Have you ever had a roommate with benefits (RWB), guys? If so, how did that relationship turn out for you?
RWB is similar to having FWB or friends with benefits in the sense that the two of you are having sex but you are not boyfriends and are not looking for a serious relationship with each other, which means that the two of you can date other people. The only difference is that in RWB, both of you live in the same apartment hence the perpetual dilemma: to be or not to be in RWB with the attractive roommate you have the hots for.
Others say they are not willing to risk it, because what if things go south? What if your relationship become complicated and it turned awkward and messy, what will you do then, they ask? What makes these kinds of situations even more difficult is when things between you two become weird as this will also make your, say, four other roommates feel weird. And this is why they advise people to “not shit where you eat;” applicable too, when it comes to getting involved with colleagues, they say.
Conversely, those who said that they are up for it reasoned that if roommate with benefits works for you then there’s no reason why you should not try it. Another said that people should just do what they want because they’d end up regretting their decision either way and it’s really just a matter of choosing between “I wish we tried” or “I wish we’d never met.”
Anyway, what about you, what do you think? Have you ever been in this situation? If so, what did you do and how did your choice work out for you? Share with us your thoughts and RWB stories in the comments section below.
Never had such a thing, and really not interested in it. I enjoy living alone and having my partners come over and enjoying whatever comes up.
A roommate with benefits relationship can be … should be … great for two gay guys. While there’s no guarantee, there is much guys can do to make sure it works. For many gay guys, there would be “too many rules” or “too many requirements”. They just can’t be responsible adults. They just can’t look down the road. They should be avoided at all costs. Much of the “relationship” is “business”. Make sure the “business” as well as the “benefits” portions are handled. The “business”: The Rent: both occupants should be on the lease/contract. The ownership of all or part… Read more »
Fuck till you drop. That was easy……….
why has this site become such a scam site cannot believe all the scam men trying to get financial imformation and money and not even people that are close by
Got 3 and they all fuck me
damn you lucky btm!!!
I met my ex roommate on another Dating platform and him and I went on our first “date” as friends, then when he found out that I needed a to find a new place to live, he offered for me to move in as a roommate with him and the owner of the house in which they all lived. I took the offer and him and I fooled around during my residency there. I started to fall for him and wanted to be with me, but he had other obligations. He sent me mixed singles and there were some nights… Read more »
I’d do it to get a break on rent.
HELL NO! Never works out….keep your roommate as a ROOMMATE….
Totally agree! Why risk something that could make things worse than trying to find a sex partner – but a place to live a well.
Years ago my roommate and I were watching straight porn. We sis this ever night and on night he kept fast forwarding through the fucking part so we were just watching the blowjobs. We started talking shit about sucking dick. I told him he would not know what to do with mine if he had it. Next thing I knew he was pulling my sweat pants down. He looked up and said you don’t mind? I said I am not stopping you. He went down on my dick. First ever blowjob I had. I reached over him and got a… Read more »
It works with straight/bi dudes. Never an expectation of a relationship. What fun.
Been there, done that. I used to reply to ads on craigslist for gay men looking for a roommate. I was never looking for a place to rent. I did this just to see If I could get them to fuck me when they invite me over to check to place out.
9 out of 10 times, they were bending me over…
after 30 years of not mixing roommates & sex, I finally broke my rule, and the last 7 years have been fun ! The last 2 roomies were friends and f-buds and that continued after each moved in
another fantasy that is best left to the porn sites. sex and bills are something that do not mix well. if one is in a relationship, so be it. but this seems more of a having cake and eating it too dream. I can think of many problems… Just watch Judge Judy… but few realistic alternatives. Unless one is a rent boy, just can’t see this as a reasonable frame of mind.
Send it back to Porntube
Maybe we should behave like adults instead of middle schoolers?
Not wise. You give up your private place. What happens when you or the roomie doesn’t like or has already played with a hookup you bring home, could get ugly.. Also, what happens when the sexual attraction stops & you still may have to live together?
If I ever have a roommate with benefits, we would never accomplish anything because I’m just gonna wanna do it all day and all night!
A roommate with benefits would be great considering I would want to fuck every night
I am all for it. I had that kind of relationship once. We both had girlfriends at the time but he would still fuck me from time to time. We are still close friends today.
I’m ready for a long hard dick to wake up to next to me better than thinking about it
I’m actually looking for a dominant black top as roommate now it’s been my dream to get fucked daily by a roommate and im gonna make it happen