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For tops out there, how do you feel about using dildos? Do you think dildos are just for bottoms and vers and tops should not use it? Why or why not?
As for our bottoms and vers readers, if you were to convince your tops to try dildos, what would you tell them?
Out of curiosity, we Googled if there were straight men who use dildos and sure enough, we found some who confessed to doing so. One guy revealed, “It has been the most interesting and highly pleasurable activity I’ve done in a very long time.” He added that his “favorite position is doggy, head on the ground, ass up, fucking the sh** out of my ass.”
Meanwhile, another straight guy, who’s probably curious about the experience, confessed he is scared that if he uses a dildo, he will “turn gay after some time.” Further, he explained that he has been in a relationship with a girl for 3 years, that between their first and second year, he was suffering from HOCD.
HOCD or Homosexual Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, according to this paper, is “marked by excessive fear of becoming or being homosexual.” The authors of the study explained:
<blockquote>The subjects often experience intrusive, unwanted mental images of homosexual behaviour. The excessive uncontrolled thoughts/doubts are very distressing and lead to compulsions in form of checking.</blockquote>
Anyway, respondents in the thread assured the guy that engaging in butt plays does not make a man gay and that there is actually a thing called pegging. Pegging is a “sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man by penetrating his anus with a strap-on dildo.”
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All that being said, have you ever tried using a dildo? If so, how did you like it? Are you top, bottom, or vers? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.
I am a bottom and yes I use dildos and I have a nice collection of toys that I play with since I don’t have a regular guy to play with.I guess the best part is that they are always available for me.
And always hard!
Total top here, Never use dildos, Tried, they hurt, When I was much younger I enjoyed being fucked, and used dildos. My senior age anatomy has changed. Now I fuck. I can’t be fucked. However, I do use a hand masturbator. I also fasten it with Velcro to my table, held in place so I can thrust in it just like fucking.
I’m a submissive bottom who takes a 14in by 3in dildo all the way .will take it kneeling face down which allows the guy to push his body against the base for an even better pounding or take it lying on my back which allows aguy to sit on my face and have his hole licked and probed by my tongue. especially like it if there are 2 or 3 guys taking turns Using the dildo ha no affected the great feeling of a real dick pounding me at all .so if you’re in NE PA hit me up and… Read more »
I don’t like dildos. They’re not even good “training wheels,” I mean, they don’t “stretch” your ass like you would think since, your ass, opens up, to it and, accepts it…that’s why, a man can take a whole helluva lot bigger, dildo, than a real, dick or fist! The dick or fist’s are, real whereas, the dildo is a, lifeless, object. There’s some real, power, in muscular energy!
Wow! That is a LOT to take! I can’t imagine the 3” diameter part! That is seriously thick! I had a 3” butt plug but couldn’t get it in. The largest plug I handled was 2.8”. That thick AND 14” is really crazy!
Dildos should alway be on the table for a sex session. I like to put them on my playmates belly so they know know what to expect. I also have them choose a dildo for their personal pleasure. Having one used by a caring partner is so intimate rather than using one solo. Prolongs the sexual experience
No. I want the real thing. Give me that cock, or use your tongue. I hate the way dildos and fingers feel.
Much better approach: prostate stimulators and small plugs. Too many toys are designed with total bottoms in mind, not for those who only want a bit of stimulation during sex.
Agreed, I like just a little bit of butt-play.
Buckle your seatbelts and prepare for the endlessly droning chorus of “No, I prefer the real thing.”
A friend had called me to help him. He was playing with friend, this friend, LOVED DILDOS AND TOYS and got a bit excited. He was playing hard with this dildo when this toy SNAPPED & BROKE INSIDE HIS HOLE. I was called in to try and get it out ….. we had to take him to the ER of a nearby HOSPITAL!
Dildos irritate the intestinal track! They are not worth the ride!
As a bottom I find that for me dildos are better when a guy is driving them into me. Something about not knowing or having control of what’s happening….. that doesn’t mean I don’t play alone from time to time.
I also like to strap them on for fucking. It’s like being a robot. You can be any size.
I am also a bottom and I love my collection of toys! One of favorites and most extreme of my collection is the medium 3 bumps. 9” x 2.5” is pretty damn filling! I also have butt plugs and a collection of Aneros prostate massagers. They are also incredible! Toys stay hard, they are there when I want/need them, they don’t have diseases, and all of that makes them awesome! I love a real pounding, but these stand in quite well!
I never used any toys but I don’t knock it. I’m looking to explore and possibly purchase a dildo. My first purchase will definitely be a male torso. Being single i was lonely at times during the pandemic.
As a TOP..hell to the NO! As for bottoms..i dont recommend using a huge dildo regularly. What u dont realize is you’re training your ass to take dick exactly how u like it. Over time muscle memory will tell u whats good sex. But when a top tries to fuck you, your body wont allow u to be pleased unless he strokes it exactly how u stroke yaself
Dildos are a great option for those who want them. Personally, I prefer to invest the time I have for sex into flesh and blood sex toys where you get a complete anatomy set from head to toe.
I am a vers. Bi guy that has just recently learned how to enjoy anal sex by using toys. My goal was to use small dildos gradually increasing the size (up to 2” in diameter) to teach me how to relax and enjoy anal sex so that I could lose my anal virginity to a real cock – which I did about 2 months ago and I loved my first time! He was a big guy with a short fat beer can cock and he didn’t hurt at all – I loved getting fucked by him! I have several glass… Read more »
In this case; never, say never, but nope, lol.
I once knew someone a very close friend; who told me to go into his bed room to get something for him. What I saw as his butt-play toy just astonished me; a Wella Balsam shampoo bottle, he would apparently use from the bottom to insert, he hadn’t cleaned it from the last session. Do you know how big that is!!!!! to have in your body, OMG!!!!
As a top, no. I don’t even use them on the bottoms I’m with.
I bought one about the same size as my cock. I use it to secretly practice sucking in the mirror..
I’m str8 and a bit curious. Currently I only do bondage and CBT with guys and let them worship my cock. So there’s that.
No – I’m a total top who doesn’t like my backside played with.
I use dildos all the time. I have several that I rotate through depending on my mood
No…I’m a total top & hate my butt played with.
I have only been in that situation on rare occasion. When I was young and experimenting to find out what I liked (and how big I could go with it, I am not loose by any means) I would stick objects up my ass. When I started hooking up with guys they may try that but hasn’t occured very often at all. Love a tongue up there, maybe a finger or two or three, only if your fingernails are trimmed well, not into getting jabbed with a sharp nail, big turnoff. But other than that I gotta have that throbbing… Read more »
I use my gf’s toys when she isn’t around or i call my male friend and see if he’s busy. Her toys are one is 6″ x 1.5″ and i use this one the most, the other is like 14″ x 2.5″ for days I’m stupid horny. My buddy is a good 9″ and thick that’s the best one. I use something to fuck me like 3 to 4 time a month.
I am a bottom and have an extensive collection of dildos I do have my favorites, and they are always there when needed even if I had a reg FWB they would still be in use its also exciting to have someone use them on you