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Let’s talk about sex, baby! What gay sex positions have you tried and what, among those, is your favorite and why? Moreover, are you a top, bottom, versatile, or sides?
The gay men on Reddit are currently abuzz because of this topic. The original poster of the thread provided a photo and asked which of the positions shown on the picture are the readers’ favorites. Please feel free to tell us yours in the comments section, guys.
Anyway, some of the readers (who are bottoms) said they prefer being flat on their stomach because it “hits just the right spot every time.” A top on the other hand, said he loves this position mainly because he has a “perfect view” of his partner’s back. He added that it’s the “best position and the most pleasurable as a top.”
Many of the readers, however, said their favorite gay sex position is missionary. Some of the reasons cited why they think nothing beats missionary were, and we quote: “it’s the most intimate,” and, “he’s got a pretty face and nice eyes, why not look at them?” In addition, another reader said that for him, the missionary position is “good for that slow fuck after a long day when your goal isn’t necessarily to cum, but to just be close.”
A reader, however, dislike the missionary as he is “too self-conscious” for it. Another reader agreed and explained, “Same, looking [at] you in the eyes while I plow you just seems too much for me.”
Having said all that, what are your favorite gay sex positions, guys? If you’re a side, which is your favorite: intercrural sex, frotting, handjobs, etc.? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
As a bottom i enjoy any which way. But if im forced to choose i like missionary most. The intimacy. Love a strong powerful tongue ramming deep down my throat while his big powerful cock is thrusting deep in my hole! Like his sweat dripping on me and watching his face as he cums!
I’d enjoy it any which way my lover wants my bottom. However my fave is missionary so that I can see his face, kiss if possible especially when he’s cumming.
Love missionary. Very intimate and sexy.
Favorite…? hmmm, that’s hard (hahahahaha) No but seriously: for oral sex I like nothing better than having a man get on top of me, facing my feet, and then fucking my throat. I like the feeling of bring over-mastered, and at that point I don’t even care if he sucks my dick or not, tho if he does I’m in double heaven. A very very close second is me being on top so I can demonstrate what I know about cock-sucking… my ‘hard earned’ skills… lol And it’s a great way to make a man cum. For fucking, face-to-face by… Read more »
Nice post. I like the way you state your preferences then say “tho sometimes”, to allow for the many other possibilities. All things have their circumstances and sexual acts and positions are some of those things. It’s how it is in the moment. Personally I like sex in all its manifestations and positions – hand jobs, oral, anal, rimming, kissing, cuddling, top, bottom, versatile, missionary, doggie, face down, 69, whatever. As long as we’re clean and take care to please one another it’s all good. Respect and communication are the keys to me. Labels can be useful too but need… Read more »
As a vers-top, I usually tell guys I’m into any position except cowboy. I kind of feel out of control when a guy sits on top of my dick and controls our rhythm, so it’s not a preferred position for me. Missionary is definitely my A-1 fave and if my bottom and I can catch our breath, I love kissing while inside him. As for the other direction, I have 2 sex partners I trust enough to let fuck me and am always open to any position. If anything, sometimes doggystyle can hurt a bit, but I still like it… Read more »
I am with Steve on this! I am very adventurous and open-minded when it comes to sex and pleasuring my partner. Althoughspontenaity and adventure go out the window when you are with a greedy bottom who only wanted to get fucked. No kissing, No foreplay, nada, zip, zero. In fact, one guy thought I should be ready to go just because he was naked with his ass in the air. He was a very selfish and piggy bottom. I have had other partners that brought the animal inside me out as I did the. That is when beds get broken… Read more »
How did THAT turn out?
Paul, 37, NYC. As a bottom, I like to ride on top first. But, hands down, doggy style is my fav.
Either giving or taking doggy style is my Fav as well!
A favorite? It depends upon the great guy I’m with, what we end up doing, and what he brings to the table. We should always be ready to take advantage of new opportunities. Sex isn’t as much fun if we confine ourselves to same old same old.
The “picture” provided assumes it’s all about anal. Oh, there’s so much more to do than that!
. . . Any position that allows me to see his eye’s, while I do what I do to him.
You make a very good point, Lamar. I find it very hot as I sink my cock inside my bottom guy (mainly in a missionary position) for us to really gleam into one another’s eyes, essentially “saying” to each other with our bugged-out eyes one big “Wow! This is fucking amazing!”
My favorite position is 69! Love to suck and rim, either side-by-(either) side or over-under. The best part is when you take turns doing what the other is doing to you.
I love doggy style the most and second favorite flat on my stomach, ass pushed up a little showing how much my ass wants to be fucked by him. I am not into missionary unless he is kneeling instead of laying on top and can hit the right spot for me to have a full body orgasm like I do when being rimmed really good. Profile name: BiLust. Euclid Ohio.
missionary….the eye contact while I am getting plowed is way hot……
I responded above to Lamar’s similar comment. Again – sooooo true!
I like face down ass up, let me hear your balls slapping me.
As a bottom I enjoy missionary- more intimate. But then again I like riding the horse, if you know what I mean- gives me more control. Flat on my face? NOPE- that’s more like a jailhouse rape. Sideways- I’ve never met a man that can reach that far!
There’s nothing better (for me) then slouching back in a chair while getting head. Legs spread, balls hanging low cock pointing straight up looking for that warm wet mouth or ass. BUT ( insert joke here) for getting rimmed I love being face down ass up! For fucking, doggy style for me please. Slurp a lil ass, slide up in that ass after and rail the fucker. Maybe be nice and grab his cock from under. Just my 2 cents.
