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Sexual preferences are as varied and unique as the individuals who make up our Adam4Adam community. We want to hear from you Adam4Adam blog readers: What is your favorite type of sex? Whether it’s the slow, sensual lovemaking that builds a deep connection, the raw passion of a spontaneous encounter, or something more adventurous, we’re eager to learn about what gets you going.
Do you thrive on the emotional intimacy of sex with a committed partner, where every moment is filled with love and understanding? Or do you find the excitement and variety of casual encounters to be more fulfilling? Perhaps role-playing, BDSM, or exploring other fantasies is what makes your experiences the most satisfying.
Meanwhile, we took a look at what’s the favorite type of sex and position of gay men online and here’s what some of them had to say and we quote:
- Anal. I usually like oral as a pregame to anal.
- The kind where the guy doesn’t immediately vanish after he cums.
- Yeah anal. Oral and frotting are great as foreplay but it doesn’t really feel like sex to me unless there’s fucking.
- Flip fucking is just perfect to me. Proceeded with lots of making out oral and rimming. I’m happy to be fucked after I’ve cum which I’m happy about. I know a lot of guys lose complete interest continuing with fucking after they cum.
- The kind where the guy is someone I genuinely care for and he cares for me, too.
- Just mutual bates for me. Team side, but oral doesn’t do it for me.
What about you, guys? What’s your favorite type of sex and position? How do different types of sex cater to your desires? What elements are essential for you to have a truly enjoyable sexual experience? Share with us your stories and preferences in the comments section below!
I prefer to be on my knees sucking a hard BBC.
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Hmmm…”BBC” is a racist and predatory term. For all you white men out there, you should not assume it’s an acceptable term for all black men. Some black men use it; many do not.
BWC any better?
No. Neither acronyn (in my mind) is acceptable. “BWC” came about only because of the over-usage of “BBC.” White men became annoyed when they weren’t respected for the big cocks. (BLC followed BWC.) All are stupid. All are racist and predatory. But, if people use them, that’s OK by me. Be not surprised when someone (like me) says “no” to that approach.
RWB is my favorite
No, “BWC” became a thing because they don’t care what color the dick is, as long as it’s big. Explain to us how either BBC or BWC is racist.
Why should we, explain anything to utter ignorance, because you have no sense of history.
I’ve never even seen “BWC” in any profile, so that doesn’t even make sense.
Calling me ignorant without answering my question isn’t doing your side any favors. It just makes you look like an irrational militant. And if you haven’t ever seen “BWC” in a profile, you’re not paying attention.
What “doesn’t make sense” about the phrase “big white cock”? Are you actually suggesting that it’s something people on this and similar apps are NOT looking for?
There was no need, to answer your question—hell, it’s pretty clear, the ignorance of that question.
Truly, I’ve not noticed BWC in anyone’s profile; “white men only” or something to that order yeah, I have seen that.
Apologies, John, but I’m not understanding your first statement. If someone cared only about the size of the dick, then “BBC” and “BWC” would be unnecessary and never used. However, Lee’s original statement said “…a hard BBC.” He did not say “…a hard dick” (or “cock,” depending on your preference). If you don’t see or don’t want to see the racial implications of how BBC and BWC are used, then I’m clearly wasting your time and mine. We live in America. Feel free to continue to use those terms. Just don’t take it personally when some of your targeted “BBCs”… Read more »
I don’t use them. I’m not into black guys, and I don’t pursue “dick” at all. But I do just fine on this app, thanks for your concern.
Whatever, the damn thing ain’t gonna suck itself!
Indeed. It seems so queer that a such a seemingly tightly unified community such as ours would even be having such a conversation when there are so many dicks that need sucking regardless of color.
cockaholics?
” tightly unified”
Best joke I’ve heard all day! Weeks maybe!!!!
I find sarcasm to be entertaining at times. 🙂
Jason, I understand your point but we shouldn’t paint brush it saying it’s all racial. I think it depends on the individual you’re with. I have a couple really nice non- black sex partners and we use the language sometimes as a turn-on sexually. No offense at all, just good hot interracial sex and I enjoy it. BTW, I like it doggystyle too. Love that loud slapping sound when I’m hitting it hard and deep from behind and the wet, squishing sound you hear deep inside!!!
