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Hey, guys! Having sex in public, do you find it hot or not? Have you ever tried it? Why or why not?
Anyway, why do people love having sex in public places?
The appeal of engaging in public sex varies from one person to another. Several factors contribute to the allure of public sexual encounters within the gay community:
1. Thrill and Excitement: Public sex often provides a heightened sense of thrill and excitement. The risk of being caught or seen by others can add an element of danger and intensity to the sexual experience.
2. Breaking Societal Norms: For some gay men, engaging in public sex represents a form of rebellion against societal norms and expectations. It allows individuals to express their sexuality openly and challenge traditional ideas about where and how sex should occur.
3. Community and Connection: Public sex in specific gay spaces, such as cruising areas or adult venues, can foster a sense of community and connection. It creates opportunities for like-minded individuals to come together, share experiences, and explore their sexuality in a group setting.
4. Voyeuristic Pleasure: Some gay men may enjoy the idea of being watched or watching others. The voyeuristic element of public sex can be sexually arousing, and consensual exhibitionism may play a role in the appeal.
5. Freedom and Liberation: Engaging in public sex can be a way for gay men to reclaim their sexuality and embrace a sense of freedom and liberation. It provides an opportunity to express desires openly without fear of judgment.
6. Fantasy Fulfillment: Public spaces can serve as the backdrop for fulfilling sexual fantasies. The novelty of engaging in intimate acts in unconventional locations can contribute to the erotic appeal for many.
7. Spontaneity and Variety: Public sex often involves spontaneity and a departure from the routine of private, bedroom-based encounters. The variety of locations and settings can add a sense of adventure and novelty to sexual experiences.
It’s crucial to emphasize that consent, communication, and respect for others’ boundaries are essential in any sexual encounter, whether public or private. Participants should be aware of legal implications and prioritize the safety and well-being of everyone involved.
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Having said all that, doing it in public, do you find it hot or not? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
….. nope
of course! nothing better then getting FIST fucked by a group of black men for the public to see & join in.
Very Hot
Very exciting.. I once gave myself up at public, but secluded construction site…being driven down into the dirt with my pants around my ankles as He mounted me..
It was so exciting we met up a few more times before the fencing came down!
… giving blowjobs in dark alleyways are fun, too.
In any case always scope out the location first, be aware of the surroundings, and if you’re adventurous…lots of fun.
Have fun!
“Know Thy Territory”!
“Know Thy Audience”!
“Omnia vincit amor: et nos cedamus amori”
“Let us all yield to love.” Virgil, what a guy!
“PDS”?
General reason –
why the “General Public”
buys
“Binoculars”!
PS:
Gives the “Cheap Tarts” an excuse to “Air-out” their cheap linens above the alley of cats and stray
dogs!
For yours, need a fucking telescope.
And –
for you –
just bend over
and
the space
between your ass cheeks
will be sufficient for you to see miles ahead!
cunnus tacere
I challenge you to respond in Haiku.
Padre:
Perhaps, if you hung up your vestments –
you’d allow your soul to be free?
cave, Deus creavit te!
Not hot. I don’t care if you’re gay, straight, bi, or other…this particular “activity” should be kept private.
No, I’m not saying this is being done in front of everybody…but John Q. Public shouldn’t just walk in on it either.
No mention of the biggest reasons why men have sex in public. Married to a woman, closeted and single, you can’t have sex where you live.
Please explain what is liberating about sucking dick under a bathroom stall while somebody 4 feet away is taking a dump?
Proximity to “Kink”?
“Fantasy vs Reality”
You are smashing a stupid ban from a ridiculous 2,000 year old theocracy. Men have been fucking each other way before these UNNATURAL cults came around
Most married and single men can’t host, but easily figure out where to have non-public sex.
You don’t need to be doing it to get caught. The fun of outdoor sex is amazing. Be it on the beach in Maui, or in the woods, I find it exciting, exhilarating, and an enhancement to the hum drum every day. I’m just saying……a jungle hike and a blow job just goes together nicely!
Or
Herring Cove
in
Provincetown!
