Recently, we talked about dating profile resolutions for 2020 but before you make any necessary changes on your profile, let me ask you guys, who are you looking for here on Adam4Adam? 

Are you looking for “the one,” for a friend, a friend with benefits, a boyfriend, a hookup, a date, or someone you can just talk to for a while—someone like, you know, a chatmate? Perhaps you are using Adam4Adam for networking opportunities or to expand your small business through our PRO membership?

We are asking because time and again we’d read threads online asking the community where people who are definite dating material could have possible gone. How they only seem to meet people who are interested in hooking up but not in serious or long-term relationships. What’s worse, they said, is that these people are duplicitous. They’d make you believe they are looking for romance only to find out later they’re only in it for a one-night stand and that they’d disappear into oblivion after having sex with you once. How true is this for you, guys? Do you agree with their sentiment? Have you had a similar experience in online dating so far?

The thing is, we are all living our lives according to our own pace, which means that while some of us are ready for a long-term relationship, others are simply not ready to commit. And that is why here on A4A, you can specify on your profile exactly who you are looking for so don’t forget to edit your profile here as doing so makes it easier for us to search for users with similar interests and vice versa.

That being said, it is hard to find the one. I mean, if it’s that easy, then there’d be no need for Adam4Adam and it’s also why there’s a saying that we have to kiss a lot of frogs before we find our prince or princess. But what we can say for certain is that it does happen. In fact, there are A4A users who found love right here on Adam4Adam. There’s Neill Coleman and Daniel Stephens who got married in 2015, the couple met here on A4A in 2007; Robert who met his fiancé Zach here in 2013; husbands Rex and Ron; Jose and Arthur; Tegan and Michael; and there’s our tattooed husbands, Adam and Jeremy to name a few.

But what about you, guys? What do you use Adam4Adam for? Is it to look for a friend, a fuck buddy, or someone you can be with for the rest of your life? By the way, if you have yet to download the app, you can do so here. And if any of you dear readers have an Adam4Adam love story you’d like to share, please tell us about it in the comments section below or email us at [email protected]. We’d love to hear it!