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Do you blow your hook up/boyfriend/partner/husband after anal sex, guys? Why or why not?
We are talking about this because we stumbled upon a thread wherein the original poster (OP) named R_J4ever asked the readers: “Do you still blow your guy after he’s been up your ass?” He elaborated, “Love being fucked by my bf. Love blowing my bf. But I don’t really want to suck his dick after it’s been up my ass. Though I clean my ass before sex, it still cringes me out.”
He then added that he hasn’t “ever done that combo though, just wondering.” He also said that he and his boyfriend “don’t use condoms, both lost our virginity with each other. ❤”
One of the readers named JessePNW confessed that he “did that once, in a threeway, about 35 years ago. It was the heat of the moment and it didn’t feel like it was a good thing to do.” He proceeded to say, “I’ve been surprised in recent years to see that it’s a big deal in gay porn. Seems a little risky no matter how much someone is cleaned out.”
Another reader named gouplesblog responded, “Sure! If my arse wasn’t clean enough to suck him afterwards – then he wouldn’t have been fucking it to begin with.” Further, he explained, “I’m pretty meticulous when cleaning out, and sure I check it first.”
Meanwhile, user Ilovethelittlemonkey replied, “Even though I do a thorough cleaning when I bottom, going from ass to mouth is a definite NO NO. I have never done it, will never do it and wouldn’t expect anyone I topped to do it either.”
Having said all that, going from anal to oral is not advisable. According to this article, feces is “filled with bacteria such as Shigella, campylobacter, salmonella and E.coli” along with parasites like amoebas and giardia that can cause “severe diarrhea, abdominal pain and cramping, bloody stools, fever, nausea and vomiting.”
This doesn’t mean we can’t have anal sex anymore, or oral sex, because of the risks. We only need to practice safe oral sex and observe anal hygiene plus, we can use dental dams as well to help reduce the risk of catching STIs and unwanted parasites. Speaking of anal hygiene, we’ve talked about this in the past including the role of ear syringe in preparing one’s ass before anal sex; check this if you wish to revisit the article.
Please share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.
I do it all the time. Taste that raw chocolate Tootsie Roll, bitchboy!
Common Sense should dictate:
what is indigenous to the anal cavity is not indigenous to the oral cavity.
What lies in the upper body should not be introduced into the lower body and vice versa.
When foreign matter is deposited elsewhere…the body reacts to the foreign substances and all hell breaks lose!
To elucidate further… washing either the anus or the penis or both do not eliminate a virus or viruses. Removing feces’ removes the solid particles not the individual virus…for that you need a microbial wash or a virus inhibitor of some sort. douching eliminates the feces but, also, disturbs the microflora of the duodenum. HPV; CMV; Herpes I & II, several types of Hepatitis are viral…not just bacterial. wash the anal membrane and the meatus and stem of a penis with Listerine using a cotton ball will go a long way towards eliminating both virus and feces from the oral… Read more »
I rinse my dick inside with a long straw and peroxide after every raw fuck. Have not had a STI since 1988 doing that !
Never had my partners suck me after I’ve been in their ass, but we do kiss after I’ve rimmed them.
I admit that the idea intrigues because of its edginess, and, like rimming, it is something I first did in the heat of excitement, with someone I knew. My very first anal experience, when I was brand new, the top pulled out, said he had wiped, and told me to suck him wet again. It smelled like soap for some reason, so I believe he did. I had a bottom I got with who was really excited, and he asked me to pull out and he turned and went down on me again. It was interesting because I didn’t ask.… Read more »
Recently, someone said to me “your ass should be so clean that I can put my dick in your mouth after pulling it out from your ass.” That statement was enough for me to lose my libido and an attraction for the man. Sorry, no matter what the circumstances are that will never happen to/from me.
Lmao, you can always just wipe ‘it’ off, man, when you pull it out. The bigger question is, do you kiss your partner after he’s eaten your ass?
You gotta get your gead out if your ass befire shoving more in it.
I have gone from anal to mouth many times.. I am very careful about cleaning my ass
I have had no ell effects… love getting fucked real good the dump his load down my throat…
l plan to keep doing it..
I love ass to mouth. My ass is squeky clean and if my partner rims me I will suck his dick after he cums inside me. I taste him then get him hard so he can fuck me again.
