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Hey, guys! Previously, we asked you whether you prefer kinky sex or vanilla.

Simply put, kinky sex is when you enjoy kinks like role-playing, power dynamics, or fetishes. Of course, it bears noting that not only should the activity be consensual but also there should be “direct communication between partners about desires and limits to make sure that it is a pleasurable experience for everyone involved.” This means that talk about boundaries, safety and comfort should be made as some activities like “slapping, whipping, or bondage” can be “dangerous” and painful. Read more about it in detail here.

Meanwhile, vanilla sex is defined by the urban dictionary as “sex that involves no twists or kinkiness, and no S&M. Basically plain regular sex. Typically sweet and happy and very lovey-dovey.”

Naturally, our readers’ answers to the question above vary. Some of you said they are in the middle, that they enjoy a bit of both, while others are into kinks like bondage. Others are into a range of fetishes but there are also some of our readers who are vanilla all the way. Read their answers here.

Having said all that, are there any kinky sex ideas you want to try or recommend to our other A4A blog readers? The gay men on Reddit have weighed in on the topic and here are some of their answers, we quote:

  • “Outdoors sex, in the open, not in public view.”
  • “Sex slaving for a day”
  • “Being blindfolded and tied down and just letting your bottom do whatever he wants to your dick to get you off. (Suck, jerk, ride). Especially if he edges you.”
  • “A good spanking!”
  • Foursome
  • Double penetration

What about you, guys? Do you have any kinky sex acts that you want to try at least once? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!

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