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It’s as the title says guys, what’s your favorite thing about being gay? We’re bringing this up because some of the gay men on Reddit talked about, what for them, are the best things about being gay.
Can you guess what their answers are?
One particular guy revealed that for him it’s, “The freedom to be as masculine or feminine as I want at any given time without having to answer for it.”
Another guy, on the other hand, said, “Not ever worrying about an accidental pregnancy is up there.” While another one said, “Once you’ve come out, and you’ve been out for a while, you tend develop a ‘don’t give a shit attitude and a thick skin.’ It’s a pretty good trait to have.”
Meanwhile, for this particular guy, the best thing for him is the sex. It’s the “possibility of fucking and being fucked at the same time” he said.
There are also guys who are into romance, of course, like this one who shared that for him it is being “able to kiss and hold a guy’s hand and said that I love him.”
We’ve noticed these answers as well: “Being gay I believe has led me to be a lot more open minded about many things, and be a lot more accepting to people.” And this one, “Being a role model for gaybies that are struggling with coming out and need to see positive gay couples walking around to give them courage.”
Can you relate to their answers, guys? What about you, what’s your favorite thing about being gay? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below and don’t forget to follow us on Instagram for more discussions and photos/reels and contests!
As a gay man that did marry hetero and have three sons, I do believe that being gay made me a much better and caring father for my sons. I taught them that there is nothing wrong embracing both our masculine and feminine abilities teaching them to be comfortable in the kitchen as well as doing carpentry projects.
I’ll cut right to the chase, women “suck” at sucking cock. Most gay men don’t act as if sucking cock is on par with taking out the garbage like most females do.
Most men do not know how to suck dick either…and a majority are spitters or leakers which makes no sense to me. Swallowing cum is my reward for a blowjob well done. Profile name: BiLust
Tommy, you are so right, WTF suck if you don’t swallow. That is the main purpose in sucking. I’m piss when a guy pulls out and cums on the floor.
Surprisingly, to me at least, a lot of gay men don’t suck well. They are not adverse to it, but they obviously are not into it and so, don’t do it well. I, on the other hand, love it and am great at it… so I’ve been told again and again.
Sorry, but I know a lot of gay men that
suck” at suckin cock as well. you lose.
Cock!
Favorite?!
Not having to deal w females and their menses!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Or flamers and their bullshit
Penis.
As a bi guy(who hasn’t touched nor missed pussy in 6 years) I would say I agree wit portions of several posts already made. The sexual variety that I’ve experienced in both the “top” & “btm” role FAR exceeds even the wildest, kinkiest sex with the oppo sex. MOST of the guys I’ve hooked up wit are much more uninhibited & vocal about tryin sumthin different, not the usual vanilla I got more with women.The other comment that hit home was about bein more free to display/ engage both my masc & fem side.In that regard I felt COMPLETELY suppressed… Read more »
This question doesn’t compute to me…..but then. “being gay” doesn’t drive my identity
Well said
m j Out of all the many comments I was problems understanding where these guys were coming from. The only thing that I could relate to was your comment. Not a good question for sure.
I agree with you, nothing does, it’s just what I am and have the same issues to deal with men. I was married 25 years before I came out. There are as many issues to deal with. We are all people, but I do like having sex with what I need…. But that is the same for a hetro man…..
Him
My favorite thing is the fulfilling sex!! I dated women before because I was in denial.
Self discovery, self acceptance, the liberation I’ve given myself. I’ve always been a male/female in how I feel about myself as a masculine man; realizing the both of these traits and what a gift that really is. I don’t know the “why’s” of why we’re here in the many capacities that we humans exist, except to first realize that “I’m a spirit having a human experience.” The enormous inner strength that all the aforementioned calls for in navigating ‘who’ you are individually; discarding all of the outer noise of the world listening to your own inner-voice. To then proceed, following… Read more »
Hi Lamar.
Thank you for your beautiful words, while I was reading your comments I felt like it was me. “I’m a spirit having a human experience.” this is a touching sentence, The enormous inner strength that all of us calls for in navigating ‘who’ you are individually; discarding all of the outer noise of the world listening to your own inner-voice. To then proceed, following the path of your own life on your own terms in the healthiest way, I really appreciate your comments in this section. It says a lot in a few words.
Thank you again Lamar.
Hey you, you’re so very welcome. I knew these words would resonate with someone. it’s like what would you tell your younger self if you could see that far down the road or that far into the future; to avoid the pit-falls so you could reach your best destiny/future, not to waste time, energy and emotions.
In other imparting wisdom, because there’s a difference between just chronological aging and actually growing/maturing. “Life’s a gift,” but not to everyone, clearly, so don’t let them inhibit you; making you as miserable with yourself as they are with themselves.
“Whats my favorite thing about NOT being Gay”??…NOT being straight!!!!
That’s the best reply…
“Whats my favorite thing about being Gay”??…NOT being straight!!!!
I love to worship a hot BBC.
Being able to share great sex with men. No need to send flowers after sex. No expectation that a long term monogamous relationship is involved. No expectation that there will be children and I would be their father. Being able to explore sexual pleasure. Being able to discuss other partners. Being happy when a bud says we should delay playing today because he played heavily (with another bud or another guy) just yesterday. Being able to play with a group of buds I know at the same time. Going to meet up with a good bud only to have him… Read more »
But, isn’t is so unexpected and wonderful to get a rose from a buddy?
