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I stumbled upon a news article the other day about how size matters when it comes to sex, at least according to a survey conducted by digital clinic Medzino. How true is this for you though, guys?
Anyway, Medzino surveyed a total of 1,003 gay, bisexual, and straight men and women regarding their “personal experiences and penis preferences.” Their study found that 48% of their respondents “believed that penis size was important during sexual intercourse, while 71% reported that size mattered for their own pleasure.” That being said, majority or 61% revealed that sexual performance is the primary factor when it comes to having a fulfilling sexual experience as opposed to 27% who believed it’s the penis size that makes sexual experience fulfilling.
Apart from penis size and sexual performance, male respondents cited personality (55%), confidence (45%), and looks (41%) as the top three main factors that “can help attract a potential sexual partner or contribute toward a fulfilling sexual experience.”
Meanwhile, 1 in 3 gay and bisexual men confessed that their penis shame was caused mainly by their previous partners. They were also “more likely to be criticized or body shamed due to their penis size” as compared to straight men.
Do they have insecurities about their bodies when it comes to sex? One in 5 straight men said yes while it’s 1 in 10 for gay and bisexual men. As to who caused their insecurities, 1 in 3 straight men said the culprit was their former sexual partner. It’s the same for gay and bisexual men although the number is higher at 3 out of 4 or 75 percent.
When asked what the ideal penis length is for them, 41% of the survey respondents replied 6 to 8 inches while 31% answered 4 to 6 inches. In addition, when asked which is more important: girth or length – 48% of the male respondents and 50% of female respondents replied girth. Read the study in full here.
Having said all that, what matters more for you, guys: size or technique; girth or length? Moreover, what is the ideal penis size for you? Do you believe that size matters when it comes to having a fulfilling sexual experience?
Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.
Penis size does not matter…..the whole man, his personality, his attractiveness, his passion, his generosity in love-making, all count.
For me, confidence, technique, and personality are far more important than cock size looks and body type. If various sizes were pointed out at me through holes I would choose 7-7.5 and on the thinner side.
I am lucky in that I have a nice thick 8 inch tool. It is great that it turns on men and women and I can focus on what gets me off which is getting them off.
It has been my experience the size of a man’s penis doesn’t matter. I have had
dicks that were small to large. Penis size shouldn’t matter if you have some kind of connection with the person you are with.I have people that are interested in me, for my body ( they don’t care how big i am ) and personality.
Size most definitely matters to me has a bottom there’s no comparison to a average 6inch or a 9or10in dick buried deep in my hole! 6inchs doesn’t get to my 2nd hole the way a big 10inch will
The ONLY reason white men deal with black men is for the big dick theory. Some white males have gone as far as to make bets with others on who can build a ‘plantation’ meaning collect enough black men for their stable.
That first sentence is some essentializing racist bullshit.
“BBC” = black men w/big black cock, I’m ssooo glad you said that, thank you! I see it way too often here in south Florida “BBC” such illness!
As a Native American I call bullshit on your racist comment.
Then why is BBC an actual genre in the porn world? Women and men of other races of express this as their reason for liking Black Men.
I do not know of such people. Sad. I have had a preference for ethnic men since I was a little boy, Before I even knew what sex is. I hope you don’t condone such descriptions of plantations.
Why do white men assume all blacks are hung and tops?
What attracts me to black men is the vide and attitude of the men who I’m with. Never considered the thought of me building a stable my buddies have made it clear to me that I should understand my place with any man of color
Looks like some good puzzy!!!!!
Wow, talk about racist every single black man I’ve been with has always been mutual respect race has never come up they just always say they love fucking my ass and I thank them word got,around that those who were 10+ inches call this whiteboy he loves to serve bung men and I still do it never had anything to do with the plantation or whatever twisted ideas you have. Imsense that you weren’t treated with respect not all white men are like that
Yes! Length is important followed by girth. I enjoy the sensation of a long dick going deep down my throat as far as it possibly can.
Hope you’re not a gagger… hated that.
