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When it comes to underwear, are you team briefs, team boxers, or team commando? Do you go for a snug fit that keeps everything in place, or do you prefer to let things breathe? Is your choice about practicality, or does it say something about your personality? Maybe it depends on the day, the outfit, or even who might see it—your partner, a hookup, maybe a fuck buddy? What’s your pick, and why?
Anyway, we are bringing this up because a gay man online asked, “Do you like your underwear to hug your junk or allow enough space for it to swing?”
For some guys, the answer comes down to practicality and their anatomy, like this gay man who responded, “I am not big enough to let it swing, so I prefer snug.”
This seems like a popular answer, as another guy said, “Hug, I like my underwear tight and snug, I don’t like my stuff moving or flopping around.” In addition, one guy related, “Hug, it is why I prefer either briefs or pouch boxer-briefs. Everything swinging around is annoying.” Supportive designs aren’t just about looks; they’re functional. They keep things where they should be, especially during long days or active routines.
On the flip side, some gay men prefer underwear that works with their body rather than against it: “Being hung, I like the cock pocket.”
Meanwhile, others take a more situational approach, adjusting their preference based on what they’re doing, just like this guy who responded, “When I’m working, I prefer it hug, but if I’m just chilling, I like them more loose.”
Further, this one is a popular answer: “Commando always!” They are the guys who want none of that restriction at all: “Let it all swing.”
Having said all that, if you’re on the market for a great pair of underwear, you might want to check out our Black Sheer Adam4Adam Jockstrap here and pair it with our Black Mesh Adam4Adam Tank Top!
What about you, Adam4Adam blog readers? What’s your go-to underwear, or are you the type who skips it altogether? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
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I don’t own any underwear. Haven’t for the past 40+ years. Easier access for the dominant controlling aggressive ALPHA top. LOVE letting my cocklet swing free.
What do you go after getting plowed, wear Kotex! Cause your pants must have plenty lube stains! lol
Most people would normally clean up after getting fucked in my opinion. ♂️
How do you know they do?
If you’ve got it? Flaunt it! It’s all good!
PANTIES!!!
panties and thongs for me
THE KIND WITH THE EMBROIDED LACE OR THE SILK ONES WITH THE GOLD THREAD???
Examples of your fantasies…!
Now those are sexy….
here you go
blasé lingerie?
yummy
Boxers because it would be a lotta questions ask if I a jockstrap or men bikinis in my draw or the dirty clothes hamper, but if I going to be with a man and he’s into it, I will stop by Academy and pick up a jockstrap, or a may Stop by Walmart and pick up some men bikinis a couple sizes too small because I like for them to fit tight, they make me feel sexy and hot, I like the jockstrap because I like the way the leaves my ass exposed letting my top know it’s exposed for… Read more »
Briefs keep me firmly planted usually! Go commando instead of boxers sometimes tho! Lolol
The bigger question is, what direction does your penis go, up, down, or sideways? I always point it up. I learned that in high school, so the zipper would hide my boners.
Tighty whities
I like that. Spread your legs, baby.
I am basically a briefs guy. I do have several types of underwear in my drawer that include regular boxers, boxer briefs, pouched low rise briefs, bikinis, thongs, G-strings and jockstraps. It depends on my mood, and I will wear a different type when the mood hits. Of all of them, I usually wear low rise briefs the most. Second is a jockstrap as they are a bit of a fetish for me. Boxers when it’s cooler as in warmer weather my butt sweats, and there is nothing to absorb the sweat like there is with briefs. I also prefer… Read more »
Personally I prefer thongs and g-strings. They hold me securely and I love how my ass is exposed.
I honestly don’t understand traditional boxers. Why bother?
Unless you’re wearing loose-fit pants, they always bunch-up
around your balls. Too uncomfortable for my taste.
Besides, I like to see the bulge and outline of my partner’s cock
in a well-fitted pair of briefs/boxer-briefs!
It really doesn’t matter as long as they come off.
Love loose fitting boxers. My guys need to breathe. Like my partners dressed similarly. It’s a personal preference and I love the easy access to his cock popping out the front as we warm up and being able to run my hand up his leg with easy access to his balls. I never go commando….Always want a wet fart barrier between me and my Levi’s.
I definitely prefer bikini briefs as the give me excellent support for my huge meat. I own hundreds of pairs of men’s underwear and would like to send you some!
Send ME ALL you want sexy huge MEATMAN!!! Lololol
I never understood why someone would want used funky underwear. With all the diseases out there, it’s so unsanitary. Different strokes, I ponder.
Get a life dude! Are you a hypochondriac besides a STICK IN THE MUD?!? BUT KEEP PONDERING!!!Lololol
Boxers are the best! They let everything hang and breathe, and the visual of a guy tenting is sexy. It’s also my favorite to fondle a guy under his leg opening. I wear boxers most of the time. Next is boxerbriefs, for when I feel slutty.
Finally, a top has entered the room!we need more men with boxers.
Boxers or briefs?
It’s more a question of which and when:
Boxers
Boxer Briefs
Briefs
Trunks
Low-rise Briefs
Jockstraps
G-strings
Panties
Commando
Examples of your fantasies…!
