causes pain or damage, but by far those who claim they don’t like it are avoiding something in an unexamined or unconscious way. It may be emotional intimacy, since anal/penetrative sex is the ultimate physical expression of that, and gay men (in particular but like all men) are likely to have formative experiences that associate intimacy with being unsafe, not to mention all the… Read more »
“Pyrrhic,” not really, I have had two monogamous relationships, one when I lived in NYC, the other in my hometown of Minneapolis, the key word though is “monogamous,” even then, yes, I wore condoms. “condom” is the other keyword. Long ago, before I was really ‘conscious’ of what many gay men, seemingly, were really missing out on. I once said to someone in a car full of friends one night on an excursion to the local watering hole, “that’s because of your fear of intimacy.” The car was quiet for a while, guess they were thinking about, at least. The… Read more »
“Throws” of sex. LOL
some time back HIV was a deadly disease.. it no longer is. being afraid to have sex the way you want it is worse than the disease.. I have HIV.. I got it from having unprotected sex. I take a pill every day that controls the disease and protects me from giving the disease to any one else.. I have a check up ever 6 months… I am the safest person to have sex with.. HIV is a horrible disease and maybe some day there will be a cure. In the meantime I am still having unprotected sex because that’s… Read more »
I tend to make my own mistakes too, Bill, like everyone. But, unlike other people my age in my youth, I always had this sense of caution, at that tender age; I knew how far ‘not’ to go. I did not know what I was doing, all I knew, is that I wanted to love and be loved, by another man. I was at that time; not that selective, naïve, impressionable, insecure and low self-esteem, however a very happy young man bursting w/very good energy. If you have seen-can recall, J.J Walker’s character of “Good Times” that ‘was’ so very… Read more »
Just like the many wonders of gay sex, there are so many variables at play here. I for one like anal sex, but that doesn’t mean I do it every time I jump in the sack with another guy or guys. Sometimes, it’s just not the right moment. Sometimes I don’t like the other guy’s ass. Sometimes I’m feeling it to spread my legs and take a good pounding. Sometimes we just make out and jerk one another off. Variables boys…many of them…
I need it, mentally and physically, for me it’s a way to give in to my top’s needs but I see the writer’s point
YOUR top? Sounds to me like it’s the top who’s giving in to your needs.
For me the real issue is that many define themselves by anal sex preference. And we can’t tell people what they should like. I personally never let the whole top/bottom/vers label thing define me, but it happens that my long term partners were compatible in preferences. Now for me anal sex is intimate, so it is something I only did with guys I dated, and can count with my fingers the times I did it with random guys. There is also the factor or cleanliness that many oversee, and that was a turn off for me when I had sex… Read more »
I feel compelled to share an amusing antidote here: I was a late bloomer – lost my homo-virginity at 18; hetero-virginity at 21. For the first few years I had become active with guys, I thought “the thing guys do” was to take turns fucking one another. It wasn’t until later I learned of the labels/preferences of “top, bottom & versatile.” Eventually, I went all top because I believe bottoms are at a greater risk (even with condoms ON), though in recent years, I’ve gotten intimate and comfortable with a couple of guys to prompt me to spread my legs… Read more »
Late bloomer? Dude, you don’t know the definition of late bloomer.
Being a top, I understand the whole issue of cleanliness! I can’t understand why some guys don’t understand how important it is to be totally clean. Thank you for sharing !
I get what your saying and I pride myself on being clean but the truth is that sometimes shit happens.
I’ll be honest. I don’t like the smell of shit. The thought of penetrating someone is such a turn off. A clock in my ass is so damn uncomfortable that it is not pleasurable at all.
Intercrural love it
I got bored one day and tried putting a clock in my ass. Wasn’t a big fan. The constant ticking sound was a huge turn off.
Literally LOL’ing … thanks man! 🙂
Lol. I’m sure a clock is uncomfortable!
Maybe you’ll change your tune one day? Time will tell.
I have had a 11.5 inch thck dick in my ass.. felt so good I was shoving my ass up to take it and begging him for more
Yes, but when the alarm goes off… woo! hoo!
You would have hated my ex; he was hung like a clock radio.
