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How do you feel about fisting, guys? Have you ever tried it before? Why or why not?
Also called fist-fucking, fisting is defined as “the sexual practice of inserting one or both hands into the vagina or rectum of one’s sexual partner.”
There is a huge fascination with fisting online, going by the many times I encounter this topic on the internet. Some are for it and have actually tried it, others find the topic fascinating enough that they may be open to trying it someday although some guys say they find fisting gross and that it’s not for them. Which one is it for you?
Anyway, some guys shared their experiences with fisting. One of them said, “I’ve fisted an ex before. It was fascinating how much pleasure he experienced. He squirted multiple times. That alone excited me. To be able to please someone to that degree.”
In addition, another guy who has been on the receiving end shared, “For me, fisting has opened up a world of pleasure I didn’t even know existed. There is literally, and I mean literally, nothing on earth more pleasurable that having your guts punched deep and hard by a massive fist and forearm. It’s almost transcendentally good.”
Meanwhile, another guy reminded the men on the thread that: “Rectal prolapse is disgusting. I don’t want to risk having that kind of problem.” His comment gathered responses, one particular guy said, “Yeah it’s not the same at all. I know guys that take two fists and actually WANT a prolapse and can’t get one. Sex is weird I know.”
Having said all that, if you are curious and you wish to know more about fisting, you might want to read this article.
Are you into fisting, guys? Why or why not? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
Not. Absolutely NOT.
Fisting is the most, intimate, mind joining sexual act two men…or two women, or a man and a woman, can experience! Don’t, go by the flics the, porn industry, will have you believe, though. You have to start out, slow, and controlled, at first, then, once warmed up, you can be just as rough as you want, to a certain extent, and the bottom will, love it! It makes sense, anatomically, for the bottom to be on his hands and knees but, you miss the, all important , eye contact, in my opinion so, we use a sling. Make sure… Read more »
No!
As open minded as I am about a great many things, NO!
Absolutely love it!!! Love the stretch!!!
is your sphincter as enthused as you are or has it Googled “prolapse” and “adult Pampers” already?
you may love the STRETCH butcha prolly won’t like da HURT! much less da OUCH, honey!
Obviously, only a few realize the anatomic dangers of inserting a hand into the rectum? Have the others ever heard of the ramifications of tearing the duodenum and the ending result of a colostomy and its bag? Does sexual gratification override the intellect? Does anyone understand Peritonitis? The anal cavity is not, genetically, designed to open externally – inwards; It is designed to open internally -outwards… unlike the vagina which is designed to open both ways? Not looking to question the intrinsic right to achieve pleasure and organism but I do question the ramifications of prolonged and sometimes lethal complications?… Read more »
As an Addendum: I knew a male from Provincetown, MA., who had a sling hanging from his living room ceiling. He was fisted and punched until he was on par with “Veal”! Subsequently… one evening, filled with various personae partaking his anus with vigor and disregard…tore his anal cavities – outer & inner – along with his duodenum,,,until hospitalization was required. Surgery performed and he had a “Colostomy Bag” attacked to his right side. He called it “His Douche-Bag”. He emptied it out accordingly and meticulously but eventually, feces found their way into his body cavity and he developed “Peritonitis”… Read more »
Nice horror story. It’s not what happens in real life unless you do indeed abuse a butt. Yes they can tear. Yes you should be careful. No, repeated fisting, done correctly, does no short or long-term harm.
Instead, it can be intimate and highly erotic. And yes, it’s easily abused and can be dangerous if you’re high or just a nitwit.
Otherwise, nice scare job. Look before crossing. Dot your eyes, too.
Actually, there were quite a few causalities in Provincetown of “Rips & Tears” fueled by drugs and alcohol.
The “Outer Reach Cape Medical Center: did quite a bit of business, too!
Yes, it is a horror story and it is what some do to themselves and that takes horror to
the next level!
“done correctly,”
This is always a bullshit caveat. Russian roulette, “done correctly” is safe. Everything, “done correctly”, is safe. Unfortunately, many activities cannot be “done correctly” reliably. Honest people call these activities “dangerous”.
Yes and it’s super intense. Fucking is like being inside another guy. Docking is like being the other guy. Fisting is like the other guy is your puppet. It’s so hot to feel another guy’s heartbeat from inside his body. I don’t understand the long term health risks of developing a gaping hole, let alone a prolapse. I don’t know how healthy it is, but it’s definitely fun!
Into fisting? No.
Why? My ass is not wired for pleasure. Any item inserted into with a diameter greater than 2″results in pain. So much so, I’m NOT interested in “getting past it” or “working through it”.
