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Society, in general, has these firmly-held beliefs about gay people and the LGBTQ community in their head, of what they think we are like, and these stereotypical judgments can be quite challenging to face.
We are bringing this up because we stumbled upon this particular thread online. User Jckun31, who started the thread, said he hated how people think that “gays are into astrology.” He, however, admitted that the reason why he hated it could also be because one of his exes was “super into it.”Â
But why is it important to talk about and recognize stereotypes? Itâs because negative stereotypes breed “homophobia, lesbophobia, gayphobia, biphobia, or transphobia” and awareness is the first step to reducing and preventing these “phobias.” Â
Anyway, below are some of the gay men on Reddit’s most hated gay stereotype or generalization, please don’t forget to share yours in the comments section below:
- According to user cute_gay_bunny, for him it is:”that there has to be a ‘man’ and a ‘woman’ in a gay relationship.
- Cwh93 said, “that we can’t be into sports.”
- For ssgatg1995, it’s: “That we all can decorate and watch RuPaul.”
- User alanon6 shared, “That we are weak and canât fight. I like finishing with, ‘Tell your friends a fag kicked your ass.'”
- User greihar on the other hand, said: “That just because we like men we want to be women. Like, seriously? And that has been told to me by straight women.”
- Meanwhile, Manly_Juices lamented that: “The most dangerous one that I have had friends bring up is the stupid idea that gay men are more likely to be pedos.”
- surnamemaster, on the other hand, said he hates “that phase a lot of women have where they start thinking gays are the coolest thing ever and talk about us like weâre magical unicorns or something.”
- For user Throwawayzurich, he said he hates it that people think being gay “is a lifestyle choice.”
- User grapeSerpent shared: “people seem to just forget that there are gay men above the age of 29.”
Thatâs an easy one: guys who have sex with other guys exclusively and self-identify as âgayâ stereotyping guys who do have sex with other guys – but, not exclusively – as being âin denialâ of their own sexuality.
The stereotype that I dislike the most is the Castro Clone. Guys that look alike and have to exhibit their gayness 24/7. I dislike the gay label itself because ppl attach that as an entire identity, making one Only gay with all the trimmings.
You need to look up the definition of “stereotype.”
He did. He’s accurate.
Very well said. I think that its all so boring as well and people like that have 0 personality.
Couldn’t agree more Turtlefrog. Our sexuality is only a part — a small part of our total being as souls.
That if you are a gay guy you are feminine, flamboyant, obsessed with glamorous celebrities, obsessed with fashion trends, interested only in diva and pop music, to the Left and Liberal when it comes to politics, and are someone who believes that everyone must “Come Out!” when it comes to their sexuality. Post after post in A4A blogs proves that there are many variations of gay guys, not just those mentioned above. And most often quite the opposite.
Forgot about politics there for a second. But you’re right, Trump fags are the worst.
I get annoyed with the stereotype that we’re weak and can’t fight. Gay guys are always portrayed as victims of violence or bullying in Hollywood and/or incapable of defending ourselves against any kind of attack. It’s ridiculous! Like we cannot defend ourselves. Nothing better than busting some hate-filled homophobe’s ass after he called you a “faggot” and went on the attack and then telling him, “Now go tell all of your little friends that you just got beat up by a faggot.”
While it is somewhat satisfying in life today, to know you could whop a homophobe’s ass, I find it far more satisfying to make them look small, foolish, irrelevant and weak by using intellect and articulation. Those around them see them as small individuals who are bullies and weaklings. They appear as the unevolved human beings that they are. Meanwhile society moves on.
The funny thing is that karma may bless them one day with a son or daughter who is gay.
That gays have to be liberals/democrats. Everyone can have their unique political leanings/beliefs! But even so, we can still get along with different ideologies!
Yes, you can be gay and (inexplicably) choose to vote AGAINST the party that is single-handedly responsible for every single legal right you’ve been given. Why you’d want to do that is beyond me, but yes, it’s patently clear that you can in fact make that choice.
Not when said ideologies actively work to harm others. Whatâs the gay equivalent of âUncle Tomâ?
