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Thanksgiving is here. It’s a cherished holiday for many, a day to pause, reflect, and come together with loved ones. It’s a time to indulge in traditions, from preparing mouthwatering meals to sharing heartfelt conversations, but also to confront the complexities of family dynamics and what it truly means to be grateful.
For some, Thanksgiving dinner means a bustling family table with turkey, mashed potatoes, and an array of side dishes handed down through generations. For others, it might involve a Friendsgiving celebration with a chosen family, where turkey is swapped for lasagna or something unconventional yet delicious. Whatever your tradition, the day is often a mix of joy, nostalgia, and, occasionally, tension.
Do you spend Thanksgiving with your biological family, chosen family, or friends? Does your gathering include traditional fare, or do you experiment with new dishes every year? For many LGBTQ+ folks, Thanksgiving can be a time of unique challenges. Some might navigate strained family relationships, while others experience the joy of bringing their authentic selves to the table.
But Thanksgiving isn’t just about the food; it’s also about gratitude. Reflecting on what you’re thankful for can be a grounding practice, especially during tough times. Are you grateful for supportive friends, a thriving career, personal growth, or simply making it through the year? Gratitude doesn’t have to be grand; even the smallest joys, like a warm hug or a kind word, deserve recognition.
How does this season of gratitude shape your relationships or mindset? Do you use this time to strengthen bonds, mend fences, or express love to those who matter most?
We’d also love to hear your thoughts on Thanksgiving traditions. What’s your favorite dish at the table—are you all about the turkey, or do you dive straight for the desserts? Do you bring anything special to the gathering, whether it’s a dish, a story, or simply your presence?
Finally, let’s talk gratitude. Adam4Adam readers, what are you most thankful for this year? Is it family, friends, love, health, or a new chapter in life?
Drop your stories in the comments section below. Share your Thanksgiving plans, your favorite moments, and what makes this holiday special for you. Here’s to a Thanksgiving filled with connection, love, warmth, and gratitude, cheers!
Happy Turkey Day from Zebra!
Happy Turkey Day From Trump!
He’ll leave in his wake, so very much collateral damage I don’t think people have considered, or maybe they did.
And his haters (leaders at the top if the other Party) counselled their followers to avoid family members who voted for him. Break up the family unit?
No damage there. Really?!
. . . I won’t repeat myself . . . but it’s MUCHO bigger than that, innocent children, older people, they will suffer the war of “poverty” at much higher levels, it’s the most violent of wars waged, poverty. Your mention is indeed noteworthy but falls short and is slight compared to people’s ability to actually eat; remain housed; maintain medical care. Just imagine small homeless kids and old people living in the streets, here’s another one, what will happen to those that are dependent on HIV meds . . . I read back 10′ in SFGN “South Flo., gay… Read more »
Why am I not at all surprised that the most obnoxious troll on this blog is a Trump supporter? Color me fucking shocked.
Unfortunately I spent Thanksgiving with my roommate! My family is hundreds of miles away on the East Coast. But I love to cook so we ate extremely well 😉 I’d much rather be dining with my boyfriend or husband u know?
I haven’t “done a thanksgiving” in decades, it’s really not relevant in the ways it started out, but more of “whitewashing.”
I’m thankful, every day I wake-up alive and healthy, say verse at all three meals, and when I go to bed at night for a decent day.
I just feel like it’s much more authentic, of gratitude.
Do you even know what “whitewashing” means?