Out in the wilds of nature is an entirely different thing. I long to go camping and have lots of sex.
Ain’t no one touching you without a $1000 cash minimum…
I’ve had sex in the wilds of nature. Discreet settings with no risk of being viewed. Sex in the sun is “hot”!
FANTASY………………….HAVING SEX IN A PUBLIC PLACE!
REALITY…………………..GETTING ARRESTED AND HAVING A CRIMINAL RECORD!
PUBLICITY ………..>cause célèbre
You’ll get your name age address in the news and it will be online forever. I’ve seen it happen to multiple men I know.
Since there is zero intimacy in such a thing, it would not be sexy at all. We’re not wild animals. Hugging and kissing is fine, maybe discreet groping, but no more than that. We do have dignity as well as moral standards to uphold as gay men. We need to be conscious of setting a good example for others.
We are in fact wild animals, and I like it that way. We are monkeys in suits.
I’m a WILD ANIMAL! I’ve had SEX WITH 7 OR 8 THOUSAND MEN. I’m 67 and was just in Siem Reap Cambodia. Met this beautiful 20 something Khmer man who went after me and I fucked him silly. He was tight and muscular with the most flawless skin. He wants to see again, but who knows when I’ll get back to Cambodia. It was really lovely though, the people, the food and the culture. I do want to return.
7 or 8K times… IF you started at 17 years old…that would be 382.35 times in your 67 year history…. that hardly allows time to recover…there is a old saying “a frogs ass is watertight”… somehow it seems your history negates that one!
Doing the math, based on the numbers you’ve repeatedly and generously provided … 8000 men and you’re 67. Since you were a teenager you’ve been having sex with 3 separate men weekly with no repeats. So, a new guy every 2 days and 8 hours. And dang few of them wanted a second meeting, it seems. There’s an issue there you may wish to seek professional help for. Saying you’ve had sex at least 3 times a week (repeated men) since you were a teen? Yes, then your numbers would make sense. You’d be closer normal and what many guys… Read more »
In my 40’s at the Steam Works in Berkeley (a quick 15 min. drive from my Marin waterfront home) I would often have a line of 3-4 guys just waiting at the door of my room to get some of my dick. I would plow as many as 10 guys per night. Guys who golf play 18 holes. I don’t think 10 was excessive. Oh, I met Mr. “Phd from the Imperial Collage of London” at the Watergarden bath house in San Jose.
Being married and being a DL bottom,,sex with anutha man outside or in a public place is not a good combination ,, it won’t be good if the wrong people or person walk up (cops) and anutha ,man has me bent over with 10″of hard dick up my ass,, although that 10″ of hard dick sounds and would feel really good,,,it’s nuthin I want my wife or anyone knowing about me,, you can be sure that the officers going to tell everyone after the book you,,so if you are a Closet/DL/married guy public sex may not be for us,,, but… Read more »
I’ve done some things in public bathrooms and a back hotel staircase; nothing more than kiss & suck. But as one guy mentioned on here, it was because there was no other place to go and hardly a ‘fantasy’ of mine. Ironically, I remember all of them – probably the most memorable was the day I lost my virginity. I was 18 and an older guy picked me up in a stall in a mens’ room on my college campus. But we headed right out of there and off to his apartment and into his comfy bed.
The wildest place I ever had sex was at a cemetery! It wasn’t my idea.. at the time had no where to host was a teen and dude I picked up took my to the spot! I was nervous as hell, but it was thrilling, especially at night…
The first night I had sex with a man was in a cemetery. My first fuck of thousands.
We know, the only way you can get a stiff guy.
Gee Mary, what a clever queen you are!
I hear. You gotta do what you gotta do. But a cemetery… I dunno about that.
I hope it went well.
New meaning to “wake the dead” if you were to take a “Screamer” there. But, hey, some of them might enjoy it. Some not.
It’s that public space sex thing …
A “Pseudo” Necrophilia scene!