I’ve never had the thrill of sticking a 9-incher (or larger) in my mouth (or ass) and surely would welcome that, but I’m not particular – just want a nice sized one to fill up my hole(s) and most guys I’ve been with have fallen in that 6″-8″ range. That said, on a couple of occasions I got intimate with guys whose dicks were freakishly small – like, literally the size of my thumb. Those kind of grossed me out.
you must live in small dick oklahoma.
Those were just 2 dicks out of the hundred or so larger ones I’ve devoured over the years. I live in big dick NY.
Yes, Is this a trick question? Of course, it does. A penis that’s too small or a penis that’s too large will always complicate intercourse. This is just a reality of life. size matters but more importantly it is how you use what you have to enhance the. sexual experience. So of course size matters in the same way that any variable matters. There’s a “goldilocks zone” wherein individuals will be satisfied. For gay guys, their bottom partners want big penis because that arouses them at an extreme level. A bigger penis causes stimulation of prostatic fibers the “goldilocks zone”… Read more »
8″ and up for me(and I mean a real 8 incher not those overly exaggerated Adam 4 Adam profile sizes)
Performance is definitely more important than size for me. I’ve had great sex with a smaller one as well as a big one. I’ve also had boring sex with both, but moreso with big ones. So performance and connection are far more important for me
To each his own!! I like at least 7.5 to 8 inches with medium thickness. I want to comfortably suck and play with it. Big ones turns me off simply because I can’t do anything with it. Same thing with small ones. When I watch porn, I’m more turned on watching guys with average size cocks.
It obviously does, for some men who are anal-bottoms really ‘need’ a larger sz., for a rather obvious reason, some aren’t that tight. One ex of mine was surprisingly small, be he was my lover, I loved him, anally I topped him he was very tight, he wasn’t a top at all.
There’s a lotta variables when it comes to penis size influencing my sexual experiences. In general I’d say knowin how to use whatcha got is more important than size.When topping I’m confide nt with my measurements & also in my performance abilitiy.I’ve been told, & have seen 4 myself I’m not so enormously thick that its painful for them,but thick enuff to fill a hole that might b a bit well travelled.7+ inch length is plenty to hit the g or p spot when angled right.And when Im bottoming,while I usually prefer he be at least equal to me,Ive had… Read more »
yes… size matters. I have a very deep hole and need at least 9-inch cock to satisfy my hunger
Yes it does matter I like them small under five!!
I think smaller penises are tastier to nibble on and take in as well. Larger ones are nice to look at and fondle but harder to accomodate.
I think there’s something to be said about your preference. I personally (and noted in my own response) like over 6″ BUT I will say that sometimes I like having a partially-erect cock in my mouth so I can get the whole thing in there – sort of akin to your “tastier to nibble on” comment. Not really agreeing with you, but there’s something to be said about being able to get an entire cock right on down to the balls in my mouth.
Perhaps but some prefer a meal and not a snack.
It’s a very simple question: are you a decent human being, or are you a judgemental piece of garbage? End of discussion.
Most here are a “judgmental piece of garbage”. One reported me as a spammer because he wanted me to travel a thousand miles to “come play”. When i told him that was an asinine request, he reported me as a spammer. LOL asshats are everywhere.
as long as my 7″ X 4″ gets in a manhole, I’m happy.
Technique with a Very Thick Girth AND AN Extra Long 9 Inch Rock Hard Shaft To Completely Penetrate All The Way Down To The Base Where The Big Bull Balls Smack Up and Slap Against The Skin Of The Bottoms ButtCrack and The Cock Totally Disappears When Deep Hard Thrusts Are Achieved And The Eyes Become As Big As Saucers And You Hear The Words FUCK YEAH! OH MY GOD! I LOVE WHEN YOU DO THAT! BUT I THINK YOU CAN GO EVEN DEEPER IF YOU THRUST FROM YOUR HIPS EVEN HARDER THAN THAT! OH YES PLEASE! I PROMISE YOU… Read more »
No Teeny Peenies! Has to be at least 7 inches, or why bother?
With a name like “Lester,” I’m guessing beggars can’t be choosers.
