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Have you ever hooked up twice or thrice in a day? Why or why not?
After sex, some people log off and move on. Others open Adam4Adam Radar again, looking for the next hookup, just like this gay man online who asked, “Would you hook up with someone after a hookup?” He followed it with a candid explanation of his experience, writing:
I hooked up with someone who promised me the world, who then proceeded to cum in my mouth after about 15 seconds of me giving him a BJ.
After I left, I felt really unfilled, so I logged back on to the usual apps. I felt a bit slutty. But when talking to people, they seemed to have loved it?!
Just curious how many others would hook up with someone who has hooked up with someone else earlier in the day.
According to some gay men online, their decision to meet another guy again for sex depends on desire, mood, and what they’re really seeking in that moment. For many respondents, the answer was simple: yes. Many pointed out that unsatisfying sex is a common reason people go back online. One man said without judgment, “Quite a few do, especially when they did not get the satisfaction they were craving.” For him, hooking up again isn’t excessive, not when he has unmet needs.
Others were more blunt about their experiences, like this guy who revealed, “Yeah, I’ve blown two to three guys in the same day a few times.” For some, multiple hookups aren’t unusual at all; they’re just part of how casual sex works.
Further, another guy shared, “Oh, I’ve been a little slut before, and I’m top.” The message was clear: sexual roles, labels, and numbers don’t cancel out desire.
Some responses added longer reflections that showed how one hookup can unexpectedly lead to something more. One man shared a story that started with disappointment and ended with a nice surprise: “A few years ago I was in a threesome (it turned into more of a twosome because the other guy got jealous) that wasn’t very satisfying, so right after I hooked up with this guy I had met a couple weeks prior, as he happened to be just a few blocks away. He ended up becoming my regular for that summer.”
Meanwhile, others questioned whether the disappointment came from the act itself or the lack of connection afterward. “No cuddle after? Did he want to reciprocate, or were you against it? If you’re still horny and this wasn’t a betrayal of a commitment, then why not?” According to this guy, sometimes it’s not the sex (or lack of it); it’s what didn’t happen after. Do you agree with him?
Anyway, several men framed multiple hookups in a day as practical rather than emotional. “I’ve done this before if bottoms have cum too soon and I didn’t get to finish. Always find another guy to finish with.”
Lastly, there were also gay men offering advice to anyone feeling guilty or conflicted. “Yeah, no shame in that game! Sometimes you don’t get what you want, or you just want more, and that’s OK.” That sentiment echoed throughout the discussion: wanting more doesn’t make you wrong.
Hooking up again right after sex doesn’t need justification. Whether you’re ready for round two—or ready to stop—what matters is choosing freely and honestly. For many gay men, logging back on after a hookup isn’t being slutty—it’s about honesty, and listening to what your body and mind are asking for in the moment.
Having said all that, what about you, guys? Have you ever hooked up again the same day when the first one didn’t quite hit the mark? Moreover, what makes a hookup feel complete to you? Is it orgasm, intimacy, reciprocity, or something else? Share your thoughts, experiences, and personal rules in the comments section below.
sure twice is twice is nice ,right,lol
Lol. Right. It’s 24 hours in a day and that’s a lot of time. Let’s say the bottom guy takes a lot of time to clean out and the top guy cums in less than a minute. The bottom guy should definitely take out his black book and find another Top.
I wish
Interesting- I remember about 10 years ago, I met an African guy on a4a. We hit it off very well and eventually he invited me to his place for sex. He told me to be there by 12 noon. On my way there, one of my friends called me on my cell phone. He asked me what was I up too. I told him I had met a really hot, young, masculine, African guy online and I was on my way over there to fuck. He said to me African guy? I said yes!! He said ummmmmmmmmm, what’s his handle… Read more »
So did you still hook up with the African guy?
Of course. He is super hot. Glad I got first crack and not leftovers. Lol
I had a similar situation to the main story. He blew his load quickly, got dressed and left. The whole encounter with him was less than 10 minutes. I was still horny so I signed on again and found someone else. We really took our time and a couple hours later were both very satisfied.