My cousin use to take me to the cemetery. 2 catholic Boys getting their frustration off. I didn’t mind as long as I felt that head stretch my hole
You and your cousin? That’s something I wouldn’t want to share openly…
I’ve had sex with many women in the cemetery,,, and I never thought twice about getting caught in fact I didn’t care,, I’ve been bone naked fuckin women on the car in a cemetery,,, but I don’t think I will ever take a chance on being with a nutha man in the cemetery,,,, now maybe if I was out and openly gay then it would not matter cause my family would already know about my sexuality,,, but I’m a married man to a woman so I can’t say that I will take that chance,,,,beside I much rather be inside preferably… Read more »
I love having guys watch me suck off others!!! It is so exciting knowing they are there and some even jack off to it!!!
if we’re talkin ’bout ‘TEAROOMS’, then i admit i’ve done it in there, they can be exciting yet very risky, too .. i would be extremely careful when doing this
I fucked 2 security guards in the employee restroom at a Department store. One after the other while the other one watched the door. I fucked a hot latino janitor at the Denver airport at the top of a stairwell. I had sex with a Bus driver at the end of his route, I think he fucked me (which is rare, It’s had to remember every detail, as I’ve fucked with thousands of guys). I fucked Dawson in front of 150 guys after a Folsom Fair after party. He was just doggy style on a couch with 150 guys partying… Read more »
No one is interested in your list of 7 or 8000 alleged sexual partners
Yeah, sorry, but the 7 or 8 thousand well pleased sexual partners were…. VERY INTERESTED ! That’s fine by me if you are not interested. But you only can speak for yourself.
Those wal mart security guys like to have their dicks sucked in the bathroom
No risk of them losing their job, of course.
I’ve done it at Roster Rock and Lands End too.
I misspelled Rooster Rock, But yeah, great place to hang out and have sex. I think of it as… sacred. A gay sex cathedral. The views are stunning and I’m not just talking about guys laying spread face down.
OMG that’s like SOOOO fucking HOT! risky and dangerous, but damn so hot! please do share MORE with us!
very hot but doing it with in reason my partner an I were in a very gay venue in Key West we had a few drinks and were very horny I asked him if he had plans for that swelling in his pants He lead me into a rest room stall where I knew my place was on my knees even being a tad drunk he was quick to cum to bad he didnt close the stall door we had a few repeat fun times in NYC behind a dumpster exciting
Wife and I Once went to sex demostration for sex toys. They asked everyone in the crowd was turned them on. Most of the women about 10 or so answered public sex! I was shocked as I had no idea, me I’m a creampie guy in men or women!
Fun fantasy, not gonna do it tho
With the unlimited increase in video surveillance, l seriously question if you can even find privacy in a public setting. As a result of increased public surveillance, you have no realistic expectation for privacy anymore.
Trail cams, cops monitoring hookup apps, drones and helicopters with infrared welcome to 2024
My very first time hooking up with a guy from A4A was in the woods in upstate NY. I drove about an hour to get there and the guy gave me money for gas I was so broke. It was a public park but not crowded. We followed a trail and did it behind a big rock. Very exciting. That was a long time ago I was very young and a bit dumb. I would never make that exact trip today. I would still hook up in the woods but not drive too far. A good memory. I was fortunate… Read more »
“”consent, communication, and respect for others’ boundaries are essential in any sexual encounter,” There’s a major level of hypocrisy there. Gays demand to be respected but too many of them will then totally disrespect society in general. The public doesn’t consent to Gay sex. The public has communicated displeasure with it through laws pertaining to Lewd and Lascivious (generally meaning touching genitals offensively) Behavior. The public is fed up with having to respect Gays who do not respect back. The excitement, the thrill, the heightened sexual pleasure is all well and good until: your picture shows up on the news,… Read more »
LOL! Straight people screw in public too. I watched my neighbor screw a girl in his deck hammock next door to my house. I gave him a thumbs up and he flashed me a smile back. So are these straight people fucking in public, disrespecting gays? You make no sense at all. “Homeless because your room mates tell you to move out” that’s a funny one, because I have ….FUCK YOU money. Makes a great life, even more fun. Oh and I have no :”room mates” I have a husband of 30 years, with a Phd from the Imperial Collage… Read more »
“…watched my neighbor screw a girl in his deck hammock…”
His deck. His property. You had to exert yourself some to view it. You enjoyed it.
