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Filming or recording a sex tape has become a hot topic in today’s digital age. Some find it thrilling and empowering, while others view it as risky and unnecessary. But what about you, Adam4Adam blog readers, do you love being filmed/recorded while having sex? If so, is it with a partner or do you also consent to being recorded during sex with a hookup or a one-night stand?
First, what do gay men online think about this? Well, like any online discussion would, this topic sparked a wide range of responses, from enthusiastic approval to cautious disapproval. One gay man shared, “I have before and while I loved watching the video, so did his friends…” While the experience was enjoyable for him initially, the situation took an unexpected turn, highlighting the potential pitfalls of sharing intimate recordings.
On the flip side, another commenter humorously dismissed the idea, saying, “Nope. Nobody wants to see me butt-naked. Lol.” For some, the thought of being filmed simply isn’t appealing, whether due to personal insecurities or lack of interest.
However, for others, recording sex is a definite yes. “Hell yes. Whenever possible,” one person declared. For some, the thrill of being on camera adds a new layer of excitement to their sexual experiences.
For many, the idea of recording sex is about capturing a moment of passion to relive later. One person shared, “It’s a fun way to spice sex up, and it feels hot being recorded. Highly recommended.” For couples or regular partners, filming can enhance intimacy and trust, provided both parties are comfortable and willing.
Yet, not everyone is on board. “I’d like to, but he’s afraid I might put it on the Internet, so we don’t record,” admitted another gay commenter. The fear of private videos being leaked online remains a significant concern, especially in an era where personal content can go viral in seconds.
This concern is echoed by another person’s blunt statement: “No! The simplest way to avoid distribution is not to make a product!!” While some see recording as a fun and harmless activity, others are keenly aware of the potential for misuse.
The risks of recording with someone you don’t trust are very real. One gay man on r/askgaybros shared a cautionary tale: “Some guy I hooked up with almost 3 YEARS AGO posted our sex tape, and it’s on X.” Stories like this highlight the importance of being cautious when deciding to film intimate moments, especially with casual partners or strangers.
While the allure of recording may be strong, the consequences of leaked videos can be devastating. Beyond the personal embarrassment, there’s the potential for professional repercussions and emotional distress.
For those who enjoy filming, it’s crucial to establish trust and clear boundaries with your partner. Recording should always be consensual, and both parties should discuss how the footage will be stored and shared. If there’s any doubt about the other person’s intentions, it’s better to err on the side of caution.
On the other hand, for those who are hesitant or outright opposed to being filmed, it’s important to communicate your boundaries clearly. Remember, no one should feel pressured to do something they’re not comfortable with, especially in such a personal context.
As we navigate this increasingly digital world, it’s important to balance personal desires with caution. Whether you’re filming with a trusted partner or considering it for the first time, remember to prioritize consent, communication, and safety. After all, while technology can enhance our lives, it can also complicate them if not handled responsibly.
Having said all that, do you love being filmed while having sex, or do you think it’s too risky? Have you had positive or negative experiences with filming a sex tape? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section down below.
God is already watching so it is live.
It can become too distracting. I’d rather just concentrate on having a good time with my partner.
While im not sure im someone who anyone would enjoy watching on film, im none the less totally turned on but being filmed fucking! Been to a few group scenes and love other guys seeing me take a good plowing! Exhibitionist here! I no longer have the body tobe hires for porn! But i sure would enjoy it!
You remind me of a couple I saw at a book reading/signing by Ned Rorem. They were surrounded by another guy and a couple of friends; I could see a film strip connecting all of their minds, and realized the one guy had filmed the couple and the other friends had watched it. The connection between them was that visible, and I am only mildly telepathic.
Hell yeah I love being filmed! I’ve had a former boyfriend years ago who’ve had a friend record a sex tape of me f*cking him missionary style while his legs were wrapped tightly around my waist, which was very hot since we were all into it at the time. I remember pounding into him so hard, he came all over himself hands free while still begging me to keep going before I finally came so hard and deep inside him, which was the hottest highlight of our relationship. Unfortunately, my current boyfriend in my life ain’t down for any of… Read more »
I once had a partner, that would hide cameras… Didn’t find out for a few years, until I snuck in behind him while he was watching one on his computer. So, no.
dont care to be filmed, but love fucking by a mirror.., watching my dark cock coming in and out of a white ass.. turns me on big time…
And vice versa, I hope.
the mirror i wouldn’t mind actually, that’s hot!
Been there, done that. It was kinda thrilling but not a necessity that I would deem it as “hot” or even exciting to do, so I got rid of the video. I’m just never the kind of guy that gets off on seeing MYSELF having sex with another guy. And I most certainly don’t want to risk having sex tapes being leaked online for all to see and have people treating me like some common whore that’s easy to get in my ass or dick. That’s unwanted attention I could do without.
Yes. Yes I do.
