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So, what gets you in the mood, guys?
We are asking because some gay men were sharing online the things guys do that aren’t explicitly sexual but will immediately get them in the mood.
“Looking into my eyes while having a conversation,” one popular response to the thread reads. “It’s so true,” a guy who replied to this comment said, “There’s a certain look.”
Meanwhile, one respondent confessed, “A guy I’m dating talks on the phone with me for hours, and when he says emotionally open and loving words to me, I get erect.” This seems to be true to many others because there were several agreements not to mention some responses that were a derivative of it like this one that says, “Weirdly enough, an honest and deep conversation. My partner getting vulnerable and talking about his emotions and struggles….it turns me on. It just gives me such a strong feeling of intimacy and connection with him. Makes me feel trusted and wanted.”
On the other hand, this one guy said, “If I see any muscle get flexed, that will do it. And I don’t mean the obvious arm or ab flex. I mean like reaching for something on the top shelf and see the calf muscle. Just simple everyday stuff.”
Here are the other popular responses, and we quote:
- Remove his hoody that causes his undershirt to ride up revealing his happy trail
- Back rub, breathe on my neck, sing to me
- Facial hair, especially a well-groomed stubble beard or mustache. Strangely, it’s such a turn on for me
- Don’t wear deodorant. Not like, don’t bath for a few days, bath by all means, but don’t wear deodorant and smell like a man! Gets me every time.
- Be nice, give me his undivided attention and make me laugh. Oh, and eye contact. Big smiles.
- Showing off chest hair…like a button down with a few buttons undone
Having said all that, what about you, guys? What are the things that other men do that aren’t anything remotely sexual but will turn you on fast? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
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A sensual, passionate kiss.
I’m with you on that. My response below was a little more off-the-beaten-path’ish.
It depends on the situation. I’d say, kissing, deeply and passionately, is probably the best way to get my motor revving and ready to move on to the next thing, which will hopefully lead to me getting a balls deep breeding.
I could be, like, completely disinterested in sex, but then pass by a real cutie walking down the street and boom – boner!
Ultimately,
it is the Penis deciding the when, where, why and whom?
The Brain generally follows The Penis?
*slow clap*
A smile and eyes
I agree Jerry. I would like to add a nice average athletic body with a nice round azz, attractive and a good sense of humor. I love to laugh and have fun..
Marcus bruh we speaking the same language and definitely nice round ass get my attention as well.. his swagger on how he carries himself. Attractiveness of his hands, body and hearing him talk…
I agree with you Marcus my brotha…a man that nice attractive with nice hands, nice smile and a nice round azz..A sense of humor and intelligent to go along with it.
Walking up and giving my partner a very passionate kiss and turning our heads for a more deep French kiss and the caressing with it! Love gently stroking his cock thru his clothes and I’m ready to go!!!
A big full well kept fuzzy beard. Hairy forearms. Hairy chest. Hairy back.
Notice a theme here? Haha!
Gorilla Warfare?
Planet of The Apes?
King Kong?
Mighty Joe Young?
Magilla Gorilla?
African Adventure?
Don’t think we’d recognize you, “Kasper”?
SO very astute of you to glean that subtlety! Another post by a guy who challenges us to use our minds.
But blame the A4A Blog Moderators for allowing people to post on the Blog with handles NOT tied to an existing profile. An open door for rif raf posters to slobber on topics.
not Kasper, sorry!
just emulated him!
Lies. We can see you a mile away. It’s so easy to imagine the cheesy, old, perverted octogenarian you almost certainly are sitting behind the keyboard. Go down to the game room at the old folks’ home and play some pinochle, grandma.
Not Kasper, sorry!
I simply emulated him!
Ok, the compliment still applies. Please keep Morph-ing!
Glad I wasn’t the only one who saw through his transparent bullshit.
A beard is a real turn-off for me, unless very short. A moustache is better, but there’s nothing like a clean-shaven face. A shaved or waxed body is the worst.
Kissing, pubic hair, chest hair, a juicy hug, respect, admiration, warm and kind eyes, passion, friendship, love.
bumping and grinding with clothes on – then the next thing that you know you are naked getting a BJ and sliding in a wet hole!
Bright eyes….sexy smile…chest hair….sensual kiss…..
and he can have it all 🙂
A smiling with eye contact, touching of hands, a good embracing hug.
Seeing my guy naked fresh out the shower everytime!
That is a total turn on as well! Love looking at the naked male body!! Also watching a guy masturbating is another!!!
I came to realize that my wife and I have the same turn on,,, I’m a black DL married 100% bottom ,,my wife gets very turned on when I get in the shower behind her with my hard dick and let my dick go right between her cheeks,,it gets her hot and horny,,,, strange thing is when I’m with my top daddy and I’m in the shower,, it really turns me on when he gets in the shower behind me and let his pipe slide between my cheeks,,,but the funniest thing always seems to happen when he does that,,, I… Read more »
Very nice bruh…sounds good!
Nice profile about you. Very nice!
Start with the guy in the picture heading this question!
Everyone just LOVES another another another young light skinned guy.
Right?
When my guy walks around commando in his tight jeans.
Lots can turn me on about a guy but I will agree that a deep emotional connection and the look in your eyes really does it for me. Even a guy that’s under lots of emotional stress is a turn on for me. Once I’m turned on, that would lead me to do other things to you to relieve your stress. lol
When a guy is obviously interested in me. Nothing gets me going quicker!
Low hangers
Never using the word “like” in a sentence. Basic grammatical literacy shows a higher brain function is either in place or, at least, possible. Follow that with “the thing is…”
Beyond that I agree with other postings that refer to arm and chest hair. Both of those are an instant bone activator for me.