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What, for you, are the biggest turn-ons in a man, guys? Or in other words, what gives you an instant hard-on?
We scoured the internet and here are some of the popular answers:
“As a versatile gay man, I find every single inch about a man’s body so hot. Literally I can get turned on only by hearing the deep hash voice of another man speaking around….” He added, “I’m so deeply in love with men both emotionally and physically, and I just can’t imagine a world without them. Men with hairy bodies, nice bubble butts, broad shoulders chubby figure are all my weakness. Put a bear man before me, and I’ll go crazy.”
On the other hand, another gay man confessed, “Pits, pecs, biceps, deep voice telling me I’m a good boy, beard, jawline, happy trails.”
A happy trail, by the way, is defined as “a vertical strip of hair running from the belly button down to the pubic region, usually associated with men.” And it seems that a lot of gay men do get turned on at the sight of a happy trail because many guys agreed with the statement above like this one who said, “Happy trail into low-riding underwear where you can see a dude’s bush peeking out.”
Meanwhile, one guy shared, “A juicy round big ass grazing on my penis.” He added, “Or hot bottom getting railed from behind while the camera is in front. Can see the hips and face. Best view ever.”
This guy’s reply is one of my favorites though, he said: “Kissing or even talking eye to eye and smiling with my partner. Even my partner gets hard when I cuddle him while he’s sleeping.”
Having said all that, what about you, guys? What turns you on? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below!
I absolutely love making out sessions, then getting naked and kissing and cuddling for a long time. Love working my way down and gently sucking and nibbling on his nipples! Then making my way down and to make love to his beautiful cock with my mouth and throat. Love hearing him moan and encourage me!!!! Absolutely love having him cum in my mouth and I continue to suck on him for a while making sure I get all of the cum residue!!!
For most guys, turn ons are mostly due to physical attributes. “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder,” so they can vary from beholder to beholder. Hair, eyes, face, jawline, beard, neck chest (hairy or muscular, or not on each), broad shoulders, chiseled abs, a muscular ass, a full bulge, or an attractive cock, muscular thighs or calves, feet, body hairy or lack there of, voice, and more. Other turns ons may be how a guy carries himself, his character, how he speaks with others, how he engages others with his eyes, his chosen style of clothing, and more.… Read more »
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Good gracious, you’re a boor.
I’m into the whole package, but to get naked with a guy, you have to find the guy first, right? So here’s how my attraction evolves if I’m walking along in public and a (potentially) hot guy passes me: 1. My eyes go first to his face (he’s cute) – check. 2. Is it a slender or pudgy face? (I prefer slender guys, so we’ll say slender here) – check. 3. Then my eyes glance downward to get an idea whether he has a potentially hot body underneath his clothes – check. 4. OK, now I want him.
What turns me on is nice, kind respectful people.
Even if they are Trolls of The Forests?
I’ve known some the most beautiful people to the eye make those trolls and denizens look desirable. Marcus, I’d rather they be kind than nice. Big difference, otherwise I agree with you.
This is about sex.
I understand the “Political Correct”. I am realistic about the Blog’s Topic as this is a
Sex Site not a Dating Site.
Always remember this: “Ugly Online = Uglier Offline”!
WTF?!!! DUDE, it says BOTH “dating and sex site!!!!
With all you’re “breeding,” incest, maybe? Education or in your obvious case, “institutionalization” damn, man, lmao! How do you, and too many others, miss that, you can’t read?
When I first saw the post, Kasper, there were several negative votes. Undoubtedly from those who glanced at it, passed aspersions on it, and missed its meaning. Yes, there are “Trolls” and “Denizens”. The Beauty Bus never stops for everyone. Not all guys have a “pretty face” or “drop dead good looks” or are handsome. Too many of us too often ignore them … or drive past them deliberately. But if we back up and give them a fair, good look, we often find men of great character, Men who know they have to go the extra mile. Men who… Read more »
You, need a nap . . . a pill, taken with water (eye role)
I love old ladies, too. They don’t make my penis erect. Did you actually read the question or you just saw an opportunity to virtue signal?#meanpeoplesuckbuttheydontswallow#buscatelavidacabron
I.am so turned on by black men.A hard BBC will bring out the slut in me.
Definitely a guy that kisses well makes me weak in the knees
I love deep French kissing when with my guy.
Amen. Hot French kisses gets me leaking and revved up.
As a person with C-PTSD I am most turned on by men who are sexual live wires but are either emotionally unavailable or abusive. LOL. I have come a long ways thanks to The Crappy Childhood Fairy (a very helpful channel on YT) and now that I am conscious of this pattern I am finally changing directions on that. Never met a sex addict with a pronounced substance issue that I could resist playing the female role in “A Star is Born” with. Until I find my gem (who will be sober, thank you) my regs will take care of… Read more »
Thanks for your honesty. It’s so refreshing. I hope you work out your issues and find a healthy way to be turned on.
