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Have you ever fantasized about bondage or being restrained during sex, guys? If your answer is yes, you are not actually alone in this regard. In fact, many people are into it.
Exactly how many, you ask?
Well, a study titled Durex Global Sex Survey, which was conducted in 2005, revealed that around 36 percent of U.S. adults love having sex with the use of masks, blindfolds, and other forms of bondage tools. The study was made some six years before Fifty Shades of Grey—and I mean the novel by E.L. James, not the film that came later in 2015. I imagine this number went up after the film was shown as it featured BDSM practices and it became much-talked about.
Bondage is the B in the BDSM while BDSM in general, stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. According to Wikipedia, bondage, in the BDSM subculture, is defined as:
the practice of consensually tying, binding, or restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic, or somatosensory stimulation. A partner may be physically restrained in a variety of ways, including the use of rope, cuffs, bondage tape, or self-adhering bandage.
But do gay men enjoy bondage?
Some of them said yes. As for their advice to those who are beginners when it comes to bondage, one of them said: “never leave him alone while he’s tied up. People die like that.” While another emphasized the importance of communication and having a safe word because, definitely, it’s fun if it’s the both of you who are into it.
Anyway, if you are thinking about going into bondage, we have a bondage first kit for beginners and the great news is that it’s currently on sale at 25% off on Adam4Adam Store!
This Bed Restraint Bondage Kit is a six-piece kit that allows you to explore your fantasies with your partner. You can choose between the bed restraints, the breathable mouth gag, the satin blindfold, the PU leather flogger, the PU leather paddle, or the feather tickler. You can use some or all of the items to discover what you and your partner enjoy! Most of all, you can bring with you some of the parts of the kit during your vacation.
Convenient isn’t it?
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Before we go, let’s revert back to our question at hand. What about you, guys? Are you into bondage, being restrained, spanked, or humiliated? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.
When I was 18 I went over some blk guy’s house I met on CL he was 22 and he cuffed me to the bed made me sick him he groped and felt up my body and then fucked me raw and came inside me. The doorbell rand and he went to check. I was still nude and cuffed and ass full of cum. He came back with 4 other guys and they all took turns using and breeding me for the rest of the day. Eventually they took off the cuffs so it’s easier for more of them to… Read more »
Good times….. good times
Ohh yeah definitely! Nothing like being the cum dump for a bunch of horny sexy guys.
Not need to cuff me Being a bottom for 5 black men would be a dream cum true. Sure do miss CL. .
Recently one of my bondage fantasies came true. So I was at my best friends for some drinks, this is the same friend that I had my first same sex experience with after having a few too much. Anyway after a few drinks he invited more friends over. So it was my best friend his bf and 3 other guys. The only other guy who was single started talking to me and we hit it off, I was all over him and asked him to take me to the gust room. We get in there making out he takes off… Read more »
The thought of turning my body over to one or a bunch of random guys with all of their potential diseases and all of their self-directed, selfish wants is anything but exciting for me. No. However your body, your choice, you can live with the outcomes if this turns you on and if this is something you’re into.
Now, you sound like me, too cautious for all of that.
Thanks you for sex-negative judgmental “better than everyone” permission to have consensual sex with other consenting adults. Any activity with other human beings carries risk of contacting disease. Perhaps it’s the “sexual” in STD that is making you project shame. This reminds me of how “tolerant” California and NY liberals talked about gay people (and gay sex) 20-30 years ago.
“Permission” ? None was being offered. Nor could it be. It’s every guy’s right (“choice”) to do as he pleases as was stared. “Tolerant”? Too many Gay guys are intolerant and so willing to flame over anyone else who has an outlook different than theirs. One should be careful before pointing the Intolerance Finger at someone else And speaking about how Gays were and are “talked about”, it’s no wonder Gays are still perceived as a bunch of loons. So many of them are willing to have a parade of unprotected sex with random, unknown individuals. And then they feel… Read more »
I agree . Way to risky!!!
My first gay sex experience was very hot. My hook up handcuffed me to a chair. He was a tall BBC and about 10 years older than me. I just turned 18. He rubbed my whole body in baby oil and edged me. I came 4 times. Ahhh to be 18 again!! I’ve loved and used restraints ever since! It’s so damn hot!
I was in my 30’s and met a guy online that was older (late 50s) than me. We had chatted briefly, and he asked if i would like to meet. We agreed to meet in the parking lot of a large mall. When I arrived and spotted his car, I parked next to him and waved. We both got out of our cars and introduced ourselves. I could feel the butterflies in my stomach as he approached me…his tight jeans had a large bulge in the crotch! After a few seconds of chit chat, he asked if I’d like to… Read more »
Very hot and sexy. I’d like to be used like that, except for the clothes pins.