I would definitely wear that behind closed doors if the top is into it, I’m a closet bottom, and I would like to see a blog on the characteristics of a closet/DL/Bi top guys, what can a bottom/ discreet bottoms look for if out in public, I know it’s some closet/DL/Bi tops out there that be looking for closet/DL/BI bottoms, I know it’s a good thing when others can’t look at you and tell if you are closet, but it would be a good conversation to have,
I don’t think it’s a conversation that closeted/bi/DL bottom men want to have out loud. They know they like to slut out as a bottom in lingerie behind closed doors but need a top that won’t mistreat them in a way that’s dismissive, degrading or unhealthy. You can see the negative reactions on this blog when men and lingerie are discussed – not supportive, shut down any discussion with negative comments, or never try to have an open mind. It’s “no, no, no.” An unhappy population of people. If you’re not 6’1, 250, all muscle, and a 9″ dick (which… Read more »
More of a nightmare.
Not my kind of guy.
wrong color? Perhaps, the top is not cut low enough or the straps are too thick? Please explain?
He has nice titties, so àn slimmer cut would be sexier! Lol
Yuck to the MAX!!! Def NOT MY FANTASY!!Lolol
I prefer snug fitting briefs or boxer briefs with dress attire………looks too trashy/ low class to have your junk on display professionally not to mention inappropriate. I am NOT interested in ANYONE at the Workplace “Don’t shit where you eat or vice versa”. Not a fan of thongs (too girly for Me) and Men in Panties……….Hard Fn PASS. Feeling slutty/ Loosey Goosey I wear a jock or go commando.
Boxer briefs when wearing pant with a zipper! Lol! Otherwise Commando! Like when guys can see the definition of my ass crack through my shorts or sweatpants.
I prefer a bit more snug to keep it all in place, like Tommy Johns. However, if I’m meeting or hooking up, I like to go commando. Less to have to get off, plus love the feeling of my package free and easy in sweats or shorts.
De’ zebra has lots’ of cushion fo’ pushin’ I likes’ sexy briefs’ make dat bussy breathe!
I used to be a briefs guy, now I like the hugging boxers that keep me held in. Those shear jocks are cool, but I prefer the all around protection of full underwear. I also like variety, basically so I can flip it out for a quickie or to take a leak.
Not a very original question.
We’ll get your panties on, grab your purse and go to Church!
you did not mention the heels?
Guys in panties are the best
My kinda guy
Most of the time I wear boxers but, if I want to accentuate my package, I will wear briefs. Jockstraps are sexy also and I have worn panties.
I live in the subtropics, love boxers, I’m one of those transplants here, who very quickly, adjusted the lifestyle of old dudes, wearing my boxer all day everyday around the house.
Personally, low rise briefs bikni briefs and jock straps. Im hung but a grower so the pouchs help and as far a brands I mostly wear Jockmail.
Personally, low rise briefs bikni briefs and jock straps. Im hung but a grower so the pouchs help and as far a brands I mostly wear Jockmail.
i am ten inches thick love briefs with a pouch. I like every thing in place. Boxer briefs maybe not long ones. Don’t like them riding up. Stuck in my ass crack or riding up. But prefer a hot moiuth on my cock too. Like a nice jock strap too. I love guys looking at my package.
I like when I see well hung guy in loose pants or joggers, either with boxers underneath or free balling, love to see his print dangling
Ten inches and you wear punk panties cause you don’t like your underpants “riding up “??? Sounds more like Lizzo to me. You make it sound like an dream sequence lol
commando or lil girlie gstring
Something about boxer briefs look so sexy to me and that’s all I own. I don’t get turned off by regular boxers or briefs, but boxer briefs are my fave. Regardless, all underwear looks better on the floor!
Boxers for sleeping. Boxer briefs for everyday wear.
That’s been my MO for years….. or sleep nude on occasions too….
If I have to wear them, then short boxer briefs. Commando is preferred.
I absolutely love white briefs!
Sexy boxer briefs or sexy briefs some of them backless…underwear from Gregg Homme and Rick Majors plus a couple of sexy jockstraps…BiLust near Cleveland, Ohio
I like the feeling I get from wearing a backless jock.
Commando all the way, every day!
I mostly wear boxer briefs but prefer to wear briefs when wearing jeans as they tend to offer more support against the denim.
yo, da’ homies & da’ white bread, Zebra has his own lingerie
STR8 outa the JUNGLE!!! Lololol
LOL! LOL! LOL!
Damn Zebra, last week you were a total top. Now you’re giving up pussy for Mother’s Day! What’s wrong with you people lol
Depending on my mood, I usually wear boxer briefs, love the snug fit and the big bulge when pants are off
Jockstraps
I wear briefs or boxer briefs. I wear boxers only to bed, if at all. Hanes, or Fruit of the Loom, usually. Any brand that does not have its name all over me! It’s sickening to see guys wearing Calvin Klein or Andrew Christians, or 2Xist.
The hybrid Boxer-Briefs are the best choice.
Panties…every day!
Jockstraps