“Sell-out”
Yeah, right, “getting along with the ideologies” of socio/psychopaths-“white nationalist” only means demise, for people or color/gay…one in their right mind, cannot go along with that and you know it.
I hate that gay men in the arts are considered “sissies”. A ballet dancer is every bit as much of an athlete as any man who plays sports, and decorators (to quote gay English decorator Nicky Haslam) have to be “tough as fighter pilots” in order to get their vision built.
I’m a decorator and tho I might swoon over 20 yds. of leopard silk velvet, I’m as butch as any plumber (which carries its own stereotype, as there must be gay plumbers as well, and even straight plumbers whose pants don’t sag and expose their cracks…)
Who WOULDN’T swoon at 20 yards of leopard silk velvet? I know some straight MEN who would!
LOL, I’m gay, and I wouldn’t! I don’t know what it looks like, other than some kind of leopard print, but it sounds kind of ugly to me.
I’m sorry, but if you’re “swooning” at anything (let alone leopard silk velvet), you’re far from butch. That you need to be reminded of this is sad. There’s nothing wrong with being femme, girl. Live it up. But please don’t try to be something you’re not.
THIS! Iâm not really too interested in guys in general unless theyâre somewhat femme, or, at least non-masculine and androgynous. Itâs too bad that the minority of guys who present themselves that way tend to be shamed by the majority who donât.
I admit that I am a gay guy who is somewhat repelled by guys who are loud or flamboyant. I simply makes me uncomfortable. In my heart and mind I know that I need to be accepting of them, their journey, their right to live. Just as I would want them to be accepting of me. Isn’t this life odd and weird??? I am reminded of an experience a couple of years back. I flew from the U.S. to Vancouver, B.C. for a week of Pride. Was on a dinner boat with 500 gay guys one night. On the top… Read more »
Swoon if you want to. Hey, John? Judge much? âThat you need to be reminded of this is sad.â Time for you to reconsider.
Yep. I judge all the fucking time. And so do you, Einstein. Remember that time last November when you JUDGED which candidate would make the better president before voting?
I think that’s what we call “check AND mate.” But please, try to come for me again, moron. Let me school you in public one more time.
I judge all the time too, you’re not alone, like you said, everyone does…
Kindness is a good attribute, too. Yes, we all judge.
I’m inspired by a story of Maya Angelou. One day someone came up to her and said, “I’m a Christian.” She said, “Really? I’m 77 years old and am still trying to be one.” Good food for thought, no matter your age, or differences.
Angelou doesn’t know what a Christian is. She’s confused it with sanctification. One becomes a Christian the moment he/she places faith in Jesus Christ and his redeeming work by taking upon Himself the sins of those who believe Him and believe in Him. Sanctification is the process of become Christ like. No one will achieve this perfecting in their lifetime. That’s why we need Christ. Angelou, if she has saving faith is a Christian. And with that faith comes the desire to be like Christ. The Apostle Paul likened it to the old man (human nature) dying within us. Angelou… Read more »
I think the entire gay culture is based on a negative and impossible stereotype. The gay culture is based on leftist lies that have created a superficial mind-set that is akin to the Marxist ideal of an impossible equality. Gay men tend to be bitchy and shallow, and are terrified of intimacy.
$10 says you can’t Marxism for us.
Says the bitchy and shallow leftist. If this is satire, you missed your Marxist.
Lol, sounds like you’ve been reading some of what I wrote regarding intimacy, which is part of the reason, they’re so bitchy-shallow, lack of intimacy that leads to loving relationships, personal growth, etc., has left many childish.
I think religion, has really fucked-up gay men’s ideas of themselves’. “Marxist idea of impossible equality?” Yeah, guess you’re right actually, you can not civilize the greedy, the capitalistic, the barbaric or white nationalists…
What are the leftist lies?
Unfortunately, most of the comments above were along the same lines of the way I feel. Perhaps
you could ask the gay community why some gay folks feel that the community is their own worse enemy when it comes to the reasons why we are NOT the powerful lobbying force that we could be. I won’t hold my breath on this one.
I’m with you there, friend.
