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What do you think about big cocks, guys? Do you find them hot or not? Why or why not?
First and foremost, it’s important to remember that opinions and preferences can vary widely among individuals, including within the gay community. People have diverse perspectives on what they find attractive or desirable, and there is no universal viewpoint.
And that’s okay. Because everyone is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer to questions about attraction or preferences.
Anyway, we asked you this very same question 14 years ago. Of course, many A4A readers love big dicks. But only to look at. Like this one gay man who said, “I like to look at them, but honestly why would I want to put myself in so much pain? If he says it’s going to hurt, you better believe it will! No thanks!”
Another guy replied, “Well, they are nice to look at…sometimes. Then other times they just look a little funky. But that thing is not going in me! I have a gag reflex on both ends.” This is pretty much what this other guy is saying, “Yeah they’re nice to imagine when you’re j/o but not really any good to do anything with cause they’re too big and sorry to say my ass is way too tight just the way I like it and they guys that have been in it like it too.”
Meanwhile, a gay man revealed he’s not having sex with someone who has a dick over 5 inches,” Big Dicks are nice to look at or jack-off with, but utilizing anal sex is harmful!!” He added, “Love is not having someone with more than 5″.”
How about you, guys? How many inches can you take up your ass? What’s the longest dick you were able to take?
All that being said, attraction and preferences are highly subjective and influenced by personal experiences, cultural factors, and individual tastes. Some individuals may express a preference for certain physical attributes, while others may prioritize other qualities, such as personality, intelligence, or a sense of humor. But what about you, guys? Would you say you’re more into physical attributes than intelligence? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
Oh, sure they are, but I’m not in need of big one.
But that doesn’t exclude enjoying a big one?
A penis is a penis is a penis. As a top, somebody else’s size doesn’t bother me.
However, from a personal opinion, I believe everybody wishes they were bigger. & wonder how some “got extra attention down there”.
If it is too big –
there is the danger of “Impalement”!
If it is too small –
there is the danger of “Starvation”!
If it is the right size –
there is the reward of “Satiation”!
“Frank Zappa” quipped –
“Anything You Cannot Put Into Your Mouth –
At Anyone Time –
Is Wasted”!
PS.
The presence or the absence of “Tonsils” –
is
a
“Game-hanger”!
It
Allows –
Room
for
“Growth”!
Nice to look at in porn, etc., and I have been fortunate to experience some real 9+” Bell Ringing sized cocks…
But, my mouth is MUCH smaller than my eyes!
Seriously, I have a comically small mouth so when I encounter too Big and Thick to suck for long I just spread my legs so He can use me to get off..
Perfect sized for me to take is around 7-7.5″ and a little girthy.
And, before this thread goes off the rails regarding connections and love, and all that stuff… remember this article is for fun!
Have fun!
A truism about the size of your MOUTH!
Your STOMACH may be even larger –
but
if you can’t get it into your MOUTH
and
down through your THROAT –
then…
what is the point?
Dtsucknfuck:
If you cannot get it in and down –
If you cannot get it in and up –
you cannot appreciate it!
But –
if you can get it in and either down or up –
you can “Fully Appreciate” it!
There once was a guy from Nantucket, whose cock was so big he could suck it; when it came to dates, he said to his mates, who needs you I can just suck it.
There was once a guy from Nantucket who cock was so big he could suck it; without chagrin as he said with a grin, if he could reach his ear, he’s fuck it!
Padre:
There once was a guy from Nantucket whose cock was so big he could suck it –
without “Chagrin” as he wiped his chin with a grin, if he could reach is ear – he’s
fuck it!
Hmmmm, if he could reach his ear, he could hear himself cumming!
A wise and realistic observation, Tim!
Touché! Touché! Touché!
I love a “pretty dick” myself; great form or shaped head, nice color, preferably cut, something I can completely handle orally, 6-7′ a little girth to it.
“I never needed a big one.” I think “big ones” are like really muscular big men, they’re hot-nice to look at, but not a necessity.
I think it comes down to this: If I want to deep throat a guy, that’s not possible with a big/thick one; I’d guess my personal max would be 7′. If I just want my mouth completely filled (and certainly FULfilled), then a big/thick one certainly will be tasty. As for my other end, I think the largest I ever took up there was an 8-incher, so it’s hard to say whether having an extraordinarily large one up there will be incredible or one big OUCH!
I’d say somewhere in between is ideal. Big enough for it to look appealing but also not too small either.