That’s quite different than a space shared by the general public who would encounter people (Straight or Gay) by chance and would not enjoy seeing it.
After the neighbor event, did you check often to see if you could get another lucky look? Did you offer your services to him if he ever couldn’t get a girl?
I don’t “enjoy” cult members of the Seventh Day Adventists, pushing their intellectual disabilities and copies of their cult screed Awake on public streets either. No need for a look, thousands of the most beautiful men on the planet offered me their ass for my pleasure. I forgot walking around a bend on a trail at the Windmills at the end of Golden Gate park. A hot and shy white boy in a hoody, had just dropped his sweat pants and bent over so I could fuck him if I fancied him. I did and blew a great load in… Read more »
Tracts and sex acts are not anywhere near comparable.
Offended by the smell from sidewalk food vendors selling food you don’t like? Any thoughts about those annoying boys and girls selling popcorn and cookies? Sidewalk musicians who don’t play so well?
Out of doors like camping, in a vehicle, your backyard in a tent, by a body of water, full moon; it’s warm outside, nobody around, then yes. I’m not at all, an exhibitionist though.
Sex in public is great! You can get all seven benefits listed above by having it in Gay friendly cities, at Gay friendly businesses or properties, in the company of Gays.
All the benefits. None of the issues.
I have had public sex at our local YMCA, sauna and a cruising walking trail. I find it exciting and sexual.
Good for you.
The local YMCA invited in the local Police after several complaints about sauna actives.
The City added Officers (male and female in civies) to its trail system in response to an increase in harassment of women.
In both cases, Gay cruising ended up with citations.
Wanna guess how that worked out for some “exciting and sexual” guys?
Find guys online; get a room.
Yes, it’s very hot! I’ve been there done that many times and never regretted it. We do make sure I know a great spot in advance and always come prepared with a blanket and lubes. The thrill of the risk of being caught so intensifies the act of filling a hookup’s ass full of sweet cum is so worth it. Done it on the hood of my car, at night on picnic tables, hotel balconies, down a country road, back yards, and poolside.
Well done.
Love to hear it. I know that I’m not the only sex warrior around, after all there was one other man involved in all of my 7 to 8 thousands great fucks, That’s 7 to 8 thousand fellow man sex enthusiasts..
So what about the death or David Mixner (activist)? Or the proposal of a global football player (1st to be Gay) on his team’s pitch?
Got bagged by the cops in the front seat of my car while getting a fantastic BJ.. Five minutes earlier, it would have been me he caught with a mouthful of dick. Scared the living shit outta me. Saving grace was that the cop was probably as gay as we were and got off watching us. We packed it up and went a few miles away to finish up.
I was looking forward to reading the comments on public sex. The response appears to be very negative. I’m 62 year old male and must admit that my upbringing and introduction to gay sex was totally different than it is today. My very first time with another guy was not expected but occurred in a public place. In fact it was quite normal for a guy to go to places that were known to be cruising area and have multiple encounters with other men seeking the same thing. There were places that appeared to be a regular or normal place… Read more »
With so many many public places now having cameras, such activity is unwise.
I’m another 67 year old who’s had lots of sex with lots of strangers (although I doubt 7-8000!) and many many times in public or semi public places…Its been mostly fun and exhilarating-but its also had its downsides. I’ve had my pocket picked, I’ve been arrested more than once including one situation where the officer beat the shit out of me and then paraded me humiliated and bleeding profusely through the entire cruising area, all the while announcing to all passersby that they faced a similar fate if he caught them. But I’ve also met life long friends and had… Read more »
Jaeb………..Would LOVE to hear more of your adventures.
I have had public sex a few times and it was very hot. One was a very handsome guy who I got a bj from in his truck in an industrial area where no one was near by. One was a cute guy a few years ago who blew me in his Road Ranger truck (the ones who help you on the interstates) in a public parking area. That was maybe a few mins as I was too nervous. The best was a hotter than hell guy I met a few times, several times in public in a park area… Read more »