It wasn’t so much the ticking that bothered me as it was the alarm going off when I couldn’t reach it…
TICK TOCK FKN CLOCK
Hell yeah it’s uncomfortable putting a clock in your ass. Ain’t nobody got time for that shit….that’s cuckoo.
I admit I love anal, whether I’m top or bottom, it feels good to me. When I bottom it feels good feeling that dick inside and the closeness feels good. I don’t have to have it for every encounter but definitely need it
I think this is a great article and addresses the white elephant in the room. I’ve long had an aversion to anal sex. The anus is an extremely dirty part of the body, filled with bacteria and odors that WARN even lower animals to stay clear of the area and the fecal matter that comes out of it. The tissues of the anus are not designed to stretch and can easily be torn during the thrust and friction of anal intercourse, permitting viruses and bacteria direct access to the blood stream. The thing that no one wants to talk about… Read more »
Great write-up. Being a bi-married (to my wife of many years) closeted guy with years of M-M experience who, for lack of a better way to put this has the mental ability to put myself in a 110% straight guy’s shoes, I would just beg to differ with you about one point you made: Of the 80% you reference who’d consider homosex if it didn’t have the anal intercourse implication, I think there are plenty more straight guys out there who are downright repulsed by the idea of having a cock in their mouths than you may think. But…not me!
Thanks for your reply MattK. Based on personal experience, I hold that a majority of guys enjoy showing off, comparos, even if touch is not involved.
Yes K c, but “showing off” vs. sucking dick are two separate things, no?
When I read your missive, I see fearful, unreasonable, unscientific, and ignorant information about the risks of anal sex. The key is realizing that it ISN’T 1981 anymore. Comparing HIV today to COVID and pandemics is ridiculous. There are issues left to be solved – mostly access to the very effective medications and of course a vaccine which is just around the corner now. But so much of what you wrote and the fear that underlies it is used to stigmatize both HIV positive men as well as men who have evaluated the risks based on actual medical knowledge and… Read more »
Eric Novak, I have fought very openly for LGBTQQI rights and I assure you that I’m coming from a place of far less shame than you. I’m atheist, I don’t buy into all the Christian/Muslim/Jewish concepts of sin and sexuality, and I look at things from a factual point of view. For you to say that I shouldn’t “recruit” straight men into gay activity reminds me of the panicked claims that Christian Evangelicals have made over the years about the dangers of gays recruiting young men into their lifestyle. If you believe yourself so enlightened, how can you make such… Read more »
BRAVO, bravo, so very well said, and the point, “plenty of masculine men happily taking the bottom role,” absolutely we’ve all seen it more times than not.
Second point: “why are we using the heterosexual pattern as a model?”
I ‘almost’ posed the same question! It’s definitely crossed my mind before.
You seem very civic-minded and forward-thinking, really love that!
FYI, the most sensitive spot in the mans body is up his ass ! The prostrate. You think that’s an evolutionary mistake ?
“Evolutionary mistake?” Of course not, I’m such a humper, lmao, so try a prostate massage using your fingers!
“Up his ass”
Check out Christopher Walken over here.
I agree that not everyone likes anal sex, but not all dislike it entirely. Some do simply not desire it, the same as some guys do not like kissing. But some dislike it because of a bad experience or two. And a large part of that I chalk up to two major factors, maybe three: stereotypes, bad communication, and porn’s bad examples. I developed a good way for reasonable cleansing, and a method for comfortable anal, but it requires foreplay, stages of entry, and respectful communication. That would eliminate many issues with anal. But it is important to remember that… Read more »
I love receiving anal. I am not a size queen. Lengthwise I like anything from a little below average to a little above average. Average is perfect. I do like some girth so I can feel a stretch to my manhole and good stimulation to my nerve endings. When a top knows how to fuck I can cum from being fucked but it has only happened a couple of times probably because I haven’t been fucked much in my lifetime because I am usually in a hetero relationship. My favorite anal sex act is to have my ass “seduced”, played… Read more »
Not a fan of anal sex – especially getting fucked. I think I had 1 occasion where I enjoyed it many years ago but that’s just because he was so into it, and he was really good at making me feel good too. Fortunately my “partner” doesn’t want to fuck me. Also this article seemed to completely overlook the joys of oral sex as a great alternative to anal. And yes, I’ve had very hot and satisfying oral sex and prefer it, along with j/o and grinding…
anal sex is awesome, I love to be the bottom
“Hate” may be a rather strong word for those of us who do not engage in Anal Sex? More appropriately, it may be a rather dislike or may be an extreme dislike? Anal has never done anything for me. If it didn’t go in between my lips, I had no interest in it. Orally inclined at birth, I enjoyed my bottle, loaded with formula, and my teething rings. If I could put it between my lips and either suck on it or chew on it, I was happy. Grew to “Love-The-Cream.” I remember my first visit to “Dairy Queen” and… Read more »
How is liking Dairy Queen even relevant to this conversation? Edit your thoughts before you post. Nothing post the second sentence is pertinent.
