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Thanksgiving is here. It’s a cherished holiday for many, a day to pause, reflect, and come together with loved ones. It’s a time to indulge in traditions, from preparing mouthwatering meals to sharing heartfelt conversations, but also to confront the complexities of family dynamics and what it truly means to be grateful.
For some, Thanksgiving dinner means a bustling family table with turkey, mashed potatoes, and an array of side dishes handed down through generations. For others, it might involve a Friendsgiving celebration with a chosen family, where turkey is swapped for lasagna or something unconventional yet delicious. Whatever your tradition, the day is often a mix of joy, nostalgia, and, occasionally, tension.
Do you spend Thanksgiving with your biological family, chosen family, or friends? Does your gathering include traditional fare, or do you experiment with new dishes every year? For many LGBTQ+ folks, Thanksgiving can be a time of unique challenges. Some might navigate strained family relationships, while others experience the joy of bringing their authentic selves to the table.
But Thanksgiving isn’t just about the food; it’s also about gratitude. Reflecting on what you’re thankful for can be a grounding practice, especially during tough times. Are you grateful for supportive friends, a thriving career, personal growth, or simply making it through the year? Gratitude doesn’t have to be grand; even the smallest joys, like a warm hug or a kind word, deserve recognition.
How does this season of gratitude shape your relationships or mindset? Do you use this time to strengthen bonds, mend fences, or express love to those who matter most?
We’d also love to hear your thoughts on Thanksgiving traditions. What’s your favorite dish at the table—are you all about the turkey, or do you dive straight for the desserts? Do you bring anything special to the gathering, whether it’s a dish, a story, or simply your presence?
Finally, let’s talk gratitude. Adam4Adam readers, what are you most thankful for this year? Is it family, friends, love, health, or a new chapter in life?
Drop your stories in the comments section below. Share your Thanksgiving plans, your favorite moments, and what makes this holiday special for you. Here’s to a Thanksgiving filled with connection, love, warmth, and gratitude, cheers!
