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How often do you have sex, guys? Moreover, how long does sex normally last for you before climaxing?

We’re bringing this up because a gay man is wondering about it and even posted this question online to solicit ideas and opinions on the matter. As to why he was curious, he shared how women would talk about this and how they “usually say it should last like an hour or more.” He explained, “This is probably due to the fact that women can ‘cum’ multiple times during sex, while Men can usually only cum once before feeling completely drained from their will to live.”

The guy also explained how sex in porn movies lasts for “like 30 minutes or so” while he and his boyfriend have sex for “about 10-20 minutes counting the time we are doing everything but ‘fucking.’” He added that they are perfectly okay with that, because although they like having sex, they, of course, also enjoy doing other stuff “like watching series and playing games, so sex lasting for that amount of time is perfect for us.”

One gay man replied to his question, “Depends how good it is. Ten minutes of good sex is always better than an hour of bad sex.”

Meanwhile, one guy said that 5 to 10 minutes is enough for a quickie but 15-20 minutes would do “if you want to add in a little foreplay.” Further, he added that if you wish to “savor the moment with your partner,” it should be 30-45 minutes but if you “want to explore specific kinks,” 45-60 minutes should do it. Anything over an hour, he said, will bore him out of his “fucking mind” as his “general preference is around 15 minutes.” Read the entire thread here.

Anyway, I don’t know about you, but I’m not really looking at the clock when I’m doing it. Plus, I agree with some of the points the guys raised. As stated above, there’s such a thing as a quickie, a time to savor it, and a time to explore your sexual boundaries and kinky ideas with your partner. In short, the time that one spent having sex varies, depending on the mood.   

But what about you, guys? How long do you think sex should last? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!

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