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Have you ever attended a sex party or orgy, guys? If so, how did it go for you? Did you like it? More importantly, is it something that you would like to try again?
As for me, I haven’t been in one yet, and I don’t think I ever will. It doesn’t mean I’m not curious or that I don’t think about it, but I guess that’s all it will ever be for me: a fantasy.
I’m bringing this up because a gay Redditor disclosed, and we quote,
“A neighbor gave me an invite two weeks ago to attend his orgy, and I just returned from it. AMA (Ask Me Anything).”
Before we go through the community’s responses, an orgy refers to “a boisterous, rowdy party; a wild or drunken festivity or revelry, especially involving sex with multiple participants.”
As for what the other gay men on the thread had to say on the matter, here’s one of them:
Love orgies! They are literally so much fun and not what people think they are. It’s such a good time to get a bunch of buddies together and just have a completely open environment where sex is okay but not required. Glad you had fun!
Meanwhile, a guy asked, “What was the atmosphere like? How do these events even begin? Everyone just finds a cock to ride as soon as they walk in the front door?” He added, “Fascinating stuff to me, not at all in my interests.” To which the original poster (OP) of the thread answered, “Atmosphere was relaxed and sensual, for this one it started with conversations and networking, but later on we find cocks to have.”
You can read the thread in full here.
Please be reminded though, that COVID-19 and monkeypox are still both around, this means that the present is not exactly a conducive time for hosting or attending orgies not to mention there are a number of things that must be considered. Have all participants been vaccinated already? Are none of them infected with COVID-19 or monkeypox? There is also, of course, a question on safe sex and how could the participants in an orgy practice it?
Anyway, issues aside, this doesn’t mean we can’t talk about our fantasies and experiences online, right? Having said all that, kindly share with us your thoughts and stories regarding sex parties and orgies in the comments section below!
I have always wanted to be able to have a lot of cocks to play with no matter how I’m playing with it I was in a threesome with two other guys and it was great so I’m up for more guys and for them to do what they want with me also just as long as there’s no pain involved
I definitely would as long as its safe sex. The guys have to be nice and personal hygiene on point. Nice, respectful guys are a huge turn-on for me.
I am nice and respectful!
You guys . . . .get a room!!!
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I LOVE orgies and group sex! The more horny men the better! My all time best was sucking 8 and getting fucked by 4. Wish it happened often!
When I was much younger and in the Air Force I was once stationed at Nellis AFB which is in Las Vegas. They had a “Swingers Club” there… “Red Rooster” and they had both private and orgy rooms; and I was a regular. I’ve ALWAYS enjoyed watching and being watched and I loved it there. It was mainly straight couples but…. there was gay sex going on too. Now days and at my age, I’ve slowed down a lot but still have that desire to see and be seen but opportunities just aren’t as prevalent. Anyways, YES, I would still… Read more »
Red Rooster, brings back fond memories.
Wish I knew of the Red Rooster. Sodomy is/was? still on the books in Nevada which is hilariously hypocritical considering all the guys that dance in those casino revues. I know the Apollo (it’s gone by many names) was raided many times and I doubt those arrest records stay in Vegas. Just curious what kind of action a straight club offers a gay or bi male. Is it frowned upon or just unspoken or openly accepted? I love women that get off watching their boyfriends or husbands getting nailed.
Absolutely!! In fact, it has long been near the top of my fantasy bucket list; I’ve always wanted to either to be the sole bottom in a gang bang, or to be one of just a couple/few bottoms “lined-up” next to each other in a room full of tops…or BOTH!! That said I’m not nearly as experienced as what my fantasies would have me be, so who knows if the reality would be anything like what I imagine…but boy-oh-boy is it HOT to think about!! Definitely hoping to get the opportunity to find out some day though…
Have had great fun at parties! We had a fairly stable group of older guys who’d get together on Saturday mornings for coffee in the nude and we got into all sorts of fun activities! Most were married and everyone was tested and clean. Unfortunately the hosts aged out and the group evaporated…Would love to get into it again!
I have a few times while living in NYC, it was fetish oriented so; lots of varieties of masturbation/s or oral, it was quite safe really, no anal sex. “Safer Sex” was the theme.
I could not believe the turn-out! All kinds of guys, ages, ethnicities, bi’s, too!
This is the only way; I would do it again.