Great sex is so easy and fulfilling. Men just like having sex with each other and know how to have sex better. The end game for men is good sex, but for women is marry me or buy me a Louis Vuitton $15,000 bag. I can’t imagine having to woo a woman for sex or as just as bad, going to “gentleman’s” clubs and spending money on something as pathetic as lap dances. Then they never know when some nut case goes all ME TOO and accuses them of rape. I like tight grippy anal sex anyway and loose warm… Read more »
I can’t say, because so many still hold on to racial dislike, not realize that the majority of society still haters us. Funny thing little do the haters realize…. the people they follow hate them as well. LOL
The fact that high school boys will do almost anything for a candy bar…
Not gonna lie.. I love not having to deal with women… in any capacity!
Everything is the best part of being gay.
Being gay helped me to come to terms with a lot of paternal abuse that I experienced growing up. It also allowed me to become a man in a way that I wanted to be, as well as not being insecure or hesitant about going after my other goals and dreams.
Kissing men that know how to kiss.
Being gay means I never have to worry about getting any woman pregnant.
I get to be me, not an archetype. I’m constrained by morality and wanting to do good. My sexuality is what I and others make of it. There is a liberation from the strictures of past (mostly dysfunctional) role models. My creativity and sexuality are my own, and I hope it can please others, but I’m not defined by other ideologies. There is dignity in accepting my sexual preferences and I hope others gain dignity in my respect for theirs. It’s an important responsibility, and I take it seriously, and also with laughter.
After reading many responses to the question, ‘what’s your favorite thing about being gay’?, I wasn’t surprised that a majority of the responses were sexual in nature. I get that. For myself, if I never have sex with another man again I am still gay. It is the lens in which I view the world around me. It is how others view and interact with me. Being gay colors all aspects of my life, not only my sexuality. So I had to devote a bit of time to think this through. What is my favorite thing about being gay? There… Read more »
I love being able to be a whore and not judged about it nearly as much as i would be in the straight community. hahha
So why does anyone have feel any aspect of being gay? Where are the mo rons askin how bi sexual men/women feel? ENOUGH with this bullshit!! Gay man are not the only ones that make up the gay community.
I’m a gold star gay. Never been with a girl. Closest I came to pussy was in a mixed orgy I saw one from about 6ft away (it really does look like a hairy d’anjou pear from the angle I saw). The BEST thing about being gay is THE SEX!! I used to have a lot of str8 friends when I worked for a major insurance company headquartered here. And we all know str8s bitch about sex. So it takes 15 mins. You fake your orgasm half the time and then it’s over til NEXT WEDS?!?! oh my stars and… Read more »
I’m not romantically attracted to men. I’m sexually attracted to them. I love to feel a man’s hands all over me, his weight on top of me, and his cock pounding me. I enjoy hearing him moan as he’s pleasuring himself at my expense. I love being absolutely used by a strong, masculine male.
Wow Dave R. That’s exactly how I felt for years and it’s been kinda of confusing. I have and never had any romantic feelings for any dude. I would never marry or have a relationship with a dude. I never dated a guy. Waking up with a dude in my bed would turn my stomach but yet I’m sexually attracted to specific guys. Only difference between you and me is that I enjoy the kissing, oral and cuddling moreso than the thursting, pounding physical sex. I do enjoy the moaning and all the pleasuring sounds. Then once I nutt, I… Read more »
I agree,,I still love women and pussy but I also enjoy being a good bottom for a dominant top,,,I love to feel a man’s hard body and strong hands on my body,,,,it’s a big turn on for me when a 100% top text me and tell me to bring this ass to him,,,many times I tell the ole lady I’m going watch the game with the guys,,,then once I’m there he puts me n panties and I be his wo-man for a few hours,,,,I enjoy being free when I’m with a top behind closed doors
My favourite thing(s) about being gay? Nothing, absolutely nothing. I hate every second, minute, hour, day, month, year and decade of it.
There is no peer pressure to get married. I can live alone and do what I want, not what I am supposed to 🙂
Having been male oriented sexually my whole life, I think i must say that the thing i love most about being homosexual, is Men. Hot, erotic, piggy, loving, sweaty, virile, masculine, rough, gentle. I find Men to be so wired for sex and have always treasured each for their own qualities. I find most Men fascinating and enjoy so much hearing from them and how they became aware of their unrelenting desire for male companionship. I have always felt it a duty to help a buddy out, when he’s needing the assistance of another Man. It’s the best gift a… Read more »
The thing I love about being gay is the acceptance by my family and friends. The knowledge that we are many, and that we are strong.
I used to think that the easy sex was the best thing about being gay. No long cat and mouse games with women who constantly conflate “sex” and “love.” Now, I am not so sure. 20 years with the man of my dreams the last five mostly “open” and I am less in love than I have ever been. Maybe linking love and sex more closely has more benefits than I originally believed. Maybe sex on demand isn’t the great thing it appears to be. I think I will answer the survey question by saying the best thing about being… Read more »
Not having to deal with the bullshit societal constraints the hetero “norm” imposes.
Once you admit too yourself your gay Life gets easier Gay isnt just about sex It enjoying yourself with other men of same thinking Socializing travel finding a guy who is as into you as you are him sorry no pun Having each other back and not caring about social BS…What happens in private is so much more rewarding leading to a strong male bond…I luv to suck his cock and swallow adds to my submissive side of the relationship