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Hey, guys! Do you find a gaping hole hot or not? Why or why not?
We often read this question online like this one that reads, “Is a gaping hole a turn-on for you?” The original poster added, “I’m curious about the appeal of gaping holes. I’ve heard that some people find it a turn-on. Does it add to the pleasure or is it just a visual thing?”
One of the gay men who responded said, “If I’ve been the cause of the gaping hole then yes. If not and it comes as standard, as it were. Then no, it’s not hot.”
Another guy replied, “NO…and rose buds are even worse…I can’t look.”
Meanwhile, a guy posted, “As with most visual traits, what’s a big turn-on for some is a big turn-off for others.” He added, “Live your life for yourself, and stop trying to pander to others’ tastes. It always ends up being pointless.”
For some, it’s a significant turn-on; for others, it’s something they’d rather avoid umm… seeing. But what is it about a gaping hole that either excites or repels? We want to hear from you, Adam4Adam readers—what’s your take?
For those who find it a turn-on, a gaping hole might symbolize intense pleasure, sexual freedom, and the aftermath of a wild and satisfying encounter. The visual of a well-used and stretched-out hole can evoke feelings of power, dominance, or accomplishment for some tops, who might see it as a sign that they’ve done their job well. On the flip side, bottoms who enjoy gaping might take pride in their ability to take on larger or multiple partners, finding a thrill in the physical sensation and the visual aspect that comes with it.
However, not everyone shares this enthusiasm. For some, the idea of a gaping hole might be off-putting or even concerning. They might associate it with potential health risks, like the risk of tearing or long-term damage. Others might find it aesthetically unappealing or prefer a more “tight and fresh” experience during sex. There’s also the possibility that some people feel indifferent about it—it’s neither a turn-on nor a turn-off, just another part of the sexual experience that varies from one encounter to the next.
As with any sexual preference, there’s no right or wrong answer. Sexual attraction is deeply personal and subjective, shaped by a myriad of factors including individual experiences, cultural influences, and personal values.
So, Adam4Adam readers, we’re turning the mic over to you: Is a gaping hole a turn-on for you? Is it a turn on for you, or is it something you’d rather avoid seeing? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below!
A gaping hole is a beautiful thing, especially if I gaped it.
humanity’s parking lot
Funny how this topic and picture follows the blog topic of internet porn and age restrictions.
fox always smells his own hole
Exactly….
yes yes yes
I love the fact that I am gaped. I look t it as a badge of honor. It took alot to be able to take girth.
How do you keep your underwear clean, or do you have to wear diapers?
Just like your IOF buddies wear?
…used to be such a turn off seeing it on a Man…now that I have been practicing with toys a LOT more (practical meetings with a partner are difficult for me to arrange) I am enthralled by my body’s ability to adapt to the fuckings I am giving myself!
survival of the stretchiness
Ask an ER nurse what they think of it.
…so only skinny, little, dicks are allowed to go up ass?
Or do ER nurses say No Anal Ever?
As a public profile shot, or dumped with an opening online chat, a total turn off for me. Makes me think of needy guy desperate to be topped and a tunnel every guy on the planet has already driven their tools through.
Fine if I’ve chatted with a guy a bit, we’re exchanging pictures and anal is being discussed. But not out if the chutes.
Of course, guys who find them an attractive turn on can enjoy them.
Agreed!
It’s only hot when a guy pulls out and it’s open for a bit then closes. If you are gaping 24/7, that’s just nasty.
Very sexy when u pull out, the hole is leaking and still open!! This is a turn on and keeps me hard for round 2.
Especially when the top starts rimming you again after.
So unhealthy. Literally eating shit.
Sucking your cock or kissing you is also literally eating shit.
Do you troll EVERY comment? Jeez, you should go out and get laid.
He’s so fugly he has to sneak up on a mirror.
DUDE! OMG! Pissed my pants laughing at that one!
I have licked the assholes of the most beautiful men on earth. Hundreds of them. I have never gotten any digestive tract issue from doing so. I found that if you drove a man crazy with your tongue, he did not have the will power to stop you, if you then fucked him in the ass. Worked every time ! Also being exposed to microbes allows you to develop resistance to them. I’m highly resistant considering, I can’t even get HIV, with having the CCR5 Δ32.
