Have you ever had sex with a straight man, guys? If so, how was the experience for you? If not, would you ever have sex with a straight man who wants to experiment sexually?
Anyway, we are bringing this up because we stumbled upon a revealing thread on Reddit wherein straight men were asked by the original poster (OP) this question: “Straight guys of Reddit who have experimented with other guys, what did you think of it?”
One guy shared:
In college I was obsessed with sex and pretty much went through the entire catalog of sexual experiences. I agreed to a 3-way with a girl and her bisexual boyfriend. You know, it’s quite a thing to have a guy’s dick in your mouth and at the same time realize that you are not the slightest bit into guys. I finished him off though because that’s the kind of bro I am.
Meanwhile, another guy revealed, “Several years ago I hooked up with a coworker. It was much more intense than any sex I’d ever had with a woman. I really loved it.” Further, he confessed, “Actually I think about it quite a bit sometimes when I’m fappin’ it. With all of that being said, I’m not emotionally attracted to men like I am [with] women. I would definitely do it again though.”
His experience is a stark contrast to this guy who confessed that he has “made out with a guy before.” However, he said, that: “It didn’t feel special like when I make out with girls, there were no fireworks. I did feel insanely comfortable with him afterwards, but I didn’t feel attraction what so ever.”
Last but not the least, one guy shared:
I’ve hooked up with guys three times. I didn’t enjoy it the first time; he was very handsome and perfectly pleasant, but there wasn’t that excitement, that ‘omg I’m going to get laid’ sense that I get with women. I didn’t come.
I tried it twice more because I believe that sexual experimentation should be scientifically rigorous, and what the fuck kind of scientist can’t reproduce their results on demand?
Having said all that, UBC sociologist Dr. Tony Silva, author of the book titled Still Straight: Sexual Flexibility among White Men in Rural America, said that “straight men in rural America have sex with other men. And they are not gay, bisexual, or ‘just experimenting.’”
Dr. Silva explained that there are reasons why straight men choose to have same-sex relationships. For one, it’s because they, and we quote, “enjoyed receiving anal sex from other men because this act allowed them to experience pleasure, but without the pressure they felt when they had sex with women.” Another is because they “were lonely or wanted to experience human touch, but were unsure how to do so platonically in a way that felt masculine.” Dr. Silva added, “Sex helped them connect with other men in a way that felt masculine to them, ironic as that may sound.” Read the interview with Dr. Silva in full here.
Anyway, what about you, guys? Have you ever had a sexual encounter with a straight man? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!