Big cocks are hot to see, play with, suck on – even though I cannot deep throat them, and bottom for. I have taken a variety of cocks over the years. The overall largest was the first Black man I was with. It was right at 12″ and as fat as a door knob. I also dated a guy that was 13″, but it was thin and almost funny looking, it was more like spaghetti than a cock. My favorite cocks are around 9″, uncut, and fat. One of my buddies bred me a few weeks ago… 9 1/2″, lots… Read more »
In the article some guy said he won’t have sex with anyonewith more than 5 inches. for me if they have less than 6, they are not fucking me. 7-8-9 inches are my favorites. biggest I have had is 10 inches
I love sucking a hot BBC.
Amen to that
BUT DO >>>THEY LUV YOUR TPC……TINY ASS PINK “CAWK”???
For fucking, big is best! Anything under 6.5 and thin actually has always hurt. I’ve taken 10 inches and it wasn’t too painful, though there was some soreness the next day. But it left a BIG smile on my face.
For sucking, I love 7 to 7.5, and I LOVE to deepthroat!
I thought that I was the only one who felt this way. A small cock goes in more easily but the thrusting in and out makes my hole sore. A big cock on the other hand takes more effort going in, but after I’m used to its size, I enjoy it more and can take a longer, harder pounding without any soreness afterwards. I usually find 7 to 8 inches ideal though I have been with some black men who were as big as 9 or maybe even a little bigger. The biggest cock I have ever played with was… Read more »
So true! When I first came out and experimenting, the very first time, this dude had a really short skinny dick; felt like a pencil, hurt like fuck!
The second time with another guy, it wasn’t so bad ’cause he had a nice dick about a 7′ I’d say but I still did not enjoy it, did nothing for me.
When I entered college, I was 5’10” and 125lbs. The second day I was there, a white, 6’2″ blond tagged me. He had 10″ as thick as his wrist and he fucked me everyday sometimes twice a day and I LOVED IT!! THAT GOT ME HOOKED ON MONSTER DICKS!! Monster cocks intrigue me! I consider it a challenge. The largest I’ve found is a real 13″ so big I couldn’t get my mouth around it and the other 12″; both as big as a soup can. Both were hung black guys. The 13″ I took on my stomach on the… Read more »
Are you done forcing everyone else to indulge in your personal fan fiction, which is clearly just you fantasizing about things you’ve never done and never will? Please go get laid. I’m already bored.
john, you sound jealous. I wonder if you are an incel. i find it easier to take 7 plus dick than small 4-5 inch dicks. Guys with bigger dicks seem to fuck better.
An incel? Because I call out bullshit when I see it? There’s a hot take. I’m sorry I’m not a credulous little simp like you. Maybe learn how to be a little more critical and you might be able to catch other people’s bullshit one day, too.
Predictable shallow responses. There is more to a man this his anatomy.
While your last sentence may be true, this topic IS ONLY about penis size. What kind of responses were you expecting?
Say’s the guy that is almost 2 3/4″ erect. Sorry for your… well I guess that’s boyhood, Paul.
Cock size does not make or break a man. Since I’m not into anal, the size of a guy’s cock generally does not matter. Have had some great times with guys <4” long. Have had a couple of less than great times with guys >8” long looking for a hole for their pole. Girth can be an issue. One of my best FWBs is 8” in length and about 3” in girth. He’s gentle and attentive; he has a “green flag” to Top me whenever he’s up for that (and I haven’t gotten to him first with my mouth). Another… Read more »
It’s not so much the length but the girth. I love a long slim cock, not only to suck on but to slide in my ass.
I agree. I am Bi and versatile. I have 2 buddies that are fwb’s. One has a 7” cock that is extremely thick and he is a bottom that will flip fuck me on occasion. It’s a slow process and a LOT of lube to get to the point of being somewhat comfortable with it. Even then, it has to remain slow in pumping because it’s so thick. I met another guy from Adam4Adam and his cock is 8” long but fits perfectly inside me to where, he can fuck me for a long period of time as well as… Read more »
I love a big cock, about 7-8 inches. But it has to be attached to someone I’m attracted to. Some guys have big dicks but have an ugly personality, or just not my type. Only oral for me, so 8 inches is great, then 7. I once met a guy with a big thick one the size of my forearm and I couldn’t so anything with it, so it was a total waste LOL.
It’s not a yes or no question. Visually, they are more exciting than they may be in person. When it comes to any kind of penetration, they are not as desirable. And there’s plenty of room between hot and not.
7 inches is probably the best size for me. Ive played with bigger but 7 inches is most enjoyable. But I think we all enjoy seeing bigger on screen. I dont think 9+ is the average. Probably 5-7 is probably closer to true average. And judging by dick size will get you in trouble.
