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Does anal sex feel good?

Not everyone loves anal sex, but what about you, guys? And if someone else were to ask you what anal sex feels like, how would you answer them? Also, how true is it that anal sex is only pleasurable for the top or the person who’s giving?

We’re bringing this up because a similar question was posted in a forum asking gay men if anal sex is truly pleasant. Going by his question, it seemed like he didn’t enjoy his first time and he even wondered whether he was bisexual instead of gay, prompting readers to suggest that OP (original poster) might be a top or a side.

One respondent shared, “My first time was frustrating. He tried to just use spit – which isn’t lube! It wasn’t until I took control (rode him ‘cowgirl’) that I saw a glimmer of the pleasure of getting fucked.”

He added, “Next time was better. And it just got better and better.” The man then advised, “Lube is essential.”

Further, one gay man said:

Receptive anal sex is definitely pleasant for some men. Absolutely. Totally. I’ve fucked some men who couldn’t get enough of it.

However, not all men enjoy being fucked. It’s not a compulsory part of being a gay men. That’s why there are tops as well as bottoms (and versatile men, and even sides) – because we’re all different.

So, you don’t like being fucked. So what? Fuck someone instead! Or, maybe you’re not into anal sex at all, and that’s okay too.

Meanwhile, one reader replied, “Honestly, it’s not, and I’m not sure why it’s made to seem like it is. Most get used to it and in their mind it’s pleasurable.”

Having said all that, Adam4Adam Blog readers who love anal sex, what does anal sex feel like?  How would you describe the feeling? Most importantly, what tips would you give to first-timers on anal sex in order for them to minimize pain and make the experience pleasurable and sexy?

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