I, me have challenges with sex based on race. In my mind, it promotes the age-old stereotypes and the notion of the “big black guy.” Anytime someone approaches me based on my race, it’s a turn-off. Not because I have a great smile, great body, great dick, super smart, great daddy. Insert “black” in front of a few of those words, and it’s racial. It’s clearly a “me” thing but I find most gay or bi white men predatory. I stay away from them. If others are OK with that behavior, knock yourself! My point is that white men should… Read more »
Respectfully, I understand what you’re saying. My point is that it’s not always about race. We have every right to be paranoid based on history. I’m bi, so if I call my black girl bitch during sex, is that racial? If a white guy say he like TWP (tight white pussy) is that racial? Terms may be offensive, mean spirited but racial? Its your personal choice to stay away from such. Totally agree with that. I would say people, should not assume that all people are ok with terms/usage, such as BBC, Bitch, TWP.
I don’t know of any similar expressions for the cocks on us Jews, but we have the best circumcisions. So if an acronym BJC were created, I wouldn’t be offended at all! (hey, I’m trying to keep it light here)
May of those of us who have had a bris, understand this. For we are, in this way, mishpocha.
That’s a riot, Vannyc, and so true.
There is no such thing as a good circumcision.
Bronze Age Barbarianism.
That’s OK as long as I can use BUC (BUD?) or BIC.
Agreed, I’m not schooling these dudes, who the hell, wants to be referred to as a cock-period, anyway?
I don’t give it any energy; I just ignore them. Had they said, “black men or man” that’d be different as it refers to a man, not just a “cock.”
I don’t objectify in my profiles; I refer to the man or men in general, and what I’m looking for or want sexually.
Is it racist if that is what he likes? It is a descriptor, not necessarily positive or negative. Same goes for BWC or BAC or any variant, to include small..pick a color, uncut or cut, etc. We can take offense to everything and simply be mad about everything or we can work on being honest and respectful to one another.
If you’re comfortable with race-based descriptors, good for you. I’m not. When someone responds to me based on my race, yes, it’s racist. “I only fuck with black guys.” “I like black guys who treat me like a white bitch.” “I’ve always wanted to have sex with a black daddy.” I like 20-something men. I don’t care if they’re [insert any race/ethnicity]. My attraction is not based on the color of their skin, race, ethnicity, religion, etc. or the size of their dick. (I have zero interest in a dick.) My attraction is based on their butt. 😉 And how… Read more »
Then keep your weak-minded ass at home. No one wants a whiny bitch of any color
Well see, that’s just it, there’s really thin line, ‘we’ are avoiding the predators who don’t realize their sick racists, I’ve met a few enough to know, personally.
I can see, how that confuses some white people, but if it does, then that’s probably not you, then.
There’s an American history of sexual subjugation of the taboo “big black buck” a well-known secret of.
Hey Urkel, have you always been the kind of weak sissy that can’t walk through the Hood without giving up lunch money?
Get the chip off your shoulder.
How is BBC “racist?” I’ve seen BWC on profiles, too. Is that racist as well?
How is BBC racist? It is just describing what the thing is! Come on now dude…
Read the above. Personally, I don’t care for ‘that’ kind of objectification either.
So, the measure of whether something is racist or not is whether you personally approve of it. Gotcha.
Yep, now you’re learning.
You do not get to pick and chose what can be said or what terminology can or cannot be utilized. Or appear to speak for others. That is for the moderator(s) of this site, not you or anyone else for that matter.
how about ‘Stupid Little Prick’? Feel better now Karen?
not really racist, it is what he PREFERS, honey .. it is his PREFERENCE .. there IS a difference between the two
Spoon position!!! Back guy hitting it deep and hard from behind while massaging the front guy’s nipples and playing with his fat, hard dick until they both nutt.
Looking down at him while he’s worshipping my dick while I fire up a fat cigar and we share some poppers.
“assume the position” is my favorite phrase….just keep the juices flowin!
i like slow passionate play. lots of body contact, touch, kissing, sucking, jo, etc until both cum. lots of rolling around on the bed
Mine is to be on my back with my head hanging over the edge and the guy standing fucking my throat with his balls slapping my face!!!
I am an oral bottom who loves to be in the middle of a hot 3-way, or group, or more. Like being spit-roasted. Would like to be used in a gangbang. Hot spontaneous sex!
My favorite is missionary with the top balls deep inside of me with his raw cock, and kissing me while slowly fucking me. Of course there’s a lot more I like, but that is my favorite!
