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A straight man who received a blowjob from his gay friend is curious and thus wanted to know: do gay men think about sucking off their straight buddies?
He then proceeded to share:
No disrespect intended with my question btw, just genuinely curious. I ask because my friend who’s very openly gay, is always jokingly asking me to let him suck my cock. He always ends the offer with a: ‘I’m kidding’ but today he asked again and said ‘It’s pride month! You’d be pretty homophobic if you said no.’ He of course was just pulling my leg, but I thought to myself ‘Fuck it, it’s just head. Why not.’ So I let him do it. It was actually really nice, and I came pretty intensely. He’s at least in my Top 5 for sure now lol.
One gay man replied to the original poster (OP) of the thread: “If a gay guy says ‘I’d totally blow you. Haha just kidding!’ he is not kidding. He has never been more serious about anything in his entire fucking life.”
Another one agreed, saying that the sex joke was no joke at all. He explained:
“So very this.
Sex is THE most sought-after thing among the male species. It’s our animal instinctual core desire. Men can joke ABOUT sex, but when it’s directed AT you, they’re not joking as much as they pretend otherwise.”
He then added: “Think of it this way: How often do YOU make a sex joke AT someone? Like, when was the last time you told a guy you want to fuck him and didn’t really deep down mean it?”
Meanwhile, another gay respondent said, “In my instance though, I am typically kidding when I say that. Most of my straight friends aren’t my type and the ones that are currently in relationships so I wouldn’t joke about that. I agree with your general point though, especially if it is frequent.”
What about you, guys? How often do YOU make a sex joke at your straight male friends? Do you mean it or is it really just a joke? More importantly, have you ever fantasized about giving oral sex to your straight male friends? Better yet, have you ever given a blowjob to a straight male friend? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
The concept of “Forbidden Fruit” isn’t new!
It is the declaration of “Wishful Thinking” about someone or something inherently unattainable.
Thus, we Gay Guys can and do fantasize about various close encounters with straight males but, in reality, nothing ever comes of them.
Truthfully, there is a difference between fantasy and reality. Intellect and Pragmatism, singularly and collectively, keep the differences as they ought to be?
No. I would blow a straight friend if he wanted to see what it was like to get a BJ from a guy, but he’d have to be the one to bring it up. I’d not knowingly hit on a straight guy.
I concur. I couldn’t/wouldn’t do it either. I’d be afriad it would jeopardize the friendship or change it permanently.
I have been sucking a straight friend of mine 3 to 4 times a month for over 8 years. I love it and so does he!
well arencha (aren’t ya) lucky, honey!
your buddy that your taking care of a few times a month is no longer str8…maybe bi
I consider myself bi. I do fantasize about sucking friends dick. I have not approached any of them because I am not out and would like to stay that way! I think it would be fantastic to give them a bj so they can experience how good a guy can provide a bj!! He may never want another bj from his female companions!! I know I prefer a guy giving me a bj!!
Hell, yeah, in a NY minute lol. I specialize in oral for str8/bi buddies! Recently returned to the area so I’m looking for new buddies!
I’ve sucked off many straight men, just not ones who are my friends. On the other hand, if I became friends with a straight man that I was initially attracted to, I’d have no problem giving him blowjobs if he requested them. I’d also let him fuck me and cum in me as well. I love hot men; it’s what makes me a homo.
im bi deep in the closet i do think about sucking my stright friends i think about what they would look like naked and how big their dic is
When a straight guy says “suck my cock” I’m not saying no. Straight cock is the best, forbidden fruit always is.
How is it forbidden if they ask you to do it? Think this one through for a second…
What’s the difference between Straight cock and Gay cock again?
Are Straight Cock straight and Gay cocks those with a curve in them?
Hunter0500:
The only difference between a Straight Cock and a Gay Cock is between the ears!
No, and I don’t even want to give a blow job to my gay friends. I don’t have sex with my friends.
Mark, to me that’s a very interesting response. I’m in the opposite direction because I’d prefer to have sex with somebody I considered a friend rather than a stranger or casual acquaintence. That doesn’t mean I only have sex with friends, I often don’t and they’re sometimes strangers I hook up with or acquaintences. Would you help me understand the reasons you’d prefer not to have sex with a friend?
