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Hey, guys! What did cuming for the first time feel like for you?
A gay man on askgaybros on Reddit is asking, which is why we’re bringing this up. He said:
“I can remember the first time I came. I was left in total disbelief. I didn’t know I had a capacity to feel all the things I felt. How my body tripped and trembled over itself, the endless spillage of what I later learned was ‘cum.’ I have chased that high ever since. And I have never been able to feel quite like I did the first time.”
For many people, gay or straight, the experience of orgasming for the first time holds particular significance, as it represents a pivotal moment of self-discovery and pleasure. As individuals navigate their sexuality and desires, the first orgasm can serve as a milestone, shaping their understanding of pleasure and intimacy.
Anyway, today, we delve into the intimate stories of gay men as they recount their first experiences of orgasm, offering insights into the complexity and beauty of sexual awakening within the LGBTQ+ community.
Here’s what one gay man had to say on the topic, “I started masturbating before I could come. Not properly masturbating, just weirdly pressing against my groin. Anyways, I had no clue what was happening. Felt extremely weird. But I got hooked right away.”
Another guy shared, “I rubbed my hard cock against my sheets and pillows at first. The feeling against my scrotum was intense and I felt more of an orgasm from my sack? Hard to explain. But I showed my friend how I did it once.”
Further, a guy revealed, “Vivid memory. I wasn’t able to actually cum…not really anyway just a little bit of clear precum like stuff. I saw a nature documentary of lions having sex and I decided to try it on a pillow…felt great and I just kept at it until my first orgasm.” He added, “It was unreal. I remember falling on my back and just lying there panting and trying to process what the fuck had just happened. Thank God for a refractory period or I would probably have just done that over and over until I died of dehydration.”
Meanwhile, another gay man shared, “I screamed so loud and then my dick got harder and harder and I finished. I kept saying to myself ‘I can’t believe I just came.’ I was 17 years old.”
Having said all that, what about you, guys? How did you feel when you ejaculated for the first time? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
We always end up chasing that unrepeatable “first high”…
I came, and it was such a surprise…my legs felt weak, and tingly, and like nothing else I had ever felt before…I thought I had done something wrong to my body…I almost called out for my Mom to help!!
…jeez, just saying that feels embarrassing. LoL
It’s been like 38 years ago. How the fuck will I remember that?
It’s cool dude! With you it’s like it is with some people, just water under the bridge. You discovered a hot thrill then went on forward to something else.
Some friends had talked about rubbing their cocks until they squirted, and how great it felt. I had to try it privately (It would be beyond embarrassing to play with my cock with them watching, even though they’d be doing it at the same time, and then to shoot would have been devastating). It felt good when I rubbed my boner, but I kept getting interrupted by the feeling that I needed to piss, but couldn’t; The urgency I was feeling was misinterpretation on my part. After a number of tries at pissing, I finally decided I’d just have to… Read more »
I FREAKED OUT AT FIRST…..THEN ENJOYED THE RIDE…
My first time cumming was when I was 19, going to college in central Wisconsin and working in warehouse on 2nd shift. I had the urge and wow! I shot 3 ft. from me in a what it seemed forever. The pool of cum was thick and creamy and about 2 ft. in diameter. What a sensation !!
As a boy I lived in a four room apartment in Brooklyn, New York. There were nine of us and only one bathroom. If someone was in there you had to wait. One day I had to wait a long time. When I got my turn I saw my first erection. I was 10 years old. I had seen the little sprigs of hair a few months before this and everything had become bigger and darker.. I couldn’t pee at first but gradually I softened up a little and I could. Afterwards as I pulled my foreskin back down I… Read more »
At 19, I had just moved out on my own, the other side of town dubbed “gay heights’ as I later realized, good move, must have been the trendy vibe of the “Uptown” neighborhood. I’m a late bloomer, I grew so fast puberty took a backseat until my limbs were done stretching out. Late Spring, in my first Apt, late afternoon after spending the whole day biking around the area lakes of Minneapolis. I took a few puffs of weed, followed with beer, of course, had ordered a pizza, waiting; I lay on my stomach. All of the sudden, I… Read more »
I think the first time I had an orgasm was 12 or 13. I didn’t know what it was. I was laying on the floor on my stomach and was bouncing my legs up and down. I had done this a few times and started to get the feeling but got scared and stopped. I did let it happen a few times but I still didn’t know what it was until I was 14. For some reason I tried putting a loofa over my dick while taking a shower and started rubbing. That wonderful feeling came back. When I was… Read more »
My first time, I was lying in bed and pulling slightly on my foreskin. I was circumcised but had just enough to play with. As I was lightly pulling, I had a new sensation like my dick was vibrating and all types of feelings. I continued enjoying my new pleasure until another exciting feeling shot out and all of that warm fluid flowing down my side.