I’m a versatile top and I’ve topped many guys with nice big veiny dicks. Some don’t want to use it, and in some cases, they don’t want it to be touched to my disappointment. I like the way big dicks look and feel when I am holding them and sucking them. I top more than bottom, but when I do bottom, I have been pretty lucky with getting dick down my nice big fat juicy ones. They don’t hurt as much as average size ones.
I am one of those bottoms that love to suck or try to suck a big dick and if a top take me slow I will surrender my ass to him,, I love to use my dick when I’m with women,, but when I’m with a man I really don’t want to use my dick nor do I want it touched,, maybe it’s just me but I’m a DL 100%bottom,, when I’m with a top I’m there to suck dick and get fucked,, not to get my dick sucked or jacked off,, I only want to use it to cum… Read more »
big cocks are hot but all cocks are hot in their way.
Amen
Love big cock! The bigger and thicker the better. Find guys with big cock dont get as hard as guys with smaller thinner dicks . Which is much more pleasurable to me than getting stabbed by guys with average or smaller dicks!
You’re 100% correct. Smaller & thinner 6-7″ dicks that are rock hard can really hurt. Whereas a fat 10″er that’s not fully hard isn’t nearly as painful.
Michael, my experience has been 4-5inch dicks hurt and 7-8-9 inch don’t.
You can use your big one in either of my holes anytime. But i have years of experience and can take it. To each there own though i say.
love big cocks
My first real boyfriend had a nice 10 inches and he had to be trained on how to use that this. Before him I mostly came across 7-8 inches with a rare 9-10 a couple times a year. It wasn’t until I was in the park one evening bend over a picnic table and taking one of my top 5 all time best sessions that would turn me into a 100% bottom. I’ve been lucky enough to enjoy a few 11 and 12 inches found on adam. As well as beer can thick. Good lube and good preparation before hand… Read more »
6 and 1/2 to about 8 and 1/2 inches is very ideal, otherwise over that would be way too big, honey! you want ’em “big” BUTT NOT “too big”!
I love BIG Cocks! Being a bottom I prefer to suck on cocks that are 6-7 inches. I recently was performing oral on a guy that was 8 1/2” . After about 10 minutes my jaw started to hurt! So, I told him that I thought his cock would fit in my ass nicely! And, it did! Big cocks work better in my ass! Biggest I’ve ever had was 10”! Also, got DP’d by two 8” cocks!
Thick. Beer can thick. Takes time, lube, patience, poppers to get in. But once it’s in then it’s time to fuck. Love being sore for a couple of days afterward, not pain just a reminder to make me smile to myself. Long can be uncomfortable. But at the end of the day what u got is only as good as it can be applied
Biggest I have taken was a fuck buddy of mine… a true 12×8. I like a bigger cock if I am going to get fucked…. first one I ever had was a good 9×6 and I have not looked back. My motto, muy size or bigger…. and I am a solid 8.5×6.
I have found the big dicked men usually fuck better. Some how small 5 inch dicks have hurt and big dick haven’t. I have stopped letting any guy with less then 6 inches fuck me. Call me a size queen if you want.
Who wouldn’t want the confidence of a huge cock the size of a forearm? I rather enjoy knowing someone is crotch watching my bulge.
But truthfully, more then a mouthful is a total waste. And it’s hard to find someone who wants fisted all the time, so I’m happy with my manhood.
best to find a nice guy…with something you can handle. Just keep in mind….going past the 2nd sphincter…. probably should think twice 😉
Average dicks are best… 6-7.5 inches.
Sometimes I see on these sites the guys with 9+ in pictures and just look at them and think… Where… Where will it go?
The 8 inchers are beautiful to look at and I would be willing to try as long as the top understands that it takes a lot of preparation on his part for the least amount of pain.
An average erect penis is just over 5”. Perfect size for me would be 7” or a little lower with a little above average girth that shoots large and thick loads. I am more about a large volume and thickness of cum. . I would like to find a d/d free bi/straight married male near Cleveland Ohio that wanted his dick sucked to completion semi regularly and on occasion rim and fuck me. Nothing needed in return but your clean thick load. A4A profile: Littlbuttcheeks in Euclid Ohio. Google flaccid penis length: 9.16 cm (3.6 in) when stretched. flaccid penis girth:… Read more »
6 to 7 inches is all I will take. If you’re hung like a horse, just gallop on by.
I come to the conclusion, that just because you have a big dick doesn’t ensure a good time. There are too many other factors that make it a good time.