I am a bottom and its a tribute to the guy who did it. It s also a trophy that I was able to relax and take it. I always have it photographed right afterward. And of course it shortly closes up. A gape 24\7 is disgusting to me.
Very sexy when u pull out, the hole is leaking and still open!! This is a turn on and keeps me hard for round 2.
Gaped asses have no appeal to me. I’d rather see his ass taking my big cock and loving it.
…if Your Big Cock made his ass gape would that please You?
Yes, as long as he closed up shortly after. like many here, I find prolapsed rectums and permanent gapes a bit off-putting. We all have our tastes! The main thing for me is that he completely enjoys what we have done together.
No.
You’re asking bottoms this question
It’s posed to tops, bottoms, and vers guys. You aren’t the brightest bulb, are you? I assume you’re the same Greg that doesn’t realize women have a uretha and pee out of a separate hole from the pussy opening itself.
As long as it’s nice & tight when you start. I like mine fucked until it gapes.
Its a turn on for me, but a rose bud is not. When I’m on the other end of the hole. Its not especially a rosebud.
Prefer to have the cock in me making it gape, and the resulting creampie dripping down my legs
so sexy and gets you laid again often
I agree with David about it being a beautiful thing if I was responsible for it. Otherwise, if I am seeing a guy for the first time and he exhibits a gaping hole, I’d think he’d been fucked so often that he couldn’t tighten it up. There are exercises for that. I’d much rather see a tight little hole that I can take my time with – using my fingers and tongue to open him up prior to the main event. When I bottom, I enjoy the same.
Sorry, but No. A “gaping hole” is a turn off. When a bottom is so loose it’s like throwing a hot dog down a hallways, where is the pleasure? who gets the pleasure? If neither the top nor the bottom can feel what’s going on, is it still sex?? Dude needs to practice some Kegel exercises to tighten that back up. Honestly a well trained and exercised hole that can squeeze and do acrobatic tricks to milk the top’s tool without need for over exertion of pelvic thrusts … now that is a turn on. Plus if I’m at that… Read more »
Yes, I topped a guy once and could feel nothing at all. There was no pleasure in that.
No one has ever had sex with you.
That’s antisemitic
How is that anti-Semitic? Am I missing something?
Fr ButtBrain uses anti-semitism like a race card
I agree about exercise. I see a nice 60 year old bottom man that is extremely athletic (Crossfit) and he uses dildos of incredible girth. We’re talking double the girth of a baseball bat here, but he is never gapped and feels wonderfully tight when we’re in bed. Guys, if you’re of the “Go big or go home” school of thought, take care of that hiney!
Not hot, not my thing
One of my regular fvck buddies is a hung black guy… he loves using my hole 2nd… tells me to call him when I’ve been used cause he likes using my hole when it’s sloppy and stretched
A gapping hole is the most beautiful thing on a mans body. I LOVE to see feel, eat taste, lick suck, finger probe, and especially fuck a gapping hole so much
There’s a reason it’s hidden from sight most of the time, like when we sit or lay down.
My hole gapes easily, allowing entry to all.
I have great muscle control and work a cock really well without moving I am told.
NO! And especially not a “rosebud” which says to me, “take me to the ER!”
So your memories of Mommy’s boyfriends aren’t all pleasant? Maybe that drunken grab for KY that instead used Ben Gay has fried your brain
I identify as straight and rarely fuck guys but when I do I want their pussy to be so tight that when I’m done they will not release my cock until I give them another load – which I do. However, if a guy is so gaped that he sinks to the ground when he sits on a bar stool then NO…
We’re men. We have assholes, not pussies. If you want to fuck pussy, stay with women or trans men.
No, just no.
Agree big time!!!!
I LOVE it when its my hole. Cumming on my gaping hole is also a huge turn on. Fucking the cum back into my hole is an even bigger turn on.
I like it either way, but I don’t crave it. Sloppy seconds are a fondness of mine, so there’s that.
Pics of a gaping hole are gross … a huge turn off. Anytime profile with that gets blocked or ignored.
Very unattractive…. Just looks like it’s been ridden hard, used up, and thrown away.
Ridden hard and out away wet….literally, lol
Not to mention, infected.
I’ve taken some pretty big cock, lengthwise and girthy, and I’ve never experienced this….as far as I know, anyway
Such an erudite topic. What next, the glories of sounding?
The glories of your getting stuck while sitting on a fireplug come to mind