I ,especially dont like when a lot of straight v people will find out im gay,and start to think they’ll im confused or something because I dont flit around or try to pick up on them,immediately.its like some assume you’re going to be into them because you’re gay,and if you’re not then you’re confused.
My favorite thought when I think some straight men think ‘I am into them’: “Oh, please, have you seen yourself? Don’t flatter yourself!” Makes me laugh in my head all the time!
And then there are some of the straight guys with kids, who are immensely hot. And you say to yourself, there’s still time to come over to the other team! LOL!
The vilest and most untrue stereotype about gay men is that we molest children. I raised both of mine as a divorced, custodial parent. Their friends regularly had sleepovers in our home, no ‘chaperones’ were present, and I hug my neighbors’ boy children as well as their girls. I have never had anyone make such an odious suggestion or accusation — except two of my three ‘brothers’…. Predictably, they’re both on-the-low and think I don’t know….
I think itâs becoming common knowledge that pedophiles hide amongst gay man and gay culture and theyâre the ones in charge and theyâre the ones who are pushing this entire agenda so that eventually will get used to it and it will be normalized. Unfortunately a lot of ââ gays have been found out to be actually just pedophiles itâs a very big problem
Your evidence sir?
Alfred, are you seriously crazy? Read psychological studies on pedophilia. It’s on Google. Don’t be lazy, educate yourself. Gay men are NOT pedophiles — per se. It’s sad that you’ve bought into this.
Much love to you!
Actually, I honestly believe there’s much more hetero than homo, pedophiles, the numbers suggest “we” are only 12-14% of the worlds populous, so that means there are, by the numbers, way more hetero pedophiles than gay ones.
You know, it’s so easy, it’s so easy to demonize, from the point of view of the majority “projection.”
That all gay men act like women
“That all gay men act like women”. Seriously offensive. And a slanderous comment on the character of women. This kind of comment is coined by macho, insecure, unevolved humans. How many types of gay guys do you meet socially? I see doctors, plumbers, airline pilots, mechanics. I see beefy, sophisticated, farm boys, black, asian, latino, white, christian, spiritual, atheist, activist, non-political, antisocial, city boys, kind, mean, fascinating, interesting, and also mean spirited and uninformed. All in the gay community. Would that more gays could be like some of the cool women I know. Straight men could benefit from that, as… Read more »
The stereotype that I most dislike is that all gay males are flaming nelly queens.
That we are all leftist, who slavishly vote Democrat. fortunately, many of us are not that stupid.
AMEN TO THAT.
LoL. That’s an oxymoron
Yeah, you’re just a separatist and elitist.
Yeah, why would you EVER want to vote for the party that has supported all your civil rights and liberties? That’s just plain STUPID!
so true. thanks for you comment. I am gay and I am a Trump supporter..and I don’t vote for someone’s personality…Trump is a conservative ass hole.. but he got results and I will vote for him again if he runs…
Your vote is your individual choice but it don’t bother you that he’s a racist? Example: Charlottesville, murderers and rapist, shit- hole countries, sons of bitches, etc. The insurrection didn’t matter to you? Results are good and being conservative is your choice but words really does matters too!!!
You disgust all sane beings. Cite said results. I dare you.
Hon, ya better check your facts and statistics on that. Yes, a conservative asshole, who got ‘what’ done for the people?
The one for me is assuming who is the top and who is the bottom based on looks.
That’s easy. The nelly one is always the top, the butch one is always the bottom.
LOL!
Yes, I love the ‘top/bottom’ judgement. Makes me laugh. As if being a bottom is a shameful thing. Is it for straight women? With gays, I believe it is simply a preference thing that is not about power, weakness, dominance or strength. Many of us flip and love it.
i dont like being called gay. if it werent for that (or typifying) then i could be rid of the baggage of concepts associated with said social group(s)
Yeah, the fact that words have meanings really sucks, doesn’t it?
I am not gay. I am heterosexually challenged.
I hate the stereotype that everyone should hate stereotypes. We are filled with ideas about everything and everyone we know. There are traits particular to any demographic and many people take pride in those distinguishable characteristics. For the most part when any group has been suppressed or is looked down on, the rise to equality takes a trip through pride but it shouldn’t stop there nor should it aim to look down on any other demographic. Pride is a stepping stone to total acceptance and not the destination. As a minority of any kind in a world as diverse as… Read more »
Well Said. Thank you.