I’m a total top, and my favorite position is to lie on my back with my partner riding me, face-to-face. It’s more intimate, and I think penetration is better. I can also play with my partner’s cock, and I love it when he shoots all over me while I’m still inside of him.
Missionary and cowboy positions are my favorites whether I’m a top or bottom simply because I get to look at my partner’s eyes and know that I’m pleasing him in every way imaginable! And in knowing that is a real turn on for me.
I like my bottom face down ass up on the edge while I stand behind him and plow his hole slapping his ass or pulling him by the hair until his back is arched Also like my bottom on his back with his feet next to his ears again with me standing on the floor fucking I like to look him in the eye as he takes my cock I will fuck ass in any position possible
Bottoming through Missionary with kissing, makes me feel sexually desired.
My favorite position is f*cking or getting f*cked from behind…both people standing and the reason I like it can be summed up in one word. Traction
Me and my boyfriend have a few, but the best is when he is on his side , having one leg forward. It is amazing. When we flip, he likes me on my back, and legs bent with feet in his arm pits..
Being a top, I like #7, #8, & #12.
4, 7, 12 are my favorite
My favorite position is top. My favorite sexual position is doggystyle. Huge turn-on is seeing the man’s azz and hearing his reaction as I go deeper and deeper.
I like all different positions, but missionary is probably my favorite because while he is balls deep in my ass, we can deeply kiss.
Ask your Dad
My big favorite is doggy style but legs up missionary is so fucking hot. Anyway I’ll put myself in any position that works at the time.
Missionary is my preference on those days when I want my partner to cum in my mouth after fucking me
I would say I have it about 3 to 4 times a day and I enjoy sex and many different positions being that I’m a bottom I let my top do all the positioning. Seeing as how I am single and I like having sex with multiple partners or different people I’m not allowing myself to be in a straight-up relationship I mostly like the friend with benefit situation. Being that I am a motor I’ve noticed that guys get kind of aggressive when I’m moaning and they like to make me scream by giving it to me higher and… Read more »
Love to be either on my stomach or back as long as he has my wrists pinned down while he pounds me. Love knowing that he’s in control and that he’s using my ass any way he wants it.
My favorite is doggie style (either on all fours or him bent over the edge of the
bed), my penis has a downward curve and I’m told it hits the right spot for my bottom partner every time to make him ejaculate without any assistance.
Favorite position on my back at the edge of the bed him standing like to see his face when he cums and I like the way it feels.
Doggie style. Lovers can hit your prostate and you’ll cum hands free. Very weird, very intense, VERY AMAZING!
With the twink’s face as far into the pillow as it can possibly get.
#12 hands down. The most intimate. I love kissing while getting it
Also like glat on my stomach. Lots of body contact.
On my left side, right leg in the air…lets my man in DEEP
I’m a bottom and lay me on my stomach or doggie! I’m new to gay hookups and I love for my p-spot to get hit!
Bottom here. 8, 10 & 15. 8 is a nice one because you still have some range of movement being on your side and it’s easier to fully relax in than say riding or missionary.
10 for the ability open up and relax but there is something also very primal about it. Also enjoy having the support versus all your weight being on your hands.
15 because it’s just very hot and gives a strong sense of being dominated.
I’m an oral bottom guy, i love being on all 4s as one guy fucks me and as i suck another guys cock and ass! Or riding the top cowboy as i suck the other guy!
I like mixing it up. Def love starting out on top riding, first facing him so he sees in my face how good it feels to have him inside me, then facing away to show him my ass working his dick. Then missionary where he can control things while we kiss and he goes balls deep and bottoms out and just holds it there, watching me squirm in ecstasy. Def love throwing in some other fun stuff, standing up against a wall like a tawdry alleyway or bathroom fuck, him lifting me up and bobbing me up and down on… Read more »
Doggystyle #1…laying on stomach ass up head down #2…spread eagle for thorough backside massage #3…69 sitting on your face getting rimmed while sucking your cum out…BiLust in Euclid Ohio…bi bottom 4 married bi top…
As a bottom I like it from behind any way I can get it. So 5, 8, 9, 10, 11 and 15 all work for me. Second is I like to ride sometimes so 13.
I really enjoy most positions when a nice man is inside me. Actually I usually like to change positions a number of times. Love to kiss and have his tongue mimic his cock.
If he is really hard, I love to have him sit on the edge of the bed then sit on his cock facing away from him and ride him hard.
Depends on the guy…one of my favs is the top sitting up on the sofa while I straddle his cock. We can make out with him deep inside of me.
As a top, I love the 15 and as a btm love 12.
I like my bottoms on all fours sucking on the next in line, or on their backs if we have more tops available. Nothing like breeding a sow with a dick in his mouth and each hand. DP with a cock in his mouth looks good on the playback too, but I like the good old fashioned hair pulling and ass slamming from behind if it’s just me and the sub
On my left side and right leg up. Gives the top deeper penetration.
In complete & absolute…supplication…
Botton boy here, love missionary love loo ok ing I his eyes see the expression on his face as he erupts his load of cum deep in me
Favorite sexual position
As a BI top I like to have my bottom on his back with his legs pulled back so I can go as deep as possible. I love to be able to see his face as my cock drives into him.
#5 #8 #10 #11 And #15
Where do you see these numbers explained? Thanks!
I was in WTF mode as well, so don’t feel alone in that department.
In the main article above the comments, in the second paragraph click on the highlighted “picture” and it’ll take you to a poster showing all of the corresponding numbered positions..
Click on italicized word ´picture´in the intro to this.