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Sex noises and moaning can add an extra layer of excitement and intimacy to the bedroom, but sometimes they can be a bit over the top. We’ve all encountered those guys who seem to be taking their cues from a porn set rather than engaging in genuine pleasure. The exaggerated moans and over-the-top dialogue can be a major turnoff, as they come across as forced and insincere.
On the flip side, there’s nothing worse than being with a partner who’s completely silent during sex. It can feel like you’re performing in a vacuum, with no feedback or connection from the other person. A little vocalization can go a long way in heightening the experience and letting your partner know you’re enjoying yourself.
That being said, there’s a fine line between authentic moaning and cheesy imitation. Genuine moans, whether it’s a soft sigh or a low growl, can be incredibly arousing and can enhance the overall experience for both partners. It’s all about being in the moment and expressing your pleasure in a way that feels natural and authentic.
Ultimately, the key is to communicate with your partner and pay attention to their cues. If they seem to be enjoying themselves, feel free to let loose and express yourself vocally. But if they’re not into it, it’s best to dial it back and focus on other forms of connection and intimacy. After all, sex is about mutual pleasure and satisfaction, and finding the right balance is just one part of that equation.
Having said all that, what makes you moan, guys? Are you a top or a bottom? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
…When He sinks in Deep into me…so Deep down my throat I can only swallow, but not breathe…so Deep inside my ass my eyes close, and I forget to breathe…
Nothing fancy
Nothing classy
Nothing tender and intimate
… just sinking into me.
This! Slowly sink into me..trying to catch my breath as he does…feeling him pull me deeper onto his cock..bonus if I am on my back and able to watch him watch his cock as he pulls me onto him.
My Property Taxes of $18,000.00/year
I wanna see your house! (And maybe your bedroom)
Hi, Dave!
I live in NNJ not too far from the Border of NYS. The property taxes in NJ are brutal. I’ve got about 3/4 acre or a bit less.
I have 4 acres in Jax FL my taxes are 2k a year
Yuck!!!!
Yuck!!!!
Seems to be your favorite reply?
Would he or anyone else want to see your house, your bedroom or even you?
Park the vitriol!
7 people (thumbs down) fines it disgusting also, just from the thought of your bedroom. HaHa
Maybe “Boys in the Band” type bitchy queens are back in style? It’s been 55 years now.
Yuck!!!!
Live in Sparta… yep, you’re absolutely correct
Lucky for you, my property taxes are $40,000… but then I have 6 rentals, in addition to my 3,300 sq. ft home. Love that cash flow. (and prop. 13)
Moan? Heck. That would make me run screaming into the dark Georgia woods.
I love it when a guy fucks my mouth, and makes me moan with a mouth full of hard dick, or fucks me and breeds me, making me moan as I lay face down, with him on top, his body pressed against mine, fucking me.
I agree a good fucking really makes it happen
There are two things that get me going and can make me moan. They are a blowjob or a rimjob from a man who really knows how to use his mouth and tongue. For the blowjob, you need to lick and suck on my balls too. If you deepthroat me when I feed you my load, you better be swallowing. For the rim job, shove your face in my ass crack and then ram your tongue into my ass. Tongue fuck me.
Getting my neck licked. Makes my toes curl every goddamn time.
Lmao, I ‘still’ remember someone while I was out about for the evening, kissed, nibbled, sucked my neck, I could not move! He found a spot that just felt ssoo good, I wondered, what else can he do, as he was just flirting with me.
Love it when he takes his time between my legs, licking and kissing stomach and thighs while lightly brushing my cock and balls
Is there a ladies tank leotard I can wear if I want to have sex with myself? (Masturbate)
As a bottom, when I am hitting poppers while a thick cock hits my hole, I can’t help but moan. …..especially when you feel the hole give up all resistence to that cock. It goes in and out and deep, over and over again. I’ve been told many times to try and keep the moaning down.
I have never had a sexual experience with poppers,, I’ve never used it,,but from my understanding it makes sex hotter
Tried it once. Did nothing. Then I read up on it. The rush you get (or are supposed to get) isn’t worth the harm it presents for your body. Some guys love it. Their choice to use it, but if I a guy says he loves poppers, his appeal diminishes fir me.
Like smokers. It’s their choice. And it’s mine to pass up pursuing meeting.
All I needed to know,, thank you
I “moan” first when a guy has a decently completed profile that lines up with mine .. and we start chatting. I moan when we’re engaged and he takes his time to listen to what sets me off. (I’m not a Screamer, but I do vocalize my pleasure.) I’m keen on this when I’m working him, too. Listen as you move around a guy’s body. Pay attention to subtle clues he sets off as you kiss, lick, and suck him. For anal guys, there are clues, but of course NOT usually subtle. All guys are different. You need to “earn”… Read more »
Fabulous!
I get loud with a dominant top that spanks me and pounds me hard talking dirty to me just sets me off ..
Having an orgasm either as I top a guy or get fucked – period. And boy do I get loud – shut the windows!
I MOAN WHEN A MAN PAYS MY MORTGAGE THAT MONTH…….
For my partner and I, something fairly simple gets us both going. He rolls on top of me, and I feel his hairy body rub against mine as we grind our hard cocks against each other and kiss, until we spill our seed. We flip around and lick each other clean before we continue to kiss, and ultimately fall asleep in each other’s arms. It’s spontaneous and works for us after a long day when we aren’t up to a full-blown encounter.
When he’s deep inside me with our lips locked and my hands on his back gets me every time. I can’t help but moan.