Would absolutely participate — as long as the guys are hot
Then you should stay home. What has most impressed me about group sex events that I’ve attended is the acceptance of men for who they are. Yes there are always some with pretty faces, nice abs and pecs, but they are few and far between … just like the real world. But there are also many regular guys, with regular bodies. At these parties, all I’ve ever found is plenty of guys willing to pair or team up with plenty of other guys. And also that those who do not have pretty faces, nice abs and pecs seem to be… Read more »
Lol, apparently never been to a fifty man event in West Hollywood then. Looks (or an outrageously big dick) are what got you invited to A-listers in SoCal. The gyms were the best bet on getting into a fuckfest when I was a kid. I really do feel sorry for the generations that followed that live their sex lives vicariously through the internet.
I have done a few orgies and have had an exceptional experience. Given the Pandemic and MonkeyPox, it has been a long time.
I’ve been to one sex party/orgy where there had to have been more than 25 guys. It was pre-COVID, in the summer and at a guy’s home where his nearest neighbor was over a mile away. When I got there, we were given a paper numbered paper bag w/a corresponding plastic tag. I put my clothes in the bag and was then free to walk around the house and grounds. EVERYONE was naked…in and around the pool, in the garage, on the sun deck, etc. Not everyone was engaging in sex, but if you wanted to join in no one… Read more »
Prior to Covid, one of my buds would host group parties a couple of times per year. He’d invite guys he knew and had played with. Usually numbering between 10 and 20. About half would show. He’d supply water, coffee, soda. Also towels and a limited number of condoms and lube. He’d ask guests to bring condoms, lube, and a beverage of choice if they wished. The atmosphere was never “a boisterous, rowdy party; a wild or drunken festivity or revelry…” The rules were simple: Play in groups around the house. No pairing off behind closed doors. “No thanks” meant… Read more »
Orgies are fantastic! In videos.
In reality they never are that sexy or flow so freely.
Everybody there probably won’t be sexy. Nor will their hygiene be good. Some might have inhibitions or freaky desires that are no fun to mess with.
And with all the risks of diseases, STDs and otherwise, it’s not worth the risks.
Unless you can organize it yourself and pick all the guests, don’t bother.
Put on a good fk flick and enjoy your fantasies.
oh Hell Yeah..Absolutely!!! been in a threesome it was awesome..!!!!!!!!
I was at an orgy several years ago and in college. 8 boys came inside me, two of them twice…..It was awesome! They all wanted to use me all night. I almost fainted in ecstasy:)
That is not the definition of an orgy. An orgy involves food and drink, and sex, but not multiple partners, other than being in the same space with other couples. Group sex is sex with anyone and everyone. It has not class. Orgies have a connotation of some class. I would observe one, it’s doubtful I would participate. Multiple partners is the best way to catch a deadly disease. In the age of monkeypox, it’s either the best or worst subject to bring up. Socrates and his followers lay on individual couches, discussing philosophy while being served food and drink… Read more »
I have a few times. It was freaking amazing.
I have always wanted to be at a party where there is cock everywhere. I have always wanted to have several guy top me. One after the other. I have been with a couple several times, but I want multiple guys to get behind me and enjoy themselves. Everyone must be DDF and no pain involved. Fantasy is a group of 20 plus guys. May of which take their turn inside me. All if possible.
I attended one back in Boston is the mid 1990s. Was a lot of fun. It was during the summer so it was really hot out. I got invited by a guy I met a local bar. It was at some ones house and even though it was summer they had the heat turned up so you would have to get naked as soon as you got inside. We all brought a snack to share which was all kept in the kitchen. We wandered back and forth all night. Eating, drinking, enjoying all the guys there. Was the only one… Read more »
I went to one once near Harrisburg, PA. It was at a gay couple’s home. There were probably 30 guys total, mostly oral but some anal too. I met a few nice guys there but since I’m overweight there weren’t that many guys that were interested in me so I mostly watched. I’d be willing to try it again sometime.
About ten years ago a local guy advertised he was hosting an orgy on Craig’s List or on a4a, I don’t recall which, at a good address in a good part of town, the address given out after contacting the host. He held three or four parties over a couple years’ period. About 10-14 people would show up, some staying the evening, some getting off and leaving, some just leaving. Plenty of condoms and lube were available. Each party had sort of a different vibe. It struck me that the guys were shy about what to do…maybe that they’d never… Read more »
The first couple of guys to show up sit around chatting with the host. Once a couple/few more guys arrive, someone stands up, starts undressing and says “let’s get rolling!”