This became my new bedtime activity along with up to three times a day as I could find the time.
I am going to switch this just a bit. I really can not remember my first time that I had a climax.I do remember very clearly the first time I help a guy have a climax. It was very exciting. A friend and I were fishing together one summer when I was about 12.We were sitting on bank of a lake fishing and talking. He was telling me about waking up in the morning with a hard on and ask me if it ever happen to me. I told him Yes and that I jack off. He had no idea… Read more »
FIRST Orgasm was Earth shattering and World shaking for me. Late bloomer and I was 15 1/2 already. And after it finally happened it took me weeks to finally realize WHAT the Frig it was!! 🙂 Only got close to that once again when I was with a new buddy and he made me explode!!!! 🙂
Thinking i was about 13or 14. Walking around with a constant hardon finally realiing that it felt good to rub it i was in the bathroom rubbing it when this intens toe curling orgasm happened! I didn’t know what it was but OMG. But then immediately frightened what this sticky fluid was and scared my peehole was going to glue shut!
The feeling of my first orgasm can never be matched again. It was the most incredible feeling ever. I had no idea what I had done I didn’t know anything about orgasms or masturbating. I was 11 when I did it the first time by accident. My neighbor and I would often look at his brothers stash of porno magazines when he wasn’t around. Often I would go to bed imagining those images of those naked women as I lay in bed. My cock would get so hard. I would lay on my stomach and move my body to rub… Read more »
I was 13. My best friend asked if I had ever jacked off. I asked what is that? He said when you are hard to grab your dick and rub it up and down till “stuff” shot out. So I went home and started. Took awhile and felt good but still no “stuff “. So I keep going thinking maybe he was kidding me. Then all of a sudden I started getting the most incredible feeling. Then it happened. It blew my mind. I did it everyday after that. Honestly it never has felt like it did that first time.… Read more »
My first orgasm was a wet dream. I had no idea what it was. I remembered a weird dream that involved a woman and we were in a bathroom, but the dream didn’t include any actual sex… Probably because I didn’t know the actual process at that time.
My first conscious orgasm was when I was taking a bath in our big deep old fashioned bathtub. It felt so good washing my dick with my hand, I kept washing as it got better… Then it happened.
Learned at about 11 that stroking my cock made it hard and felt good. Several weeks later, I experienced flashes of pleasure while stroking myself. And then one day, I exploded with cum with no idea about what was happening. But that didn’t make me stop!
I was about 13. I Walked around with a constant hardon. I was in the bathroom one day when I realized it felt better if i rubbed it! Before i knew it, this mind blowing, toe curling experience occurred. Then fear set in when i saw what looked and felt sticky like Elmers glue on me pee hole. I was petrified it would glue shut. When i realized it didnt there was no stopping me from dong that whenever i could!!!
The first time I can remember was the first I fucked a girl. Neighbor girl, she was 15 , I was 16. A year later, her older brother became my first gay lover.
Another picture in the blog of another young light skinned guy. Same with the last topic. Just sayin’. And, no, don’t say there aren’t stock photos available for free on line. Not a reasonable answer.
I was 12 years old and in the boy scouts and we were camping over night in the summer in Oregon. I was in a small pup tent with my neighborhood friend the same age. We had been sucking each others dick for a while, because it felt great and no one had shown us how to masturbate yet. He was sucking on my dick and it felt great, really great and he stopped and yelled “you peed in my mouth”. Well I had not peed, I had just had my first orgasm and I really liked it.
I was a young kid, taking a bath. Begin playing with my little cock. Started feeling this tingling feeling, had no idea what was happening. Suddenly shot a little watery cum. Seemed really strange, but I was totally intrigued. Needlessly to say, I haven’t stopped since.
My first orgams provided by another man is long-forgotten, though I remember the man.
And he surely has tried to scrub that horrid memory from his existence!
