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Let’s face it: conversations about dick size are both a curiosity and a taboo topic within the gay community. The supposed average length globally is around 5.1 inches when erect, but if you ask anyone, it seems like everyone magically claims to be 7 inches or more. So, what’s the truth? And more importantly, why does it matter so much?
In online forums like r/askgaybros, discussions about size often bring out humor, vulnerability, and pride. A gay man there asked, “Be totally honest, how big is your dick?” He added, “The average size is supposedly 5.1″, but practically everyone claims to be at least 7.”
One user admitted, “Six inches, but my softie is embarrassing,” highlighting how perception of size changes based on context. Another chimed in with, “I demand all pictures for verification purposes and proper reporting,” poking fun at some guys’ habit of exaggerating.
There’s also the honesty of those on the smaller side. One commenter shared, “A little over 4 inches hard. Apparently, a comfortable size for the bottoms I’ve met with. Still feel ashamed of it sometimes though, especially since I’m fat.” This perspective sheds light on how body image can amplify insecurities, even if others find no issue with it.
But then there are others who find humor in measurement discrepancies. As one user said, “Gay system I’m: 9 inches. Actual measurement system: 6 inches.” It raises the question of why we sometimes inflate our measurements—perhaps for validation or to meet societal expectations?
For many, confidence is the real measuring stick. A user stated, “Great to see so many guys happy with their dick, whatever they have! I love mine—average length, curved boner, hard to measure and to be honest, it’s a long time since I tried.” This perspective reminds us that owning what you have is far more appealing than fretting over a number.
So, why does size matter at all? It’s not just about comparison—it’s about identity, desirability, and self-worth. Whether you’re big, small, or average, understanding your own feelings about your size is crucial.
Adam4Adam readers, what about you? Be totally honest: how big is your dick? Do you embrace what you have, or do societal pressures make you feel differently? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
Kind of annoying when you don’t put enough time between posts. Sometimes you’ll go days without and get lots of comments and sometimes you’ll do a post every 16 hours and never giving enough chance for comments to happen.
It’s a waste of your own time, if you don’t allow enough support of your own product to occur.
A good 7 inches here
Nice
I swallow that sexy MAN-MEAT and give an accurate reading…
Yeah, but whose is it?
I’ll take 2, please!
I’m about 7″ (really), but I don’t care about dick length. I’m more interested in thickness, especially the head. A nice mushroom head – even on a short dick – gets me going.
I am ten inches erect, a total topman, have never owned a cock ring, and am seventy-one (although I do shave fifteen years off my age in my profile since I look younger than fifty-six and our community is ageist). I deliberately post pix that do not portray me fully erect. I do so to counter the size-liars. It substantially enhances matters when a new lover realizes that I am truly ten inches. It’s regrettable that dudes choose to lie because it says so much about their insecure mindsets. Some years ago, I conducted a private survey. I asked what… Read more »
why are so many guys with long dicks tops, when they should know they can hurt and injure their partner with it?
Im 6” but it all about how you use it. Im a bottom. So i can tell you it aint the meat its yhe motion.
To be honest, how exactly is the length of the penis measured. We all know where one end is, but the other is a bit murkier. All I can say is that based on the cocks I have seen, I am average. Also, my preferred cock to enjoy is my size or smaller. When giving head, I can get more of the cock into my mouth and for anal, I feel more certain that I can handle it. That being said, I do like the look of larger cocks.
I say measure the bottom, which is longer, and push that ruler right up against your scrotum…What’s pathetic is that all the guys with big ones are all over Sniffies.com because they are incapable of dating and relationships, it would seem.
Is this a RHETORICAL question – do you HONESTLY HONESTLY expect A4A members to be upfront on that – let alone show a ‘handsome model’ nude pic and claiming it’s theirs(where they do just that in their profiles)? ‘it seems like everyone magically claims to be 7 inches or more.’ – yep, already seen two posts here claiming that now but, yeah OK, I’ll play alone – AS LONG AS AN ELEPHANT’S TRUNK. 😛
Is it mine? I’m not telling.
8.5? It’s pretty awesome I wish it was either mine to play with all the time and show off or have it in front of me know and still play with! Lol
Yes, please!
It’s smallish. 5 at the most. I didn’t choose it, but it does what I need it to do. I prefer guys with smallish cocks. They make for great sucking, and they’re a perfect fit inside of me.
When was it ever, ever taboo? It’s the main feature on any dating profile!
I’m a strong 7″ but with me being a 100% bottom, it doesn’t really matter with the tops that I lay with, most of the tops I lay with only interested in getting their dick sucked and going ball deep in my ass, so I only use it to cum with when with men,
Notice the writer didn’t volunteer his size…
Father, why don’t you just sit back and read for a change? You’ve had a comment for everyone who has replied. You need to get a life!
If the world average is 5.1″ than I guess I am above average at around 6.5″ (which I always thought was just average). However… I will agree with one of the other posters and say that I prefer average dicks when it comes to the act of bottoming and maybe oral… Less possibility of pain and the average size lets a top go longer without causing me pain or bad friction. I also agree that the big ones are fun to look at and admire. I believe most people obsess with size is historically in our country people tended to… Read more »
I think guys have penis envy whether they are hung or not and it doesn’t matter if they bi gay or str8…. I think straight guys have the most penis event than anyone..know I do. If I see what I think is a perfect package it’s either one of 2 responses I either wish it mine or I wish I sucking it. Lol either way it’s important. Here’s mine – you guys tell me how big you think it is. Let see how close you can get. It doesn’t matter how big it actually is if you think is then… Read more »
6.5 uc. Funny, only in these later years have a grown more comfortable in my own skin, including both my size and that I’m uncut. Probably because I’m a “grower”, and I just didn’t quite appreciate uncut as much as I do now.