John:
If you read what i wrote, carefully, you would have realized that I was using Dairy Queen and its ice cream as a metaphor to a man’s penis and his cream.
Next time, if you are going to chastise someone’s post, use what lies between your ears instead of what hangs between your legs.
Wait, Dairy Queen was a METAPHOR? The HELL you say! I thought you actually liked their food. That one TOTALLY flew over my head.
@John: it’s a blog comment section laced with opinions, it’s certainly not a manual on the perfect life. So rather you agree or disagree with Kasper you need to respect his right to his own differing opinion. To do anything else will just make you look like a bigger troll.
Marko:
I will Thank You for your input! I was joking around a bit with the “Dairy Queen” routine.
I liked Ice “Cream” before I knew about what Boy “Cream” was about…which is what I was referring to.
Stop the nonsense ex post facto rationalizations. We all know what you were talking about.
Everyone has their choice on having sex but I think the best sex is anal sex I feel if a person’s going to do a handjob on himself that kind of takes having sex away I know a lot of guys that do not like anal sex they just rather have a handjob I don’t feel that exciting or enjoyable I can see having a hand job well having sex me myself I love anal sex I love pleasing my man I am versatile so I love it both ways but like I said before everybody has their own opinion… Read more »
To echo your sentiments on hand jobs, I’ve always felt like I jerk myself off enough and do it when I’m horny and feeling like “I wish a guy were right here with me right now.” When I’m fortunate enough to be in the presence of another hot guy, I want to do other things with him I can’t do when I’m alone. So to me, getting or giving a hand job is kind of like…what’s the point?
There’s a huge difference for me between my own masturbating and when a partner does it to me. Some of the most intense toe curling I’ve done is when a partner has given me a “helping hand”. Sometimes very long and intense sessions. Not a “get it done” handjob, but a well thought out sexual gift. I’ve learned to do them as well, telling the partner “lay back and shut up. It’s your day to be lazy and spoiled.” Slow easy motions that build in intensity over 15 minutes or more. Focusing only on the cock and balls. Plenty of… Read more »
I don’t doubt that, Overt d’Espirit (nice handle), but I’ll still take a BJ or driving my hard cock up a hot ass any day over a HJ.
If you hate it, then say you only masturbate or suck dick. Or just turn into a woman. I love fucking men and cumming in their asshole. Only other option a man has is my dick down their throat.
You sound like you’d be horrible in bed.
Or …. WONDERRFUL….
Nah. Horrible.
I would definitely like giving my butt up to experience something sexually new. I want to see what women get out of having a cock sld into their hole over and over.. I’m wanting to try this and see how it feels. If it’s like I think it will be. I used a toy once and it was fun but I figure a real cock has to feel different and better.
You will love it!
If you are relaxed and your partner is experienced, you will love his cock in your body. Those two factors will make it a very pleasant sexual venture!
Every stage in my life was different. Younger I was more fearful of it because of AIDS, as I started having relationships and playing safe, I at first became a voracious top, and then a more versatile bottom as I started having actual relationships and bonding with partners. Staying a bottom became harder when I started the cruising life because I found most guys could be painful. So while it was desired, I started to get tense (which makes it worse) and shy away from it. Occasionally, I had a very sympathetic, caring guy who had an ability to relax… Read more »
I love receiving anal sex. Have for many years
The whole Top / Bottom thing is fairly recent, years back no one cared about such nonsense. I am not open for anal giving or receiving. It has to be someone very special, someone I have true feelings for. Besides most of the people out there that are as they call them selves Total Tops might as well be dating a woman. They don’t care if the person they are with even is enjoying themself. I am going to date myself with this, a very long time ago I worked at Studio 54 in NYC from before the club opened… Read more »
Please explain how the following two sentences make any fucking sense whatsoever: “Besides most of the people out there that are as they call them selves Total Tops might as well be dating a woman. They don’t care if the person they are with even is enjoying themself [sic].”
my my..aren’t we a little testy…..