Fuck man…… that was beautiful reading. Absolutely great that someone can speak to the mind and make it listen & understand your point view. Not to demean you but those words you spoke is your opinion, your point of view. But damn my man it is a good one. Don’t let haters stop you from speaking your intelligence you obviously have. Beautiful writing. I enjoyed it. Hope everyone else did also.
No. What Dean wrote is not ‘just his opinion’. There is truth out there in the world. Truth is not an “opinion”; it is truth. One in life is to acquire wisdom and the ability to make good judgments. Dean is also absolutely correct in his denunciation of stereotype hating just because it is a stereotype. False stereotypes, inaccurate stereotypesâyes, those are to be denounced. However, accurate stereotypes need to be considered. If one dislikes an accurate stereotype, then perhaps the solution is to have that group change the behavior giving rise to that stereotype in the first place. It… Read more »
Bravo, very well said!
I hate the Transphobia and the Homophobia expressed loudly by conservatives. I’ve met Straight men who take it in the butt yet claim they aren’t gay. And the hateful Christians who slur the words as they spit out the words, “Them there Hooomooosexuuaals and Transgenders.” I want to slap them and force them to take a six month long class on the English language with an emphasis on proper Vocalization.
I CALL BULLSHIT.
No, he’s pretty much right. Conservatives and Christians tend to be pretty shitty.
Yes, he is, agreed, they forgot about “love thy neighbor”, “thee without sin, cast the first stone” hell, these people are doing EVERYTHING backwards. Isn’t that how the truly evil work, according to folklore?
The most hateful stereotype, the onr perpetuated by foolish gay guys who try to “turn” everyone, is that the gay male wants to rape every straight male he sees. I don’t even want every gay guy I see. That stereotype justified the gay panic defense, where two big guys could get away with beating a skinny little gay guy. That stereotype is especially ridiculous being voiced by a guy even desperate women don’t want.
Very well said and that bullshit only makes it worse for everyone.
The gay turning a straight fantasy must be strong, or Pornhub wouldn’t run ads and amateur videos with this premise. Of course pizza delivery, locker rooms, and other scenarios are just as strong.
Personally I hate when people learn I’m gay, then suddenly think I’m a left-wing nutcase. I’m Republican. I don’t protest, I don’t block traffic because some thug was killed by the police, and I don’t March down High St. wearing a jockstrap and butt plug for ‘Gay Pride’. I’m just a normal guy who prefers other guys. I know I am not the only one out there! Btw, I know you will not publish this; simply
because it does not fit your own stereotype of what/how a gay man should act- and THAT’S part of the problem!
Bless. Pride is over rated. Every pride I saw has been 50% sexual pose, to the point where the stereotype now is gay = sex and horny 24/7. Why cant we have a march to demonstrate that gay is just a normal human being with clothes on and acting normal and show society that we can be as successful as anyone? I don’t recall Tim Cook being on the street demonstrating or wearing a plug. he acts, talks, and behaves like a normal person. The only difference about him is he likes men instead of women.
AMEN brother! I hate gay pride because its a bunch of boa wearing mostly naked queens parading thru the street. Where are the normal guys? nowhere! No wonder the “regular” people think we are all a bunch of sex crazed degenerates, thats what they see. If “Gay Pride” was the vast majority of us normal folks, that they see every day, we would be accepted and not automatically rejected and ridiculed.
Dude, you just stereotyped the site staff. (And on the subject of stereotypes, some guys shot by the police were thugs, but most weren’t. But that’s another blog.)
I like that R L. The importance of you saying “MOST WEREN’T” has already been ignored by more than half the people that just read it.
Looks like you were proven wrong on the “won’t publish this” aspect. Let’s talk about your stereotypes of those who “protest, block traffic and March on High Street wearing a butt plug “.
Thank you, Timothy! I am sick of people telling me that, as a gay conservative, I. must hate myself. I too am a normal man who is into men.
WTF? Define ânormal.â Eyeroll.
