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Hey, Adam4Adam readers! Today, we’re diving into a topic that often brings back a flood of memories, whether they’re exciting, awkward, or somewhere in between. We want to hear about your first time — when, where, and how did you lose your virginity?

For many gay men, the journey to their first sexual experience can be quite different from their straight counterparts. Studies show that gay men often lose their virginity slightly later than straight men, primarily due to the challenges of coming to terms with their sexuality and finding a partner. While the average age for heterosexuals to lose their virginity is around 17.6, gays typically experience their first sexual encounter around the age of 17.9. Read more here.

We’ve gathered some popular answers and stories from our community, and we’d love for you to share yours too:

  1. Hot Groomsman at a Wedding. This one sounds like a scene straight out of a movie but apparently it happens often in real life. Or at least it happened to this gay man on Reddit who shared:

He was the hot Groomsman in the wedding party with me. We didn’t know each other before that weekend. I wasn’t out. I was so curious. We have drinks. He asked ‘Do you know what Bisexual is?’ I said ’No.’ He explains. I tell him I haven’t tried anything with a guy yet and I want to. I wingman a threesome with a girl, but she’s my friend so he and her just got wild the bed next to mine in our shared hotel. The next morning, I catch him walking around with morning wood. I tell him I won’t let him leave until I know what he feels like. He drops his drawers to reveal his sexy, hard cock. I’m hard instantly. Our dicks are twins. Heart racing. We go in the shower and have a passionate time. The things I’ve fantasized about are all happening so quickly, and he cums instantly. I take my time. I cum so hard it shoots over the shower curtain. I left and got the greatest post-nut clarity I had ever felt; the kind I was chasing while trying to have sex with women. It was liberating.

2. Back of My Truck. Also a popular answer. Another gay man revealed:

“It was in 2018. I’m 6’0, 20 years old with light brown skin & curly dark brown hair. He’s 6’3, 23 years old with pale skin & ginger hair. He came over, parked his truck in my parent’s yard. I came outside, we talked for a while then made our way to the back of his truck. It all happened so fast; I barely remember feeling anything but the rush- the adrenaline.”

3. House or Apartment. Unsurprisingly, one’s house or apartment is also a popular venue. One commenter shared, ” I was 19 in college, just about to go to a school event with friends. Met up with a nice guy beforehand, was just gonna give some head at his apartment but got carried away and got my back blown out.”

4. College Dorm Room. A lot of respondents seem to have lost their virginity during college and at the dorm room like this one guy who shared, “My dorm room freshman year, I was drunk and called him the wrong name.”

Now it’s your turn to share! Tell us about your first time. When did it happen? Where were you? How did it unfold? Was it with someone special or a spur-of-the-moment encounter?

Moreover, how did you feel about your first time? Was it what you expected? Do you think there’s pressure in the gay community regarding when and how we lose our virginity? And lastly, do you have any advice for those who haven’t had their first time yet? Let us know your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!

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