We asked you before what do you use Adam4Adam for and majority of those who participated in our survey said that they use Adam4Adam to look for hookups (47.91%) while others said that it’s to search for friends with benefits (FWB, 35.45%). Which leads us to this question: how often do you hookup with someone, guys, and do you think one of your hookups or FWBs could turn into your long-term or lifelong partner? What if, in the long run, one of your hookups or FWBs tells you that they want something more, that they want to have a serious relationship with you—would you give them a chance?
More importantly, do you think that hookups can lead to love? This research suggests that yes, hooking up can lead into a serious relationship, granted, their survey participants were heterosexual couples. We’ve seen it happen many times here on Adam4Adam though and there’s one thing in common in those instances. And it’s that while they weren’t looking for someone serious in the beginning, in the end when they saw that there could be something more, they talked it out and gave each other a chance.
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This only goes to show that we never know where a hookup can lead, that while it may have started out as a dinner or a drink with a stranger or a massage that you gave to a client, what happens next may surprise you both. I guess the question is: would you be willing to give a hookup or an FWB a chance if they asked for it, even if you are not looking for love?
They do say that love comes unexpectedly. It comes and it happens even though we are not looking and personally, we believe that there’s someone out there for everyone. That there’s someone out there who thinks we are just the right amount of perfect even if we ourselves don’t think that we are enough.
What about you, guys? What do you think? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below and don’t forget to download the A4A app here if you don’t have it yet on your mobile.
Happy connecting, guys!