Timothy this is a brilliant post. Thank you for putting a voice to it. Gay Pride is a joke and just another way to give gross trendy queens an excuse to be trashy. The Republican movement of gays and lesbians is growing and its about time people wake up to the blatant brainwashing of the radical left. Cheers to you and all my fellow Gay conservatives.
Turn off Fox Noise.
⌠So ‘all’ blacks that are murdered by white cops are thugs, ah? That’s a loaded statement, that’s loaded with bullshit; what you’re actually saying, is that all of these other ‘good cops’ of color are failing to be good cops. Cops of color (and other ‘good’ white cops), are not murdering the unarmed, innocent black men/women, like Breonna Taylor (healthcare worker), the guy that is/was a behavior therapist caring for a mentally ill patient right down here in So, Florida. He, on duty w/patient (healthcare worker) was on his back-hands in the air, not to mention the countless others… Read more »
Just imagine having the clarity of mind to announce yourself as a Republican, and then tell us that you think that the black men murdered by cops in the streets were all “thugs.” No need, Timothy. We knew you were racist as soon as you told us you were a Republican. This is what conservatism is, everyone. Straight conservatism, gay conservatism: it’s all white supremacy. You morons can all go take a long walk off a short pier.
You got all negative reviews for your forthright & truthful statements. Isn’t it amazing those with “The Superiority Complex” can’t stand hearing any words that didn’t come out of their mouth. They denounce your words immediately with no attempt to understand.
I don’t have enough time, patience or space to discuss the pros/cons of Liberal vs conservative vs democrat vs republican political issues BUT I do have to stop and express my deep displeasure on the blatant disregard of simple gay history….Now as a gay man (out for over 43 years) from a decidedly conservative, southern area of the US, I speak from a lifetime of experience and I’m DAMN tired of gay men (possibly gay women too) and men who don’t label themselves as gay (but still partake in the sexual activity that one might assume as gay – I’ll… Read more »
You do make some valid points, one cannot deny, as it sounds like you’re just slightly older than myself; but we need some new representation, though… They know, who we are in ‘our own world’, but aside from that, how do “we” celebrate “we’re here and we’re queer” in society, in a way that shows another side, we ‘not’ making abundantly clear. It’s been that time, long ago, since I went to the last gay pride… “yeah, they get it, but what else ya’ got” was my question I thought to myself, about “us” as a whole? Every movement/representation of… Read more »
Lamar – I appreciate your perspective, but let me lend another one – not necessarily contradictory to yours, but another view…..Why do we care what the hetrosexual world thinks of us? What is so missing from our lives, our psyche or our own self-worth – that we’d need the approval of others? While I’m all supportive of Pride in any form, I don’t fit into any of those roles – I’m not a drag queen, particularly fem or butch, I owned a highly successful business, have a husband of over 25 years, well traveled, but QUEER nonetheles and unabashedly….I’m not… Read more »
I’m a big tall black man, I looked like a professional b-ball player; masculine but not acting… everyone must be free enough to be themselves… no one group, lives in a vacuum, but in the world at large… As such, I by way of just being me, provide as an example, just go about my life as I am. I and “we” need the rest of the world at large, as we live in it… I’ve never and never will, ask anyone’s permission to be me, no man is an island unto himself, no one tells me who I am… Read more »
THANK YOU and RIGHT ON!!!!!!~
David the rights that gays enjoy today were provided exclusively by the conservative coalition. We all know that. lol
Timothy you may be in your own mind a “Normal Person” but you my friend is what I would call a Normal Racists Person. You didn’t believe what you said was wrong or maybe I shouldn’t have said that. You just said it and we all read it. What are you going to do for your next trick……mimic a physically challenged person, record it and post it online. Then say you never did that. Try it. It worked once that I know of.
The cliched stereotype that gay men are into musicals, showtunes, and drag. Ugh, hate them all.
me too yay. Im a gay man who is not a liberal and i love heavy metal, and alternative music.
