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Recently, we asked you how you make blow jobs incredibly exciting and pleasurable. But what about masturbation, guys?
Masturbation is often a solo act, but that doesn’t mean it has to be boring or you know, feel routinary. In fact, there are plenty of ways to make it a more enjoyable and exciting experience. Whether you’re looking for some tips to spice things up or want to share your own, we’re curious: How do you make masturbation more fun? Here are some popular suggestions from the r/askgaybros community that might inspire you to enhance your self-pleasure game.
One common suggestion on the thread is edging. This technique involves bringing yourself close to climax, only to stop before orgasm and repeat the process several times. “If you edge, it makes you cum way harder,” said one user, and many others echoed this sentiment. Edging can increase the intensity of the orgasm by building up more anticipation and sensitivity, making the final release even more satisfying.
Another tip that many gay men swear by is investing in sex toys. Whether it’s a vibrator, stroker, or prostate massager, toys can add a new layer of sensation and excitement to your solo sessions. Some users recommend experimenting with different types to find the one that works best for you.
If you’re feeling a bit adventurous, consider finding a masturbation buddy. “Find someone to do it with,” another user suggested. Masturbating alongside someone else, either in person or virtually, can add a social element and even some friendly competition to the mix. It’s a way to explore your own pleasure while sharing the experience with someone else who enjoys it just as much.
Of course, many people enjoy incorporating porn into their sessions to help stimulate arousal. Watching something that turns you on can add to the experience, making it easier to focus and get in the mood. “Watch porn,” said one user, and many others agreed that the right visual stimulation can take things to the next level. Anyway, if you love watching porn, you can watch 30 minutes of free HD porn on Adam4AdamTV so hurry and check the site here.
Lastly, don’t forget about other sensitive areas of your body. Some gay men recommend nipple play as it is a simple but effective way to intensify your solo session.
What about you? Do you have any tips to make masturbation more fun? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below and help fellow Adam4Adam readers take their solo sessions to new heights!
I personally just find jerking off or jerking off while fingering myself [if I’m in a bottom mood,] satisfying enough for me. And that’s only if I’m too tired and worn out to fuck or get fucked by someone. Otherwise I prefer skin-on-skin action for no amount of masturbation techniques will ever come close to the feeling of the hardness of one’s cock against your prostate gland or that warm fleshy tight hole of a guy’s ass hugging lewdly around your cock. And blowjobs are like the cherry on top and a must have.
I like to think about a room full of about 8 hairy bear daddies gang raping a little latino twink.
re-evaluate your life
Lol that’s fantastic
YOU NEED TO SEE THERAPY DUDE………
AND REGISTER LOCALLY……..
AND “LATINS” I AM SURE OFFENDED…….
You need to turn off your caps lock and stop policing other people’s fantasies and thoughts.
I agree
Thats a great thought. I’ll think of that next time I jerk off.
I am a big fan of the Fleshlight and own 7 different models, all with differing tightnesses and interior textures. I enjoy my solo time by warming and lube it up and putting on some hot bi, gay or straight porn and edging with the toy while enjoying poppers. That always makes for an intense orgasms when I finally release! If you ever decide to try one, be careful! It feels so real you might be tempted to buy it dinner and a movie before using it! LOL
I j/o every night before bed, but edge myself and don’t fully cum. Then on weekends – boom!
That’s hot! I’ve done that too.
Spend less time on the internet & reading advice columns
sound advice as we are prisoners of the media and its tangled webs
Exactly. Don’t complicate it. Just do it.
After a few decades, no need to contemplate the reality that you’ve done it 1000s of times.
Make it better? OK … treat a bud. Get him gently on his back. Take hold of him and work him up gently to hard. Jerk him off with him feeling only your hand (lube as needed). Kiss him. Tell him it’s his day to be King. Leave.
Cum on a Friend! Not Your Device! (A public service announcement)
On a personal basis, there is no satisfaction derived from engaging in the act. A full prostatectomy due to severe prostate cancer, ended that with one stoke of the scalpel. The nerves that feed the area had to be severed. End result, no erection for the past twenty years. No matter what I do or what anybody else tries, nothing happens. I’m not looking for sympathy. It’s just suddenly became a fact of my life.
KHAD T3: sorry to read of your prostate cancer. my beloved, gay uncle, Paul, died January 2000 of metastasized prostate cancer he was 77 glad you are still with us!
Thank you, scratch. You’re very kind. My condolences at the loss of your uncle.
I admire your honesty and your pragmatism. I used to visit my uncle and his partner, Francis, for the summers in Pittsburgh, PA. I would sit upon his lap and he would read me the Bible. He had been a Franciscan Monk. I wish you well and I admire you.
WOW!! It might be great if we could somehow meet. Who can tell what might happen? You be well too and stay safe.
Hugs & Kisses!