Getting rimmed to a full body, shaking and trembling orgasm that lasts 30 seconds or longer…eat me…Littlbuttcheeks near Cleveland Ohio.
I am assuming that due to use, abuse and older age, my dick has become considerably less sensitive and it takes a good oral workout to get me off. When my partner has me well warmed up and finds that special spot, just south of the frenulum, I start the whimpering, shaking and short breaths. As the explosion draws near, the “that’s it, that’s it” and the “Ohhh my gods” become fast and furious. No need to ever have to tell my partner I’m cumming, because if it’s not obvious at that point, the guy’s dead anyway. The pièce de… Read more »
Playing “whack the mole” with my prostate and “riding cowboy” on a thick dick.
Getting rimmed, getting a blowjob, getting my nipples sucked — all make me moan. One thing that I haven’t figured out is why some guys are so excellent at sucking cock, while others are so horrible. You’d think it’d be natural, but nope!
About the only thing you can say about all Gay guys is that they are all different. Being Gay doesn’t automatically make a guy be or do anything. Some are great at sex; some are horrible at it. Some like anal; some don’t. Some like sucking cock/being sucked; some don’t. Some like kissing; some don’t. Some have nipples that when touched they scream; some find nipple play as meh. Some like vanilla sex; some like role play/BDSM/scat/watersports, plus others. Some it’s obvious they’re Gay; some you’d have no clue. As a bud once said, “Sex with Gay men is like… Read more »
Mostly a bottom. The feel of a buddys tongue working my hole getting me nice n wet and open to take his cock. When it slides deep inside me! When he is pounding my hole and i can hear his balls slapping against me. When I know he’s close and we are in that rythm. All this makes me moan and squeal and cry out in ecstasy!
Nothing. Never met a top that makes me moan. Now if he is just irritating. Then it’s more like, “ugh”
You are the common denominator, so most likely, it’s you.
As the cum is shot inside my asshole.
Nuthin like a pulsating dick in your ass while the man is cumin,,, feeling that dick throb everytime it it squirts,,
Having a top pump his seed in me got me hooked on bareback sex! He told me “ I’m gonna cum in your pussy” I think I came hands free
It very rarely I don’t cum while getting fucked, sometimes I cum soon as the dick touches my prostate hands free,,, I’ve chatting with plenty guys that have told me they have never came while getting fucked hands free,,it’s a wonderful feeling must admit
You know what has been said “it takes two to make a thing go right” as such, both should moan or sounding or shuddering the way a good climax or “nut” should make you do.
Why do you refuse to fix your Match feature? It never works after I set the distance.
It’d great if A4A would fix the phone app. It is not easy for many people to find profiles’ text. Notes are inaccessible. No link to the Blog.
The online version has easier and better navigation.
When a guy lay me on my stomach then slide the dick in me then lay on my back and slow fuck me pushing that dick ball deep in my ass while kissing my neck and and telling me how good my ass is to him
I’m not a moaner but I love being vocal. Dirty talking
If I’m sucking your cock tell me how good it is and If I’m fucking you let me know how you like it.
I’m a top man
I’m a DL bottom,, I love a verbal top,,it’s a big turn on when a top is very vocal and talks to me while laying that pipe to me I moan like a real bitch,, or if I’m sucking his dick and he tell me how great a dick sucker I am,, I sometimes moan while while taking his load right before I cum
Nothing makes me moan and leak precum like a guy with a talented mouth/tongue on my cock, slowly edging it while he plays with my balls, they are my sensitive spot. Especially if we use a gloryhole, but either way, the sensation is altogether almost overwhelming in the best sensual way, almost making my knees buckle.
When I’m plowing deep and raw, and my dick head pops in and out of the guys inner sphincter hole at the end of his first ass chamber. That squeezing on my fat head just causes dick convulsions and make me plant a load deep and fast. ORGASMIC! With vaginas you just run into the cervix, which is a hard stop and not that deep. Of course your dick has to have enough length, to experience this level of ecstasy. I thank Apollo for every single inch, of my 9 inch dick.
Oh, I have plowed many, many thousands of guys and only hit that second sphincter maybe a hundred times. It’s pretty rare, unless you have an even bigger than 9 inch dick.
I am a total bottom and I love dirty talk during sex. I love hearing my top tell me to take his dick and to take his cum. I also like to tell him to fuck me and how good it feels. But what gets me moaning is when my top fucks me doggy style and the head of his dick continually clips my prostate. I moan non-stop at that point. Its not loud or forced…just verbally showing my pleasure.
I’m a total bottom as welI, and I totally understand what you’re saying,, a verbal top is a turn on for me,, I tend to talk dirty to women when I’m fuckn them,,l usually say thing I like to hear from my top while he fuckn me,, who the pussy (ass) belong to,, bring that ass here, don’t run bitch,
A slow and gentle, teasing mouth and hands will do it to me every time. Licking my balls and taint, sticking your tongue under my foreskin, gently tugging on the foreskin, slow, deep sucking – can all get me moaning.
I moan like crazy when my top have me at the edge of the bed ass up face down with him holding both my hands behind my back while he go ball deep inside me then pull it all the out til the head pop out then run back up in me,with him in total control of me,, all I can do is let him have his way,,,then I go home and fuck the wife the same way
When a guy manages to put both my big balls in his mouth and goes to town on them. Yank em, bite em, suck them blue. Very few guys have taken me to where I need to go. Also love when guys grind their stubble across the glans, it’s electric.