Funny thing, a couple weeks later the first guy hit me up again. I said no and told him why. He got pissed at me for turning him down. He couldn’t believe that I wouldn’t want to be left unsatisfied again.
Once, many moons ago. I had sex with a hottie at 3am and then I had sex again with a second one at 8pm the same day.
After breaking up with my abusive ex, I sold everything, home, business……everything and moved to another state. I bought a house there and started a new life. My ex never fulfilled my needs sexually and I craved attention and affection. One night, I was so horny, I went online and found a hook up. I was a masc, 45 y/o bottom and I hooked up with this handsome young man 20 yrs my junior. He was a total BB Top. IT WAS AMAZING. I wanted more. I found another guy around the same age, total top. That was amazing as… Read more »
Yes, it has happened, but the reality for me is that the men on Adam4adam, and most dating or hook up sites, are not actually motivated to meet in person. It is often frustrating to the point of complete failure for any 24 hour period. Meeting one person is typically a three day affair, unless someone I already know is looking at the same time. But , success is frequent enough that I keep coming back.
Brandon, are you in Nashville? I lived in east Nashville by Opry Mills and that’s where that night occurred LOL
SMALL World and Lightening DOES strike TWICE!!! if you’re LUCKY 🙂 LOLOL
I’ve done it a few times. It is what it is. A lot of gay guys are just bad in bed. Find a good one then he decides he just wants a one and done is a bit of a bite in the ass. X videos and a hand work out better and you don’t need to call someone the next day. If someone came along that was willing to give me a reason to change my mind I’d be open to that too.
It’s true. I’ve had better sex with straight guys because they have been trained to please their partner. But “rough trade” straight guys are the worst because you’re just a hole to them.
Virgil:
Happy New Year from da’ Zebra!
Agree on sex with Gay Guys……………way too many are DUDS or are very awkward when it comes to sex. Met my current BF on the web and it was better than expected. Dude was recently divorced, had adult kids and had a great job. Claimed his former wife could not deal with his insatiable sexual needs and told him she wasn’t interested in fulfilling that role anymore. Thought his situation was interesting because i initially thought she must be crazy or he is an animal with what he wanted. Let’s just say 6’5 220 and 9 inches had me interested.… Read more »
No,enjoy your sex life,alot of men are horny as hell from the start,especially the older mature guys,play safe and appreciate the moments of pleasure!
For me, personally, only with the same man.
double the pleasure/, double the fun/ with double men, double men, double men fun!
hmmm…something here says you’re showing your age LOL
I was born in ’64 but such commercials are shown on cable occasionally and my grandmother loved Wigley’s Spearmint Gum so my grandmother used to sing the jingle just before giving me and herself a slice of gum!
Grandma loved her Grandson! I was blessed. She knew on the first day that her grandson like the boys. She just smiled and took my hand. We went for a walk on Cape Cod. Very sad day when God took her.
Just a NUMBER – it’s HOW YOU LOOK that COUNTS!!!!! 🙂 LOLOL
look at Zebra for da’ proof-of-da’-puddin’
What could be wrong with meeting more than one guy in one day?
I’ve had multiple times when my FWBs’ schedules and mine lined up for two in a day. Once, it was three. I always shower in between, of course.
A shower is not cleaning your mouth out. At least use mouthwash or vodka to sterilize it.
“Strega or Grappa” would be an alternative to Vodka or he could use Mr. Clean or Listerine?
The teeth get brushed.
and flossed?
I don’t really call it hook ups, but I sucked 15 guys over about 7 hours — 7 at a video store and 8 on a beach early even so it dark at the beach.
oh yeah, I always carry mouthwash.
I have had sometimes that after I left the guy I messed around with I was not satisfied, I was checking for other guys right after. I never found a replacement because I sort of selective on what I want. I have met up with the same guy more than once a day. He was a real horn dog which is great.
Getting laid always makes me more horny for the next guy, and they can tell…but there never is a next guy.
I’ve sucked multiple guys in a single day several times. Once I suck o e guy, I’m eager to suck another
No different than a 3 way or group play. Shit ived had 5 or 6 guys cum in me in one night!