You know, if I rim a guy and afterwards he kisses me, I’m certainly not putting HIM at risk for anything–plus the gesture is very accepting and very sex-positive on both our parts. And if someone I trust fucks me bare-back and then I suck HIS dick, how am I at risk? After all, it’s MY ass he has been in, and why on earth should I be disgusted by my own body? Yes rimming can expose you to all sorts of things, including some very nasty bugs, but that’s a separate issue. Being sex-positive requires that we accept that… Read more »
My anal cavity is squeaky clean and I want my top to know that. Every time we change positions I love to suck his dick.
When he cums inside me then I want taste him and get him hard.. again. I do have a good mouth wash that I use during the sex I like. I use it several times as well as getting lubed. I know how to please
So you are obviously comfortable consuming your own fecal bacteria. I’m sure that a vacation to the third world would be a positive experience for you. For those of us to that prefer to avoid the kinds of disease inherent in such behaviors… Well, let’s hope you and yours let the world know your preferences so as to avoid them. I’m also sure your insurance company would be happy to know just how risk averse you are not
Exposure creates immunity you silly Queen.
I have a love with a big huge cock… was hard for me to take his big dick at first. but I learned. I love him more that anything AND I will do anything to please him…several time he has taken his big cock out of my ass and shot his big load down my throat..we both love it that way…please don’t discourage him from doing that. because I love it and want him to keep doing it..
I got one better. My FWB shows up about one am and we got busy, just the kind of relationship we had. So after he cum in my mouth, fell out on the bed and asked me how I liked the taste of pussy. I go what, he told me he fucked his girlfriend and didn’t clean up. I knew it tasted funky wasn’t sure why……as far as from my ass to my mouth, hell yea. I think top guys see it as control, as long as I get the dick.
I have a couple times as a raw bottom sucking my top’s cock after he had been in “my” hole and never was ill from it. I won’t suck a top’s cock if he has been in another raw hole, such as in group play. However, I did catch a bug from rimming a guy’s hole once. Wasn’t fun, but thankfully with meds for a week it all cleared up.
I’ve done it and had it done to me. We were both very clean and so hot for each other. We continued making during our sessions when we did it, too. So we shared from our asses and cocks and mouths.
I wouldn’t ask any one but I wouldn’t stop them either
My experiences were great and conveyed our trust and acceptance and love. I wouldn’t do it with everyone but I’ll do it again
My favorite is topping a dude right after he’s had a dozen cheese enchiladas and a dozen tamales. And then I get to eat that pussy and fish for Mexican fiesta corn! Ole!
Simple solution when you want to go from anal to mouth. Wear a condom!! You or your partner pulls out, take the condom off and his or your penis is clean. Only the part of the penis not covered by the condom will have have residue fecal matter. Lot sexier than to have his/your penis covered in residual fecal matter. Besides If a guy did not clean his anus clean you can tell by the smell or the amount of feces that are on your penis.
From a medical standpoint, your own bacteria won’t make you physically ill, but you might get grossed out.
Ummm no..even if my ass is freshly flushed I won’t kiss a guy after he rims me…far less anal to oral …ass tastes / smells like ass
I never have sex if I’m not 100% clean. Simple as that. As a result I can always do ass to mouth. I love it and the tops love it. And that way I know without doubt that my hole is perfectly clean.
So true I bang thousands of hot guys. 99% of gay boys are rigorously clean. It’s the “straight” curious ones you have to worry about. But even then, a little poop on my dick was well worth the hot fuck. I mean really, a real live Marine that looked like a young Nick Nolte ! Not the OLD Nick Nolte ! He wanted to see what it felt like and he really liked it. But when he finally came and it was over, I could see he was upset I’d turned him into a “fag”……. Oh well.
Anal to oral is the best way to get in your mouth all the viruses you get in your behind – very common is HPV, less common is herpes. Note that once in the oral cavity, HPV causes most head/neck cancers! Be more educated people.
If it’s your ass, you already have anything you could catch from yourself. So no problem. I have eaten thousands of very hot asses over 40 years and never caught anything! But I’m highly disease resistant, never getting HIV (Delta -32 mutation) after being exposed hundreds of times. I also never wonder what it would be like to screw Mario Lopez when he was 23…….
Ugh! That is disgusting.
I won’t do it, but I know others that do not care. I am mainly bottom, but when I have topped, one on one or threesome, I’ve gotten sucked off after fucking ass. I will not suck cock once it’s been in an ass, whether my ass or someone else’s, just not my thing.
One hook up I had, which involved an amazing top with a perfect cock, he’d rim me, fuck me, rim me, fuck me, took turns several times and it was fucking amazing.
Done it many times, for years,with my partner. We both enjoy it very much.
And our flip fucs just add more to it all.