I don’t like drag. My opinion is that drag queens are responsible for many, if not most, of the bad stereotypes about gay men. A straight man viewing a drag queen on stage swishing around in a formal dress, lip-syncing to music, to get dollar bills stuffed in their “whatever” can’t have a good impression of what is happening. Where I live the drag queens are terrible, can’t dance, can’t lip-sync, and can’t keep their dresses in good repair. The whole thing looks like some aggressive loser who is on stage simply to get people to look at “her”, because… Read more »
Wow. Do you even know what stereotyping is? If not, you did a fine job of defining it.
Drag is blackface on women. I just think it’s boring until it becomes performance art–and sometimes even then.
But it’s ridiculous to complain about a stereotype that’s dead. Gay men haven’t been musical lovers since the 90s. Unfortunately.
LMAO! Oh, where, oh where to begin!
LOL!
Wes are ALL Stereotyped!!!!!!!…Blacks, Whites, Latinos, Asians, Straights, Gays, Men, Women…Get over it!…live your life already, takes all kinds to make the world go round!!
Eye-roll, now you know I can’t argue that, ’cause it’s true.
So many too choose from! Here are a few to start: The stereotype that all gay men LOVE drag, drag, drag 24/7… that we can’t wait to catch up on the next installment of “Drag Race”.
The stereotype that all gay men should want to shave their bodies so that they resemble 12-year-old boys. Grown MEN have f’ing BODY HAIR!
The stereotype that any gay man over 45 might as well be dead… because how could someone so OLD possibly have any sex appeal?
You mean 15 year old girls, right?
Perhaps the picture above is a start
i too hate the one where straight guys find out and then think you are going to hit on them just because they have a dick,,as if,,,and that everyone thinks you chose to be gay, that one really gets me!
The response is simple. Ask them how they decided not to be gay.
The stereotype that I’ve always found abhorrent is the idea that any gay man is a pedophile. That train is never late.
All of these stereotypes exist because somewhere in the gay community they’re true. This entire discussion is another example of the stereotype that gay men are catty bitches who can’t accept the various aspects of their own community.
The one I hate the most is when people leave homophobic comments that assume that all gay men get fucked in their ass Like just because a man is gay does NOT automatically mean he likes to be penetrated.
Fake âA-Listâ gay guys. Supposedly elite but roll over line a Weeble in bed.
He got the gay disease because he chose to be with men. Heaven forbid anyone should think we were born this way
Oh where to begin? That we are all obsessed with haute couture. That we canât swing a hammer or turn a wrench. That we all love the theatre, musicals, and show tunes. That we canât fight. That weâd rather be decorating rather than building. That we donât make good parents. That weâre obsessed with every man that we see. That we all want to dress like or be women. That weâre confused. That we fear commitment. That weâre all like the people at the pride parade who unapologetically wear a thong and rub on a group of guy that Fox… Read more »
I find it ironic and disturbing that your asking people to speak out on what they hate. I can only imagine love and positivity would help people find peace. Promoting ones gate is wrong and nit the way to address stereotypes. Donât hate people. Even those who hate you can only be defeated with love .
I’m sick of the idea that all gay men love to be flamboyant, are pedophiles, and want to screw every man alive. Give me a break.
I think bringing it up and asking a ton of people on a social site is creating more than the actual stereotype itself. Everyone in the world is aware of stereotypes, there is no need to spread the anger and upset feelings it causes by doing this. It’s pretty much hypocritical to talk against it while also stirring it up.
My biggest dislike is when I say I’m bisexual around other guys, particularly the straight guys, they think I’m gonna sexually make advances and that I’m sexually after them as if I have no sexual control or morals about myself, which annoys the heck out of me. Like if a guy feels threatened that I’m after him sexually just because I’ve shared my sexuality, makes me question their own sexuality. Like just because I’ve shared my sexuality and beliefs doesn’t mean I want to sleep with you, that’s a fantasy usually for ppl in denial of themselves. I on the… Read more »
Maybe make some heterosexual male friends who aren’t utterly terrified of their own sexuality?
Non-heterosexual men who identify as âGayâ arenât always wrapped too tight upstairs, either. Try explaining the basic concept of âBisexualityâ to far too many of them, then see how many âjust come out of the closet alreadyââs you get.
That we bedazzle our underwear and like all things glitter. Ughh
I’m well into my fourth decade of being queer as fuck, and I’ve NEVER heard of the “bedazzle our underwear” stereotype until just now.
