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What is it that you love most about men? Is it their personality, their confidence, their appearance, or simply the way being with another man makes you feel? One gay man recently shared a post explaining why he is attracted to men, and many others quickly related to what he said. He wrote, “I love men.” He added:
“Fuck I just love men so much. The body, the voice, the hair, the arms, the armpits, the legs, the feet, the ass, the snail trail from their abs to their balls, their balls, their dick, their shaft, the back of their neck, their ears, their neck, their fingers in my mouth. I just love men. Two men having sex just seems like the most natural thing in the world to me. I love men and being with men and being gay. That’s kinda it. Just needed to express that in some way.”
The comments section was quickly filled with others who shared similar feelings. Some gay men responded with humor like this guy, who said, “Gotta clean myself up after reading that one.”
In addition, others completely agreed with the sentiment. “Couldn’t agree more! Men are so beautiful. Everything about a man is hot🥵”
On the other hand, one commenter reflected on how reading the post made them think about their own sexuality. “I’m bi but being with a woman just sounds less familiar to me when I think about how men make me feel, maybe I am just gay lol.”
Further, many men joined the conversation to share the striking masculine physical traits they consider most attractive in men. “Don’t forget the calves and the stubble.” Another guy added: “Don’t forget their thick glutes and the glorious musky scent of their sweaty twins.”
Meanwhile, others focused on the overall appeal they personally associate with masculinity. “I know men and big muscly men are just so hot. I love women as people, but I can’t imagine why people find them sexually attractive when men are just so big and bulging,” he explained. “So much more physically to love.”
If there’s one thing that’s clear, what one person finds irresistible may not matter to someone else, and that’s part of what makes dating and relationships so interesting. Every gay man has his own story about what first caught his eye—and what ultimately captured his heart.
So, what about you, Adam4Adam blog readers? What do you love most about men? Is it their personality, confidence, sense of humor, voice, smile, or certain physical features? When did you first realize you were attracted to men, and has your type changed over the years? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.
I have leaned more towards sex with other guys the last 5+ years and find it more satisfying….but when it comes to dating/relationships I still prefer women. Though I date less these days and prefer to have a guy friend with benefits.
I’m the same..lol… Ever since my divorce, I have been enjoy my bi side more and more.. I find it more satisfying in the sexual part of my life as well. I love sucking on a rock hard cock and feeling it fill my mouth up and swallow a sweet load.. I love the feel of rock hard cock sliding deep in to my hole and fucking me till it breeds me. But i also enjoy a sweet pussy and love to go down on them kissing and making out with them. I dont kiss guys… and with relationships ..its… Read more »
I find it very odd that someone would be OK with sucking a cock and taking a load in their mouth, and getting fucked, but wouldn’t kiss another man. I guess for some people “kissing” is a much more personal action.
I agree with what you are saying, but I think it’s more of that heterosexual BS. “I’m not gay if I don’t kiss him.” Frankly, they don’t know what they are missing.
It’s just like a quote we’ve heard before (I think it’s the title to a porn vid too) “Don’t Kiss Me I’m Straight” lol! They let you suck them or they’ll even suck you BUT they won’t kiss with a guy!
For those of us who “were already out” when we came from between our mother’s legs, the question of “Why We Love Men” is molecular not arbitrary.
It is just a genetic predisposition!
Agree. It’s not so much that I love men as it is that I’ve never been attracted to women. I was a child with blonde hair and blue eyes and have always been attracted to black hair, brown eyes, and darker skin. As a 10 year old watching “Tarzan” movies I wasn’t interested in Tarzan. I was watching the native chief who was usually a muscular black man. I didn’t even understand at that time why I liked the “chief” more than tarzan. The funny thing is that I was recently talking to my female cousin – also blonde hair… Read more »
I am glad you agree.
Some of us already knew as I knew, at 5, in Kindergarten, when we would sit outside on our blankets waiting for the bus. Two boys would ask if they could sit with me and I was thrilled!
What do like about men besides their cock and cum, hairy and strong bodies , the smell of them, their the way they feel, not worrying about getting knocked up. They way we have sex.
It was just the natural order of things since birth.
I’m an authentic gay man, therefore I’m naturally attracted to men. I find some women attractive too, but I don’t get aroused when they touch me or flirt with me. Men on the other hand; if I especially find them attractive, their masculinity, deep voice, the way we touch and seduce each other, etc…will bring me to a point of getting an erection. I love nice masculine hands, forearms, legs, hairy ass, natural body scent, etc… Many people think that most gay people are incapable of falling in love due to stereotypes. Not all us are just looking for big… Read more »
Get treated better. Kiss better.
What I find hot, in addition to a man’s ass and dick is his mouth and hands. A man mouth and hands alone can take us the new heights. Kissing, nipple play, oral, petting, stroking, fingering, rimming, masturbating etc alone can get us off every time with the right one. I get excited just looking at men’s mouth and hands knowing the magic alone they can do.
don’t bruise as easily as fish
Physically, I just love absolutely everything head to toe, literally. I love the ways our bodies feel, smell and taste; the sounds of ‘us’ even when cuming, I love a man’s mouth, hands, feet, legs, dick and ass. Ever notice how handsome a man’s head can be?
I love how we can go anywhere together, paling around, best bud, lovers, confidants; having each other’s back when shit goes down, etc.
They are more sexual. It’s much easier to get sex from them
Sexually, as I have heard from many others, as I have gotten older I am enjoying gay sex more and more. There is a sexual intensity with men that I rarely get with women. I still find women very attractive, love a beautiful face and caressing a lovely breast is so nice. But going down on a woman doesn’t come close to my enjoyment of sucking a cock. Also, I can fuck both and love it, but getting fucked by a man can be so sexual and intense.
Because nothing in the world beats having a cock in my ass
While my teenage peers were ogling “tits and ass”, I knew I was attracted to abs, delts and pecs. Even before I knew about sex, I just knew there were men I’d see on TV or in person that I just wanted to be near. I’m attracted to traditional/masculine men (see the photo of the guy in this article) than those who are feminine or flamboyant. I find these men more consistent, less fickle, and better at communication across many topics than the former or women. Guys I don’t need to woo, send flowers, or provide breakfast. Sex with them… Read more »
There’s an intensity with other men. There’s their body. There’s the pure incredible primal sexuality. And simply for me the sex is infinitely better.
Because I love to suck men’s dicks and eat their cum and get my hole fucked and filled with cum. Men are the best. I’ve been a homo my entire life. I love being a homosexual (non LGBT crap).
I don’t know that I love men, but I find them less complicated. In high school the girls always tried to decide who took who to the dance and certain girls were off limit or stuck up. I saw a cartoon of the controls for the male and female libidos. For men it was a simple toggle switch. On or Off. For women it looked like the controls of a 747 jumbo jet. There’s also the fact that women’s moods change depending on their time of the month, and there’s that monthly week of down time.
That is why we need to “Pity” straight males! They need our intervention!
it is not the men themselves for me it is the cock i love cock
I didn’t have sexual intercourse before turning 25, matured, informed and ready. My first lover was a woman who was traveling cross country on a Greyhound bus pass. We met in an ice cream parlor. She was from Vienna, some few years before, I had learned German volunteering for two years of service in the State of Westphalia. She wanted to see Yellowstone. I had a new car and offered to drive her there. My interest was in the immersive German discussion we became engaged in. Pitching a tent with separate sleeping bags, I had no thought of becoming intimate.… Read more »