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How often do you masturbate, guys? And what are your thoughts on masturbation?
We’re asking because May is National Masturbation Month. And because there isn’t much conversation about it. There are few acts as natural and yet as often taboo as masturbation.
First off, what is masturbation?
Masturbation is the act of sexually stimulating oneself, typically to the point of orgasm. It usually involves touching or rubbing one’s own genitals for sexual pleasure. People of all genders and sexual orientations engage in masturbation, and it’s considered a normal and healthy aspect of human sexuality.
Masturbation can be done in various ways, including using one’s hands, fingers, or sex toys. It can also involve fantasies, erotica, or pornography to enhance arousal. While it’s often a solitary activity, some people may choose to masturbate with a partner as part of their sexual activities.
Beyond providing sexual pleasure, masturbation offers numerous health benefits. It can help relieve stress, improve mood, promote better sleep, and even strengthen pelvic floor muscles. Additionally, masturbation can be a safe way to explore one’s own body, desires, and sexual responses.
Despite its widespread prevalence, masturbation is sometimes surrounded by stigma or misinformation. However, it’s important to recognize that masturbation is a natural and normal part of human sexuality. Encouraging open and honest discussions about masturbation can help break down barriers and promote sexual health and well-being.
As we celebrate National Masturbation Month, let us embrace the beauty and diversity of human sexuality. Let us challenge outdated taboos and promote a culture of acceptance and understanding. Whether you’re exploring your desires for the first time or you’re a seasoned pro, May is a time to revel in the joy of self-love and celebrate the wonderful world of masturbation. So, grab your favorite lube, dim the lights, and indulge in a little solo play – because when it comes to self-pleasure, there’s no wrong way to do it.
History of National Masturbation Month
Masturbation is an intimate act of self-love and exploration that has been practiced since time immemorial. However, despite its popularity, discussions about masturbation are often shrouded in silence or met with discomfort. That’s where National Masturbation Month comes in – a time to celebrate self-pleasure, break down stigma, and promote sexual health and well-being.
May is not only a month of blooming flowers and warmer weather, but it’s also the perfect time to embrace and acknowledge the power of solo sexual exploration. Originally established in 1995 by sex-positive retailer Good Vibrations in response to the firing of Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders for her pro-masturbation statements, National Masturbation Month has since grown into an international celebration of self-pleasure and sexual empowerment.
At its core, National Masturbation Month is about more than just getting intimate with oneself; it’s about challenging societal norms and promoting a healthy attitude towards sexuality. Masturbation is a natural and normal aspect of human sexuality, yet it’s often clouded by shame and stigma. By dedicating an entire month to its celebration, we aim to destigmatize self-pleasure and encourage open conversations about sexual health and pleasure.
For many within the LGBTQ+ community, National Masturbation Month holds particular significance. Historically, queer individuals have faced disproportionate levels of shame and repression surrounding their sexuality. Masturbation, as a private and personal act, has often served as a sanctuary for exploration and self-discovery in the face of societal prejudice. In celebrating this month, we honor the resilience of LGBTQ+ individuals and recognize the importance of self-love in navigating a world that may not always be accepting.
Moreover, National Masturbation Month serves as an opportunity to highlight the numerous health benefits associated with self-pleasure. From stress relief and improved mood to better sleep and even stronger pelvic floor muscles, masturbation offers a plethora of advantages for both physical and mental well-being. By promoting masturbation as a form of self-care, we empower individuals to prioritize their sexual health and pleasure.
Happy Masturbation Month!
I am in my 60’s and I still masturbate once or twice daily. I love it and I enjoy tasting my own cum! I prefer to jack off with a butt plug up my ass but I always wondered if jacking off while getting fucked by a real cock qualified as jacking off? No matter, if your ever in Reno and want to experiment, hmu at emitwennuf on A4a for a really good time! I would love to try jacking someone else off!