No favorite. Kissing, nipple play, pits chest stomach and pubes rubbed, oral, back rubs, rimming, anal (rare but fine with the right partner). All reciprocal, of course. Group play is good with the right guys.
Not a fan of having my nose or ears kissed or licked, but I’ll go with it if the partner likes it.
Do not … repeat … do NOT … lick kiss or fondle my toes or feet. No. Incidental contact is fine.
Love licking feet and sucking toes — have you tried it? It’s a lot of fun and an instant boner-maker as long as they’re clean.
Tried it of course. No. Period. No. If guys enjoy it, great for them.
I’m one of those people, who need to be orally active while fucking, so yeah, I love “clean feet” clean when I’m fucking.
ONCE A GUY GOT MY ENTIRE FOOT IN HIS MOUTH! It was an amazing feeling and almost as good, as a nice rim chair rimming… Once I got my entire hand and dick in a hot guys ass and beat off inside him…
Type of sex? Bi/DL/married/GF 20/early 30-something bottom boys who like dick and can’t get enough of it behind closed doors. I love their enthusiam and willingness to try something different, and they see it for what it is: sex. Nothing more, nothing less. Not a relationship; just an old fashioned, “let’s fuck,” have a great time while we’re doing it, and we’ll do it, again, when it works out. Position? The bottom on his knees at the corner of the bed (where it makes a right angle) with the ass over the edge showing all its glory. Not always successful… Read more »
Bi /DL /married to a (woman), I am a 100% bottom I enjoy sucking straight acting dominant men dicks and letting them fuck me,, my favorite position is to be ass up face down with a hard dominant top behind me holding me in place while give me that dick ball deep,, while smacking me with medium smacks on my ass and talk dirty to me,, I enjoy being a good submissive bottom behind closed doors,, even after I cum I like for him to continue fucking me until he satisfied
Same here and 100% agree
As a top I love a bottom guy who really knows how to ride my cock. Not getting on and bouncing around but doing that grinding against me getting me deeper and deeper into him. Especially love it when he leans back a little while grinding into me. He starts out slower almost massaging my dick with his hole, then getting faster as we get more into it. Of course I want to blow my load deep in him but I want him to blow his load across my chest while I’m still in him. Feeling his ass tighten around… Read more »
im the bottom guy you are talking about in this.. i love being on top with a slow grind start.. a kind of love making without the love,,, we pick up the pace as we edge ourselves closer to climax…you shoving your cock deeper and deeper into my hole.. then we climax together…
I love a top who thinks like you
My top buddy straddling me,thrusting deep and stroking my cock while he pumps me and watching his face when he cums usually makes me cum
I must have a mutual attraction with the guy. And he needs to be masculine! Love tons of sensual foreplay, mutual licking & sucking, then anal penetration if he desires that! Some cuddling after is always appreciated 😉
I usually let my lover know before we get in bed,what I REALLY enjoy. Kissing and exploring each others body. When he starts on my nipples it wont take long before were both in bed discovering all the special spots that turn us both on. I like passionate sex, with a lot of enthusiasm. If it goes there, when I’m in the missionary position and He is GRINDING away and coming at me hard. I get in the RHYTHM and start bucking back at Him and tighten up my ass to give Him an exciting FUCK. There has been times… Read more »
Love a hot make-out session to get things going – with our tongues twirling around each others tongues. And then giving a wet, slobbery blow job and rimming a clean ass. I love getting eaten out too. My favorite fucking position is doggy – pumping into the guy – slapping his ass with my hands – and slapping his ass with my balls.
ummm…. I like homosexual sex and I prefer the bottom position..
I’m more of a seduce my partner kind of lover. Lots of foreplay, kissing, rolling around nude, a little sucking and nipple play too. I like to shower with a hookup with lots of soap and dry each other off. Of course, rimming but, the ultimate is for me to be standing and his legs over my shoulders while I insert. Slow passionate strokes as we chat and kiss sometimes sucking his nipples if I can reach them. I love all senses in play as I build to my climax. And I enjoy the afterglow of laying beside my man… Read more »
Where have You been. I really like Your style.
Let’s get together and find out…
WHERE ARE YOU??
I’m in northern Cal.
Me too, contact me at [email protected] or here on Adam4Adam at Changing_Ends seriously let’s meet.
