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Exploring new sex positions can spice up your sex life and help you connect with your partner on a deeper level. A gay man online recently asked, “In your opinion, which sex position is the most UNDERRATED?”
The responses were interesting to say the least. One gay man boldly stated, “Standing up. Hot AF.” This position, while requiring some balance and coordination, brings spontaneity and intensity to the moment. It’s perfect for when passion takes over, and you can’t wait to find a bed.
Another guy shared, “I’m partial to side-by-side, it hits me different.” This position, often referred to as the spooning position, allows for close body contact, making it intimate and relaxing. Plus, it’s a great option for slower, more sensual experiences.
For fans of a more grounded approach, prone bone is a favorite. One guy said, “Bone prone. As a bottom it feels amazing and is hot to feel his weight on you. And the top has easy access to the back of your neck and ears.” Another added, “I second this, prone bone is the easiest way for this bottom to cum hands free.” This position combines deep penetration with physical closeness, creating a highly pleasurable experience for both partners.
Some responses highlighted the importance of mutual pleasure and foreplay. One person wrote, “Either sitting face-to-face between each other’s legs and jerking off together OR laying on top of each other and grinding crotches together while making out.” These positions emphasize connection, eye contact, and intimacy, showing that sex isn’t just about penetration.
But trying new positions isn’t always easy to bring up. One user posed a thoughtful question: “My question is how do you bring up trying new positions in a sexy way? I just ask, oh we should try this, but it always sounds so unsexy just plainly saying it like that.” This comment highlights the importance of open communication in relationships and finding ways to keep conversations about sex both comfortable and exciting.
What about you, Adam4Adam blog readers? Is there a sex position that you love but you feel is underrated or one you’ve been curious to try? Share it with us below! And speaking of sexploration, Adam4Adam offers HD porn on Adam4AdamTV, sex toys, and ideas to spice up your sex life. Check out our store for inspiration!
I wouldn’t call this underrated, but sometimes early mornings when its cold and snowy outside. My fuck buddy and I take turns taking long, hot, soapy tub baths washing everything from head to toe. Then we lotion our entire bodies with sweet smelling lotion. We brush our teeth and tougue vigorously and then gargle with minty scope mouth wash. Then we get in bed under the blankets and make out kissing, nipple play, sucking, rimming, fingering, frotting, rubbing each other all over. We chat, laugh, hold hands enjoying each other. This often go on for hours and hours mostly French… Read more »
Damn I would love that
Ok.. First.. I know this isnot an underrated position…. Doggie…… but the method im find underrated is a great love making Doggie…. Everyone usually thinks and goes for the ….I’m going to pound the fuck out of you when doing Doggie.. Slam into you banging away….. but…… a good love making Doggie is so sensuous and connecting… Shows you care about what is going on between us and making love to my ass becomes so much more then just a fuck… Now… when nearing climax…. I am all for a bit rougher for the finish…. harder and deeper…..
Right on point. Mild doggystyle feels amazing. You can feel every inch. And like you said, when the top is about to nutt, he can go for what he know and bang away. Just had to respond!!! Very hot.
tks… yea.. im fine with at the end.. lets go baby..lol.. but you better nutt in me… i love feeling his cock swell and then pulse with each shot….
I love to receive cock in reverse piledriver position. I can see his cock
Thrusting inside me and his balls bouncing off my butt. Love to stroke his balls. Just before he breeds me I put a few fingers on his taint to feel him pulsating when he has a powerful ejaculation deep in my asshole. Face down ass up and mounted him standing is close.
I’m very flexible love to show my hole
My favorite positions are using my sling or taking him standing bent over holding the bed post. Both allow deep penetration and standing allows him t fuck himself and push back on my cock
I identify as vers, but mostly a top by default due to the extraordinary number of bttms, but my favorite position as a top is to have my bttm relaxed laying on his stomach spread eagle, while I rub my dick against his lightly lubed ass crack and tease his hole with the tip of my dick before going in. I can fuck this way for hours nonstop before shooting my load, and I think this position is very underrated. Some bttms who rarely experience a long session in one position said they were surprised they enjoyed it so much.… Read more »
I love that position both as a top and bottom! Feels so good either way regardless of how big the top is. I love missionary if the top is hung right because it’s so intense to kiss and fuck at the same time
I got hard and horny just thinking about being your bottom! I love to be spread eagled, on my stomach and taking a nice long slow fucking
Heh, I believe without a doubt that the most underrated position of all is and probably will always be, is the missionary position. Though it’s popular in gay porn and bottoms in general, it’s not as common in real life. As a versatile guy, when I top bottoms, most would encourage the idea of me fucking them while making out with them, which is hot, but I tend to shy away from doing that sometimes because it feels too romantic and intimate especially when I feel like one of the bottoms might start catching feelings for me and I’m like… Read more »
As a vers/top I get what you’re saying. Some guys I top, I just don’t personally find attractive or someone I want to be intimate with. So, I am not really a missionary person with men, just my partners when I have one. And mostly big on flipping and doing different positions when the chemistry is there. Chemistry trumps looks, body type, age, etc… when the chemistry between us is on point, a lot more than just riding that ass in one position will be going on.
