Felching: Hot, Nasty, or Just Not for You?

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A gay man online sparked an intense discussion with his question: “Tops, have you ever sucked the cum out of a bottom’s ass after you have creampied them?”

For those unfamiliar, the act of sucking semen out of someone’s anus after ejaculation is called felching. It’s a taboo yet highly debated kink in the gay community, with some guys finding it intensely hot and others seeing it as a hard no.

While some men fantasize about it, their bodies have other plans, “I want to so bad. But after I cum, I’m done. Zero sex drive.” Others are extremely territorial over what happens after the deed is done, “No top can on my watch. I’m extremely possessive about the stuff in my dumpster.”

Then, there’s the issue of personal taste—literally. “Sounds hot in theory but I hate the taste of my cum. And so many guys are repulsed by it.” Having said that, some gay men love it so much that it leads to a second round, “Have a FWB who loves to do that. We get so horny again he has to take another ride—so hot.”

For others though, felching isn’t just about the act itself—it’s about sharing the moment, “Suck it out of their ass and then make out with them.”

Then there’s always that one guy who makes jokes about it, “Of course not, that would reduce the chance of him getting pregnant.”

However, felching isn’t for everyone. Some guys love kinky activities but draw a firm line at this one: “I love all sorts of kinky shit, but felching and scat are NOT on my kink list.”

Felching remains one of the most divisive sexual acts in the gay community. Some love it for the intimacy and eroticism, while others find it unappealing due to taste, texture, or just the very thought of consuming bodily fluids in that way.

While felching can be an intense experience for those into it, it’s important to acknowledge the potential health risks—STIs such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV. If you engage in felching, consider testing regularly, using PrEP, or ensuring both partners are STI-free to reduce risks.

So what about you, Adam4Adam blog readers, where do you stand? Have you ever felched, or is it something you’d never try? Do you find the idea sexy, or does it turn you off? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!