A couple of my buds are narrow. I’m happy to take them “on board” and I totally enjoy working them up to orgasm.
Narrow = Tight!
The Right Angle;
The Right Lube;
Tenacity;
Endurance;
Motion In The Ocean;
And, Of Course…
The Right Saddle!
No.
Once in a great while out of complete curiosity, I watch a few minutes of it in pornos. But each time it gives me shivers – just way too disgusting for me. I recall seeing one porno in particular where after a guy pulled his whole forearm out of the other guy’s ass, his ass looked like a popped balloon. I was like “ummm….that’s it for me!” Nearly threw up.
Absolutely NOT. How disgusting. What’s the point? No-No-No…
I’ve fisted a girl in college. It just kinda happened and was enjoyable for both of us and she squirted when I pulled out. The only girl to squirt. I like a nice cock inside me but I don’t want to be that stretched out.
Insane, yes. Hot, not
I would be worried about prolapsing.
There is, always, surgery!
Stupid response. Sick.
But, plausible and surprising affordable, too!
Most Health Insurances pay for it as does Medicare and Medicaid, too!
Fisting ruins a guy for normal anal sex… and it makes his anus *ugly* in the process. I consider it an immediate NO. I don’t want a partner who requires adult diapers prematurely, and who can’t be satisfied with normal intimacy. As for my ass… HELL NO!!!
Hang Tough, Butch!
As a former health educator who, at the height of the AIDS crisis counseled many men and ran safe sex workshops, I would point out that taking three, two, or even one finger is TECHNICALLY ‘fisting’. And while I personally find the idea of sticking my whole fist up someone’s ass truly appalling, I love ass play (from ‘both ends’ pun intended) and various boy-friends have stuck two or three fingers up MY ass (once memorably even four) and my orgasms were/are invariably mind-boggling, almost out-of-body experiences…
But as the French say ‘chacon à son gout’ …
In English…
“To Each His Own”!
I think yes I want to give it a try at least once with the right person, take it easy and make it fun!
fucking the best sex I have ever had, fist and take fist to
I have taken 4 fingers, and had to stop, not sure if I could ever take a had. I also feel that it is not healthy, could damage something up there. I also am a clean person, would really have to clean out first. I take scat, mine or other guy. I enjoy the simple dick in me, rather than a hand.
FF opens a mental and sexual connection. Add to other sexual kinks makes 4 for some great greasy mind-blowing sex. Both as top and bottom highly recommend trying it. The worst part is prepping holes must be clean enough to eat.
I’m sure there are two camps here, those who participate in fisting and those who do not. I think the ladder are afraid of being ridiculed if they post here
I’ve been fisted a few times absolutely love it , very intense feeling and the ultimate orgasm usually multiple
….I want to try being Fisted.
I used to be 100% ambivalent towards it, but after training myself on double dildo fucking myself… I’d like to try being fisted by a Man.
What’s wrong with a little experimentation?
You can die from it, that’s what’s wrong.
You can die crossing a street if you fail to take caution.
Why did I get a Thumbs Down for my comment?
You can die crossing the street… You can die in your sleep…you can die eating birthday cake…You can die from anything.
Maybe because most posters have said they were not exited by or saw it as a health danger or were grossed out by it and you not only said you wanted to try it, but also posted a picture of you available hole??
I negated it with a thumbs up. I also wanted to clear up a little bit of misinformation I keep seeing others posting… Some of these guys base their comments on misinformation about fisting and instantly reject it without knowing more. For example, I’ve seen guys talking about having to wear diapers. There may be anecdotes out there of people who got a little too crazy with their play and could, indeed, have damaged themselves permanently as a result. That’s because they were trying too much too fast, didn’t know or learn their own limits, or they simply had bad… Read more »
Thank YOU, JT. Thank You for the in-depth, and helpful information. I am curious to experience penetration closer to my perceived limits, and I am also fearful of long term side effects, and altering physiology… but, I am grateful you took the time to explain more of what can be achieved, the heightened pleasure, and also what warning signs can be observed and avoided when selecting a partner for this experience. Thank You again for the personal approach and explanation, and thank you for not giving me grief for posting a picture of my body.. … everybody else please take… Read more »
Square peg, round hole?
100% NO!
