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Recently we had a year-end review, a reflection on LGBTQ+ progress and challenges in 2023. So of course, it’s only fitting that we also have one for our dating life, or at least a gay man on Reddit thought so. In a thread that he started, he asked: “How many dicks have been in your mouth in 2023?” He then reasoned, “Doing a little poll.”
The responses varied widely; while some answered zero, others boasted numbers reaching four digits. Clearly, some gay men have had quite an eventful sex life all throughout the year.
“It was the year of my first time, and I had 10 dicks,” one respondent shared. While another gay man replied, “I admit that the other day I had sex with a brand-new man and there was no oral contact of any kind. What I mean is oral genital contact. Other than that, I have two or three dicks a week in my mouth every week. So that’s 100 and 150… And they’re not all different of course. Sometimes I see the same man more than once.”
Here are the other responses, and we quote:
“It’s been a slow year so maybe about 40.”
“If the same one is counted many times so at least 365, if not just one.”
“Zero… looking to lose my virginity and everything next year hopefully.”
“Maybe 50 a week for 50 weeks (so far), so about 2,500.”
“1, I realized I don’t really like sucking dick. It not for me.”
“Lost count but will remember to keep count in 2024.”
Meanwhile, one guy responded, “I wasn’t aware there was a competition, so I didn’t count.”
What about you, guys? How many times did you have oral sex in 2023? What’s your hookup tally for 2023? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
’23 was the “Year of the Lost Cocks” for me..
Three Regular Feeders have moved away from my neighborhood, and my mouth and throat…which is heartbreaking because, I loved getting a message at work from one of them (or two of them…) telling me they needed their Cumheavy Balls drained, and I had an hour after I got home from work to be showered and fresh, and on my knees waiting for them…
Sincerely, having a real and satisfying connection with a good and reliable Cockfeeder is something to treasure.
Happy ’24 Cocksuckers!
Man I wish we lived close bi!
It really does something to you when your top demand that you bring that ass or come over and suck that nut out of him ,,,it give you a sense of being want and needed, now my wife make me feel that way all the time,, but it’s different when you are a bottom and to be wanted and desired in that way by anutha man make you feel like you really have a purpose as a bottom,,I travel sometimes 3 times a week to go satisfied my man,,2023 has been a great year,,and to the guys that I chat… Read more »
2023 was a year in which my libido came back roaring! I’m not sure why, maybe diet and workouts or my mental health improved… Or all the above but I was very active last year! I don’t think I went a whole two weeks without doing something sexual. From the regulars to newbies… My dick was seemingly always in someone’s mouth and ass. I went on binges when it was like 5 in a week, two in one day. That was all new to me, as I was normally a once a week or once every two weeks for years.… Read more »
Quantity or Quality?
Individually or Collectively?
My extremely robust sex life is literally NOTHING now! Once upon time I could walk down a street…..go to a gym…store….anything! And meet a sexy man. NOW….people just want to exit on the internet. ” I wish I were there”…….”If I were there” etc. I have hit people who not only lived on my block. But in BUILDING. No one hooks up. They want to send pics and messages over the net. I am over it
In the same building??
That’s so lame.
I would kick puppies out of the way to make room for a solid Top Man living in my building…
I sucked one guy regularly and two others occasionally. I was rewarded with hot loads several times a week. My regular guy moved, so I need to seek new cock in 2024.
My guy who would give me head moved away too I’m in seek of another how are you 🙂
Good, but in need of cock to suck.
Sorry about that…. my regular feeders haven’t move in yet
I’ve always enjoyed suckn dick but being married it was hard for me to suck a guy to completion and going home kissing my wife,, but last year that changed, ,, my ate my ass so good I had to return to favor,, so I suck his dick just like I usually does but this time when I heard him moan I took his dick as far in my throat as I could,, and then he released that cream it was like all I wanted to do was drain him,, then I realized I been missing out on his nourishment,,,… Read more »
I had sex twice a day, 3 times a week, once a day twice a week. It equates to over 400 times last year. Ooops I forgot about the trip to Palm Springs…so probably 440? I am the Wilt Chamberlain of gay sex.
This is total BS. If you are counting, you might want to rethink things. And this space is encouraging this.
Closeted BiMM here so getting “gay-laid” safely & on the down-low is always a challenge. I regularly cruise a4a and other online sites, but going from “hey, what’s up” to “meet me here at 4pm” is always a very long haul. Extreme safety is always a core issue for me along with, of course, looks/appeal/status, etc. Add it all up and I had 15 gay sex experiences with 8 different guys in 2023, which is a little above par for the course for me. I assume it’s a figure that pales in comparison to some while perhaps shocking others.