I don’t have sex with strangers or casual acquaintances. I’m not saying I’ve never tricked. I’ve matured with age and got all that casual sex out of my system decades ago. I was widowed last year, my husband and I were together 38 years. I was not 100% faithful but causal sex was never part of who I am. I’m starting a new relationship that is sexual with a wonderful man. I would rather be in an intimate relationship with the person I’m having sex with. My friends are just that, friends. They don’t know what I taste like. When… Read more »
Thanks for the reply. I’m also a mature guy. At first I thought we might be of different lines of thought on this but now I see we’re similar. I, too, would rather have sex within an intimate relationship; sexually and emotionally. I’ve had a couple of them and stayed loyal and it was great. Finding somebody to have that kind of relationship with has been increasingly difficult with age but I’m still trying. Like you, I got my tricking pretty much out of my system by now and I’d at least like to know a guy before jumping into… Read more »
As a gay guy and to answer the question ABAOUTELY YES I know I have had many straight male friends that I would drop to my knees for in a hot second if they would let me LOL.
I don’t normally give my straight friends blow jobs. However, one straight friend said to me that he heard that gay guys give the best blow jobs and he wanted to experience that. So, because he asked I did. He found out that the “rumors” were true.
“Fantasy: Do Gay Men Think About Giving Blowjobs to Their Straight Male Friends?”
Now, what kind of question is that? Why, heck yes we do!
Knowing that I’m gay, “strickly-dickly,” lol, I wonder if they think about sucking mine, actually, wondering if they’re thinking about my ass, something tighter, lmao!
*strictly dickly. And no, no straight guys are thinking about sucking your dick.
. . . You know, you cannot know that.
I’ve been to a few professional b-ball games, got some very curious looks from guy with their dates-wives.
I lived on south beach, here in Soflo, with the Latin men; you can’t even tell who’s hetero or gay, they’re racists, but some of them hetero, they love BBC here, go figure. . .
You sound so angry at the very thought. Maybe they’re bi? Who can tell anymore, mista’ angry, lmao!
“You cannot know that.”
Yes. Yes, I can. And I do.
You don’t know me, and you don’t know anyone I know or have known. You’re just striking out in anger, go get some psychological help, you seem to really need it. Happy pride, mista’ miserable.
No – never and the thought of it completely grosses me out, especially since I’m a married closeted guy usually surrounded by heteros. That said, there are many many heteros I either see randomly, walk past on sidewalks, see on TV, etc., whom I’m constantly thinking “wow, imagine?”
“Do gay men think about sucking off their straight buddies?” Some think about it. Some then do it. Some don’t do either. Some Gay men don’t like giving blowjobs; some don’t like getting them. All Gay men are not the same so it’s no surprise all gay men don’t. Asking a Straight fried about sex is problematic. You could lose him. Joking about it is not wise; “innocent” jokes can be misinterpreted or not appreciated. You could lose the friend. However, if your “Straight” friend jokes or asks about it, he has opened the door. But first it means he… Read more »
Man, I was with until I read one line in your last paragraph. I think you can innocently fantasize about him. When I’m jerking off or having sex and seem to can’t reach that point, I sometimes fantasize about someone hot that I admire and it works every time. It can be a male friend I see daily or anyone. But I definitely wouldn’t cross that line and try to initiate sex with him.
Not only don’t I fantasize over Straight guys due to respecting their presented sexuality, I don’t want there to be any “waffling” my part about “the line.” Mental role play (fantasizing) could encourage me to discuss/offer sex in response to an action of word on their part that I could easily then misinterpret. Just better to keep it all simple and clean.
I give more blowjobs to my straight male freids than to anyone else….. I have never given a blowjob to one of my straight male friends that he didn’t want to stop with just a blowjob…in the next day or so he wants anogher blowjob.. one of my best straight male friends had a 10 inch dick and I sucked it for about 5 years.. at leaslt 2 times a week.. he said I get more dick than his wife gets..
I have this bad habbit of not looking at a mans face. first thing I look at is his crotch… if he has a big bulge I can’t take my eyes off it… most guys notice but never make a comment… most guys are very proud of what they have in their pants and consider it a compliment….even when they are with a female companion I remember this couple I met in Wal-mat. he had an unbelievable big huge bulge. he was wearing tight jeans and I could actually make out the print of this dick and balls… he saw… Read more »
I’m so over these gay-baiting bullshit headlines that play into juvenile pornographic fantasies. Why can’t we all grow the fuck up?