““Besides most of the people out there that are as they call them selves Total Tops might as well be dating a woman.” Can you not see how that’s both misogynistic and homophobic? Or are you just that obtuse?
You’re not wrong
***TROLL ALERT***
As a Top, I do care if the bottom guy is enjoying himself. I do and will ask, are you enjoying it?, does it hurt?, do you want me to stop/keep going?. My purpose is to make sure he is totally enjoying the Anal sex experience.
Absolutely. I can’t cum or keep hard if I see my buddy squirming or not feeling it. I stop immediately, and try to bring him back to the fuck, by more lube, relaxing, talking, jerking us off, and getting hard again, so we can finish in style. If he is not into it anymore, or came quickly, or it hurts, I stop. Never force, never go “awww, now you will take it!” type of shit. I get super horny and hard when my buddy is taking my cock with gusto, enjoying, opening his ass and telling me to breed him.… Read more »
I am vers, but have had two guys in my life that I was happy to bottom for. Both of them cared that I was having a good experience, as well. We had intimacy. We were clean and respectful. I enjoy taking their loads. I only have had sex with guys who are HIV- and on Prep.
Hard to take your comment about “more individual respect” seriously when you’re ranting about total tops who you believe “might as well be dating a woman”.
I have done anal sex, as a bottom, a handful of times and found it very pleasant and mentally and physically stimulating. You have to be totally relaxed and your partner needs to know how to do it gently. I also find intercrural very satisfying. I am a versatile Top!
I love anal sex (as a bottom) quite simply because it makes me cum. Nothing makes me cum harder.
The very idea of putting my big clean, beautiful thick 9 inch penis in a filthy bacteria ridden anus is so discusting to me I could vomit thinking ot how anyone could even consider such a thing…let alone rimming. Stink, shit, bacteria, anal warts, syphalis, gonorreah, you name it, it can be there. Now a clean penis in a clean mouth is another story. the a filty anus…all I can say is OMFG…it will never be me.
Douching is for real.
You sound like quite the catch! LOL
Your loss, stud.
I agree
“Clean mouth.”
It’s like Alan hasn’t lived through 2020.
Whenever someone describe his dick as “big, clean, beautiful and thick 9 inches,” I just have the sneaking suspicion that it looks like a pencil nub.
The mouth can be even filthier and could have STD’s or STI’s. Look it up and see the horrendous pictures of a diseased mouth.
The anus is a sex organ in exactly the same way as a penis or a vigina, but it often gets little respect as an authentic seat of pleasure. (pun intended) I was a health educator at the height of the AIDS epidemic, and one of the challenges was to help gay and bisexual men understand that we could still have sex, even anal sex, without endangering our lives. My generation learned the hard way, and it breaks my heart to see my younger brothers relearning the same lesson. But there is nothing inherently “unhealthy” about having anal sex with… Read more »
I met a guy named Neal. nice looking tall well hung. I was attracted to him quickly. on our first date we had anal sex.. I am total bottom and I enjoyed it a lot…we became lovers but we never had anal sex again… he tried several time but he just could not keep a hard on…after several failed attempt he stopped trying.. it was oral sex only… since I am total bottom it was a one way street… I gradually lost interest in sex.. I talked to him and told him how I felt.. we turned out relationship into… Read more »
For myself, as a Top… I do enjoy anal sex! The feeling of penetrating a bottoms hole is amazing. However; there have been times when there was no “Anal penetration” at all. Just kissing, making out, for play, mutual J/o, oral, etc. Those have been The best hottest moments as well. I’m saying, I love them (Anal and Non-Anal) both equally. Also, if a guy doesn’t enjoy Anal sex, I hope he can communicate that with whoever they meet and both can respect each other’s decisions… but let’s not shame Ppl whether they prefer Anal or not. It’s entirely their… Read more »
i prefer to let the guy lay back as i begin with a full body massage on him. once he turns over after I’ve massaged his backside generally they are erect. then i give a FULL frontal massage using various parts of myself; my hands, my mouth…but I don’t like to be serviced. i prefer to manplease and service.