COOL ~ NOTHING wrong with that!!! JUDGE not lest YE be JUDGED!!!! 🙂 LOLOL
What’s WRONG with it?! Are you afraid the MORALITY POLICE will SHOW up on your DOORSTEP and PUNISH YA?!?! I’ve had 3 or 4 or MORE in one day!!! And NEVER feel GUILTY ~~ ashamed ~~ or “slutty”!!! DARK AGE mentality if you FEEL THAT WAY!!!!!!! HAVE FUN – YOLO dudes 🙂 LOLOL
I love multiple hookups in a day. I am a fairly insatiable bottom and easily can do two or three or four guys in a row with no problem.
Respect your honesty. You’re not alone believe me. Most gay guys are whores or use to be whores. Facts
WHY not – you gotta Kiss(or other things) a LOT of FROGS before you find “your PRINCE”!!! And SOME people PREFER MULTIPLE FROGS over JUST ONE Prince ANYWAY!!!! LOLOL
a Lilly Pond?
I guess I’ve always been that way. From the moment I lost my virginity with a guy, it just felt like the most natural perfect thing in the world. And I discovered quite quickly that I was a very insatiable bottom, and then I could come just from being fucked. That was a hell of a combination to discover, and it definitely turned me into a total bottom whore.
IF i was OUT i’d prolly hookup more than once but when discretion is a must, then once will do .. more like once a week i think
With two different guys? It’s really pushing the risk factor. Even if just for coronavirus and other germs. Your immune system can only handle just so much. If it is happening only once a month or less, that isn’t so bad. We have to be prudent and protect not only our health, but our partners. That’s why prostitutes are so dangerous, cause they are doing innumerable guys and are massive spreaders of disease.
When I’m on vacation, I may hookup with several guys. I’ll top one and I never rush to orgasm and want to be sure my bottom receives what he desires too. Then after we cuddle and it’s time to go, I’ll look for a guy who wants to just suck and enjoy a hard cock. Lots of young guys just want to suck a daddy and cuddle getting the attention and human contact they crave from another man, preferring older.
I have been known to play with guy and while leaving found out i had more free time then i expected and went back and rang doorbell for more.
I will be seventy-three in October. My great love died in 1995 from complications of AIDS. He and I restricted ourselves to receptive fellatio; I learned to enjoy it. My bevy of lovers are all dedicated cocksuckers. I am immensely endowed, have never owned a cock ring, and am truly blessed to have no erectile issues. I have had three lovers visit within a twenty-four-hour timeframe on many occasions.
GO daddy – SHOOT ’em if you have ’em 🙂 LOLOLOL
That’s right. Time is short. Live your life.
I use to have two guys that I sucked on a regular basis. One time our schedules met up and after finishing with one guy, I had the other guy’s cock in my mouth 45 minutes later. Only happened once but I loved it and don’t have any regrets.
Last year, I was. on my way to meet a couple that wanted to tag team me. I left the house early as I had some errands to run on the way. There was another guy I was chatting with who also wanted to fuck me and his location was close to one of my errands. So I stopped by and I got naked, sucked his cock before he bent me over the bed and fucked me from behind. I then left and went to the couple’s house, and they tag teamed me for a good hour. When I left… Read more »
Sometimes the stars align.
First one would have to have been really bad lol. I usually don’t have the energy for it.
I have a few times. I met one guy in the morning and met him again in the afternoon. I gave him bjs both times and enjoyed it very much. Sometimes I just want more and one does to scratch the itch!!
I like visiting adult bookstores with porn booths in back. Every guy is looking for sex. One afternoon I was in luck, topped 3 guys in the booths. My balls slapped against their pear shaped asses. 2 of the guys wore wedding rings. Then the xxx store manager came in back and I topped him in the hallway so he could hear the front door. It’s amazing how many positions can be done in a small closet with a bench. Great place for married guys to fuck around. A good afternoon.
Not that big of a deal. It wouldn’t matter if the first time went well or not. Finding fulfillment is just that, silly to attach judgement. I used to have a 3 day weekend every month. I would plan sex each day every month. What would be the judgement be of that behavior?