There are times, John, when those on the A4A staff just can’t help themselves and have to get in touch with their teenage inner selves. When that happens, the Blog topics take on a Tiger Beat or Seventeen flavor. Give them time. They’ll mature. Hopefully, up to a minimum of Entertainment Tonight.
If you are over it, why did you stop to comment? Actions speak louder than words.
Because I fucking can. Seethe for me.
Seems like it’d be painful and bloody.
But to each his own, of course.
I have this straight friend… he does have a big bulge… I have seen his dick many times and was aware olf this size of his dick even though we had never talked about it.. I bought a pair of jeans that was the wrong size for me.. They were a perfect size for my friend. They were expensive designer jeans and I offered thim to him.. but he said thanks but I can’t wear them.. I was slurprised I would not take no fo ran answer.. he was a very handsome man but he always wore baggy jeans that… Read more »
All my friends are presumed straight and I look at them as brothers. I been friends with all of them over 15 years. I do wonder what their sex lives are like sometimes, but I also wonder that about strangers, tv personalities and sports stars as well. I never approached or been approached by any of them. I would be scare it might jeopardize our friendship.
I pretty much view straight men (friends or otherwise), the way I view straight women: sure, they might be very good-looking, but in terms of sex, they’re utterly useless to me and I’m simply not interested. If a straight guy (again, friend or otherwise), asked me for a blow job, I’d more than likely say “no.” For me, I’d feel like I was just being used and I wouldn’t want to put myself in that situation. I’m also acutely aware that my opinion is in the minority among gay men. Have I had sex with my gay friends? Yes, when… Read more »
Fudgenudger – you’re not in the minority with me. I’ve always been convinced that the many straight guys I’m around would be outright appalled if I were to make any such suggestion and they’d drop me as a regular friend on the spot.
I’m with fudgenudger! I don’t want to have sex with my friends, gay or straight. Mind you, I have no problem making friends with someone I have sex with, but that’s completely different. And as far as coming on to straight men goes, is anyone familiar with the concept of ‘sexual harassment’…? Well it applies equally to all unwanted sexual advances, be they towards women or men. Finally, gay porn fantasies to the contrary, not all straight men are dying for us to demonstrate our prowess as cock-suckers. And what presumption on our part to assume they are. Ruder than… Read more »
One who turned out be one of best friends; when we met, we ‘deep kissed,’ but that was as far as it went. I don’t believe in sex with friends, they’ve always been my “chosen family”, allies and such. I did have masturbation sex, there was no kissing; with a Caucasian hetero’s best friend though. They were childhood friends, drywall hangers, about 10yrs., my senior as I was just 23. We got together a few times, these things really occurred a lot in the 80’s just very young and “curious about the other, type experiences.” I’m sure they’re “married w/kids… Read more »
I often fantasize about sucking off my straight buddies. Occasionally they will joke back but it seems to all be in fun and hasn’t happened and I don’t push the issue as I do not want to lose them as friends. In the past, years ago, I have had a couple of that let me go down on them after having some drinks and it was great but I am with a different set of friends now with most of them married and their wives are friends too. No sex in the world is worth losing a good friend, at… Read more »
A coworker asked me for a ride home 25 years ago. I said sure. Always thought he was hot but figured there was no way in this world he’d ever do anything with me. Gave him a few rides home, then he asked if I wanted to come in and see his place, since I would soon be needing an apartment. Went in, took a tour of his apartment, and ended in the bedroom. He laid down on the bed, and had that look. I said “what?”. “Is it true that men give better blow jobs than women. Never having… Read more »
Great story. Better yet … great reality!
And not by chance. You enabled it to occur by not slathering yourself all over the “hot guy” like so many Gay guys do. You respected him being Straight. He became comfortable enough with you to “open the door”. To a ride first. And then to his place. And then to his bed. And ultimately to a very long-term FWB relationship.
You’ve helped him be the guy who presents himself as Straight because that’s who he is from Society’s view. You also helped him be the Gay guy he is.