I wouldn’t brag!
I do admit –
better than some –
worse than others!
Improvements may need to be made?
Alterations?
Amendments?
I often say to my confidants that my “head count” is both alarming and hot. I was really just reporting it out on here, not bragging. Then again, if I were to get in a confidential discussion with someone in similar shoes, some fun boasting could be exciting.
Agreed!
Enjoy the repartee!
We are all together!
All in on that as long as it’s always SAFE.
“Esta Muy Bein”?
Or
“Estan Muy Bein”?
It just depends on what you’re into?
What I’m into vs. what I’ll actually do can be separate things. I mean, shedding that condom would be great in a disease-free world, but that’ll never happen with me and I’d never entrust PreP. Also very selective with whose ass I’ll dig my tongue in. What about you?
I have only sucked 2 dicks on a regular basis, but did suck 3 other dicks for a total of 5 dicks this year.
Must have been a slow 2023.
“50 a week for 50 weeks?” Sorry, I’m calling bullshit on that one.
Welcome back to junior high Betty Lou. There are really only 2 answers. Enough or not enough.
Well, if I’d known someone was keeping track, I might have kept a count. Maybe 6 or 7 different men total. It’s been a slow year. Not expecting much better in the new year. I’d be happy with just one consistent man.
Played with 6 guys in the past year. 3 regularly and 3 others a couple of times. A variety of sex acts, not always oral. But I don’t keep track. Happy to be able to get out of clothes with a guy and enjoy whatever we decide to do, or that nature lets us.
I went from a rich rewarding life of a throater to zilch. I use to suck 3 to 4 dicks a week. Im an older man that is gifted in giving bj. I had a regular that moved away. I live in a community that wants gobs of pictures before a hook up. I send 1 maybe 2. U either like em or not. I started to have knee problems that limited my mobility. Wound up using a walker, very embarrassing for a proud runner of half marathons plus trail running. I dropped out of all hook up sites until… Read more »
I had one in my mouth and the same one in my ass….. same day. Mouth was first then he topped me for first time. That’s all. Need some more bad.
I met another closeted, married man on a4a this year. We chatted for a while & found that we shared the same sexual desires. The planets managed to align for us a half dozen times this year and I’ve experienced some of the best sex of my life. Definitely hoping for more with him in 2024!
Awesome!
…and, so rewarding.
That’s how it had worked with almost all of my regular FWBs. All guys who are or were married. Most are dads as well. Also guys who never did the big Come Out. Not “in the closet” hiding, but wishing to keep their sexuality known only by people they are very close with or choose to have sex with. All great men that I’m happy are in my life.
Is it just me or is it more and more of us married guys out here enjoying the best of both worlds,,? I mean being with men on the low while being with women is never good,, but I’ve said it before , as long as no one is getting hurt what is the problem,, I mean me and my wife still have sex but it’s not as much as we use to,,, I’m a 100% bottom but I do enjoy fuckn women in the ass,, I don’t have any desire to top a man at all and it turns… Read more »
I am a married DL bottom brutha that enjoy pleasing men and letting real men use my body for their pleasure,,it’s something about the fact of a man making me feel submissive to him that turns me on,,I enjoy it when my man tell me to get on my knees and suck his dick,, put one hand under my chin and feed me his dick or when he put me at the edge of the bed and have me face down ass up right before he tells me to spread my cheeks for him,,I feel like a bottom should be… Read more »
I’ve been seeing the exact same, slightly younger man for the last 12 years now, he has a relative that lives north of me; so, we hang out at least 6-8 times a year for about several days of “party play” Soflo-style.
But in between those get togethers; sometimes, I tend to date and sometimes have sex with these out of towners and foreigners, especially during this very season.
I am searching for my ideal all top guy. I want to be his passive bottom and service him anytime he needs cock sucking or wants to fuck me. It really makes me horny to think of being another man’s object of lustful desire. To let go and be passively at his command. I want my top to demand that I come over and suck his call and swallow his cum.
I chat with a lot of bottoms rather they are open and out bottoms or bi bottoms or married DL bottoms,,, well mostly married DL bottoms like myself,, it seems that we all have the same sexual desire,, we want to be submissive and we want dominant tops to take control of us sexually,,, it seems that we all want that dominant top that’ll make us feel like the bitches that we desire to be,, I mean I admit,, turns me on when my man put me in panties and make me suck his dick while he watches the game,,,or… Read more »
I lost track of my “hookup tally” a while ago. Memorable encounters? – better question. Were you happy with your sex life? – the best question. (and if you keep a tally, happiness may be harder to reach)