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A thoughtful question from a gay man sparked a lively discussion online. His question reads: “What makes life worth living for you? How do you find worth and purpose?” The responses from gay men ranged from heartfelt to humorous, revealing how diverse and personal the search for meaning can be.
For many, the unconditional love and companionship of pets provide a constant source of joy and purpose. One gay man shared, “My dog and other pets I would say.”
Similarly, others find fulfillment in making happy memories with friends and family. “Making happy memories with my friends and family. Being healthy and loving my body. Meeting beautiful men and connecting with them. Working a job that I enjoy. Being present, grounded and thankful for being alive,” one guy explained.
Hope also plays a powerful role. “The hope of having it all one day: a (sexy) man, a career, our pets, our little family, and our own space,” another commenter revealed, showing how dreams and aspirations can drive us forward.
Living authentically is another recurring theme. Many believe in living for themselves and not for anyone else. “Livin for myself and not anyone else. Life is short. Do whatever makes you happy. And dogs. And sex and art and music. Don’t hurt people?!” shared another gay man, emphasizing the importance of personal happiness and kindness.
In addition to relationships and authenticity, passions and hobbies contribute significantly to life’s worth. “So many cool things to do. I like to read and to write, to run and cook and watch movies. I never ever have enough hours in any day to do everything I want to do,” one person noted, highlighting the joy found in everyday activities.
Of course, not all responses were serious. One humorous reply stood out: “Ph.D. in pounding twinks. I’m too hung and tall, it would be a waste,” showing that humor and sexual expression are also essential parts of finding joy, passion, and confidence in life.
Whether it’s the companionship of pets, the pursuit of dreams, or the joy of hobbies, finding purpose is a deeply personal journey. The responses from gay men online show that life’s worth often comes from a blend of relationships, personal growth, and staying true to oneself.
What about you, Adam4Adam blog readers? What makes life worth living for you? How do you find purpose in your day-to-day experiences? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section down below—we’d love to hear from you!