Actually, they were kinda hot….even the intense pain was kinda hot. I would do the clothes pins again….but not the pain. I am glad I experienced it once, though.
Wonderfully hot story…. You should write it for nifty.org, a free site for readers and writers.
I’d been curious about bondage for a long time. Met a guy online, chatted for months. Finally drove an hour to his place. Sat and chatted for awhile. Everything seemed nice. Went to the bedroom got undressed. Suddenly shoved me on the bed, cuffed me, and raped me off and on for 12 hours. I was crying and screaming. Finally let me go. Laughed and said I wanted it. I was too scared and embarrassed to go to the police. Jump forward 20 years. Met a married Top guy, became friends, then started hooking up regularly for 3 years. I… Read more »
Got a text from a regular FWB that he had another lined up, I love being DP’d and both have huge cocks. I agreed, cleaned up headed over. While talking in his bar in the basement, 10 more guys showed up. All he did was let some friends know that I had wanted to be gang banged and I thought I was going to just have two loads of cum that day. This was 4 years ago and I will never forget it! Everyone got a change to DP me, everyone got sucked dry after they cum inside me. I’ve… Read more »
That is so Hot! I have had that as a fantasy for a long time
I was 21 new to sex clubs and bathhouse. I was invited to go to a bathhouse for the first time. I got there checked in nervous as hell. I got a room and this guy I met outside was telling me about going inside was now therein my room. We started touching and was nice. He gets me to lay down on my stomach. He puts my hands up over my head and I feel him wrapping a cloth around my hands. He then did the same to my feet. He place pillow under my lower stomach so I… Read more »
I was at a sex party in a barn. Only my first or second time there. I ran into a guy wearing black, leather, assless chaps. We started talking and he offered me some weed. That must have taken away some inhibitions, because he started talking about bondage and I got interested. He went out to his car to get a bag, and I met him upstairs where there was a fuck bench, among other things. He opened his bag and took out some ropes, a mask and some paddles. He proceeded to tie me down on the bench, and… Read more »
Hell ya! I’ve been into bondage since was a little kid playing “cowboys and indians.” Always wanted to be captured and tied to a tree.LOL As I’ve gotten older and it was the right situation, being restrained is always super hot. Way back in the day there was a bar in Denver called the Triangle – a serious leather kink bar where all kinds of crazy shit went on. I spent many Sunday afternoons at their weekly beer-bust hanging above the bar in a suspension harness, compensated with free bourbon all day. Fun times. Several years later when living in… Read more »
I met a guy on A4A told him I was into BDSM, 3 days later he invited me over my instructions were to enter the house strip down and put on wrist cuffs ankle cuffs and a hood then yell down the hall that I was ready, someone came to me hooked a leash to collar of the hood then led me to another room while I was wearing the hood and unable to see I could hear guys talking they were laughing at me slapping my ass and nipples and balls total verbal humiliation, after a few minutes of… Read more »
So anyone or group in the Nyc/NNJ area wanna help me out with my sling fantasy let me know
I was 25 and I had this older gentleman that would give me free massages and a happy ending. It was a nice setup for us, he enjoyed touching younger men and I enjoyed the massage and the release. After one of my massages, he asked if I would be into trying something new for our next get together. I asked what he had in mind and he said a little light bondage and some edging. I figured why not, so far I had enjoyed everything we had done together. When I arrived for my next visit, he had me… Read more »
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i especially love tying down big muscled black men and estimming them good with tens,violet wand. wand makes my fingertips,tongue,anyheld metal tickle their nips,cock and balls. tens electrode into sphincter,metal cockring and my metal tinsle flogger allover cockhead,balls really sends them into ORBIT. and all estim orgasms usually last up and OVER a full sixty seconds. love seeing some big buck thrashing on table in ecstacy
also love putting a man in bondage, over my stool, and spanking him, they must not be able to escape, i have all control!!!!, beautiful otha grayned(on google images) i made into a dominatrix, big muscleman, once had his wrists,ankles dangling from my stool, belted down his lower back to the seat,and spanked him into a frenzy!!, ”brokebutt mountain”, just kidding!!!, also love big blackmen and studs to tie me over stool,on bed,and spank and plow me good. want to do a spanking on a stud like in the movie ”’mandingo” maybe find early on slave hung by ankles and… Read more »
I was on a4a and I was chatting with this guy for a while,,I had never been with a guy but I was curious,,,,we chatted for about three week,,,he would always ask me to meet,,,I had told him that I had a ole lady,,we wasn’t married but we been together for a few yrs,,, I would always tell him what I wanted to do,,,like I’ve always wanted to see what it was like to suck anutha man’s dick and how I want to feel what it was like to get fucked,,,,,,one day I told him I was going to wash… Read more »