Came to the realization several years ago that masturbation was a normal bodily function. Like sneezing, blowing my nose coughing, or shitting. A release of everyday bodily fluids. Often with some kind if “DAMN that was good!” pleasure as a bonus, but sometimes “get ‘er done” meh. Once a day. Sometimes twice. Sometimes once a week. Sometimes twice. Maybe once a month If my FWBs have at me a lot. All’s good! For sure hand and cock. Mabe some lube. After that it wasn’t God Given Masturbation. It is an “up scale” event, which is fine. But not masturbation that… Read more »
For me its always satisfying. I grab me some flavored lube, go to pornhub and find a hot interracial movies, stroke my fat, long dick until I cum. Then I lay there a while, clean up and then usually take a nice long nap.
Yes that works for me too, but I prefer xhamster
Here’s a different perspective… leaves me feeling empty, lonely, and sometimes embarrassed to be human. Weeks of no touch with/from another person are unhealthy (for me), physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Jed, In addition to my entry (above) my partner of 33 years died 13 years ago as the direct result of being t-boned. I know what you mean about nobody touching you for L O N G periods of time. NOT good. I wish for you, some caring man to fill the void and bring happiness to your life. … Arms of understanding embracing you from a distance. KHADT3
Very kind, thanks! And while nothing replaces a long-time partner, I wish the same for you. It isn’t “woo-woo” to say that sex is only marginally about a good orgasm, but mostly about the energies that literally swirl between bodies – relaxing muscles, releasing stuck negative energies, massaging old traumas.
Can totally relate to that. I feel that way sometimes too, especially as I have gotten older. It feels natural as a youngster, but as I’ve gotten older, I sometimes feel embarrassed that I don’t physically connect with anyone anymore. It used to be so easy for me to find some human contact. Now, not so much. I crave it sometimes, especially when I’m home on the couch or laying in bed.
you realize that you came into this world singularly and you will leave this world singularly. the interim is what you make it.
Very true, but along the way you sometimes have some very shallow, unsatisfying experiences with some other people because you live in an area where it’s super difficult to find a strong connection, that mystical ‘soul mate’.
Before I came out as gay, was married to a woman for 28years, I used to masturbate, 3-4 times a day everyday. Since coming out I rarely do it ,as I would think about having sex with men when i jerked off, now I’m having sex with men (alot) I find I don’t neen to,
Lucky you George, my pool has run dry with men. I attract the flakes these days,.
That’s a problem. I used to fantasize about guys I knew or had seen, but then I noticed they would look at me funny the next time I saw them. So I stopped. Sadly, porn seems to be the only way to connect it with a real experience. It’s not good. One shouldn’t have to go solo all the time.
Agreed. I don’t fantasize over guys I know who are Straight. Sure, I’ll check out the guy or dad at the grocery or hardware store, but I won’t stroke off over them. It’s a respect thing. And there are plenty of Gay men to stroke off over. But if I know a guy I’ve met is Straight (or presents as such), he’s hand’s off (Literally).
LUBRICANT .. without it it just wouldn’t be satisfying, honey.. plus my cock skin is sensitive it irritates when dry so it really needs something moist and slippery to get real hard,
Also trying other lubes lately to see which best fits me .. so far the water base lubricant works ok, but silicone cums on too messy and dirty, hope to try on coconut oils and see if that works well .. also hoping to find the cheapest type of lubricant available, most can be quite pricey
try olive oil and it”s good for Your skin.
Crisco has one distinct advantage, it all come back but a tablespoon
And don’t forget it is also digestible!!! LOL
biodegradable!
thanks for that advice
I’m a bed-humper.
I’m already in the mood, right, so I’m a ganja and Ginseng tea lover; all natural.
I LOVE the steaming options these days in porn. I love the fetish stuff for foreplay, then the raw fucking vids.
Unfortunately, or fortunately; just depends on how you look at it I guess, but I do it alone more than I’d like, however, at my age without any other stimulants, I glad I can at least “enjoy myself” lmao!
This is a constantly changing dynamic. For a while it was trans porn, then gay porn, then different types of each, etc. Lately it has been erotic stories that seem to put me more into the fantasy. Masturbation is more of a stop gap, last resort type of thing to me. I will always take help over doing it myself. I kept coming back to this thread to see if anyone had a new thing to try. I’ll agree about the fleshlight comment, they are really good, but the clean up is always required afterwards and you start to think,… Read more »
WOW… same thing here…… trans at first….. first timers next…. followed by glory holes…… now i have been getting off to erotic stories also….
I like to be risky. Like wearing a man thong and jerking in my car.
hopefully no minor walks by and sees
My fantasies run while and switches up from time to time when I am masturbating. My shaft curves left when I get hard, and I have a fat head, so I masturbate mostly stroking opposite the curve while massaging and edging my fat head, and it’s very self satisfying. Strangely, majority of my fantasies lean towards interracial straight men and women having missionary sex. It really gets me excited for some reason. Also, fantasizing about having sex with a bear that I occasionally hooked up with gets he really hard. He wasn’t physically my type, but I liked the way… Read more »
“More satisfying, fresh and fun”? That’s quite simple….I’m right handed; use left hand with thumb facing body instead of cock head. Nuff said!…LOL
My nightly routine is checking out some gay porn blogs for the latest scenes, then hopping on Chatterbate to check out a few of the hotties, then log on to Corbin Fisher and beat off to some of my favorites right before bed – those CF guys are just my type. Ofcourse there’s A4A and seeing if someone wants to hang out and jerk me off in person.