I’m extremely new to taking dick but from the few things I had done my favorite was being feminized, fucked bareback and came inside me
Welcome to the lifestyle,,it’s more and more of us guys out here getting fucked these days,, I think most of us been curious but had no way of hooking up with guys until the internet,, and I to like to be feminine behind closed doors,, it’s. big turn on for me to be in panties and moan like a bitch when a man is pumping me fulla dick and talking to me like I’m his bitch,,
On my back…legs spread for my Top Man. Looking up at Him as He bareback enters me….stretching me open as He goes deeper and deeper into me…then building up the Fucking until He is Balls Slapping my ass Creamy, and fucking me until He is all finished with me… Breeding me dripping, and we both feel satisfied as He pulls out of me….looks down at me, and His work…and, leaves me with my little balls throbbing and still full of cum.
Love this. my legs on his chest…his hands pulling my hips back on him as he pumps…leaning forward bending me up just a bit off the bed…holding me tight to him until his cock shrinks in me….or not.
As a well-hung top, I enjoy many different positions. My favorite is to have him on his back on my padded sling board with legs in the stirrups as I slowly drive my cock deep inside him. Others high on my list are standing with him bent over, doggy style, missionary on his back with legs on my shoulders and laying on our sides as I hold him in my arms and take him from behind. For my throat fuck lovers, it’s in 69 position with me atop him so the natural curve of my cock slides easily down his… Read more »
Virtually everything in any position as long as it’s SAFE, not disgusting and with desirable bed fellows.
As long as I’m gettin’ it in him at the end of foreplay, I’m good, so he is too. But I have to say, that I LOVE a man on his back, looking in each other’s eyes; you can get a big wet kiss in, suck some nice big clean feet. Orally, 69ing is just wonderful.
I’m a bottom and I just like making love. Always start making out leading to oral, me alone or mutual. The position when we start fucking doesn’t matter, leading to eventually using all or many positions. Making love doesn’t always have to be one planned position, the best position for that moment, moments, isn’t planned but spontaneous. Afterwords, I love to give nice morning head to completion to help start our day…
Rough topping. Bottom on the back being plowed like a snow covered highway. Manhandling.
I like a slightly ruff top,, the kind that’ll fuck and handle you making you weak and submissive to him,, hold you there making you take his dick
With you on all that and more. Nothing insane or requiring medical attention, but being overpowered physically, emotionally, sexually and verbally. Pinned down, “forced” to submit. Resisting that can be great fun, too. But eventually, you get manuvered into his favourite topping position…
I’ve talked and chatting with many bottoms,, some say they are hard bottoms, no moaning not submissive just a hard bottom,, now I am a masculine,dominant married man, but it really hard for me to be masculine and dominate when I’m willingly letting anutha man run his dick up my ass,, and yes I enjoy role play,, being his prison bitch or pretending to not want to get fucked but end up spreading my own cheeks for his dick,,just having fun being a good bottom for a man
Ultimate favorite? I am in a sling (bound… no limbs free). Ass open wide and getting pounded mercilessly. (a pair of nipple clamps? blindfold? even better to heighten the experience). Absolutely push me to (and beyond) my limits. And if I’ve had too much and need to be finished? I love a man who tells me when I’ve had enough… it should never be my choice.
my favorite is oral sex and being a side, honey! love it! swapping cum and body fluids via the mouth is just so tantalizingly splendid and delightful!
I have only fucked a few times. As a top missionary as I jerk him and try to time or orgasm for just a moment before mine.
As a bottom, which I just haven’t done enough!! The last time I was on my back, missionary position, and I think I was getting close to cumming hands free. But I also once had some one take me doggy style, it was a little painful but it was just amazing to be used like a toy.
Hopefully when I have more experience I can return with a solid answer.
Laid out flat! Face down. Nowhere to run, nowhere to hide. Just laying there taking the dick how its given.
A favorite?
Can’t help you with that. There are so many different opportunities for sex. And the same act for me differs from partner to partner.
I identify as a versatile top, but am a top by default because bottoms tend to flock to me as I’ve gotten older. When I was younger and actually had versatile sex, I liked it missionary if I was really into the guy or from the back flat on my stomach while he’s riding me good. But now, my most favorite position as a top is hitting it from the back while the bottom is laying flat, spread eagle. I like taking long strokes. Sometimes it feels so good that I try not to moan, because I turn myself on… Read more »