I started masturbating way before puberty. I didn’t jerk off but rubbed my dick until I had an orgasm. I didn’t cum, obviously- but I did have orgasms. I even did it under my desk in school. I remember doing it in 4th grade and feeling wetness afterwards. That’s when I started cumming and had to stop doing it in school! I’m an intact male and my best friend was fascinated by my foreskin. After swimming once, he was playing with my cock, sliding the foreskin off and on. I went off like a rocket! Scared us both. But he… Read more »
I’m sure my 1st orgasm was a wet dream. I didn’t know for sure what happen. Later I learned how to jack off and then came the ladies. My first time with a man was in my 50’s. He sucked me, licked my ass a I gave it up I came hands free while getting fucked for the first time.
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Surprisingly, this turned out to be an unpopular topic. Some guys comment on almost EVERY topic. (This is my first time commenting.) But I’ll answer the question. I haven’t a fucking clue! lol…lol. It was decades ago! But I DO remember that I had no pubic hair yet and although I most certainly had an orgasm, I did NOT ejaculate. But that didn’t stop me from pounding the pony at every chance I got. Obviously, I still orgasm and DO ejaculate! As I think back it was kinda nice to NOT ejaculate…no massive fucking mess to clean up! lol…lol.
Like most guys I was asleep.
I was about 11 and had erections forever, but while climbing a tree it got interesting. I’m holding on for dear life to the tree and my little dick felt happy and squeezed. Out of the blue came wet stuff in my pants that felt sooo good.
Eventually tried this out on a pillow and had to figure out what to do with it.
When I was real young, around four or five, I remember my mom getting so angry with me whenever I got hard taking a bath, so my young mind started associating hard-ons with misbehaving and I would punish my cock every time I got hard. Problem was, I started to enjoy it too much. I can remember escaping to the privacy of my backyard tent in the summers and working my cock over. I discovered the clear sticky stuff that would form a drop at the tip. I tasted it and discovered it to be sweet and oily, I was… Read more »
Oh do I remember my first orgasm. This weird feeling just began growing and growing inside me. It kept feeling better and better. Then all of a sudden the rush and explosion hit. It hurts, stop, no, don’t stop. Oh God it hurts so good….please stop, no keep going. You get the picture…I thought I died and went to heaven. I was only 10, so had not reached puberty. Needless to say, no mess to clean up….Much better than years later when my face, neck, chest and belly were coated with that viscous substance that’s so difficult to clean up.… Read more »
I have no idea when it happened. I guess I was in my teens?? I’m in my mid 30s now… My clearest memories is 16 or so… But I’m sure I did it before then… I think I remember the first time I came sexually was with my ex at 17.. who was my first bf ..
So long ago, was back when George was in office. Washington, not Bush.
Not sure when my first orgasm, happened but I do remember my first orgasm with a guy,,,I remember feeling his dick inside me,, this was before I knew a guy could cum while getting fucked without touching his self,, I remember feeling it getting to that point,, that same feeling I would get when I’m about to cum inside a woman,, and it got very intense,, and I remember telling him (I think I’m about to cum) and at that point he started to really put it to me,, and I started to cum and cum and cum,, it seemed… Read more »
I remember having a lot of dry gasms and then a drop before really making a mess
The first time I smoked weed was when I was about 14, 1974. I was wearing cutoff jean shorts. This is an important point because I was hanging around a neighbor kid that was my same age and everyone thought he was gay. He passed me the small wooden pipe and as I puffed my cock grew and it grew fast. My tee shirt was covering my crotch area and as it grew I could feel it coming out of the bottom of my shorts. I pulled up my tee shirt and said “Pat what the hell is going on?”… Read more »
wow what a hot story
I was probably like 13 or 14. I had done some sexual playing with other boys like dry humping, sucking each others hard little cocks but nobody ever came. Puberty had started and I had some wet dreams. No idea what they were. It felt like I had peed myself in bed but the small amount of “pee” was just in my underwear. Well one evening I was in the bathtub playing with my cock and this urge to “pee” came over me in a way i could not stop it. I figured i was in the tub so no… Read more »
I remember having countless dry cums as young as 7 yrs old. Did it almost daily. I think I was about 10 yrs old when I shot my first load. Didn’t know what it was but felt so good. I was addicted to jerking off. Did it a few times a day well into my 20’s. Now I very rarely jerk off because you never know when someone is looking for a load to swallow.
I was 14 and fishing down at the pond near my house. This old man came along and noticed i had a hard on so he asked to see it. I happily showed him. I had 7 inches at 14 and was proud of it. He began to suck me and it felt so good but then I started getting this feeling below my tummy that i never felt before. When I started coming i swear to god it felt like he was sucking my insides out through my penis. I thought I did something bad and was being punished.… Read more »