When a guy has a patch of fur in the small of his back going down into his pants. It’s given me an instant boner since I first saw one when I was 12.
All men have something going for them…whilst we all have our personal preferences of attractiveness or what turns us on ..I think everyone has a feature or attribute that makes them sexciting….some of the guys with the most amazing bodies / dress style / grooming / aren’t necessarily good looking…but a guy’s personality is what could win you over
Many men have nothing at all, total turn-offs.
You sound pleasant.
mmm… nipples… kissing… and that something that make that man special, the way he saunters rather than just walks. things intrinsic to their personality. kindness, gentleness
eyes, smile, brows, slender, short, versatile, kind, humor, hairy chest/legs/pubes, cut/avg, passionate, intelligent,
In my life I’ve only come across a small quantity of men who could actually turn me on. What turned me on was their confidence. Honestly, it was their confidence of knowing what they wanted. I could easily tell the ones apart that just really were unsure of what to do, some that went way too fast, and the other ones that took their time with me really turned me on. It was more enjoyable and memorable. I’ve been single for so long that I only remember the encounters I had with the ones that had confidence. Sadly, just because… Read more »
As a Bi Male what turns me on is A man bieng honest in what he wants, Making me submit to his cock. And telling me to take it
ENOUGH WITH THE DEGRADING….DEMEANING “BBC” WHITE MEN! ARE BLACK MEN CALLING YOU “TPC” TINY PINK COCK”??
I get it. Take note, however, that some black men advertise they have a BBC, and specifically state in their profiles they looking for guys, generally white, that want BBC. If guys want a big cock, they should just state it and leave race out.
A good kisser with a hard cock that loves to fuck.
If the guy is in good shape, but not a narcissist. So much in just that. Curves, hardness, the right smattering of hair(and it varys per guy). The chill frat type is a plus.
And aside from the normal, big dick and tight ass dude with nice feet. I catch myself looking at jock feet while I’m watching porn, and just wanna suck those toes.
I interpret this question as what kinds of guys turn me on. For me, an older bi-married closet case whose sweet spot is guys in their 20s thru 40s, the older I get, the larger the pool of hot guys gets. If I’m anywhere near a college campus, good lord – my eyes become quite overwhelmed and my dick has to behave itself. This will only increase as I get older – yikes!
Fine, soft black chest hair.
I think that slow, deep, passionate kissing or makeout session is the hottest of all. Complete turn on for me and usually gets my partner rock solid
I have a naturally smooth body, but love hair on a man’s body — especially if it’s soft and on his ass! I love it & get instantly hard. Please, gentlemen — don’t shave your ass! 🙂
Blah, Blah, blah, all of the above; about physical attributes.
Intelligence, kindness, a sense of reverence, loves animals, nature, his masculinity; ability to be comfortable in his own skin and place in life. His obvious care of himself: physically, mentally, spiritually.
He has inner beauty . . . as well as physically. A sense of humility, empathy, maturity.
Hairy, sweaty, and a good kisser!
I am most turned on by a masculine submissive dude. My fetish is unwashed, very masculine feet – and I’m a total top. I appear like the world’s ultimate bottom, though. Interestingly, my fellow gay men ALWAYS know that I’m a topman, I still can’t figure that one out, and I’m almost seventy….
Well, that’s intriguing, is all I can say.
I know it when I see it and feel it. I like guys with self-respect. It’s a rough idea to line up 20 totally different guys, and make me pick out one or two. I’m an ass man, but a nice shape (thin, thick, muscled, furred, shaved) can do it. Kissers and guys that know where my hot button is go to the head of the line. Bonus points for exploring and finding it quickly, and finding that touching me there makes me stunningly stuff, even for hours. Once in a while, a smooth alpha can make me bend over… Read more »
I love the feel of a full erection in my hand. There is nothing more sexy than stroking a man while both kissing and watching him get more and more exciting…I like to tongue his nipples while playing with him…then feeling him cum on my hard cock…using his cum to stroke our hard penis’s together until I cum against him…especially if he’s either on top or or against me laying on our sides. I also love a mans mouth on me…but mutual oral is very hot too.
Most here get upset when I say I prefer a fem bottom whose smooth, soft, sexy lips, with female feature. Who can handle being talked to and treated like a lady in private!!!!
This may sound weird but, hairy arms and legs.
Whatever registers as masculinity turns me on — usually a hairy body. If I’m at a restaurant and see a guy who is wearing shorts showing off his hairy legs, I imagine he has a beautifully hairy butt, chest and delectable treasure (happy) trail leading to an untrimmed crotch.Don’t get the desire to trim or — gulp — shave down there, but we all have different tastes. Dark, blond or ginger hair on a guy’s chest, pits, butt, crotch that hold his manly fragrance without cologne or deodorant — can’t ask for more.
A nice hard cock !