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Today—July 6, 2022—is International Kissing Day. You’ve heard it right, guys, there’s such a thing as that but hey, why not? Many people love kissing, I sure as hell do. But the huge question is: what about you? Additionally, how much tongue is too much for you when kissing?
For some of the gay men on Reddit, a French kiss is the only way to kiss. Although everyday kisses, they say, don’t have to be a French kiss but when they’re making out with someone else, there’s no such thing as too much (tongue). A French kiss, by the way, is:
Also known as cataglottism or a tongue kiss, is an amorous kiss in which the participants’ tongues extend to touch each other’s lips or tongue. A kiss with the tongue stimulates the partner’s lips, tongue, and mouth, which are sensitive to the touch and induce physiological sexual arousal.
But, that’s their opinion, other people prefer kissing without tongue, and that’s fine, too! And there are some who regard kissing as something that is far more intimate than having sex, and because of this, they refuse to kiss their hookup or fuckbuddies, they’re just in for the sex.
Anyway, if you’re curious about what people do to celebrate International Kissing Day, it’s simple: they do it by giving their friends and family “a loving kiss on the cheek” but with the other party’s consent, of course!
Having said all that, there are many kinds of kisses, there are “kisses of love, affection, peace, respect, and friendship.” Read more about it here.
We leave you with these questions: did you kiss someone today? More importantly, how would you rate your kissing skills?
According to a study, 32% of Americans think they are good at kissing, 28% deemed their skills great, and 23% said they were amazing, while 16% of them think they’re pretty okay. Meanwhile, 2% of the respondents think they were horrible at kissing.
If you wish to know more about kissing and International Kissing Day, click here.
Share with us your thoughts and romantic (or hilarious, even awkward) kissing stories in the comments section below!
Happy International Kissing Day!
You must remember this…
A kiss is just a kiss
A sigh is just a sigh
The fundamental things apply
As time goes by…
A French Kiss is tantamount to giving another person’s mouth a “BJ + RJ” all-at-the-same-time!
Focusing on the lips and just a bit of tongue is a lot more erotic than plunging in the entire tongue.
Agreed on the “plunging”. An immediate deep dive plunge from a guy I don’t know is unsettling. For me some lip/tongue foreplay that leads to tongue exploration and ultimately full blown throat cleaning is much more if a turn on.
With the right person french kissing is such a passionate thing to do and if with someone who wants it and is gently doing it is what I’m craving and not trying to be too forcefully because it is intimate and being a CD who absolutely loves to be wearing cute things it’s a total turn on
Depends on their breath…I prefer a smooth face with a sweet tasting mouth.
Good breath is everything when it comes to making out.
Kissing can be hot Depends on who you are kissing
Over the years I’ve found that if a guy doesn’t like to kiss or doesn’t do it fairly well, the playtime experience is lacking and not very enjoyable.
Kissing is important to me. French Kissing, of course, because I feel deeply connected with the guy. In general, it’s something to work up to over several minutes. Like Scott Draper said above about starting with the lips and teasing the tongue to start. Unless, it’s one if those rare times a bud and I are totally ravenous for each other and dive in “full bore.”
Ultimately, yeah, but starting out with just the lip action first; progressing with mouths fully open, deep tongue action. My first ex’s tongue action was what won me over, my whole body really wanting him, he was/is luscious to kiss like that.
I’d like to think I bring a somewhat different perspective to this, as I’m bi-married and completely closeted. I find intense kissing with guys incredible because it’s completely different from making out with my wife (or other women, though I’m faithful to her insofar as women are concerned). M-M kissing is more sexual, intense, rough, sloppy and invigorating. M-F kissing is more loving, passionate and delicate but I get far-greater satisfaction kissing guys. Bring on a 3rd guy and with all 3 tongues and 6 lips going at it I’m in heaven!
