Speak Out: Cut Guys, Do You Ever Wish You Were Uncut?

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It’s a conversation that comes up more often than you’d think—sometimes in the locker room, sometimes in the bedroom, and often late at night on forums or group chats just like recently when a gay man asked: “Cut guys, do you wish you were uncut?”

In a culture where circumcision has long been the norm in places like the U.S., more and more gay men are reflecting on what was taken from them—literally. Some are curious. Some are indifferent. Others feel a deep sense of loss or longing for the uncut experience they never had. Anyway, the answers ranged from serious to hilarious, while others gave surprisingly thoughtful answers as for many, circumcision was never even a choice.

For starters, one gay man responded with dry humor: “If we are wishing, I’d rather be taller.” Which prompted another to quip, “I’d wish for more money.” It’s clear that for some, having (or not having) foreskin just doesn’t rank high on their list of regrets or fantasies.

Another common sentiment came from those who have no memory of ever being uncut. As one man put it, “I don’t know how to answer this because it was done to me as a baby and it’s hard to miss something you’ve never had.” It’s a perspective rooted in acceptance—if not indifference.

And then there’s the crowd who fall somewhere in between, anatomically speaking. One man joked, “I’m the best of both worlds: Uncut when soft, cut when hard. Gee, even my dick is vers lol.” Another chimed in, “I’m pretty much the same. Everyone thinks I’m uncut when I’m soft.” Whether this is a rare phenomenon or simply wishful thinking, it proves there’s no one-size-fits-all answer.

Others offered a more contented stance: “Nope. My penis and I have a great life. I honestly don’t see why everyone gets so worked up about this, especially as an adult. If I had a son, I would not circumcise him unless there’s a medical reason to do so. But mine is just fine.” It’s a confident declaration of body positivity, and many agreed with this relaxed approach.

Of course, there were also some honest admissions of longing. “Yes. But not enough to go the restoration route.” The idea of foreskin restoration has grown in awareness, but it’s still a commitment few are willing to make.

On the flip side, aesthetics played a role for others: “Nope. Find cut more aesthetically pleasing and prefer it in partners and myself.” Personal taste, as always, is king—and what’s hot to one person might be a dealbreaker for another.

Some took a pragmatic route like this one gay man who said, “Not really. No point agonizing over something I can’t change.” It’s the kind of acceptance that comes with age, experience, or just learning to focus on bigger things.

Having said all that, what about you, Adam4Adam blog readers—what’s about you? If you’re cut, do you ever wonder what it would be like to be uncut? If you’re uncut, do you find curiosity goes both ways? Have your partners ever commented on a preference? And most of all—do you think this even matters in the bedroom? Share with us your thoughts and stories in the comments section below.