I coat-tailed my way into an invite only party a town away and unfortunately carpooled with the other guy. Turned out I was the old man at the party at 40 though the hosts never confronted my party crashing. We were among the first to arrive and guys were all filtering in for the next hour. Definitely a generational divide because these guys were not orgy savvy and the odd thing I remember most is when a few of them stripped down to their undies, almost all of them were wearing what I’d deem underoos, brightly colored paneled whitey tighties,… Read more »
Yeah, it was fun at first but then after a while, people just started pairing off. That was fine by me because I perform better one to one than in a group.
A “Smorgasbord of Cocks & Asses”
Holes & Poles everywhere
A “Pig’s Dinner”
Corpulence Par Excellence
An undisputed Autobahn to the “Gates and Entrance To Hell”
And,
A Brioischi after all is swallowed!
Fuuuuck yeah ~
Been in several.
10 man orgy a few days Christmas a few years ago ~
Fuuuuckin Awesome
Absolutely, hosted a few in the past. My rules were simple, condoms were a must, personal hygiene a must, and above all discression was paramount.
Yes
I’ve been to a few sex parties – a couple of them were really fun with younger attractive guys – mostly into blowjobs and making out…which is perfect for me. A couple of others had about 10 or 12 guys – mostly older but in decent shape. Not much went on there so I left with a guy I’d met and headed to his house. I once hosted one in Chicago – had several rsvp’s but only 2 showed up. It was kind of fun but I’m not sure I’d host one again.
That’s the thing about orgies. You get a hundred guys swearing to show and only ten actually make it to the door. I think about 80% are bullshitters and another 10% are liar pervs hiding out in their cars to see who actually walks in. Ten percent seems to be the magic number for internet created orgies.
Judging by the responses I’ve been reading here and my own amazing experiences in gay orgies, the theme for this blog really should’ve been “Describe the hottest orgy you’ve ever taken part in.” The memories I have of those I’ve taken part in are so neatly etched in my mind – all were just pure magic and I can’t wait for my next one.
been in two 3ways, but never an orgy, would like to experience several naked men in various acts, watching, being watched. Been a fantasy since early on when teen jacking off after lights out. Love sucking and being sucked so think should be erotic doing with several others in room.
To Wheathead: Find a way to make your fantasy come true, because when it does, the exhilaration of the reality of it will far exceed your fantasies. By that I mean even if you don’t do a whole lot, the mere experience of being in a room with a bunch of naked guys and them all (and hopefully you too) going at it – just visually if nothing else – is unbelievable.
Absolutely – Well Said!!!
BTW – I should’ve better explained myself: I’ve taken part in a number of groups (more than 3-4 guys) over the years. The first one was in a hotel room with 7 of us. I was very nervous because I really hadn’t had a chance to “vet” out all of them to be sure they were all safe players. So I didn’t do a whole lot, but just being part of it all, kissing a couple of guys here, sucking a couple of cocks there, and “helping” a top guy by holding a bottom guy’s legs apart for him –… Read more »
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I’m a DL bottom, and while I’ve never been in an orgy, I have been curious about being a solo bottom in a group setting (I don’t wanna share, lol). I’m in NYC and would love to find a group of older tops! Are there any places a guy like me can go to?
I guess there should be a minimum number of participants in order to be called an orgy. A threeway is a threeway where interactive participation is expected of all three parties. A foursome is just two couples fucking together in the same room with variations. So to me, an orgy has to be at least five people participating. I find it odd that this is even a question if one is young, attractive and/or hung if you are a gay male. I guess the reasons a guy wouldn’t go is some phobia of std’s or some religious hang-ups. I’ve known… Read more »
I had a FWB that surprised me one day. I came over for our usual session and two young Asian boys were waiting in bed for me. I was pleasantly surprised. One was a caramel colored Filipino with average build and cute face. The other was a slim Vietnamese boy with a six pack and huge cock. The Vietnamese boy took to me pretty quickly. We took a shower together and made out hot and heavy. Got back to the bed and had two of them sucking my cock at the same time. While my FWB was sucking the Filipino… Read more »
I have participated, and multiple ways. In an orgy, I took 4 raw cocks that took turns fucking me. Was fucking amazing!