And I resent the word “queer” being added to our community. It’s like saying “weird”. I know that it was about beating straights to the punch about us. Laughing at ourselves. I don’t need to laugh or label who I am. Why do others feel they need to?
I hate that I must not be gay because I donât look the part, I work in the trades, have a contractors license, donât wear flashy clothes, donât drive a high end car, live a modest, non flamboyant lifestyle, I vote with my head rather than along party lines & I believe that all lives matter. Iâm not into art, fashion, donât go to gay pride parades, donât fly a gay pride flag or display stickers on my cars. Finally, Iâm as happy under a car as I am under a man. Lol
Love it ! I am in the same boat man . Licensed contractor here .
I LOVED your reply, right up until the “all lives matter,” all lives aren’t under attack “white dude,” eye-roll, it just means you can’t/won’t acknowledge the “Jim Crow” America is still dealing with.
Like I said, “where to begin.”
exactly
Rodger, when you need to paint your garage door, do you paint everybody’s garage door on your street? Or just the one that needs to be painted, yours?
Lamar, you didn’t read Rodger’s comments very well. Try again.
My god Rodger, you sound like a catch! Loved your comment! Glad you are comfortable in who you are. Best wishes.
I hate being told that gay/lesbians are against nature n we cannot produce offspring. Yeah, so F familial values.
I love nature. đ and have produced 5 kids — before I came out! Not married now. My kids are the joy of my life! We all have different paths, but biologically, anyone can have a kid today. What matters is the quality of life we give them. How many straight people pump out kids and don’t think twice about raising them well. Most gay people I know who have had kids, have had to plan for them. They are some of the best parents I’ve seen. Truth.
I hate when people think that we want every man we see.
And that we all must be having sex with eachother and can’t just be friends.
I love sex so much that nothing really turns me off.. but I do get turned on by a masculine strong rugged tuff man with a big uncut dick…
I deplore the labels !!! Labels suck ! Why let yourself be labeled in any way?, including how we enjoy sex ? Labels put us all into boxes, divide us into neat little groups, pit us against other groups, and for what?? I believe it is to distract us all from realizing just what is really happening, which is this, the powerful become more powerful with the control they have over us all, and we all loose freedoms and rights, slowly sneeked away from us while we are busy figuring just what “box” we fit into ! ! Just my… Read more »
The fact that all Gays should be Democrat and support them.
A HUGE false stereotype is that the gay community is ALL INCLUSIVE and non-racist. Its one of the biggest racist communities around.In the 1980s during AIDS crisis, NYC sought out to close MOST of the bathhouses and sexual hangouts. All disappeared except with white-owned establishments or white-supported.When theres good news on the AIDS front, they use white-models in their ads, when there’s bad news they use minorities.Many white gays feel empowered to use the ‘N’ word even when searching for sex online asking to enjoy ‘raceplay’.
My biggest things is that i hate labels for everything. Why do we have to label lesbian, gay, trans, cd or another label . I am simply a man that happens to enjoy his boyfriend. I can care less which of us are top or bottom, we are “US” and not a stereotype label. Whose business anyway which way a couple swings during sex? I enjoy a good flip session myself..
That we are all rabid leftists. You can be gay and also have common sense.
When gays themselves call each other “fag” or “girl” or “miss thing”, it is just as offensive when black people refer to themselves as “ni@@er”
Just pick up a copy of OUT magazine. That whole âthingâ personified from front to back cover. Vapid.
Shaved, waxed or cremed body hair.
For me I don’t like it when some men get very over effmient or they use the word queer. Queer was used as a derogoritory way people made fun of gay men. I would love them to just say I’m gay, or bi.
We’re into fashion; we want all want to do drag; we only like female musicians & know the words to each song by heart.
I think it is a stereotype to act feminine in order to be gay .. not saying you also need to act str8 either, but why must you need to flail and wave your hands in the air like you just don’t care, and walk with your bootay going from side to side? It just seems typical and it’s best to just be you and not act feminine .. I’m more ‘in the middle’ myself, but I act more nerdy if anything else