BiMM here too and I’ve only had the **PLEASURE** once. Wasn’t expecting it at all and my hook-up wasn’t really what I’d call my “dream-boy”, but just as we were getting heavily into the body contact before the main event he dove in with some deep, aggressive kissing and it was abso-fucking-lutely mind blowing! The beautiful 7.5 he was packing and the RJ he lit me up with (also mind-blowing) more than made up for any initial disappointment. Dude knew what he was doing. I would echo everything you said and would add that French-kissing a guy is beyond extraordinary,… Read more »
Dave, you compel me to add one other thing: My first M-M experience was when I was 18 and the guy wasn’t exactly my type, but I got the opportunity, went for it, s*cked my first c*ck, f*cked my first ass, got my cherry popped, and never had any regrets. I had other experiences on through around age 22, but none were with guys of The Type I had sought, so while we did hot stuff like s*cking and f*cking, I didn’t do any kissing early on. But then one came along – very cute, very kissable. First, we delicately… Read more »
I love it.
Guys playing sexual politics about kissing are just simply annoying. Sucking a dick is a lot more “intimate” than kissing, so let’s just get some reality priorities in order. While no doubt there are legitimate reasons for not doing any particular activity (pain, infection, etc.), but people with laundry lists of inhibitions on feigned emotional bases make bad lovers
Have to disagree. A sensuous deep kiss with long eye contact is far more sensuous than cock sucking with eyes closed or while staring at pubic hair.
Simply put, I disagree. I can & will ejaculate like crazy from an intimate, passionate kiss — no hands or other physical touching on my genitals.
Ditto, if he’s good, I tend to tingle, pre-cum.
Reply to Steve & Overt d’Espirit: I made no reference to sensuality or passion, as you two have. I merely pointed out that claiming kissing is more “intimate” than cock-sucking is ridiculous, quite frankly, and refusing to kiss on that ground is ridiculous. Such people also tend to make bad lovers, as they often have a laundry list of hangups. Which activity–cock sucking or kissing–might be more sensual or passionate is an entirely other discussion, and I would be in agreement with your assertions on passion and sensuality. One kisses all sorts of people and animals. One does not suck… Read more »
For me personally, a deep French Kiss with long eye contact is far more intimate than cock sucking with eyes closed or open and staring at pubic hair. Fortunately, we have options about what we like.
If you are not willing to kiss me deeply while having your raw cock buried in me balls deep, I am not interested.
Definitely, YES!! My favorite part of being passionately intimate!
I haven’t savagely fucked or been fucked in a good number of years… but when you got ya whole dick up his ass or his dick all up in your ass it’s hot to French kiss
I love kissing. Kissing gets my blood flowing to my nether regions. I think most guys are probably good kissers. However, I prefer a guy with either full lips or a big tongue. If he has both, I’m in heaven. I love to suck on a pair of full lips. Yum! I recalled a past lover having the biggest tongue that used to fill my mouth when we kissed. I miss him.
Something about that “full feeling,” yeah, lol, my ex was like that no lips really, which I agree is much more sensuous, but that togue of his, OMG!
French kissing is essential if my partner is a top with a very big dick and I’m going to bottom. A prerequisite to getting both turned on sufficiently relaxed to take that big dick up my ass. It’s also essential if I’m going to top, because it gets the motor racing and the dick hard immediately.
A hot French kiss followed by him going for my neck,yes,please
Is that before or after you apply “Chanel – N 5”?
That video is so erotic!
I love French Kissing. Part of the foreplay from beginning to the the end 🙂
Yes. I love to kiss and caress and especially french kiss.
I find a 3 way is hot , everyone gets a little of everything. The kissing makes it more hot…Got someone waiting for me, hope ot get alot of practice.
French kissing is hot, when done well. It’s amazing how many guys are either bad it, have terrible oral hygiene, or both. The ones who are good at it are few, and the ones who are great at it are rare, but fantastic to find.
I love kissing and sucking a mans lips. Kissing is Hot and a Must for intense sexual contact. Not all about anal, sometimes kissing and being naked are HOT.
oh my goodness, kinda reminds me of that song from Meredith Brooks called “What Would Happen”, honey ..
“what would happen if we KISS, would your TONGUE SLIP PAST MY LIPPS .. ” MMMMMM, if that tongue taste SO good, get it past the lipps indeed and do the SALIVA EXCHANGE, dahling! it works!