I have only done anal twice, both giving and receiving, must say I love receiving but I will only do it with a condom. I love the feeling of a hard cock and a man driving it in and out of me. Did not do it until I a was in my 50’s but had I known how good it is would have done it sooner.
My life has been blessed by anal sex. I’m a hung top and everywhere I go I’m showered with love and affection. In fact I have a 26 year long marriage with a smart hot husband with a PhD, thanks to my anal sex capabilities. We still have sex 2-3 times a week. When I log on to A4A I’m deluged with requests for my plowing skills. But now that I’m 65 I’m just not able to perform like the old days.. So I’ve taken it down a notch for hook up fun. Anyway I have many great memories of… Read more »
I’m a top who loves anal sex! However, I enjoy sex without it too. I’ve dated other tops in my time, and since neither one of us was willing nor desired to be penetrated, we had sex in other ways without it. Including sex by thrusting our penises between eachothers thighs with his legs closed very tightly. Which I just learned is intercural sex from this article, though I’ve been doing it all my life. It feels as good as fucking especially doing it from the back where you’re right against the guy’s ass. Anal sex is great but it’s… Read more »
Meh. Different strokes. While I personally might not get the aversion to that specific sex act, I understand it. I feel the same way about receiving a blow job. I HATE when guys want to suck me, and, it perplexes them when I recoil in horror when they try. They just can’t fathom the idea of a guy – even a total bottom – NOT wanting his dick sucked. But, I’m that guy.
First, it’s not an “article.” More like salacious postings of what other individuals have previously posted regarding the subject. Second, it references Wikipedia. At that point, the “article” lost all credibility. Like most “articles” on this blog, it’s something to generate discussion.
I love anal sex! My issue is the fetish BS that I find has ruined any sexual activity for me. Being a disrespectful jerk is not the same as being dominant and if ur role playing then go put on an apron and fire up the easy bake oven. During sex is not the time to play pretend or try to put on a Broadway style theatrics. Wardrobe, props, and a script is ridiculous. Maybe I was raise differently but I got all the spankings I needed as a child nothing about someone trying to hit me do is a… Read more »
anal is gross, thats where your shit comes out
So, oral is gross, too? ‘Cause, that’s where your piss comes out, you know?
yes, oral is gross too
Don’t be a such sissy. All you gotta do is wipe it off on the drapes.
Lately, in my area it’s been impossible to get laid by either sex. As a married straight, I prefer the vag because it was designed to be penetrated by a man. Often smells good with douche and it also tastes great and is a sure fire way to give a woman an orgasm. Women of course go through emo issues more often than men do, and then there is the sisterhood whom won’t let you side step; so guys used to be easier to have sex with pre pandemic. To my point, Anal is an okay substitute, but I agree… Read more »
The other day I had a top ask me, after finishing in me, how could I like that. He had a recent hookup that had fingered him and he hated it. He is a manly man and you don’t do that to him. I am retired military, a mechanic, ride motorcycles, ……I love anal. With the right preparation and a little lubrication, having someone inside me gives me so much pleasure. The feeling when my partner cums inside me is almost as good as when they make me cum from fucking me.
I do love anal sex.. understand exactly what you mean.. once I had a hot guy fucking me with a huge cock…I was begging him to give me his load…he said no way, not until you shoot your load first…so I reached down and started stroking my cock…he jerked my hand off my cock. said no.. your going to cum from me fucking you…so I arched my back shoved my ass back to take his huge cock…in no time I moaned out I’m cuming I’m cuming…and he rammed his big dick deep in my ass and filled my ass with… Read more »
Oh I would LOVE to meet you 😉
I have a naturally RockHard EnormousCock (10″). It’s perfectly cut, perfectly straight, and pretty; everyone wants a ride on it. However, I only host and too many dudes are totally ignorant of proper anal preparation. That can incite ‘laundry issues’. About ten years ago, I stopped indiscriminately fuckin’ — and my white bathsheets have been the beneficiaries. Besides, I absolutely cherish a slobbering mouth worshipping me. I now only fuck women although I identify as gay.