Mean, sorry Lester it was funny as well.
The Teenis Penis Syndrom is often caused by the male not receiving his small cox vaccination.
Yes and no. Too large and tough to give a great BJ and the job here is to please the other. So small to 8” is great to swallow and please him
I agree that size matters, to a point. What matters most to me is stamina.. I like a very long Fuck.! After that, girth is more important, I absolutely love a very thick dick. The perfect size cock for me would be between a 6X6 to an 9X6dick.!!
Guys like to try my larger one out. Most are pleased. This is because I try to help bottoms feel good. For me, if a guy just knows how to USE his cock, I’m happy. Big ones can be pleasing, but average and even short ones can be hot. It’s talent that wins, regardless of the length and girth. Big ones are fun to look at, but most big-cocked guys think that their size is all that matters. Oops.
I look at guys as whole beings, not based on single attributes, especially those that are matters of genetics.
As long as it is functioning and responsive size is not a big issue (pun). If it is going to be anal then normal or smaller is best for me…
For me, there is too much of a good thing. If the guy is a 10 inch beer can, probably not going to happen. Got no where to put it!
I’m a bit of a size queen when it comes to cock. My former bf had a nice 8 inches that I loved in my throat and ass. But it’s secondary to a nice, sexy personality
Perhaps something’s missing in this discussion: Although I’m blessed with a nice fairly thick 7-incher, I wonder if anyone who has a smaller sized dick has been kicked out of bed before and what that’s like? Must be awful. Imagine you’re a fully-grown man (of any adult age) and you meet a hot guy and you’re not too shabby looking yourself; however, you possess, say, a 4″ dick. You snuggle up, you start undressing, then your dick is exposed and fully erect and the other guy reacts like “OMG – it’s so small! Um…thanks, but I’m going to leave now.”… Read more »
Some guy called mine “cute” once. Not devastating. Not exactly stimulating either. But he still fucked me, so that was cool.
It IS devastating, believe me. I only wish mine was bigger, but there is nothing I can do to correct it. Not my fault, don’t redicule me or make fun of me. But it happens a lot. Have to live with it.
Yes and no. If I am with a guy for dating, relationship, whatever, then no, it doesn’t matter.
If it’s a trick, then you can best bet I was a big uncut cock to breed me. And if it’s a group, all of those big cocks can take turns breeding me or even double penetrate me.
ok so honestly, some guys might have a great looking penis but lack good looks. A good looking guy with a nice cock, lol yes man!
While a big dick is truly impressive, it can be a chore to get it in. Personally, I like ’em thick and around 7-8″…I enjoy being stretched good and feeling him bottom out, balls deep in my tight hole.
That said, I really love an uncut dick any size, tho 6″ or better to fuck please
As a top I prefer the bottom to be small size, smooth and fem….I don’t want a stretch puzzy/ass. I prefer to stretch it myself. Big dicks don’t impress me.. I’m not the one getting fucked. Sadly many don’t realize that SKILLS RULE.
IMO size matters. If i am looking for a regular fuck buddy I love a medium thick 6.5 to 8 incher. But when I am just horned up wanting to be fucked silly then bring on the beer can thick 9 inches. Stretch me out till my eyes bug.
3″ to 7″, cut. they’re my favorites.
Size is not that great of an issue if a man can get hard and knows how to use whatever length and girth he has. Men have mouths, hands and everything should come with the experience. It really comes down to the whole experience, how turned on I am and the penetration is just one part of the complete package.
HARDNESS– i.e., ability to maintain a firm erection– is the key to satisfying sex. It’s not size as much as can the active (“top”) partner keep his dick hard enough to successfully achieve penetrative sex into anus, mouth or other bodily orifaces. DURATION of maintaining that hard-on may also be important, although some guys with erectile dysfunction or premature cummers may need additional assistance. Many men may achieve success with a cock ring, but it really doesn’t do what it needs to in most guys; viagra or cialis, marijuana, and other chemicals may help (and hurt!!) some guys as well.… Read more »
Of course size matters. With a good size one, the bottom never has to ask: “Is it in YET”?