I take it from your comment you’ve never jacked anutha man off,,, well it’s a great experience to be on your knees in front of a alpha male sucking his dick and jacking him and knowing you are about to get a big wet treat down your throat ,, your reward for him letting you suck his dick,,
Sometimes I’ll treat a bud. I’ll get him on his back, under me, and will engage him in some deep kissing for a bit. Slowly, I’ll slide off him a bit to the side. Continuing kissing, I’ll then rub down his neck, shoulders, arms, chest and stomach, repeating it a few times. After a while, I’ll pause at his pubes and rub its hair and bone with my fingers. I’ll then work down to his cock and balls, teasing them with my fingers. I’ll repeat the process a time or two. By then, he’s ever so hard. I’ll then… Read more »
Oh, yeah, it’s a life saver, a necessity, a preserver on multiple levels; depending on your age, the number of times a day, or wk, etc., I go long periods between encounters or hook-ups with regular buds that actually live out of town. “Love thy self.”
I’m a 60 year old married guy who masturbates everyday. I also have a regular married guy and we jack each other off at least once a week. We also engage in mutual oral and he bottoms for me on occasion.
Crazy. Every month, week, day, is Masturbation Day. Let’s all masturbate each other.
YIKES!!!
So we’re only supposed to masturbate the month?
Not happenin’!
I agreed! No one warned me I had to wait until May!!! LOL Kudos to General Elders and her brave gesture! Masturbation should never be shamed, especially among the young. It’s not like they all are not doing it anyway, but I can’t say it stopped any teen pregnancies or STD’s. I just turned 61 and my bi wife and I have no shame in masturbating if we feel the need. When all else fails, we turn to technology! Who needs Hanna and however many of her sisters show up for the party when you have a Fleshlight, some lube… Read more »
Ahhhh, jerking off. The national pastime. 90% of all men do it. The other 10 % lie about it.
My military drill instructor said exactly that!
I am 65 and have a few buddies I hook up with for oral. Being married (no sex) there is often little opportunity, so man sex is usually 2-3 times a month. The rest of the time it is gay porn and my right hand. I love to at the least do car mutual jerk offs.
I’m married as well but my wife and I still have sex,, not as often as we use to but it happens,,, I still jack off sometimes but I much rather get fucked and cum hands free,,it’s a wonderful feeling to cum while that dick is hitting your G-spot and the top continue to fuck you while you’re cumin,, I also have a female friend that enjoy getting fucked in her ass,, her pussy be cumin like crazy when I be in her ass
Never been able to experience my G spot. I have been fingered, fucked and played with a vibrator/dildo, but have never felt the joy that you and others express.
Man I have chatted with a lotta guys that have never came hands free while being fucked,, that’s what got me hooked on dick,, a dick can bring you to a ultimate climax if your top fuck you right and hit that spot,, I’m 100% totally bottom when with a man,, I really don’t like for my dick to be touched when with a man,, I only use my dick to cum with, it’s a wonderful feeling but the top gotta fuck you right,, I use to stop after I cum cause I would loose that feeling,, you know that… Read more »
Married for 28 years to a woman and J/O almost every day. Divorced and came out as gay and now I rarely J/O.
Prefer sex with men and rather give my load to an eager mouth or ass
Only jerk-off alone as a last resort. Much rather have someone to have sex with and get off together.
I’ve been at it since I was 10. I’m still at it 63 years later. I miss the cum shot since I don’t have a prostate anymore but I’m happy to watch someone else’s cum shot.
Is there a ladies tank leotard I can wear if I want to Masturbate? There is no reason why I should have to use a sex toy (which can cause injury) or take pills (which can cause unwanted side effects) if all I want to do is to have some innocent fun with myself in the privacy of my own home.
masturbation, it’s the BEST form of SAFE sex there is, honey! ♥ it also feels just as good as oral and anal too!
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No it fucking doesn’t.
I love masturbating using my electro sex toy.