I travel for work and have hooked with 2+ guys in a night many many times. When I’m in a hotel I can host. There are so many married guys that need release and I hate to disappoint them. Usually, the last guy I get with is older and wants to play longer and make me cum also. We all get what we have wanted.
i admit that when I get horny I can be a bit of a slutty bottom. Although, Im pretty selective about who I get together with. one day, not long ago, I had 3 guys fuck me, all separately, in one day. The first two I had played with are FBs. Both have beautiful 7.5” cocks and some stamina. After the second one left his load in me I received a new message in a different app. The guy said a “friend of mine was just there and fucked you. He told me you have a great ass and are… Read more »
Love to have friends with benefits like that
I’ve been to bookstores, sex resorts and saunas often and my goal is usually have sex more than once in a visit.
of course. The more you have the less cost per encounter. lol
I guess I’m a whore. Total tight bottom here that loves anal and excited by feeling the eruption of cum inside me but it takes several episodes to make me orgasm anally. Love multicomers but they are few and far between.
I hooked up with two guys literally back-to-back a few days ago. I was talking to both of them, told the second guy to come to my place when the first guy says he’s finally free. I walk down the hall, have sex with the first guy, get dressed when he’s done and get a text right that moment from the second guy who says he just arrived. I go downstairs to get him, the first guy’s cum leaking into my underwear, meet the second guy and let him have sex with me too. I felt like such a slut.
Maybe I am missing something but I try to have sex with multiple men or women ( I am bi) or both as many times a day as i can. I love cruising bathhouses with the goal of sucking cock, rimming, kissing and fucking as many guys as I can hook ip with. If I only hook up with 5 or 6 guys, it was a slow day. i am an older guy so I have done my share of orgies, gay pool parties and swinger clubs where the whole point is to have multiple sex partners. Gay cruises and… Read more »
I agree. Always try to be in the double digits when I am on the prowl.
Ok…..so i have a regular bud that i blow. My passions is having a throbbing cock in my mouth. However, he does not reciprocate. So most times i just do a blow and go. There is another guy ab out 1 mile away from him that loves to suck cock through a glory hole, but he doesnt need reciprocation since he is strokes his load out while blowing through the glory hole. And yes, as you might guess, i try to pair those up when i can. It’s not easy to coordinate but when i can I happily, greedily, and… Read more »
I can top that. When I was about age 50 (65 now), I was staying in a hotel on biz. Aggressively sought a guy to come to my room for some hot sex. Wound up striking gold – found 2 guys interested, both were up for doing a 3way. First one, very cute, showed up and while we waited for the other guy we began making out, not much beyond that. But after a few minutes, he excused himself to go to the bathroom. Came out and said he had just jerked his load and he was spent. Whuhhh? Not… Read more »
No. 4 times is the charm though
And have you?
of course. Topping 4 bottoms? Hasn’t everybody?
I don’t hook up near home, so when I travel I hook up as much as I can. So never one and done. Plus after the first hook up I am really horny. Plus I am a bottom, so if I go to all the trouble to clean out so I’m ready to go at it again. I’m looking for my next hookup almost as soon as the door closes. or I get back to the motel.
Many years ago, when I was kind of out there tasting everything, I had as many as 3 hookups a day a day for several days. Actually had a spreadsheet for times and days I had scheduled guys to stop over. That was in the Craigslist days when there were, in my opinion, far fewer flakes and they were almost all for blow jobs. For anal, there were a few times when I left my FWB’s place with his load in me, but I still wanted more. Yeah, I looked for another and would have definitely jumped at another round… Read more »
Can actually say it only happened once several years ago. Was seeing a Guy off and on, nothing committed and spent the night and had morning sex, not as fulfilling as the night before, but acceptable. He got called into work due to a crisis and said our plans for the day changed. Couple hours later and Home alone felt a bit horned up and just happened to look Online and noticed someone I had been with before was IN town on business and looking. Next thing you know he hits me up and asks whether I was interested. It… Read more »