HARDNESS– i.e., ability to maintain a firm erection– is the key to satisfying sex. It’s not size as much as can the active (“top”) partner keep his dick hard enough to successfully achieve penetrative sex into anus, mouth or other bodily orifaces. DURATION of maintaining that hard-on may also be important, although some guys with erectile dysfunction or premature cummers may need additional assistance. Many men may achieve success with a cock ring, but it really doesn’t do what it needs to in most guys; viagra or cialis, marijuana, and other chemicals may help (and hurt!!) some guys as well.… Read more »
Yes if they are using it on me it helps establish the guidelines in a relationship size does matter to me any way I just like to be fucked like a slut which can help provide intimacy
I don’t care about his penis size at all. If he’s really hairy, I WANT HIM BAD !!
It’s the “whole package” that matters….not just the penis.
I like em big and i like em medium.. Love to suck a big dick and a medium dick to fuck me. aint nothing better..! Nuff said…
There is no question that a glorious big cock is great to play with. It feels so great when it’s big enough to stroke with both hands, and it probes you deeper inside than you knew you could be probed. But there are also down-sides to size. Excessive girth can be difficult and painful to take in a hole of limited size — a real strain on the mouth or anus. Also, guys with big cocks often think they are king and just want to be worshipped instead of engaging in sex for mutual pleasure. Some of my best sex… Read more »
most gay men are size queens but it depends on what you want. Good sex only or a relationship. Most well endowed men arent interested in dating or relationship, just hooking up is all they are good for and they can meet someone new guy around every corner so dont count on seeing them again. I have a smaller than average PP, most guys wont even meet me but the ones that do usually comment that my technique makes up for my lack of a big PP. I mostly believe porn is to blame, if your watching sex the bigger… Read more »
Sadly yes. Wish it didn’t. My partner who has passed, was very big and now average kind of hurts and doesn’t do it anymore.
As a cock worshiper and ass rimmer not looking to be fucked, size doesn’t matter to although I have a fetish for foreskin the more the better.
Intact men everywhere thank you. I know I do. We tire of being thought of as dirty or smelly. I’ve been a first on occasion and the guy is usually surprised at how much lubrication the foreskin produces and how easy it is to masturbate. It’s not the guy’s fault he’s been cut but unenlightened parents. For all those feminists out there screaming about “bodily integrity” or “My body my choice”, why can’t your son have “Bodily integrity” and choice? They’re so much more enlightened in Europe. They don’t understand why Americans are so intent on keeping this Bronze Age… Read more »
I will never understand the whole foreskin is gross concept. It’s sad that money talks because circumcision is a billable extra, and then those discarded foreskins are sold to cosmetic companies. Doctors love the profit, so they continue to convince us that foreskin is dirty and disease ridden, and we buy it hook, line, and sinker.
Laughing on any given gay site the majority of profiles are bottoms looking to fucked! That leaves tops looking for fresh tight twink ass to fuck. Size queens are equivalent to straight women who complain there aren’t enough good men to go around. Once that ass takes cock with ease, they are off looking for the next size up to conquer. Your ever see in profiles looking for a tight ass to fuck, no!
It’s like everyones preference. Performance the ability to satisfy . 2min man has not many fans 2 hour man has the fans . I seen big ones not go 5 mins an shorter thick ones have energized battery’s . Bigger is better if it’s a performance one then it’s a tie but whichever one rocks your world then size doesn’t matter being pickey. take one of each 3sums rock it allways
The penis itself can’t do anything without the man so why are we so all caught up with size ? I have always been attracted to passion/romance n sensuality all this has to be generated by the man not the size of his penis ,bigger only causes more pain/discomfort unless its used correctly , HELL NO SIZE DOESN’T MATTER TO ME ………..
I am a bottom. Size doesn’t really matter to me. As long as I am getting penetrated in some way I’m fine. However, my sweet spot starts at about 8 inches.
As a Total Top, I have NO interest in cock at all (size or shape). Now the size and shape of a mans derriere is a different matter. So speaking just for me…. YES, IT DOES MATTER.