I prefer a guy who is no bigger than a 7 it fits perfectly in my ass and in my mouth anything bigger just is to big I had a Guy that was a 8 and it felt like he was hitting the bottom of a bone in me it was not a good time then I tried a guy that was almost the size around as a beer can and that was so huge that it just wasn’t fun so I found out that guys that are no bigger than a 7 are just the right fit in any… Read more »
A guy who knows how to fuck can give you a great fuck with his 8 -9 10 in dick. I never have had anything bigger than 10. Still hoping.
I DEFINATELY love to see and admire heavy tackle and am quite astounded by the size of some men. I want to fondle and lick and play with a monster cock, and even try to suck it, but I’m pretty sure that I’m not gonna go for a ride on such a big piece… especially as a guy who has only bottomed once before. In short, I love to play with a huge cock, just not anally receptive to one.
I’m not totally into size, but really hope for an endowment I can appreciate playing with in all degrees. I’ve never been put off by or too challenged to not make as much fun for all aspects of sexplay I can manage with any sized man I’ve been with.
Get so turned on by a big cock
I like to suck on average, but like big ones up the ass, even if it stretches a bit. I like the feeling of being penetrated
For man a cock of any size is hot. I just love a good man with a working cock. Top, bottom or versatile as all good.
So many are referring to 7″ like that’s normal. Not in my experiences. Above 6 are few and far between. That being said, a large one is very pretty to look at or watch somebody else getting impaled on it. I love when the bottom’s eyes roll back. But my personal best was a buddy for 14 years with about 5 1/2 and 4 1/2 around. Easy to suck down to his balls. Knew exactly how to hit my sweet spot when fucking me and could cum in gallons….what a mouthful. I’d trade a 7 incher any day of the… Read more »
Tim, you gotta get out more. In my experience 7 – 8 – 9 inch dick pretty normal and average but of course I am meeting up with Black and Latino Men. I agree that 4-5 inches are pretty normal for white guys and 6 would be big. but then again i haven’t met up with a white guy in years. but i don’t think things have changed. I know my little white dick hasn’t got any bigger.
Truth be told Dawg, I’ve been down that big cock road a couple of times and when all is said and done, I’m drawn back to those sexy “little” six inchers. I just have a better time with them. That’s not to say, now and then, I won’t tackle a snake.
I agree 100%
Since I am an oral top, Big dicks are great to look at and play with. I prefer a 7-8″ cock to play with myself. Its more what I have and like it
Only if it gets hard. So many are big and floppy and useless. Big and good for nothing.
There is more to being a hot cock than size. I have seen many that were below-average to average that are better looking that and above average cock. Not to mention, I would rather be tickled than stabbed.
Smaller is better. Can give more pleasure to the suckee because you can really go to work on a small cock and don’t choke on it. About 5″ is perfect.
i agree 100%
When I was 19 I was seduced by a guy I knew. I was asleep and his hand on my cock woke me up. The lights were out and he wrapped my hand around his thick nine incher. I could not get over the feeling of that big cock in my hand. Before the night was over I came in his mouth and he in mine. Since then I’ve never been able to get enough cock. I love the big ones but I like any cock that is clean and can stay hard enough long enough to get us both… Read more »
Dick size isn’t the only factor I have a blk friend that’s 9in plus it took a couple times to take it all with out pain he went slow till we reached his primal needs. My present guy is a strong 7 7.5 but girth is about 2.75 to 3 in now that i love
Big cock is definitely hot in all aspects
If I can’t whip it over my shoulder and “burp it”. I don’t want it. Give me the inches!!!!
It don’t matter how big it is as long as you both enjoy each other I like one I can get in my mouth trying to get a big one in someones ass well to me he would just be a slut that needs his ass to heal
With big cocks you never ever have to ask: “Is it in YET”???????
I’m not a size queen but If I meet someone with a big cock ( rare) I will worship it. I will do my best to go doen on as far as I can but never in my ass. I’m a top. I love fucking a guy with a big cock. It’s hot and also fun to jack-off with
I’m a DL married guy,, I’m a total 100%bottom,, I’ve always had a dick fetish, I enjoy looking at dicks,and I’m very amused by nice dick’s, I enjoy looking at a big nice dick I love to see a man with big long dick,, dicks are beautiful and they feel amazing and taste amazing,,if a bottom get fucked enough eventually he going to want bigger,,my problem is my wife goes with me to have my colon rectal exam every couple of years,, I just wonder what my doctor thinks when he talk to her after the exam cause I’m still… Read more »