Are you into anal sex, guys?
Anyway, the gay men of Reddit have spoken and some of them said that anal sex is not a required activity and advised the original poster (OP) of the thread to “just stick with what you both enjoy.” Another one answered no as well; he said that for him, it’s not necessarily a requirement and that if the two of you have an enjoyable sex life then there’s no problem. One guy, however, confessed that yes, anal sex is a requirement for him because he believes that “there’s a special part of intimacy in that part of sex.”
We are asking because we stumbled upon a thread on askgaybros asking readers whether anal sex is a requirement for them when they are in a relationship or not. So, if you are into it and your significant other is not, would you break up with them because of it? Conversely, what if you’re not a fan of anal sex and your boyfriend or partner loves it, would you try for their sake or would you stop dating them instead? Also, for those who are not into anal sex, did you have a bad experience that made you dislike it?
Reasons given as to why they are not into anal sex included the following: anal sex is painful (for bottoms), as for tops, they said it’s because they are afraid of hurting their bottoms while others confessed they’re not into it because “anal sex is a pain in the ass for both tops and bottoms.” There was one who said it’s because of a traumatic experience—he was raped and he suffers from post-traumatic stress disorder [PTSD] as a result of that).
Having said all these, what about you, guys? Is anal sex a deal breaker for you? Why or why not? Share with us your thought and stories in the comments section below.