Well as you can see by my profile I have several videos up and lots of photos so the answer is a resounding yes. I love being bent over and having a guy fuck me and knowing that others are watching and taking video of it. I have some amazing videos taken at a few parties of me being fucked in the sling or being spit roasted and they are incredibly hot to watch and to share. There’s a couple who I played with quite a bit who put a lot of their adventures up on PornHub where I am… Read more »
I love being videoed or pics taken when I’m having sex
Most of my partners are bi married guys and don’t want thier faces seen I’m gay and like to see my facial expressions when I’m getting fucked, sucked, rimmed I’m doing it to them.
Never filmed but the thought is very erotic … would love to make a video someday
If you do it as erotica, art film, it is totally different from making raw porn.
So I love Taking g pics and videoing playing with others this especially is true if it a 3. Sum or more. Just sliding in to get the shot while 2 others are playing not only gets you an awesome shot but it puts in the action to join. A friend and video.. here’s one of the pics . I don’t know how he kept everything in focus
It’s certainly not hot. You remove all intimacy, the divinity. The guys who make porn can do it because they’re prostitutes doing it for pay, and it’s pretense. It has to hurt them internally. And I doubt they are choosing who they do it with. But the fact that you have zero control over digital content, even on your own equipment, which could be hacked, makes this really impossible, unless you want to risk ruining your life. I can’t imagine a circumstance in which it would make sense to do it.
No. Creepy. Like someone you don’t know watching and you getting the uncomfortable feeling that someone might be watching.
But if anyone is into it, they should go for it.
Never been filmed, that I know of. But I’d love to be filmed. I think it’s hot. Make me a porn star.
I’ve seen many videos where some bottoms have worn ski mask, and I’ve seen some videos where the top had on a ski mask, I’ve often thought about wearing a ski mask and make a video of me getting fucked, other than that no way , and I’m really not sure if I’d go through with it with the mask on, I’ve heard of too many guys, DL guys and DL married guys made videos of them with men, most of them were bottoms and the videos made their way to Facebook and or passed around from phone to phone… Read more »
No! Never. Think about the long term, what if you want to do something important with your life later down the road, and bam! Here’s a video of you having sex etc…, something to think about.
Yes, absolutely love to be filmed while playing. Being filmed when playing, turns me on and extremely horny and wild.
I love watching true amateur porn where it’s a real life couple setting up a camera and just getting it on. Nothing staged and no cheesy script. But, I have no desire to be filmed myself. I don’t want my family or employer to see it. That being said, in hindsight I think I may have been filmed once. About 20 years ago I met with a Dom several times. On one occasion after he tied me up he put a hood on me and then I heard him fidgeting with with stuff around the room before he went to… Read more »
My husband and I have at times video taped ourselves. Now with the relationship being an open one (we only play together) I’ll video him with another or he’ll video me. If either of us thinks the sex is hot we’ll grab the phone and put it to memory. Now he’s the keeper of it all since I nearly sent them to my mother-in-law. Sending pics of our vacation nearly turned to an embarrassment. But what is hot is watching them together now and again.
Not my thing. I was secretly filmed several years ago while getting a BJ. It didn’t feel right from the start when he was trying to position me in awkward angles. I called him out on it and asked if he was filming me. I could tell he was lying when he said no because he turned red and became riled up. I was looking around the room and told him this wasn’t working. He had an unapologetic attitude. Cameras were everywhere in that house once I started observing. Let’s keep it as a good memory, not a good movie.
I don’t love it. Media production is work. I am pushing 70 years and there is a lot of youth bias and ignorance in our culture. I was more active in production, performance and distribution 30 years ago. Now, I am pretty much a media has been, and the T shirt dissolved in the wash at least a decade ago.
Love being filmed. Closeted, and it’s so hot to see it on cam. To watch myself serve and suck and bottom. Plus it’s SO hot to not have control of it. When a man whips it out to record and doesn’t ask, knowing I’m so into what I’m doing, that he will be able to show friends or share it and others will see. I also love going to ABS or places and being watched and in group settings so I do just enjoy men seeing me take dick
no, i don’t, i wanna do it in PRIVATE .. to have to have it filmed or videotaped would be quite distracting .. i’d like to focus on the guy i’m sexing with
im an exhibitionist to begin with and while i have nevr made a tape or film clip i have been taken an treateed like a slut on cam on aff,,,i loved it,got huge raves and want to actualy be a trans porn gurl and revel in the limelight ,,,
Being filmed can be both, meet a guy on Adam and we chatted and arranged to meet his place . Nice guy with good look with broken English… first time we played around late into the evening and after he fell asleep , I dressed locked his door and made my way home … next day he called to say how much he enjoyed and wanted to meet again which we did for the week end , he asked if he could film a short for a keepsake , I agreed but never to see a camera ,i fucked him… Read more »