Dr. Mouth – I envy you. Very hot story. Question for you (if you’re still checking this blog): Are you openly gay? I ask because he made the first move, so how was he to be sure your reaction wouldn’t have been one of being totally appalled? Also, what’s it like facing him at work?
Oh, I dunno, something is missing, nobody, except for the empty soulless; lives happily-totally fulfilled by just the person’s flesh, alone . . . so the dogs, will continue to endlessly chase.
I give chase to something much, much, more elusive. Talk about a catch 22, quite the conundrum.
But I digress, I’ve come recently realize of myself; of the 16 personalities traits, I was born an INJF-A, allegedly, a rarity.
OF course! Depending who it is. I had a couple of gorgeous, hunky straight friends who used to tease me to keep me interested, but it never went anywhere.
I’m a gay/bi mostly gay guy that has plenty of straight friends. My best friends are all married to women. First and foremost I hate to use labels. One of my best friends was getting married in 2 weeks and we ended up hooking up. It was one of the best sex that I’ve ever had. He ended up being a great bottom, rimmed and suck my cock. I wanted to return the favor but he said that blow jobs does nothing for him. I have no problems sleeping with straight guys but that’s not how I look at them.… Read more »
I’d give a gay man a blow job anytime…and while I don’t specifically identify as gay, maybe I’m just kidding myself…hahah…just kidding. Love to see you hard.
i don’t think about that, str8 men wanna woman to give ’em head and that’s pretty much it, honey .. unless he’s bisexual though, then he wanna BOOFAY (buffet) of both sexes
Because I’m deep in the closet I could never approach this buddy of mine,,, I’ve never seen it but I’ve seen him in gym shorts many times,, and I know it’s at least 10″,,, I really enjoy sucking a guy off ,,so I much rather it be someone I know and trust,,,it would be a honor to suck his dick,, but just like my family he thinks I’m the straightest guy on the planet,,,,,but I enjoy being a good bottom and satisfying dominant tops
I will help out my straight brothers with their erection problem. I have no illusions about my role in this matter. They will get my best service. I expect nothing in return, but if it happens….
. . . What I really find very desirable, aside from the obvious physicality’s; of the one’s I’ve been friends with; that has had me desiring them, is that down to earth quality, they can be very, very intimate on a level, gay men, mostly, can’t even come close, usually. Different kind of male bonding, just being great company, enjoying each other’s energies to bask in. I always found that to be so homey-like, makes me feel like being in big over-stuffed leather lazy-boy, by a fireplace on a winter’s night. But, hey, I’m a ‘realistic’ romantic, just enjoy the,… Read more »
“Down to earth”. That’s how my long term FWBs are. Solid. With substance and meat.
Firm, reciprocal and fun when it comes to sex. No wailing or screaming when pleasured or behaving like someone who to be taken in conquest.
Of course we do. Just like straight guys fantasize about having sex with (some of) their female friends. It’s physical, attraction, instinct. Whether that’s a good idea in terms of how it impacts the friendship is a different question. Given how many good dick options there are, I’d rather not jeopardize a good friendship that way.
By making the request as a “joke” the guy is merely checking his friend’s receptiveness to the idea.
No Straight guy would even joke. So if a acquaintance you believe is Straight does joke, he’s letting you know he’s not Straight and is open. If he knows your’re Gay, it’s simple. If you present yourself as Straight, he has opened the door. Seize the day!
Can’t think of only one straight male friend I’d care to service. He’s tall, blond, sexy and divorced. We watch Red sox games together, but in a group. I catch furtive glances at his lean body and tight jean. He’s of British ancestry; perhaps some Irish thrown in there as well. I very much doubt he’s ever let me do him. He’s a bit uptight. The rest of my friends vary from being too out-of-shape — this happens often with older straight guys — to being too close as friends to envision that kind of lusty connection. However, I had… Read more »
I’ve been blowing my neighbors’ son for about a yr now. He has no desire to do me or see my cock. That’s fine with me as long as I get his.
About 10 years ago had a coworker that was leaving the company. His last day he asked me “before I go is there anything I can do for you? Anything? Anything at all?”
I regretted not at least continuing the conversation innocently, to see how far he’d take it. If he offered me a bj now, I’d take it haha. We’re still connected on social media, so ya never know lol