Missionary by far my favorite. It’s the only position I can cum hands free. And kissing is a plus
I love missionary. Having a guy over on top of me using my hole for his pleasure is hot.
i love the classic me on my back with my legs pinned to my chest and my lover on top
Me too.
I really like when a top puts me in the middle of his bed , and lay me on my stomach, then spread my legs and lay on my back and fuck me, if he’s slow fucking me , I like for him to kiss the back of my neck and talk to me . But if he’s really trying to give it to me, I like when he put one of his forearms under my neck while I’m laying on my stomach, and hold me there so I can’t run from the dick, and make me more submissive to… Read more »
My kinda bottom! Perfect fit!
Maybe we should make it happen
This is a add on to my above post, I also like a well hung top, I like to sit and slide down on a mans dick, him laying on his back and me sitting on his dick, but then I like to lay on him with my legs on each side of him chest to chest so that I can kiss him while he’s doing the fucking from the bottom, But it something about when his dick comes out, and I reach back there and put his dick back in me, just the idea of me reaching back and… Read more »
Well I’m a top and let me tell you back in 2023 I got one of my bttms to do reverse cowboy and let me tell you. That hits that spot. You don’t see it done very much though. One of my partners did it last week and I had a had time not releasing… but I didn’t! Lol
I love sitting on a nice boner & riding it #1. Doggy style is #2. But I’m afraid missionary is very uncomfortable. That’s my 2 cents haha
Sitting on the floor facing each other. Each has one leg over, one under. Cocks & balls together, stroking, making out. We both leaked a lot. Like stroking one big cock. Keep going till both shoot.
My new favorite when I bottom is called either reverse fucking or bumper cars. The bottom lays on his stomach, spread open a little. The top starts facing his partner’s head and crawls on, sliding down his bottoms back ( kissing down the spine is a nice add-in). Wheh he gets far enough down on his lover’s back that they are butt- to butt, he slides in backwards ( a little rimming when your face gets down to his ass is always good for extra points)… you just fuck him upside down and backwards… it extends play and makes his… Read more »
My absolute favorite to positions are first in a sling. I love the feeling of suspension and how the top can control not just his thrusting but where I am relative to his cock. I love lying back closing my eyes and just feeling the sensation of him moving it out of me and that urgency comes just before they shoot their load. After that I love being face down either doggy or just lying with my stomach on the bed and on my legs apart and feeling held down and taken. I love when they’re going nice and slow… Read more »
As a bottom there are very few positions i dont enjoy. I didn’t know the name but pronebone is probably my favorite. Flat on my stomach legs spread. Love that feeling of my top buddys sweaty body on me,his hot breath on my neck wispering how good i feel in my ear! But I have been told by some tops this position makes them cum too quickly. A close second to pronebone is missionary. Me on back legs in the air, my top on his knees straddling me and thrusting deep in me. Watching his face knowing when hes getting… Read more »
On my side, knees to my chest, and my ass on the edge of the bed. Him standing on the floor.
Yeeessss, I have try and loved that position, you can feel every inch of that dick,
Mine will always be bent over leg spread over a bed and pounded that gives the top all the power to do what he needs my second favorite is on my back my legs wrapped around the tops back he can fuck me slowly and we can kiss and make out at the same time
I love this position!
One that I seldom hear about, but my partner and I really enjoy is when he is in cowboy straddling me and he slides down between my legs on top with me as deep as I can go and I sit up to perform oral on him. It is a highly stimulating position where my sucking him causes him to grip inside in rhythm with my strokes on his member moving slowly up and down on my shaft. The feeling of intimacy coupled with the acute stimulation leads to a powerful orgasm that leaves us both reeling.
I love to lie on my back with my head off the edge of the bed so I can deep throat a cock while another guy fucks my ass with my legs up in the air.
My boyfriend and I are still looking for the perfect position. He has a short but very thick cock that gets very hard and curves to the right! Any suggestions? If you ever get to Reno maybe you could show us in a three way? Look me up on A4A, emitwennuf or billy, I ain’t hard to find!
Personally, it is a tossup between missionary and frotting. I like the face-to-face intimacy of missionary. Frotting allows for some quick play without all of the preparation when it’s been a long tiring day.
My favorite position I have ever seen in a video and in a heterosexual movie from years ago is a fantasy of mine to be part of is a daisy chain. Having 4 or more guys including me in a circle blowing a guy next to them seems so hot. Just don’t know if it will ever be fulfilled.
Why doesn’t “on my stomach with the top laying stacked directly on top of me-preferably thrusting” have a name? It sure as hell is deserving of one.