LOL HAHAHA. There is nothing perfect about a mutilated cock.
Okay, Mary.
I’m surprised, at how many dudes don’t know to douche first!
Let they who are without sin cast the first stone you uppity bitches! The world has changed with PREP not to say that there are not a lot of other STI’s out there still. As a HIV+ man who always has used protection I didn’t even come out of the closet until after college because I was so afraid of HIV or AIDS as they always called it back then. However, FOR SOMEONE TO MAKE A JUDGEMENT CALL ABOUT ME SIMPLY BY MY SEROSTATUS IS UTTER AND COMPLETE BULLSHIT. CALL ME DIRTY AND A WHORE. I am neither I was… Read more »
I don’t blame you for being angry, I can only imagine what goes through someone’s head when getting the diagnosis; those that I knew, never talked about their feelings about it. Although one of my very best buds cried like a baby as I held him, he finally showed some emotion, let it out, “who the fuck did this to me, damnit?” That was back in the days of ‘AZT’ I saw him give himself shots a few times… You know, I couldn’t help questioning to myself though-of him, who/how many, have ‘you’ done this to, unbeknownst of course? Another… Read more »
Wait, these comments go through a moderating process, and someone actually chose to PUBLISH this one? How? Why? It has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand.
i Have not been into anal sex for psychological reason due to a hospitalization I had after an intense anal experience during my youth. However it is important for me to with my partners’ participation to experience mutual and simultaneous orgasm in wahatever method our chemistry allows it. Whether it be mutual hand masturbation while intensely kissing, Dick to dick masturbation, or 69 oraltil we both cum in each other’s mouths . My partners and I work out a way for that to happen and we are both more than satisfied when it’s over.
“I’m a bottom and I really hate anal sex” Seriously! Way are you calling yourself a bottom?
That’s not the ‘only’ way to bottom, Jim, (eye-roll) i.e. orally for, etc., you sure do lack for imagination.
Oral is oral, not bottom.
…imagination “Eric” imagination…one ‘can’ be on the bottom, while sucking…
Why the deal with this blog pushing hate so much.
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I enjoyed bottoming in my younger teen years. But I was very selective of who I let in me. Now that I’m in my adult age I prefer to only save that deep intimacy for someone I’m seriously dating. When bottoming for a guy your forcing your body to go through things it’s not use to doing. Personally I’d rather save for a guy for us both to enjoy the pleasure of sex together frequently not separately with other people. For now I’ll only consider oral, kissing, & cuddling. Anything els will come after i find mr. right or he… Read more »
It’s sort of like Thai food for me; once awhile I find myself thinking “Do I really enjoy this?” But then, when it’s good, it’s FANTASTIC.
I love a big thick cock in my ass. Long fast and slow fuck me good cum in my hole. Filled me up.
I disliked anal sex before we knew what AIDS was. Yes, I’m old. I wish I did like it. Relationships would have been easier since both of my serious SOs were bottoms. I used condoms when nobody did because I have hangups with shit. Even with condoms, the smell killed it for me. I eventually just quit.
I’ve been in 4 significant relationships over a 35 year period. Each lasted about 6 years. In each relationship, we were crazy in love. Truly fun and loving times. We were vers in all of those relationships, giving to each other the intimacy we felt and needed. One thing cool about being gay (unlike the straight world – I have fucked women), is that you understand guy parts and how they function and the pleasure they give. It’s really soul satisfying to pleasure your partner in a way that he loves. It is over the top when he pleasures you… Read more »
Douching is vital to having a satisfying experience with anal intercourse. With a couple of guys in my life who I really loved, we’d both douche out before sex. It allowed us to do whatever we wanted, all night long – giving and taking with each other, equally. That’s what I love about being gay; mutual adoration and respect. I’m really weary of the judgement about who is the “male or female” in a relationship. That’s why being gay is so cool. You can experience sensations that many straight men will never know. While a vagina is okay, a male… Read more »
I like anal sex and see my bubble booty as my main assett that attracts men . So many sensitive areas down below I find it a fullfilling way to have my date bonding with me .