Having been the giver and receiver in fisting I can tell you it is the most intimate connection you can have with another man. Not in the romantic aspect but that can be the case between boyfriends but in the indescribable physical and mental feeling that puts pales normal orgasms. It’s not for everyone but it is totally enjoyable for both and while the initial few times I won’t deny it smarts like hell as the one being fisted, once your hole gets used to being that opened, it’s awesome and a whole lot of fun. I have a couple… Read more »
Fisting is another optional sexual activity. It can and should be enjoyed by anyone to first experiment with and, upon finding it pleasurable, add to their sex playbook. Not for me. Anal has never been fun, even after trying several times over the years. Being fingered can be nice if given with ample lube and patience. I enjoy giving it to partners who like it. Consequently, guys showing pictures of their gaping holes or fisting or being fisted is not enticing or engaging. The gapers make me think of The Holland Tunnel and the large number of cocks or items… Read more »
It is not just optional. It is extremely dangerous and life-threatening. Run, don’t walk away from anyone who does it.
When homophobic types express their disgust at anal sex, saying that is not what the anus is for, I always counter with the argument that the body serves multiple functions. A vagina, for example, is used for sex but also for urination and childbirth; a mouth is used for kissing, sucking, eating, spitting, rimming, etc. When it comes to fetishes, I often wonder how the sexual impulse has strayed psychologically from usual to extreme forms of sex. The brain is more creative than other parts of the body, and it sometimes leads the body astray, which is why we see… Read more »
OMG. Women do not pee from their vagina. Where did you get your education, Trump U?
Voting down this comment is hilarious. Just because this site if for gay/bi men doesn’t mean we need to be uneducated about women.
To each his own, but I feel no need of this activity. There’s enough shit to deal with in life these days, one need not invite more. I notice the article does not mention the prevalence of drug use connected to this activity. Thus I will ask what I feel is a reasonable question: Is the “intimacy” some FF guys refer to intimacy with a person or intimacy with the effects of a dis-inhibiting drug?.
It’s one of those things that I’d watch out of curiosity, but over all, NOT.
I cringe at the thought, regardless of what end of the hand I’d be on. I can’t help but think that anyone who’s on the receiving end of the hand with any regularity, is probably relegated to wearing a diaper.
That explains why I keep seeing guys into diapers. Never thought of it.
So that explains why you’re diapered.
I enjoy watching it on video (unless there’s a prolapse – that shit is nasty) but have no interest in giving or receiving a fist in real life. Even before I knew the health risks I just wasn’t into it.
Yeah why not
I don’t think I could ever get fisted. Years ago, more in my top days, I did hook up with a guy that wanted to see what it was like, so I fisted him. I’m on the smaller side, with fairly small hands but not creepy doll sized hands like a certain orange fellow we all know, and he enjoyed it. Afterwards, I fucked him until I came. His ass immediately tightened back up. Had someone else fisted him and I fucked him after, I would not had known, he was that tight. Was it hot for me? No, not… Read more »
Absolutely not. Fetishization of this is sick. Prolapsing requires hospital treatment.
I do not find fisting a sexual act…to me its a control thing. But I get that other guys do feel it is a very sexual act. Different strokes for different folks. I am a bottom and I love, love, love dick up my ass but I have absolutley no desire to be fisted. I know a guy that liked to be fisted. His fantasy was to have a guy put his hand up his ass and then open his hand up wide. That guy ended up in a hospital and had to have surgery and a colostomy bag for… Read more »
Not for me, but I did watch a guy get fisted once and I have to say he was loving it.
Absolutely NO I will not let anyone fist me that’s a big no. The only things going in my ass is fingers and a cock that’s it.
I am a fisting top when given the opportunity; not frequently. I have gotten past the elbow and almost to the shoulder, and it makes me hotter than almost any other sexual thing I do. To watch the pleasure on the face of the bottom and feel the inside body heat and moisture drives me to ecstasy.
I am amazed buy all the negative comments, strong opinions and misinformation from guys that have not nor ever will try fisting. I have been fisting my boyfriend for about a year and his ass isn’t blown out, he doesn’t wear diapers, isn’t prolapsed and is still nice and tight. Oh, he has been getting fisted for 5 yrs! I wasn’t open to the idea at first. However, over time it has become something we both look forward to. The connection we have when fisting is extremely strong. The communication between us is heightened, both verbally and physically. The pleasure… Read more »
Definitely NOT for me.
this would hurt my butt butt WAY TOO MUCH, honey .. and when the dude pull out his hand, some brown stuff may show up on there .. ewwww! prolly never a good thang
Hail to the naw!!! It’s gross. Looks painful. And I don’t see anything sexy about it. I can’t believe guys assholes aren’t completely wrecked by it. Looks like it could kill you. And if anyone’s ever been painted from anal sex, imagine what you come out with a fist full of doing that.
I enjoy a finger or two, but that’s where it stops
A prolapse is very disgusting to me.
Plays havoc in a manicure
NOT